#12 Miscarriage: A Dad's Perspective
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@SaraRigby
@SaraRigby 2 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing Ian I can relate a lot to this and because I was always lied to I am curious if she was telling the truth about having brothers in organised crime, God Bless and wish you every happiness for the future.
@rob-oe4wr
@rob-oe4wr 4 күн бұрын
Thanks Rory. You always have nteresting conversations, even when they are more serious topics.
@alexlaroux777
@alexlaroux777 11 күн бұрын
@alexlaroux777
@alexlaroux777 11 күн бұрын
Shes such a tremendously heroic soul ❤
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 9 күн бұрын
Agreed. A true role model of our generation 🙏
@SarahDaws-c9t
@SarahDaws-c9t 28 күн бұрын
What an amazing man. Thank you for being an advocate.
@barbarashaw7446
@barbarashaw7446 29 күн бұрын
Shocking what happened to him and never defended himself against that awful woman .
@rob-oe4wr
@rob-oe4wr Ай бұрын
Hi Rory, Thanks for another episode. Your interviews are always very interesting.
@rory__smith
@rory__smith Ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your kind comment!! It's all down to the amazing people I'm talking to 🙏🙏🙏
@spitspotmichael
@spitspotmichael Ай бұрын
That's another very interesting interview, Rory, well done mate. Also, Happy Anniversary for last Saturday. I hope you had a FABULOUS day x
@rory__smith
@rory__smith Ай бұрын
Thank you as always for listening 🙏 Ah bless ya - thank you mate! 🙏
@vickylyons1860
@vickylyons1860 Ай бұрын
You are a kwonderful
@callibanpatrich1290
@callibanpatrich1290 Ай бұрын
i don't understand why she's not naming names of people who exactly did this to her. she even told multiple times that one of the men is still alive and a very known public person. i don't understand why no one can't do anything about this. pretty sure this pedo rings exist to this day as well.
@newbeginnings2056
@newbeginnings2056 Ай бұрын
Its a well known fact that women are abused more than men and there would be uproar if it was a woman who suffered this BUT she was SOME PSYCHOTIC BITCH. What she did in his own house was un-believable - if its correct to say HE IS LUCKY to be alive. HOPE the Law threw the full force of the law at her. Michelle's picture & details SHOULD BE OUT there like the most wanted on a law enforcement agency so no one else suffers what this man went through. Her brother's were probably a figment of her imagination to give her more power. How would he ever feel safe or happy back in his own house again. Losing her power - hope Michelle got a taste of her own medicine in jail.
@sandrac6892
@sandrac6892 Ай бұрын
My goodness! May you continue to heal and be blessed with a happy, healthy life!🌷
@rory__smith
@rory__smith Ай бұрын
Beautiful words Sandra, Rory 🙏
@doggiesable1
@doggiesable1 2 ай бұрын
Best explanation I ever heard , so brave
@jahnapanui6532
@jahnapanui6532 2 ай бұрын
Hi Rory
@ShirleyBroomhall
@ShirleyBroomhall 2 ай бұрын
I was brought up in an environment where my father terrorised my mother, myself, 4:01 and my brother and sister. He was sexually abusive to me, and I ran away from home at the age of fifteen. Abusers are vicious cowardly bullies, and I applaud those who survive, and achieve success in their lives.
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing part of your story. I hope you are on a path of healing, love and joy that you deserve 🙏🙏🙏
@ArtemisX
@ArtemisX 2 ай бұрын
I've listened to many of Anneke's interviews. This was a great job by the interviewer. ❤
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. It was a true privilege to be in conversation with Anneke - a true hero of our generation 🙏🙏🙏
@helenforde6282
@helenforde6282 2 ай бұрын
So evil poor man
@ronachadwick7908
@ronachadwick7908 2 ай бұрын
Jealousy is a HUGE issue. Jealousy is insanity. Run for yr life.
@maxashton8167
@maxashton8167 2 ай бұрын
Great interview mate! Keep up the good work.
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Max! Really appreciate it!! Rory 👍👍
@spitspotmichael
@spitspotmichael 2 ай бұрын
Another insight to other people's troubles, Rory. Great podcast x
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 2 ай бұрын
Thank you as always Auntie Trev! Hope you're well? 🙏🙏🙏
@spitspotmichael
@spitspotmichael 2 ай бұрын
@@rory__smith That's very kind of you to ask. I'm doing OK thank you. 😜🤗💕
@chaseginise8968
@chaseginise8968 2 ай бұрын
Situations like this is why I am afraid to be in a relationship
@dreadnaught2306
@dreadnaught2306 3 ай бұрын
this is part of the reason myself and so many people my age are terrified of dating. i'm a young man, i'm only 20 years old, i've never even entered the world of dating, and i'm not sure that i ever will. it's just so terrifying that the person i trust enough to open up to and love could be physically abusive, deal me permanent damage or kill me, and when i reach out for help i end up in prison. it's horrifying to think about, really, and i know i'm not the only one who feels this way. i know i can't cause a paradigm shift in how our society and the justice system is built, but i'd like to hope this is something that could be changed in my life time.
@richsmart466
@richsmart466 3 ай бұрын
LIAR !!!!!
@rob-oe4wr
@rob-oe4wr 3 ай бұрын
Another interesting interview, full interview well worth a listen.
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you as always! Hope you're well! 🙏
@hendrikdevries9725
@hendrikdevries9725 3 ай бұрын
Grrreat interview, inspirational guest ! Ben, you are a true advocate of lived experience.
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
He certainly is! A true inspiration. Thanks so much for listening and for your words! Rory 🙏
@Juanita-gf4te
@Juanita-gf4te 3 ай бұрын
In NZ we have support groups for men in every city and some of the smaller towns. They are all run by men, and there are even safe places for them to go and stay. They can be found at the front of the phone book and one magazine listed al of the places with phone numbers to call, all throughout NZ.
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! Rory 🙏
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
#selfdevelopment #selfimprovement #selfhelp #selfdevelopmentpodcast #selfhelppodcast #motivationalpodcast #inspiringpodcast #motivational #inspiringstories
@spitspotmichael
@spitspotmichael 3 ай бұрын
Another belter of an interview, Rory. It was so interesting, as I can relate to some of the heady days of being gay in the 70's and 80's. Well done again ❤
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that! And ALWAYS for your support!! It honestly means a lot so thank you so much for listening!
@dragonclaws9367
@dragonclaws9367 3 ай бұрын
More men need to feel safe to speak out . 💜 A survivor and a woman. Abuse is Abuse. I hope you have healed, She was A wolf in sheep's clothing. You ARE a decent guy, never forget that! ❤ from 🇺🇸. What an awful Harpy. Truly insane. What a clever plan! It is a sin nobody helped you.
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
What a lovely comment - thank you for sharing! Rory 🙏
@lvalesic-bralo2478
@lvalesic-bralo2478 3 ай бұрын
I feel you, Annekes story inspired me to save my life, truth 🤷🏻‍♀️
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that. I hope you have hope for the future and I hope you have good support around you for your healing and recovery journey. I wish you every good wishes with that - I really do. I'm thinking of you - please keep in touch with your journey 🙏🙏🙏
@lvalesic-bralo2478
@lvalesic-bralo2478 3 ай бұрын
@@rory__smith 🙏🙂🙏✨️🙏
@maryannecomment3302
@maryannecomment3302 3 ай бұрын
I am glad you speak out on what happened to you. People often do not understand what domestic violence really means. She should not have any access to your home. However, I am not so sure that they would have acted different with females, who are abused. Some of them suffered many attacks, with the police involved. But I am so happy to hear that you are out of this situation now.
@alexjonesmom
@alexjonesmom 3 ай бұрын
I will break my silence too, and share my story as well. Thank you, for this podcast!
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
Wow Alex - this is exactly why I do this podcast - to help others see themselves in people's stories. I'm so totally humbled that Lisa's story has helped you. And well done on reaching a point to share your story. I hope you're very proud of yourself! Thank you for listening and for your lovely comment! Please keep in touch, Rory
@Notmehimorthem
@Notmehimorthem 3 ай бұрын
Went through something similar, stayed for the babies sake. She then accused me of child abused, after years of investigation Social Services awarded me my daughter and forbade her unsupervised contact. Horrendous memories of a woman I once loved
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
So sorry to hear this. I hope your recovery and healing is going well 🙏
@Gregm-l9r
@Gregm-l9r 4 ай бұрын
My comment was removed for some reason Rory so I left it on you insta .
@rob-oe4wr
@rob-oe4wr 4 ай бұрын
A powerful statement. Nice to here your feeling better now.
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! 🙏🙏🙏
@Gregm-l9r
@Gregm-l9r 4 ай бұрын
I loved this podcast with fats Timbo . She really is a lovely person and it angers me that people were mean to her , just because she was much shorter than them . Very well done, Rory .
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! Glad you loved it - because I love Fats!! She's amazing! So inspirational!! Rory
@unravel2053
@unravel2053 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Ian. As a fellow survivor, I've learnt alot about the DV perspective from the male side and it is the same relationship with a potentially very different perspective from onlookers. If a woman has a bruise a first thought is DV (and that's not to downplay a womans experience they are the same as any survivor) but the contrast is a man who has been assaulted instantly looks like a trouble maker and one to avoid and that locked you in a horrific place even more so. So thank you, I've learnt something to look out for, for potential DV in men.
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to write this and share this - and I'm glad Ian's story has taught you an important lesson. Rory 🙏
@lyncrisp7209
@lyncrisp7209 4 ай бұрын
An absolutely joyous positive lady, enjoyed the chat immensely
@lyncrisp7209
@lyncrisp7209 4 ай бұрын
Very moving and positive
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Lyn xx
@lyncrisp7209
@lyncrisp7209 4 ай бұрын
Inspirational
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 4 ай бұрын
She really is... I think she's simply amazing! So honest. Thank you for listening Lyn!! Xx
@lyncrisp7209
@lyncrisp7209 4 ай бұрын
Interesting
@lyncrisp7209
@lyncrisp7209 4 ай бұрын
Amazing journey
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 4 ай бұрын
It really is Lyn! An incredible man! X
@rob-oe4wr
@rob-oe4wr 4 ай бұрын
Morning Rory. Thanks for an interesting episode. It sounds like Jon lives life at a slower/more relaxing pace
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much! Jon is a beautiful man with a beautiful soul. Such wisdom! Thank you for your lovely words (as always!) Rory
@hilaryross6330
@hilaryross6330 4 ай бұрын
So devastating 😢 Thank God you came back from this terrible ordeal 😢❤
@RoccoGibson330
@RoccoGibson330 5 ай бұрын
Excellent!! Thank you for this!
@LisaPlumbMFT
@LisaPlumbMFT 5 ай бұрын
Thank you Rory for having me on your podcast and increasing awareness so we can change laws and support survivors and those who work with them🙏🏻🙇🏻‍♀️
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 5 ай бұрын
Thank YOU for all you do. I'm just the vessel for your story and mission. It was so lovely getting to know a part of you and thank you for sharing your voice 🙏🏻
@floriereyes4677
@floriereyes4677 Ай бұрын
Love you Ms Lisa! ❤
@rob-oe4wr
@rob-oe4wr 5 ай бұрын
1st You have a great Podcast, Rory.
@spitspotmichael
@spitspotmichael 5 ай бұрын
I'm glad Lisa survived her terrible childhood and has blossomed into this lovely lady. Good work, Rory.
@LisaPlumbMFT
@LisaPlumbMFT 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support 🙏🏻
@cherielafleur3137
@cherielafleur3137 5 ай бұрын
Very Well Done Lisa and Rory! I applaud your continued efforts to illuminate and expose the vile segments of our society and how, exactly, they operate in such a covert fashion. Lisa's story is told via her bravery and innate ability to overcome, and she's gone on to turn a horrific story into an opportunity to help other survivors unpack their ordeals and understand they were not at fault, they were not a terrible person, they did not "ask for it". I know from personal experience that it takes years of dealings with the repercussions of S A, and all of the players involved, which can then be unraveled to finally view the twisted thinking involved, and it's worth every moment to work with a therapist (like Lisa) to get to the other side of the maze and to rediscover the real You. Beyond that, exposing abusers for what they are is paramount to increasing awareness and dismantling the veiled evil intentions these twisted minds use to harm others for the sake of their perversions. Thank you, Lisa and Rory, for all you do to help others!❤
@rory__smith
@rory__smith 5 ай бұрын
Thank you Cherie for your comments and sharing your words, Rory 🙏
@LisaPlumbMFT
@LisaPlumbMFT 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! It’s important to expose the perpetrators and guide survivors to healing. Good will win! 🙏🏻✊🏻
@spitspotmichael
@spitspotmichael 5 ай бұрын
Oh Rory, that is horrifying, such a sad thing to happen to a child. It boils my p*ss (sorry for the expletive) when this happens to children. Well done for tackling this sensitive issue and affording respect and dignity to Lisa. Trev.
@LisaPlumbMFT
@LisaPlumbMFT 5 ай бұрын
Yes thank you to Rory. And thank you to you and for supporting survivors and healing 🙏🏻