Thank you so much. You are beautiful. I am from South-Africa. I have a afrikaans KZbin channel Karien se Kuierplek. I needed to hear this. I am currently in a rut and are afraid that it would start turning into habbits..

it’s month two and i can honestly say i’m in a much better position than i was in during the first month. it still hurts. i still cry. i’m crying right now. i don’t have that urge to reach out to him anymore, though. i think mentally, i know that it won’t solve or fix my pain nor will it mend the fact that he cut communication. i have moments where i feel like im on top of the world and that i can get over it and then i have moments like now, where i feel the pain and where i feel completely lost. im at a point where if he did ever reach out, i wouldn’t intend to respond. i’m in a very confusing position right now. just know that if you’re going through the first day or first two weeks, baby steps are still steps!

I love you girl. Thank you. 🥺🥺🙏🙏

Hi Lumma, your voice is very comforting. 🥺🥺 Thank you so much. 🙏🙏

I totally agree that maybe being in a long distance is what i need right now. Cause i've been talking to a guy right now and the idea of him being with me right now might distract me from all of my dreams and goal SCARES me. Cause like i'm only 22 and he is almost 25, he can ask for marriage anytime and i'm not ready for that, i still have a lot of goals. So i really think, some of us are put in some situation like this cause it's what best for us.

I‘ve missed your voice. Greetings from Austria 💞

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Yaaay!!!! New video!!!! Can't wait for the episode with Alyssa

It took me literally 1.5 years to recover so if it’s taking you a long time don’t be hard on yourself - I promise it does get better and you DO move on.

Your vibe is giving me San Diego! I've met a lot of Australians there. Instead of LA, maybe look into moving there :) Love your videos!!

I also lived downtown la during covid it's been blahhhh ever since! The homeless population out here is ridiculous because of the cost of living and drugs! It's sad, I always kept goodie bags, feminine hygiene and chips/water in my trunk of my car. Thanksgiving I always walk around and deliver platters of food for those on skid row. Some of the stories you hear just are insane.

Yes girl!! I lived in Los Angeles for 6 years lol its crazy out there!! Next time your planning a trip to California, see San Diego!! It has MUCH MORE beautiful beaches and more calmer than LA :)

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Hey what's up mama ☺️🙈 im from Florida if you look at a map of FL you will see Miami at the bottom im from a city one hour north of M.i space ship i was eating greens i just did a personality test that quizzes you on four things or 4 Ms Money, Mastery, Mating and Movability it asks good questions like would you rather be a millionaire but can't travel lol or adventurous (freedom) the ability to go anywhere whenever i scored high on Moveabiliy i think 90 LOL im going to NY next month 😂 keep doing your thing mama and take care mama ☺️🙈💯 god vless 🙏 Lub Rolo ! :)

I watched this video last year on august And i had to watch it again today aftet a whole year 😢 I was going through the same stages , i watched a lot of how to get an ex back videos , but now when they pop on my screen i quickly remove them because i’m not interested in learning how to get someone back as i’ve been and still in so much pain , whats killing me tho is the hope ! Because he reached out again and we reconnected few months after ( which probably was the biggest mistake , i should’ve been stronger and refused , i would’ve saved myself so much trouble ) and it’s because of that i still somedays linger to hope and i would drown in my imagination of what to do or say if he’s back 💔 Limerence is killing me too . Sometimes i just wish to see him officially with a girl so i just could cut all hopes although the idea of that scares me , i know i would be completely shattered . I wasted a whole year waiting and crying and i just want a fresh start for me 😞 I’m just struggling to see any point in my future . It’s sad to say that he caused so much damage to my faith and self esteem , he used me and went on with his life being completely successful and i’m here still struggling . The idea of what could’ve been is the hardest , i wish i had more time with him to actually see and hate the bad sides of him . He blocked me on everything except on telegram when he used it to reach out again a second time , and i’m still blocked on fb and ig and maybe that’s better ! I just hope i finally let go of someone that doesn’t want me 🙏🏻🙏🏻💔

All though my ex is talking to someone and wants to pretend we never happened , doesn’t wanna have that closure talk or anything. I just wanna say it’s okay. I came to the fact that I tried my best, I’ve said my apologies , I begged and pleated for your love , I was supportive , I did everything , I even sometimes put him befor my self. All though I did I just wanna say I’m proud u got to experience real love . I was the first girl to ever show him real love and im so happy it was me who got to do it. There’s no reason for me to beat my self I did everything I could. If it was meant to be he can call or text me he knows how to reach me . I’m always here for u

About California: Please do not stay out late or around midnight! I was born and raised in CA and would NEVER stay out late unless necessary. Especially near car shows. You are right in saying that Australia is more safe!

It’s been 4 months but I just can’t let him go, I just can’t, I feel like I’ve made no progress and it will never go away, how do I fall out of love with him? How do I stop missing him and want to call him and talk to him?

You are my comfort KZbinr. Thank you so much for existing

What's so hard for me is that he actually wants to be with me and told me that he doesn't want to live without me but the thing is that hurt me so much when I was pretty much at my lowest and needed him. That thing he did just changed everything for me, the way I saw him, the trust I had in him, everything. And even though I still love him and miss him and our relationship, I just know that it wouldn't be the same and just could not forgive him yet. Even if I wanted. And then I found out that he did the same thing that broke my heart AGAIN two days after our breakup. I really hope that I'm gonna be okay again. I'm just so disappointed and hurt and sad and can't understand why you would do something like this to the person you claim to love...

next time come out to chicago. it's similar to ny but a lot cleaner.

day 1 of heartbreak. it hurts so much, i had to leave him because i was in a constant state of unhappiness and overthinking. i didnt feel safe anymore. i deserve to feel safe and happy. i will come back to this comment. i know i am to have extremely dark times ahead, but have hope i will be happy again… one day

He chose her over me 🙂Ill someday come back and look at this comment anytime anyone likes and and see how far i have come

I been married for 12 years and we broke up and a week later he found someone I hate how he acts like nothing bothers him while I'm crying all the time we are no contact which is helping me

Thank you so much❤

I'm glad that you're being transparent. You seem like a good woman. 🥰

Please know that you are already so beautiful, but if having your nose done makes you happy, go for it! 👌👌I'm also from Batangas. 🥰🥰

Hi gorgeous! You're so beautiful and I love your skin. 🥰🥰 I'm binge-watching your videos now. When I watched your 3 Months of Heartbreak video, I knew you were my kababayan (my fellow Filipina). 🥰🥰I'm in that situation now. Thank you for that video. 💜💜

❤❤❤ I think lumma that you're extremely beautiful. You dont need 😢 for anybody. Gammy

You’re very wise for your age. Amazing. Keep doing your motivational videos you’re helping others out there and I’m in my 30’s watching your videos ❤

Hey Lumma! First things first, you are one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen..I hope to work on myself and be as confident as you one day 🥺 My confidence right now is at an all time low.. Recently been broken up with after a 5 year relationship, I took care of him when he had no one to confide in..he one day changed his mind about staying together eventhough he promised we'd get married 😢 Your videos have helped me so much in hearing the reassurance that I needed, I haven't fully healed as my breakup was very recent but thank you for sharing your advices with all of us ❤️‍🩹 One day I will be okay again right 😢

I LOVE U GURL! GOD BLESS U! I'll absolutely do that! THANK UUUU! 🥰🥰🙏🙏

I was born & raised in LA and I can confirm miss Lumma is correct! It’s dirty af.

I remember people in 8th grade were bullying me cause I didn't wanna be their friend

Your content is always refreshing 🥰, Wish you all the best in your journey continue enjoying every single step of it not only the final destination(s) 😊

Girll finally 😂 uve been bothering you on your dms gopi from africa❤listening to you its therapy

thank you so much for answering my question. i love you. im so happy about today’s video.

❤❤❤❤❤ Lovely Lumma you're very beautiful 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌹🌺🌺🌺🌺🌻🌻🌻🌺🌹🌹🌹🌺🌺🌻🌺🌺🌺🌻🌻🌻🌻🌺🌹🎈🌹🌺🌻 Never Cry for a Man again😢 . He dont deserves you Gammy

How do you always look so fresh and stunning?!

Yess new ep of the podcast ❤️

yeee shout out to the person who dm'd her quit playing games😂finally she posted a video

Love from India, Lumma! Listening to you is a free therapy I'm so glad I signed up for!

I’m so early

ily luma!🤍

Where you moving?

Why does my heart hurt so much when I didn’t even make a mistake ??

Few days after my breakup, returning to comment, I’m just going through a whole swirly roller coaster of the breakup stages 😵‍💫

the hardest part about it is thinking that they will treat someone in the future the way you want them to treat you. now i'm slowly realizing how much i got disrespected. I still love him but i'm tired of being hurt

I just went through it. My husband left me. I feel like at the 3 month mark I started to feel better

imagine coming back to this video because of the same person. PSHHHHHH couldn't be me :"(