How to STOP Being a People Pleaser
11:17
Six CAUSES of People Pleasing
9:23
10 Signs You’re People Pleasing
13:43
7 Ways to Stop Feeling Overwhelmed
15:08
How to Stop Being Passive Aggressive
11:50
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@KodakRed-fjHBK
@KodakRed-fjHBK 13 күн бұрын
I never truly Express what I need. it's not I'm afraid to hurt somebody's feelings. I assume most people care about it. So there's no point in me expressing it. Or communicating it.
@kerry4987
@kerry4987 Ай бұрын
That is brilliant!
@iamharshdeep196
@iamharshdeep196 Ай бұрын
Where can I get the full video
@Sabrina-zy2jf
@Sabrina-zy2jf Ай бұрын
😢
@sunar700cr
@sunar700cr 2 ай бұрын
Wonderful knowledge❤
@cymbo12
@cymbo12 2 ай бұрын
Great tips that most videos don’t mention
@steverfc7
@steverfc7 2 ай бұрын
I agree focusing on others is waste of energy u will regret god made u to be u and u can’t be another person if u focus on others what there doing gets u nowhere it don’t change what they do with plans if they have plans for weekend if u focus on yourself no distractions u can think better if u want stress free life do what u must do to get to your goals
@EamonMcMullan7
@EamonMcMullan7 2 ай бұрын
what a great woman with wisdom and insight for living!
@kittygomah
@kittygomah 2 ай бұрын
I think people with passive aggressive sarcasm often try to be ,cool' they want to be popular and they don't care of other peoples feelings.
@tonglag2089
@tonglag2089 3 ай бұрын
I like to travel solo I sometimes have a fear of people knowing that i'm a solo female and trying to take advantage of that so being with the group lessens that but then I don't want to be on anybody else's schedule that much
@CharlesHess
@CharlesHess 3 ай бұрын
I think this is really Lake Bell.
@CharlesHess
@CharlesHess 3 ай бұрын
From the back row, “Better souuuuuund!”
@ishitastripathi
@ishitastripathi 3 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot🤍
@BilalBrohou
@BilalBrohou 4 ай бұрын
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@BilalBrohou
@BilalBrohou 4 ай бұрын
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@nanetten6238
@nanetten6238 4 ай бұрын
How did I just figure out, at age 60, that I am very passive-aggressive? Better late than never, I guess. I think I use this coping mechanism because it allows me to communicate to the other person that they did or said something annoying (in my opinion), without me having to actually confront them, and then deal with the results of that. I really hate confrontation. I don't know how to do it effectively, without getting angry and losing my temper. Many people in my family are this way, so I'm hopeful that this is a learned behavior I can unlearn. Any advice?
@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
So great!
@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
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@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
Love your content!
@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
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@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
So clear and helpful. Thank you.
@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
So helpful. Thank you ❤
@PixieRose7
@PixieRose7 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for explaining this so clearly. Very helpful.
@Snowiiix
@Snowiiix 4 ай бұрын
Great stuff on short format video, would love to subscribe but content on long format varies. Thanks for some motivation and tips tho :) good luck
@jwstolk
@jwstolk 4 ай бұрын
It is a test, you test if it is a place you would want to work.
@brucebenson5570
@brucebenson5570 4 ай бұрын
Thank you! I was just confronted by a coworker today, a person I am really sad to have hurt, and am now realizing how big of a character flaw this is for me.
@ezazkhan4233
@ezazkhan4233 4 ай бұрын
yes mam im people please lack boundaries lack confidence
@anashiedler6926
@anashiedler6926 5 ай бұрын
American: it's super fancy. Austrian: Its just an old building.
@langsonphiri1548
@langsonphiri1548 5 ай бұрын
How does this group help with visa
@prn_97_
@prn_97_ 5 ай бұрын
are you jewish?
@user-rp7eh4rp9y
@user-rp7eh4rp9y 6 ай бұрын
Thank you
@camronmurillo2426
@camronmurillo2426 6 ай бұрын
My passive aggression has been straining my relationship with my partner! How can I bring up these points of without seeming like I’m getting defensive and just passing blame off? I want them to know that I do it because I’m hurt too and I just need to be reassured that my feeling matter to them!
@camronmurillo2426
@camronmurillo2426 6 ай бұрын
Not the “it might even be you” putting tears in my eyes! It is me! I didn’t realize how long I’ve been making people close to me miserable by doing this!
@Lisa-di1wi
@Lisa-di1wi 6 ай бұрын
I have always been an independent traveler. I don't want to be tied down to a set schedule on these escorted tours. On these escorted tours, you have to get up at 6 o'clock in the morning and have breakfast. If you're checking out of the hotel to go to your next destination, you have to have your bags packed and outside your hotel room for the staff to collect them and then put them on the tour bus. Even on these European tours that start in London, you have to get up at quarter after four in the morning and they give you a boxed breakfast. Then you leave London at 5:30 and the tour bus takes you over to Dover to catch the hovercraft across the English Channel over to Calais there in France. Then there's another tour bus there that'll take you to your first stop on the European continent. When I go on vacation, I like to go wherever I want to go and whenever I want to go. I want go see and do what I want to do. If I want to get up at 6 o'clock in the morning, then I'll stay home. I'd rather pay more for an independent tour than less on an escorted than stick to a rigid schedule.
@Lisa-di1wi
@Lisa-di1wi 6 ай бұрын
Whether it's in Europe, right here in the U.S, Canada, or anywhere else, you only get two nights in the major cities on these escorted tours. That is not enough time to see and do everything. You need at least three nights or more in the major cities, depending on which city you go to. For example: I have been out to Los Angeles four times. There is so much to see and do out there, you need at least a week or more there. I also plan to go to Hawaii one day as well. Based on my research, I only plan to stay in Waikiki. There is so much to see and do in Honolulu, and on Oahu, such as the city tour of Honolulu, the Pearl Harbor cruise, the Arizona Memorial, the Polynesian Cultural Center, and the circle island tour of Oahu. Plus there's shopping, entertainment, restaurants, and free hula dance shows. Two, three, or four nights in Waikiki is not enough time to really see and do everything that you want to do there. And when I'm there, I am skipping the traditional luau. I read some of the reviews of these luaus, and it's definitely not for me. They're not only too expensive, but I don't want to sit outside in all types of weather to eat a traditional Hawaiian meal, and then watch a Polynesian dance show right there; especially when it rains. I have a very strong fear of thunderstorms, and I just don't want to be outside when it rains. I would rather eat inside instead. They always say that no trip to Hawaii is complete without going to a luau. But here's one person who won't be going there.
@tpcreeper2185
@tpcreeper2185 6 ай бұрын
HR are the most useless employees in a company. Hiring managers should be the ones looking for employees. HR doesn't have the experience to make good decisions. They look for "keywords" and language they learned in college.
@FreedomIsMyReligion
@FreedomIsMyReligion 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, that's called bolt AI and a well written AI resume. HR dont do shit anymore. I literally dont even bother reaching them out. I go directly to the hiring manager.
@Cronoo
@Cronoo 7 ай бұрын
Thank you. This has been the most helpful video on this subject I've been able to find.
@artistswdyslexia354
@artistswdyslexia354 7 ай бұрын
Thanks, im passive aggressive so this was helpful. I think i havent had people ask the right questions to make me feel like i can open up. But i also now realize im doing this. I hope i can get past it. It was nice to hear that you were able to get past it.
@gnarly7535
@gnarly7535 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this!
@BUY_YOUTUBE_VIEWS_d0dd14
@BUY_YOUTUBE_VIEWS_d0dd14 7 ай бұрын
KZbin wouldn't be the same without you
@sharonerhuchannel1223
@sharonerhuchannel1223 7 ай бұрын
my neighbour gave a passive-aggressive comment on my achievement with an imperative sentence while others were impressed and appreciated my work. Then he got scolded by his wife with lots of explanations(sounds funny to me) and shut up afterwards. I would say this old man didn't know what was happening in the world, and couldn't respond well to his wife, only with a simple 'Ugh' as an answer. Other neighbours shut up and I didn't respond to it, because of his ageing problem. Forgive him, anyway.
@timstafford355
@timstafford355 8 ай бұрын
Beautiful soul
@justinmoore3088
@justinmoore3088 8 ай бұрын
What if interviewees don't care what you think and are more interested in the pay? P.S. your employees don't care and you have no impact on anything!
@shellys6761
@shellys6761 8 ай бұрын
Your comment makes it sound like you run a shitty place to work 😂. That’s on you bro.
@jperez8426
@jperez8426 8 ай бұрын
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