I guess because you fight back first to get rid of someone else's control before you actually run away. So, that's the main point here. Just like what you see in movies or hear stories in real life that someone froze when they saw the vehicle approaching and they had an accident.

​@@kirkclarke7396 People say that when you are trapped in an adverse situation, your brain signals you for fight or flight but they miss saying that the brain sometimes doesn't even send you the signal. It freezes. I don't know how old are you or if you have ever been tricked by someone. I was tricked (of money) by someone few years back and I didn't share it to anyone because I was ashamed of it. When it happened, it was so quick that I didn't even realise what went wrong. I was dumbstruck for few moments. I asked the guy for the money, he denied and I didn't say another word and walked away (to the interview venue) because I never thought I would get into such situation. Moreover, I didn't know how to fight back. I thought I was prepared for when and if it happens to me next time, but when your mind goes in shock, every planning fails, I couldn't do it second time as well. Similar incident happened with two of my friends in another country and it was not easy for them to talk about it. So, you see... getting mugged or being tricked is so much more common as compared to rape, still we are so uncomfortable when it happens or after that to talk about it. You cannot even imagine the mental state of someone being raped or even weeks, months or years after the incident, it could be million times worse than being mugged/tricked. I do not know what experiences you had in your life and what you know of such cases. It appears to me that your opinions are prejudiced and you want to classify every such act under one category which I think it would be injustice to those women/men who actually go through such horrible act. You are not wrong when you say that women (I'd call them sick) sometimes falsely accuse men to gain something which again is kind of a blot on the face of the society because it hinders the delivery of the justice who deserve it. I would sincerely request you to read more about what's being told in the video. In the end, you are entitled to have your opinion but being a responsible citizen of the society we must base it on facts. MAYBE few years ago I would have replied to your comment but things change, when you see more of the world of what it is, you help people understand and see things from different perspective.

@@kirkclarke7396 it's not as black and white as you think it is. Don't say these things, you have no idea what rape victims have gone through. The fight or flight response is very real, not everyone fights back.

+Tony Seyffer So are you saying that a way of staying safe is by not wearing that skirt? Because this isn't a self-defense ad it's an ad about what a woman wears should have no impact on whether she is raped and on whether she is blamed for it.

The fact is, women are taught from an early age that the responsibility is solely on them. Believe me, they are taught to be cautious, careful, vigilant, etc. basically from birth, and as a result, they go through the world very differently from men (ie., always at least somewhat afraid of being hurt or attacked). But then, when they are the victims of sexual violence, everyone says they weren't careful ENOUGH. Yes, the world insists that women should be careful, and is only now just beginning to suggest that men should take full responsibility (meanwhile, many disagree, which breaks my heart). I would also add, that, yes, maybe ALL people should be taught not to walk dark alleys at night, because this could be dangerous to ANYWAY - but teaching women not to wear short skirts to avoid being raped truly makes no sense. Men should be taught to respect all bodies.

What is rape culture?

Scott smith people who wanna excuse rape with shit like "with those clothes she was asking for it" and they would 100% rape women if it was legal

How about you realize that there is no need for humans to wear clothes besides when they are cold. Therefore when you say you wear it for yourself(no shit) I understand and see that. The reason why you wear what you wear? To express the social group you belong to and so on. Once you go to the gym and squat, I suppose you do it for yourself but have you woundered why?. To be more likeable. I understand it's not your fault that hypocracy is socially acceptable in our society, but at least be aware of it.