Thank you for sharing Ian I can relate a lot to this and because I was always lied to I am curious if she was telling the truth about having brothers in organised crime, God Bless and wish you every happiness for the future.
@rob-oe4wr4 күн бұрын
Thanks Rory. You always have nteresting conversations, even when they are more serious topics.
@alexlaroux77711 күн бұрын
❤
@alexlaroux77711 күн бұрын
Shes such a tremendously heroic soul ❤
@rory__smith9 күн бұрын
Agreed. A true role model of our generation 🙏
@SarahDaws-c9t28 күн бұрын
What an amazing man. Thank you for being an advocate.
@barbarashaw744629 күн бұрын
Shocking what happened to him and never defended himself against that awful woman .
@rob-oe4wrАй бұрын
Hi Rory, Thanks for another episode. Your interviews are always very interesting.
@rory__smithАй бұрын
Thanks so much for your kind comment!! It's all down to the amazing people I'm talking to 🙏🙏🙏
@spitspotmichaelАй бұрын
That's another very interesting interview, Rory, well done mate. Also, Happy Anniversary for last Saturday. I hope you had a FABULOUS day x
@rory__smithАй бұрын
Thank you as always for listening 🙏 Ah bless ya - thank you mate! 🙏
@vickylyons1860Ай бұрын
You are a kwonderful
@callibanpatrich1290Ай бұрын
i don't understand why she's not naming names of people who exactly did this to her. she even told multiple times that one of the men is still alive and a very known public person. i don't understand why no one can't do anything about this. pretty sure this pedo rings exist to this day as well.
@newbeginnings2056Ай бұрын
Its a well known fact that women are abused more than men and there would be uproar if it was a woman who suffered this BUT she was SOME PSYCHOTIC BITCH. What she did in his own house was un-believable - if its correct to say HE IS LUCKY to be alive. HOPE the Law threw the full force of the law at her. Michelle's picture & details SHOULD BE OUT there like the most wanted on a law enforcement agency so no one else suffers what this man went through. Her brother's were probably a figment of her imagination to give her more power. How would he ever feel safe or happy back in his own house again. Losing her power - hope Michelle got a taste of her own medicine in jail.
@sandrac6892Ай бұрын
My goodness! May you continue to heal and be blessed with a happy, healthy life!🌷
@rory__smithАй бұрын
Beautiful words Sandra, Rory 🙏
@doggiesable12 ай бұрын
Best explanation I ever heard , so brave
@jahnapanui65322 ай бұрын
Hi Rory
@ShirleyBroomhall2 ай бұрын
I was brought up in an environment where my father terrorised my mother, myself, 4:01 and my brother and sister. He was sexually abusive to me, and I ran away from home at the age of fifteen. Abusers are vicious cowardly bullies, and I applaud those who survive, and achieve success in their lives.
@rory__smith2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing part of your story. I hope you are on a path of healing, love and joy that you deserve 🙏🙏🙏
@ArtemisX2 ай бұрын
I've listened to many of Anneke's interviews. This was a great job by the interviewer. ❤
@rory__smith2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. It was a true privilege to be in conversation with Anneke - a true hero of our generation 🙏🙏🙏
@helenforde62822 ай бұрын
So evil poor man
@ronachadwick79082 ай бұрын
Jealousy is a HUGE issue. Jealousy is insanity. Run for yr life.
@maxashton81672 ай бұрын
Great interview mate! Keep up the good work.
@rory__smith2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Max! Really appreciate it!! Rory 👍👍
@spitspotmichael2 ай бұрын
Another insight to other people's troubles, Rory. Great podcast x
@rory__smith2 ай бұрын
Thank you as always Auntie Trev! Hope you're well? 🙏🙏🙏
@spitspotmichael2 ай бұрын
@@rory__smith That's very kind of you to ask. I'm doing OK thank you. 😜🤗💕
@chaseginise89682 ай бұрын
Situations like this is why I am afraid to be in a relationship
@dreadnaught23063 ай бұрын
this is part of the reason myself and so many people my age are terrified of dating. i'm a young man, i'm only 20 years old, i've never even entered the world of dating, and i'm not sure that i ever will. it's just so terrifying that the person i trust enough to open up to and love could be physically abusive, deal me permanent damage or kill me, and when i reach out for help i end up in prison. it's horrifying to think about, really, and i know i'm not the only one who feels this way. i know i can't cause a paradigm shift in how our society and the justice system is built, but i'd like to hope this is something that could be changed in my life time.
@richsmart4663 ай бұрын
LIAR !!!!!
@rob-oe4wr3 ай бұрын
Another interesting interview, full interview well worth a listen.
@rory__smith3 ай бұрын
Thank you as always! Hope you're well! 🙏
@hendrikdevries97253 ай бұрын
Grrreat interview, inspirational guest ! Ben, you are a true advocate of lived experience.
@rory__smith3 ай бұрын
He certainly is! A true inspiration. Thanks so much for listening and for your words! Rory 🙏
@Juanita-gf4te3 ай бұрын
In NZ we have support groups for men in every city and some of the smaller towns. They are all run by men, and there are even safe places for them to go and stay. They can be found at the front of the phone book and one magazine listed al of the places with phone numbers to call, all throughout NZ.
Another belter of an interview, Rory. It was so interesting, as I can relate to some of the heady days of being gay in the 70's and 80's. Well done again ❤
@rory__smith3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that! And ALWAYS for your support!! It honestly means a lot so thank you so much for listening!
@dragonclaws93673 ай бұрын
More men need to feel safe to speak out . 💜 A survivor and a woman. Abuse is Abuse. I hope you have healed, She was A wolf in sheep's clothing. You ARE a decent guy, never forget that! ❤ from 🇺🇸. What an awful Harpy. Truly insane. What a clever plan! It is a sin nobody helped you.
@rory__smith3 ай бұрын
What a lovely comment - thank you for sharing! Rory 🙏
@lvalesic-bralo24783 ай бұрын
I feel you, Annekes story inspired me to save my life, truth 🤷🏻♀️
@rory__smith3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that. I hope you have hope for the future and I hope you have good support around you for your healing and recovery journey. I wish you every good wishes with that - I really do. I'm thinking of you - please keep in touch with your journey 🙏🙏🙏
@lvalesic-bralo24783 ай бұрын
@@rory__smith 🙏🙂🙏✨️🙏
@maryannecomment33023 ай бұрын
I am glad you speak out on what happened to you. People often do not understand what domestic violence really means. She should not have any access to your home. However, I am not so sure that they would have acted different with females, who are abused. Some of them suffered many attacks, with the police involved. But I am so happy to hear that you are out of this situation now.
@alexjonesmom3 ай бұрын
I will break my silence too, and share my story as well. Thank you, for this podcast!
@rory__smith3 ай бұрын
Wow Alex - this is exactly why I do this podcast - to help others see themselves in people's stories. I'm so totally humbled that Lisa's story has helped you. And well done on reaching a point to share your story. I hope you're very proud of yourself! Thank you for listening and for your lovely comment! Please keep in touch, Rory
@Notmehimorthem3 ай бұрын
Went through something similar, stayed for the babies sake. She then accused me of child abused, after years of investigation Social Services awarded me my daughter and forbade her unsupervised contact. Horrendous memories of a woman I once loved
@rory__smith3 ай бұрын
So sorry to hear this. I hope your recovery and healing is going well 🙏
@Gregm-l9r4 ай бұрын
My comment was removed for some reason Rory so I left it on you insta .
@rob-oe4wr4 ай бұрын
A powerful statement. Nice to here your feeling better now.
@rory__smith4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! 🙏🙏🙏
@Gregm-l9r4 ай бұрын
I loved this podcast with fats Timbo . She really is a lovely person and it angers me that people were mean to her , just because she was much shorter than them . Very well done, Rory .
@rory__smith4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! Glad you loved it - because I love Fats!! She's amazing! So inspirational!! Rory
@unravel20534 ай бұрын
Thank you Ian. As a fellow survivor, I've learnt alot about the DV perspective from the male side and it is the same relationship with a potentially very different perspective from onlookers. If a woman has a bruise a first thought is DV (and that's not to downplay a womans experience they are the same as any survivor) but the contrast is a man who has been assaulted instantly looks like a trouble maker and one to avoid and that locked you in a horrific place even more so. So thank you, I've learnt something to look out for, for potential DV in men.
@rory__smith3 ай бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to write this and share this - and I'm glad Ian's story has taught you an important lesson. Rory 🙏
@lyncrisp72094 ай бұрын
An absolutely joyous positive lady, enjoyed the chat immensely
@lyncrisp72094 ай бұрын
Very moving and positive
@rory__smith4 ай бұрын
Thank you Lyn xx
@lyncrisp72094 ай бұрын
Inspirational
@rory__smith4 ай бұрын
She really is... I think she's simply amazing! So honest. Thank you for listening Lyn!! Xx
@lyncrisp72094 ай бұрын
Interesting
@lyncrisp72094 ай бұрын
Amazing journey
@rory__smith4 ай бұрын
It really is Lyn! An incredible man! X
@rob-oe4wr4 ай бұрын
Morning Rory. Thanks for an interesting episode. It sounds like Jon lives life at a slower/more relaxing pace
@rory__smith4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much! Jon is a beautiful man with a beautiful soul. Such wisdom! Thank you for your lovely words (as always!) Rory
@hilaryross63304 ай бұрын
So devastating 😢 Thank God you came back from this terrible ordeal 😢❤
@RoccoGibson3305 ай бұрын
Excellent!! Thank you for this!
@LisaPlumbMFT5 ай бұрын
Thank you Rory for having me on your podcast and increasing awareness so we can change laws and support survivors and those who work with them🙏🏻🙇🏻♀️
@rory__smith5 ай бұрын
Thank YOU for all you do. I'm just the vessel for your story and mission. It was so lovely getting to know a part of you and thank you for sharing your voice 🙏🏻
@floriereyes4677Ай бұрын
Love you Ms Lisa! ❤
@rob-oe4wr5 ай бұрын
1st You have a great Podcast, Rory.
@spitspotmichael5 ай бұрын
I'm glad Lisa survived her terrible childhood and has blossomed into this lovely lady. Good work, Rory.
@LisaPlumbMFT5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support 🙏🏻
@cherielafleur31375 ай бұрын
Very Well Done Lisa and Rory! I applaud your continued efforts to illuminate and expose the vile segments of our society and how, exactly, they operate in such a covert fashion. Lisa's story is told via her bravery and innate ability to overcome, and she's gone on to turn a horrific story into an opportunity to help other survivors unpack their ordeals and understand they were not at fault, they were not a terrible person, they did not "ask for it". I know from personal experience that it takes years of dealings with the repercussions of S A, and all of the players involved, which can then be unraveled to finally view the twisted thinking involved, and it's worth every moment to work with a therapist (like Lisa) to get to the other side of the maze and to rediscover the real You. Beyond that, exposing abusers for what they are is paramount to increasing awareness and dismantling the veiled evil intentions these twisted minds use to harm others for the sake of their perversions. Thank you, Lisa and Rory, for all you do to help others!❤
@rory__smith5 ай бұрын
Thank you Cherie for your comments and sharing your words, Rory 🙏
@LisaPlumbMFT5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! It’s important to expose the perpetrators and guide survivors to healing. Good will win! 🙏🏻✊🏻
@spitspotmichael5 ай бұрын
Oh Rory, that is horrifying, such a sad thing to happen to a child. It boils my p*ss (sorry for the expletive) when this happens to children. Well done for tackling this sensitive issue and affording respect and dignity to Lisa. Trev.
@LisaPlumbMFT5 ай бұрын
Yes thank you to Rory. And thank you to you and for supporting survivors and healing 🙏🏻