I’m so proud of you momma!

How I envy you your calm and 'cool' motherhood 🥹. And that, I mean, in a very positive sense 🩷🩵! ... You look and you especially act, like it's not even your first baby. You really are a natural. Or better said, being a mother, suits you perfecly natural. Motherhood is just "written on you skin". If you'd had seen me then, in the first months of my motherhood... A nervous wreck at times, with a chronic lack of time. Oh boy, I wish, I would enjoy those first months, so much now. Maybe my problem was also, that at the time, me and my partner, were still living with his parents... Included with "I did this and that with mine, that way" tips 😅😶... And a lot of work outside the house and a very active baby 🤯😁. But anyway, may baby did survive 😉 the nerve-wrecking 'huricane mother' 😅🤣... And she is becoming a young lady, turning 15y in March. Guess I did some right things, "along the way" 😅😊😉. And the "mother guilt" for leaving you baby for a few hours, is just part of the process, that we all vent through. But it's totally good that way, that you take time for yourself too. Especially because when you feel good and happy, then taking care of your little one is much easier, more peaceful and more enjoyable. Because the lacking of your own self-time, can make you more (emotional) tierd and that way also moody and crancky. Wich is not good in eather way. And your baby (probably) does not lack anything during those times. You can call this, the quality bonding with daddy 😁❤️... or (later) also with 'aunties' or grandparents.

God Bless Your Family Guys!👊⚡

Just explore your vlog here.😊

Try pumping or hand expressing at the beginning of feedings and then switch to actual nursing. That way, all the fast milk comes out before nursing and baby gets a slower stream.

I had a similar problem with my son's feeding, I had a lot of milk and also it was coming out with a lot of pressure which aggravated my son's reflux. It was a bit of a struggle at times but I would say by 4 months old, he could handle it well. Before then I had to manage my milk production a little bit or let the first bit of milk that came out with a lot of pressure into a towel or muslin or smtg. I had considered donating milk to the hospital but because of the feeding problems we had, I decided not to stimulate even more milk production by pumping that extra amount. If Noa is easy to burp, it probably helps a lot.

12:20 honestly idk what's broken in my mom brain but I never felt this kind of guilt over smaller things, the only time's have been the first few times I was away for a whole night or more (and kiddo was with dad and also later when slightly older with grandparents, like he was fine and happy). Especially the time me and my husband went for a little get away together, for 2 nights for the first time and left our then almost 2yo son with my parents, and he ended up getting a high fever on the first night and had a febrile seizure and my parents took him to the ER. Since he wasn't critical, it was the middle of the night and we were very far away so there was nothing we could do, they waited until the morning to call and tell us what had happened, at which point they were back home and everything was fine but wow, I could not enjoy our vacation after that even though we ended up staying the whole time because we had no transport to leave early (otherwise I would have left). It ended up being the only febrile seizure he ever had but ever since I've been reluctant to leave him in anyone else's care if he so much as has a slight sniffle, and we medicate him carefully when he has a fever so it doesn't get very high. Oh and the times when they start preferring one parent over the other! My husband and I have been very equal in parenting but there was a phase when our son would only want mom, and ever since I stopped breastfeeding him to sleep we've alternated the night time routine. During this phase, on daddy's nights our son would just scream for me, IF I was around. If I went out, he was perfectly fine with dad 😅🙈 So since we wanted to stick to the established routine, I ended up going to the gym or for a walk every other night so my boys could have a peaceful time together. But the moment of leaving could be quite heartwrenching and definitely made me feel guilty, even though rationally I could tell myself they needed the time together too and that he would stop crying as soon as I was out the door. Kind of the same thing later on the first few times he was left in daycare.

if you haven’t already, maybe clean under the fridge or check anything that has an old filter.

Hmmm, hope one day you will reveall his identity, love your evolution…and girl don’t blame yourself for not having enough time to work and take care baby bc that’s reality, sponsor or any job should know juggling a baby and working mom is really hard.

비담이라고 아시나요? 드라마 <선덕여왕>의 히로인~ 노아가 비담처럼 자라길 빕니다❤

언어적 재능이 출중하시고, 📚 📖 📘 📙 📗 📕 틈틈이 양식 쌓으시곤 하니 작가의 면모를 다 갖추신 듯 합니다. 그 언젠가 수필집이나 어떤 장르로든 책 출판이 이루어지길요

뒤로 미룰 수는 없는 일정의 프로젝트였나보네요 너무 마음에 두지 마시길 모든 것이 전화위복입니다

I love when you speak with your mother tongue to Noa, it's so beautiful and sweet and cute. As a new mom too, for the guilt and worrying I convince myself I'm doing the best for my baby, that sometimes helps. In Québec we use a Petit Coulou to go outside in winter, but the baby doesn't see much of the outside 😅

If you have an answer to the mom guilt, please share with the class 😂 Also just a heads up for the tremendous amount of guilt for the feeling of accidentally hurting your child for the first time.. I accidentally scratched my girl while changing her, but when she started crying the PP tears where NOTHING compared to this.. It took days before being able to put it behind me..

My son is nearly 8 months now. The intrusive thoughts will slowly go away, I had them really bad the first 3 months and then I believe there’s a hormone shift and for me that’s when they started to dissipate. I still get them occasionally but it’s not nearly as bad! The mum guilt however, that’s not gone away - I can assure you though it gets easier to handle. ❤ You’re doing great mama!

It is definitely a mom thing. Give yourself grace, hormones are crazy during post partum! I will say the voices quiet down more and although it never goes away. At least you can talk yourself down and cope much better lol. Its natural and just means we want to protect our littles <3. Missed the content and excited to see this new journey of yours!

자연분만 축하드려요!! 아이가 항상 건강하게 자라길 바라요ㅎㅎ

Hi , Sissel hope you are well, happy new year to Jake and you,take care 🎉

Where is your leather jacket from at 09:15? Love your videos 💙

Motherhood looks good on you❤

Job well done, both of you! Husband really did an amazing job being there knowing what to do every step of the way. Its a blessing to have someone beside you. Many go through this alone. Mom you are Warrior strong and so amazing because not many can do this without medicine. Super MOM!!! Thank you for sharing your story. You were so patient in your delivery.

😂😂😂本当に幸せですね。おめでとうございます🎉🎉🎉😮😮😮

thank you for sharing these precious moments with us <3 and it is so beautiful to see Jake's support and attention to you!!

새해 복 많이 받으세요❤

It's been more than a month now but it must be so surreal for you to finally put a face on your baby and hug him. Never been this happy for someone I don't even know irl haha but here I am :')

Hello. Here's a mother of two (11 and 17). That fear never goes away; it just transforms. At first, it's fear that they won't breathe, then that they might have a problem, that they won't poop, that they won't eat well... things like that. Once you get used to those fears, they start crawling, and your fears are about bumps and bruises. Then they start walking, and your fears become falls and distractions... and so it goes in every stage. Right now, my fears with my 11-year-old are about her growing independence, like coming home from school alone. These are phases, but they’re tough. With my eldest, my fear is that next year he’s going to get his driver’s license, and that terrifies me because it’s no longer just about him-it’s about all the other drivers too. But… all of this comes with the job of being a mom. It’s hard, and no one really understands except another mom who thinks like you. You’ll feel alone many times, and it’s tough to adapt to that constant fear. But I promise you, it will get better. Build a strong support network of moms, and anytime you need to, you can reach out to me or your network, and we’ll surely help you without hesitation. A big hug from Spain!

I love hearing you and jake speak your native languages. It’s beautiful. ❤

Thank you soooo much for explaining your birth experience with so much details. I feel like telling this type of stories is essential and I am so amazed by what the female can do 😍. Is there a reason for not giving birth on the back?

Noa is a very blessed and beautiful baby boy. He opens his eyes each morning and gets to look into the face of pure love- his mommy and daddy. I am so proud of you Sissel and Jake. You are exactly the wonderful parents I knew you would be. And the worry- well I have a son who turns 30 this year. I don't think it ever went away. But the love I have for him is so strong and has never diminished in almost 30 years so that makes sense. You never want anything to happen to someone you love that deeply. In a way- your baby boy or girl comes into your life and steals a part of your heart and you can and never will be the same. It's such a great privilege! Love to you and your family xoxo

I recently recommended your videos to my brother and sis in law who are 6 months pregnant . They appreciate your videos very much! It's also their first time expecting a baby ❤

belated congratulations !! I just started watching your videos, I love your feminist tattoo ^^ <3

I just love you as a mother sissel. It was so nice to see you enjoy playtime with Noa ❤ Mom guilt is real. One way I can suggest if youre spiritual, is to lean on a higher power and surrender his well being to that power.

Im so curious who he looks more like, my husband and i are planning to have our own and my husband is determined that ours will be a perfect mix but ive seen those strong Korean genes so i don't have much hope of my features being present 😂😂😂

Watching you is helping me be a little less scared of having my own little boy soon… seeing you not lose yourself and instead see you change into an even better version of yourself is calming my fears! Thank you for your videos!

I’m getting so close to give birth to my own little baby boy and my husband and I are excited but also so nervous… watching you is helping me feel more excited and less scared☺️

I wanted to click the like bottom so fast! Cause even with the fact that making videos it’s your job, still the fact that you edited this one so perfectly with a baby on you probably.. bravo ❤️

I was one of those soon-to-be moms who asked you about the covering in winter and you were so kind to answer ❤ I was just wondering because I was in Seoul’s last year about this time and I froze my butt off 😅 also this video helped me a lot to understand how to dress my baby who will be born very, very soon. Ahhh so excited!! Btw, I might buy me that voksi baby nest

큰 인형이 작은 인형을 낳았네요 축합니다. ^^

Sorry sissel frist time mum time mum can't even write how did you get back to the gym love your videos ❤❤

Baby blues also a thing that makes every emotion you feel extra strong, so like the mom guilt and worrying. But overall, it doesn't go away, you just get used to it and try to mask it away 😅 Even with a second child

All of your fear emotions are normal it’s a new and unknown experience for you. If you have more children it lessens (with me anyway) and by the time my fourth came around it was easy peasy! My kids are all grown now and I have three grandchildren and that’s a love on an entirely different level. You’re doing just fine… Happy New Year!!

Words can’t explain how much i love your content ❤you are such a good person❤

You need to start reading up on a 3-month-old regression. It's real and can be a beast. It's all just part of a newborns step in life as they grow. I will tell you, as you are probably aware, as soon as you think you have things figured out, boom, something new pops up. As a parent, you will adjust to that feeling of guilt. All parents go through it, but life has to continue. You will be okay.

omg cutest!!! The ‘burrrrrah’ had me 😂 enjoy the motherhood feels 🥰

You are such a good mother sissel, Noe absolutely loves you so much ❤️💖💓

A very happy and healthy New Year to all 3 of you. ❤❤❤

Motherhood suits you so well ❤ you are glowing!!

Why is that of Germany

“Straight up anime boobs.” 😂😂