Love Dr Frank, it's so profound, so revealing, thank's so much ❤
@Vkg001Ай бұрын
Hlo sir i have a question for you aso is your company????
@darrendempАй бұрын
Wonderful❤
@emka198Ай бұрын
Thank you Micheal for all you have done in the community and also for having Frank Anderson interviewed. I so deeply appreciate Frank's authenticity, intimacy, care, vulunerability and care. That in itself has been transformative for me personally. Thank you Frank for transparency of our humanity which is often cloaked falsely by our roles. Thank you.
@susaniceland2 ай бұрын
Thank you for pointing out my hunch as well, that our kids are special and capable of saving our world ❤
@melliecrann-gaoth47892 ай бұрын
Thank you from Europe. The British Isles.
@myofasciatherapy81913 ай бұрын
Once we know about the teacher where they are going - it makes more sense. I think that he means that 'being' in wrong Love 'blocks' the Trauma from surfacing (therefore making maybe not the right decision and being aware of our Trauma would help to understand love correctly. There is LOTS of misconception about Love that is to be agreed for sure.
@olivia-roselavin56364 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! I’m looking forward to the training in the Fall!
@I_AM4154 ай бұрын
💜🙏🏼🌌
@I_AM4154 ай бұрын
This WHOLE "god"forsaken world NEEDS this NOW (sense of immediacy intended) like they need air and water. 💯🙌🏼
@FlyinDogRecords4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this enlightened conversation. Life changing...
@karynyoung85475 ай бұрын
"Love blocks trauma. Trauma heals love." Not sure that is accurate. I thought it was "Trauma blocks love and love heals trauma."
@SoulfulSelfHealingwithIFS5 ай бұрын
Yes, I noticed that as well. Was like ... what? That doesn't make sense.
@silencio12343 ай бұрын
I think they got it backwards
@TheNurseWhoLovedMe893 ай бұрын
@@silencio1234I think they got it backwards too. Whoops! 😅
@tinahoward26666 ай бұрын
How can I find someone who practices EFIT near me??? Honestly sounds like something my family could really benefit from
@brianmorgan46277 ай бұрын
It’s working for me
@dariomargeli7 ай бұрын
Instead of talking about how a therapist can help, why don't you say how a person can help themselves? With your speeches, it is always like a ticket to the next train. I want something useful in this video. Not in some future session.
@digalittledeepertherapy8 ай бұрын
Cant wait!!
@ilovepickle9 ай бұрын
Um yeah I had a LSD experience with IFS and HOLY CRAP!!!!! I'm not kidding you it's like exactly the same as LSD.
@WhisperingUniverse8 ай бұрын
Very interesting. Was it a solo therapy session?
@druo78409 ай бұрын
Thank you. ❤
@carmenl1639 ай бұрын
For me, this is not working. I need(ed) validation for what has happened to me. I need to mourn the loss of my childhood and the bond with my brother. I've been ashamed of the abuse I endured always, and that has stopped me from finding help. In order to heal myself, I definitely need to look at my past. 'Fierce compassion' sounds like 'tough love' to me. And no matter how much Dr Maté is advocating against a doctor-patient relationship that is not equal, his method is precisely that.
@vicj92569 ай бұрын
I feel the fierce compassion to be more about my own intention to not worry about what the other person thinks or feels, or that if they approve of me, or if they will abandon me if they don't like what I say (my own trauma reverberations), but to instead not give up on communicating what I see. Effective, life-affirming communication requires skill and would not happen with power differentials.
@ScottCousland9 ай бұрын
@carmenl163 “fierce compassion” can definitely be mis-used. Speaking the truth to somebody, who needs to not hear it, isn’t compassion. Compassion understands that healing requires feeling safe. Gabor refers to this when @4:16 he quotes A.H. Almaas - “Only when compassion is present, will people allow themselves to see the truth.” Severely traumatized people often first need to be heard, to have a therapist repeat back what they heard, so their client can validate that the therapist understands what the client has said. “Fierce compassion” is only effective after enough trust has been created between client and therapist.
@cassylane1209 ай бұрын
And yet, you have no compassion for the Jewish People. Why? Could your support for savage terrorists be a reflection of your own lack of healing? Your experience was horrific as a child, but please do the work, because you are distorting people’s minds and understanding of what is happening in Israel and Gaza.
@ScottCousland9 ай бұрын
@cassylane120 No compassion for the Jewish People? Support for terrorists? You have a distorted view of Gabor Maté.
@liyahbabayan79079 ай бұрын
We are victors not victims of our past. My TED talk kzbin.info/www/bejne/mWS5e5yCjbh-Y7csi=hnxODk7xN7aWd7Z3
@DianeUlanet9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your insights about traumas
@tommac219 ай бұрын
I'm gonna go with none. Just as no one is suited for therapy. Because you know why. It's a total waste of money and time. And it's a total scam. You people brainwash others tnto believeing there's something wrong. And you keep them coming back again and again draining their bank accounts. And you know what the end result is. Absolutely nothing. They're the same person as they were 1-2-3 years maybe more that when they started maybe worse. And they're broke.
@brittanynaveen30419 ай бұрын
😝 *Promo sm*
@Wallace-w1o9 ай бұрын
I , we are all a product of our environment. Our societies can set our environment.
@David-bh6mj9 ай бұрын
Psychedelics are way easily accessible for me from a mycologist who introduced me to dmt and other psychedelics products
@David-bh6mj9 ай бұрын
On Instagram....
@David-bh6mj9 ай бұрын
ChapoShrooms
@tommac2110 ай бұрын
It's a bunch of nothing that this women believes can help relationships. But it cant
@acdebiase10 ай бұрын
Psilocybin helped me out. Terrence McKenna gave me the guidance I needed.
@bobsiddoway10 ай бұрын
Psychedelics in a good set and setting, are like psychotherapy on steroids. 🙏🔥🤙
@gr8hndz4u10 ай бұрын
Sometimes this kind of communicating, doesn't have to only be in a Therapeutic environment, but in any environment in which, the people who are communicating have a connection. 🙏
@zovalentine730510 ай бұрын
❤Gabor Mate MD PhD ❤
@truthmatters195010 ай бұрын
Is it just me or are others a little irritated by Dr Field's inability to match Gabor's patient, systemic, whole-of-person approach, with Dr Fields giving a sense of urgency, a drive to "get to the point", seeking affirmation that psychedlics are an answer if not the answer? IMHO this interview/discussion didn't illicit the best from Gabor, who was constantly having to moderate the line of questioning.
@dottiebaker662310 ай бұрын
This is true, but there are times when people just can't hear compassionate inquiry.
www.bcss.org/wp-content/uploads/resources/Otsuka-Abilify-Maintena-Expert-Connections-Update_ENG.pdf just inject everyone with anxiety, depression, "burnout", mood disorders, and "intergenerational trauma" with Abilify Maintena 400 mg IM every month. Arrest them and inject them every month as happens here in Victoria BC.
@livea3596 Жыл бұрын
Sold!
@mb6 Жыл бұрын
I did it, and it worked, better then anything else.
@createbalance90888 ай бұрын
How did it help? By being able to make new connections when triggered? Would love to hear from you!
@robynhope219 Жыл бұрын
I would never, ever go for that!
@РоманДейко-г8у Жыл бұрын
Thanks Dr. Gabor very much. I hope, I'll find my way to heal myself. I am from Ukraine, 32 y.o. man. Working at pharmaceutical company as brand manager. Successful person - at first glance. But I'm addicted from a row of drug as nalbuphine, baclofen, and modafinil for 3-8 years... I destroy myself gradually, and I can't find exit, can't cope with this issue. I'm frustrating. Because of my illness I do not fight against the Russian invaders, although I could be an effective defender of my homeland. I really love Ukraine, my native land. instead, I splurged on my life. Few years ago I saw Dr. Gabor's video on Ted talks. It impressed me , and I hope that finally I overcome all my disorders. (I have very bad English, but hope, that in general I convey the main think)
@robynhope21911 ай бұрын
Your English is fine.
@ggrey59909 ай бұрын
The Russians are there to free you of nazis and western manipulation
@melliecrann-gaoth4789 Жыл бұрын
Very glad to have found this video. Thank you.
@MichaelDavila72 Жыл бұрын
Ur full of it lady. My sleeps r amazing and i smoke weed everyday. I dont have sleep terrors anymore, and i get great orgasms. The only issue i have is my short term memory which sucks if your not used to making sure to remember u got everything on u. I once dreamt i was living in another world and i was really in love and other times i dont have dreams at all and wake up rested, and even a little high.
@juangomez-us3in Жыл бұрын
I Whish I could find a psychiatrist like you in IFS mode here in Spain. Next week I go to mine but he knows nothing about IFS though he is very opened an receptive to all I explain to him
@pyasanekosiff43124 ай бұрын
many who practice IFS work online. I just did this training, it was great!
@juangomez-us3in4 ай бұрын
@@pyasanekosiff4312 if I can I prefer to do it in persona in Madrid, thank for help
@gflako996 Жыл бұрын
Wow❤
@faebalina7786 Жыл бұрын
Another thing that elites can access medically and safely while others can’t
@jeromerossdeblois367511 ай бұрын
time to break the law my friend
@robynhope21911 ай бұрын
That's a good thing bc it is a toxic substance.
@Farhiya-b8f10 ай бұрын
@@jeromerossdeblois3675lol
@apebass22159 ай бұрын
I'm not an elite and I can access psychedelics easily and safely. You just need to know where to look.
@flowerinthedawn16 ай бұрын
Suggest you some sweet onions
@chuck3999 Жыл бұрын
Its doesn't work for a person who's very intutitive. To me it's a sham. It allows the therapist in complete control while being extremely conscious of the experience. This never allows one to process deep felt emotions. It was a complete waste of time for me.
@brianmorgan46277 ай бұрын
How many sessions did you go through. I had several traumatic experiences involving shootings it’s troubled me for 20+ years I’m on my third EMDR therapy session and I’m feeling a lot better,some of the coping skills seem stupid but they work and when I was having trouble one day the one that I thought was stupid was the one that helped.
@chuck39997 ай бұрын
@@brianmorgan4627 I'm extremely happy for you. I had about 10 sessions. Go for it. However, for me it was a complete waste of time.
@ljkoh20052000able Жыл бұрын
I don't like the statue behind. But the wisdom is awsome
@vicj92569 ай бұрын
Isn't it Ganesh, which represents the removal of obstacles?
@chava_halevi Жыл бұрын
Best thing I ever did with CPTSD was to try a hallucinogen by myself after two years of psychoanalysis. I had good instructions. Paid attention to set and setting. The substance allowed me to re-experience the terrible things that happened to me without the judgement of a clinician. My case was particularly horrible, and many professionals don’t handle the story well. In a profession which still manages to keep certain subjects taboo, a trip by oneself may be the best thing.
@user-ji8ll1qn6o Жыл бұрын
Isnt it dangerous to be alone
@TheDag132111 ай бұрын
@@user-ji8ll1qn6odepends on a lot of factors yes and no😊
@khalilgibrain893511 ай бұрын
Not really. If you have done your own research and the dose is fairly low, say 1.5g. I prefer to be alone too. That way I can feel completely comfortable and left my thoughts flow freely. I never want to share the deep cptsd stuff with anyone. I think it can do more harm than good. I self affirm when doing mushrooms and journal for later reflection. Utterly brilliant!!!
@lovelv127810 ай бұрын
I just did a very high dose on Monday and I was alone . Dr Gabor inspired me back In 2019 to try mushrooms as I knew I needed deep healing . I did them alone . I was taken a million places and I was OK ALONE . However, this recent trip I did ( haven't done them since 2019 ) was very very different. It was DARK and I really needed to be w someone . I aksed for the truth and let me tell you, I got the truth . There is so much still to heal however I got validation on my childhood sexual abuse . I recorded it . Unfortunately at some point it stopped recording but I got about 45 min. Tried listening to it yesterday for 1st x since doing the trip Monday but I immediately freaked out and started balling . I plan on working with a shaman and doing more . I have a shaman calling me tmrw . I really want and need the support for my next journey as I know more dark truths will be revealed that I need revealed in order to really heal and move forward. ❤ I did 3 or 4 G , can't even remember. Think it was 3 which is the heroic dose .
@Farhiya-b8f10 ай бұрын
@@khalilgibrain8935I have severe brain fog and tightness in the chest from anxiety and trauma, I just sent for some shrooms I was wondering how much to take but seeing you said 1.5g, I'm scared as I'm alone and have never done it, want to try it for my mental issues hopefully I'll be better
@louisemcdougall9389 Жыл бұрын
Only the authentic self can truly love and be loved. When he talks about giving up authenticity for attachment, i think he may have missed the point? True attachement cannot happen without the whole authentic self. A contrived, incomplete, fragmented self is not present for loving attachment to self and others.
@ScottCousland9 ай бұрын
@louisemcdougall9389 I think you are using a different definition of “attachment” than is used in psychology…and so you are misunderstanding his point. Attachment in psychology is simply the creation and maintenance of the bond between infant and caretaker that results in enough of the infants needs being met, that the infant survives.
@chelseastrmserver2813 Жыл бұрын
I think someone is a fan of the Fantasia Disney movie.