I love learning and thinking deeply about things. I love being at home and working on developing my craft. 3:06 when I choose to spend time with others it has to be with quality people

I thought I was alone. An alien. A freak. Who can't talk like a normal person. But I now feel good for having INJF-T's like me. I am not alone.

Typical NARCISSISTIC bragging.

I like to call my planning need, “taking a satellite view down the road”. Helps me know I won’t get caught by unexpected “Life”. Heaven forbid something spontaneous occur…..😂. I like your lighthearted approach. Thanks.

Thank you 😊

One of the better INFP/INFJ vids I've seen. Thank you!

INFJ and I’m in wine tasting able to identify grapes, regions, countries and even winemakers, for what smell sensitivity is concerned. And music wise, metal.

Does anyone have any experience with being an INFJ and being bipolar? Its brutal cuz i end bring the one to throw logic away. If something inside makes me so mad I will internalize everything and thats that. Youve had your chance but I am the punished. I end up unsure of how to feel or what have you. Childhood permited SA coupled with being an INFJ was not fun. Like at this point in my life Im a 26 yr old man/boy whos basically a failed contractor, living with my mom after 15 years of avoidance because i have battled my inner emotions about my family. They have been unfair and unjust and the battle comes from balancing how i feel about and especially the logic of what im considering. Namely i have hated my entire family without expressing it and actually refusing to acknowledge this. Living with my mom has gotten me to realized the harm im causing with and the aura im emmiting. When I graduated away from my family i was then on my own roofing flooring metal shops not finding anything fullfilling and that was important to me. I have an insane manic episode and my mom says i can stay. Now this is my current only option besides homeless shelter which im actively considering, i cant heal in a place that i ran from where my mom never mended anything. Ive been trying to find my footing while my siblings steal from me and cry cuz their father touched me. Like Im summing things up but i am literally the eldest and they all expect to have an example of superman to live by. My entire life theres been this weight on my mind crushing, that i am the one responsible for teaching them. My mom hasnt parented them, and im basically morally obigated to fully discover myself to become a brother and or father. They dad molested me gets sent to prison for 40 years we get word hes about to die of cancer soon and my brother is bothered by it and goes to me. Like i am constantly triggered i get good news the dumb fuck will die but to me its to soon, and you wanna talk to me about how he never played baseball with you. Like i dont ever shut people down but i advice despite my rage. I wanna tell him go talk to the mother you stole. I feel this way about all of them yet i know they hurt no one and if you have no parents no one has the right to blame you. I am well aware that im in the wrong with those feelings and i am hard on myself for it. Its a really complicated situation and I know that living here is not wise. I thought that while i needed help, i realized how lost everyone else is, i mainly just wish my mom would have gone to therapy to be able to resolve these issues. She lets us fester and fend for ourselves. I have a family of theives and i know for sure because i have stolen. Most of these bad emotions are becausr of my mother and i know she wouldnt be able to handle what i say. Ive been the silent peircing one that makes her squirm and regret saying hello. She knows i think ill and i dont know what i am to do about that, I dont even see her as my mother. My mom showed me Buddhism and gave me the time to listen to me. The biological womb that i exited and entered the world from doesnt give a fuck about me it was more about being her being a victim from "raising" 6 kids. I know thats an tall fucking mountian but thats why you use your fucking intellect and go to therapy for you 5 kids not 6, eldest deemed you not fit to raise and abandoned everyone to the poison. Idk man shit is rough

OMG I literally hit my head with the wall or walk in doors and doorknobs like everyday my mom makes fun of me 😭 I always thought I’m just weird 💀

IF INFJ is married to a reformed, dedicated, and truth-seeking drug-dispensing pharmacist, INFJ will be like being on drugs. 🤣😂😂

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It’s both a blessing and a curse to see to the heart of people. I can understand how being a mirror to someone else can be painful… it can get dysfunctional if their coping mechanisms aren’t helpful. I don’t even mean to be this way… it just happens 🤷🏻‍♀️

Correct.

Not everyone wants to know the real them. Not everyone wants to be authentic. It's really sad.

As a INFJ I've walked out of so many lives in the past 5 years.. People don't even need to p me off, if I get that feeling from them I'm gone. Coupled with an Aries I give back what I get, if I want more often than not I just close that door.

All this plus: As long as i have my best friend and life companion who is a fellow Introvert and shares my quiet values i am content.

Omg, if someone doesn't know how beautiful inside out infjs are n simply seeing this video first, they would be horrified. But it takes years and several hundred chances for injfs to get this vindictive. N once they hit this level... it's dangerous. Not only they get revengeful, they get self-sabotaging too. All they want is the bully to be tortured and made helpless as they did to us

I am ENFP-T. I am also a hermit and a loner. 😶‍🌫️ In relationships, I self sabotage, test them if they will stick with me no matter what... Because I crave soulmate kind of relationship, full devotion, loyalty... Unfortunately nowadays most desire sex, instant gratification... I crave deep emotional, intellectual, spiritual, physical compatibility. I crave perfection... But at the same time I enjoy my alone time very very much. I am a wild, free spirited person, continuously learning, exploring the world but when I am in a relationship, I, unfortunately, tend to be so obsessed, possessive, jealous, controlling...I lose myself into another person, kind of forget who I was, how free spirited, funny, joyful, wild, curious, childlike spirit I was... For the past 6 years I have been single despite my attempt to be with someone who I thought was my soulmate and eventually being blocked by him due to my tests on him... I kept being single... Now I feel like I am obsessed with freedom...

You were hurt by one You are not one You came across a real one. Looked them in the eye and didn’t like what you saw. Reflection makes true anger. If you are reading this and this resonates, go out in nature and recharge. There is nothing wrong with you

This was meaningful. Thank you. :) I've been to 36 countries and I'm just so shocked that no one seems to care or even asks about it. Like it's an every day occurence. I guess the irony is I achieve these feats because nobody does or did really make an effort. If I felt loved and listened to I would of probably never left.

Oh I didn’t know taht

All boxed checked off. All signs point to me being an INFJ, but I'm probably not. I should look for more videos about this and learn more.

Being home - listening to audible for 16 hrs!? Heaven 😊 I completely understand and appreciate this lifestyle. Yes I am proud of building a life I don’t need to escape from. I can read white papers and do laundry 🧺 on the weekend and feel so good about my life.

This was the best breakdown of the two traits Ive ever seen.

I felt heard after watching this. Just like that it made my day. Thanks!

Stay single stay happy. Today's relationships are materialistic.

I am so an INFJ 😅

Thank you for posting this!

This was super helpful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights on INFJ’s. It’s been a challenging journey 😉

I’m a new subscriber I love your channel. I need your help , I am a INFJ sigma male I know for a 100% fact that my boss suffers from psychopathy. I’m having a real problem with blocking his energy and also I get sucked into a zone or trance almost like magnetization. I can’t stop him mirroring him. I was wondering if you had any information on the dynamics of a male infj vs diagnosed psychopath. Thank you I appreciate it.

Infj is magnet for toxic people as narscissts

I never knew how vengeful I could get until recently when someone literally pushed me over the edge.. A co-woker deleted my name at work and wrote hers saying that she did those assignments, and in turn she would get paid some of my bonus money.. Basically stealing my money And I still didn't tell anyone, just dealt with it quietly.. This year that same person came to my new working place, asked my boss to fire my best friend (who was on a temporary leave because he had a surgery for thyroid cancer) and asked them to fire him and hire her! So I lost my mind, and went up to my boss with real hard proof about her evil deeds and didn't allow them to hire her, now I have exposed her entirely to everyone And I do not intend to let her go that easily.. i will get my revenge And I did not let my friend who has cancer now lose his job

SO true! Who wants to talk about Tudor England/The Reformation, Dead Sea Scrolls, Quantum Physics??? 😅

Since childhood I used to ask people to look me in the eye when talking to me. It’s how I communicate best. I didn’t know it wasn’t common ❤

Narcissistic abuse. Unfortunately I still have no choice but to deal with this person.

I’m laughing so hard. 16 hours of audible is something I get shamed for. Thank you for helping me understand that I’m normal ❤ I also just moved. Thank you for your support 🎉

Unexamined INFJs: no self awareness or ability to discern through any lens other than their own perception of the world, causing them to act like high and mighty, arrogant, controlling, myopic know it alls who don't understand true listening. They can come to conclusions about someone based on how they think the other is feeling ("I'm an empath") without actually asking them, or examining the boundaries between themselves and the other. They can create elaborate stories about their partner without seeing or appreciating them as they are. They can chameleon so often for others that they become victims of their own identity repression. An INFJ feeling like an invisible victim is difficult to be around. As they pull people into their black hole of misery and shame, they simultaneously vilify and try to fix the other ("can't be me causing my pain" -> projection -> savior mentality) and at the last moment, abandon people without warning ("they were toxic"). INFJs must learn to tolerate conflict and communicate their needs, desires and how they feel. It doesn't have to be unbearable to do the inner work or to show up as you are. Look to the other types who are more emotionally expressed, not repressed, to help you out. We want to know who you really are behind the masks. You're some of the loveliest, most interesting and real people we know when you are aware of yourselves.

Wow, this is me...spot on! 😊

As an intj i can relate to infjs , they are one of the smartest people in the room , and maybe no one are like them, they are rare ❤ , and yeah i do love INFJs attitude towards me and yeah they like me as well

This dude looks like a sexual predator.

All so true. I am definitely into reading and learning. I read an average of 40 books a year, mostly nonfiction. And for the rare times I read fiction, I pick one that teaches me something. Reading is not just for entertainment. When I learn a new topic, I read and watch everything I can on the topic. Like learning about MBTI personalities, especially INFJ. It's 100% or nothing.

And noise. Especially in restaurants. Persons sitting next to me at your table, I don’t want to hear your conversation, either with who you’re sitting with or who you’re talking to on your cell phone. I will take it in. I will absorb it. I don’t want to. I usually have earplugs with me to avoid all this. Extraneous dialogue wears me out.

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your channel is so addictive..... you should consider renaming it to "The Dejavu Circle"

I am the most INFJ person ever😵 it’s such a complex or foreign concept to be a complete hermit who is emotionally profound… that’s why I find it difficult to date. I’d rather jump into marriage directly but in this day and age, it’s harder. So I just stay single…

I am INFJ, my best friend is ENFJ, my ex is INTJ, my husband is ENFP. 😉

Loving this INFJ comment section....Hi there tribe! The best thing that has happened to me as an INFJ is getting older. The way that we consistently build on our wisdom combined with all the hard lessons we learn as we are growing up means our lives get better and better with age. As time passes we can begin to accept and love ourselves as we are without fear of other's judgement because we know that we are right to follow our heart and intuition and we stop giving a shit about what society's toxic ways say we should or shouldnt be or do. We can trust ourselves and we see through all the crap. And being content with being single, is totally cool for as long as thats true. Peace and love INFJs xxx

My mother would literally warn whatever new roommate I had that I can be the very best friend they've ever had, but if crossed that they made an scary enemy. Nah, as a friend I wanna be super supportive and know everything but that everything I noticed can be weaponized. That being said, it has to be really bad for me to snap like that.

Whenever I make a morbid comment or joke people get Pikachu faces like 'did she really just say that?!' or laugh or get awkwardly quiet. Its a toss up if I'm gonna slink off regretting removing te filter. 😅