This was so validating. It left me sobbing

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I live with CPTSD I am a survivor of an attempted murder by an abusive partner. I am finding your videos to be really helpful Thank You!

Coming out of addiction and seeing the only way through is moving forward through the pain…. It’s so much, and it’s taking a while. But I’m changing. Sometimes when I feel hopeless I come to these educational videos to remind myself it’s okay to feel this way. It absolutely is essential to normalize this.

My dear lord you described this perfectly.

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Thank you! This pulled me out of a deep deep pit of despair this morning. I’ve been consciously on this journey for almost two years. And it has been insane, beautiful excruciating… all the things. Something you said about emotional weightlifting and pendulation just clicked. Thank you. I was feeling so dark and frustrated after so many steps forward 😭.

thankyou amorelli family thankyou god.thankyou ludovico.thankyou bast..ds and troy....s and i pay

My goal was to find a relationship. At 50, it's way too late and way too broke to love. Self Love = Narcissism I just want to live my life without being tortured constantly

I'm 50 now. It's too late and too broke for me to deal with me. I just want to try my best to live my life in isolation

thankyou, with you i have understand to have a cptsd

no better of you that have live and solve this situation for teach...i dont know how thank you, you give me hope

unlucky i live in italy and i cant understand the english language...i use subtitles for translate

thankyou for your video...i go try daily.you are so beautiful and sweet

Great information. I would very much look forward to listening to more on this subject. The "what if" question alone had a physical effect just asking that question.

Hello!, love the work. From what you said, I think you will be interested in this channel 👉 #drjohnaking. I find him instructional and practical.

This is exactly what I've been going through in my life recently. There's nothing worse than being aware of what you need and yet being so horrifically petrified of it, I'm so grateful I'm not the only one 🙏 I've started reparenting myself for awhile now and it definitely helps, even if my nervous system still freaks out around people. Somatic exercises truly do help too, they've helped me regulate when I'm at work dealing with customers. Setting the trauma energy free and letting it tell its story is so important. I hope everyone gives themselves the validation their inner child needs so desperately. It takes a lot of effort and time but the results are worth it 🔥

I don't even know how to blend in with others. I'm just painfully awkward without an identity attached

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️ makes 100% perfect sense...

Its scary to let go of people you love and thought loved you.

I need to stay away from toxic people who hurt me over and over again. I would have thoughts that i am worthy of love. My emotions would be more positive, such as joy and hope instead of sadness and fear.

It's so hard because we were never taught that we had value. Our parents did not show us love. We grew up feeling lonely and abandoned. Not allowed to have needs or boundaries 😢

Gathering up the pieces of ourselves that are stuck in certain ages is really only letting go of the belief that there are pieces of us stuck in certain ages. In the end it's only a belief system that can be let go of. And if you do, if you can it's gone.

I say to myself, we must do 1.,2.,3...and we forget it is for us. We just do it! Thank You!!:)!!🧚💫👍💗😊

The payment link does not show it as 50% off...it's still full price. Where is the link for the discount?

Sweetness.

even eating in the morning is still a challange, eatin feels so wrong , if im not like starving .. <3 but wheres a will, there is a way <3

You're perceiving things through limited awareness and confirmation bias. You've been brainwashed. Abnormal psychology is a lucrative cult and you're cashing in on it.

I don't know how to live through this hell Woken up, I'm still locked in this shell Frozen soul, frozen down to the core Break the ice, I can't take anymore Freezing Can't move at all Screaming Can't hear my call I am dying to live Cry out I'm trapped under ice

This information has been extremely value, and makes so much sense. God bless you...🙏🏻❤️ Going to listen to this message over and over again...🤝🏻👍🏻

This is very informative and comforting. I'm in extreme emotional pain 😢

This is a true gem, helped me a LOT, thank you ❤️! What is the name of the music track? It’s great

Wow, you are describing my life and situation to a T. I wish there was information like this earlier in my life, I'm sixty now, little too late now.😐

nice

Itchy nooossse haha ❤

Yeah, thank you so much❤😊.it helped so much.

amazing ... good luck 💪

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Get comfortable being uncomfortable.😂

Powerful video! love your channel! I feel calmer alone

Yeah, everything is painful. There are no good memories, life is experienced through trauma.

“Narcissistic” & “narcissism” are so misused and overused. To me, if a parent hasn’t been diagnosed with the mental health condition of narcissism, it’s more instructive (and empathetic) to say, “if anyone has had SELFISH parents…”. Lots of parents are preoccupied with their own thoughts and feelings, and are not be as attentive to the needs of their children. They may even pursue their own goals at the expense of others. That’s not narcissism. It’s selfishness. Parents are wounded people too. On the other hand, if a parent exhibits a consistent pattern of arrogance and self-centeredness that causes them to treat everyone around them as inferior, including their children, that’s narcissism.

Wow you hit the nail right on the head with this video title. Thank you Michelle ❤

All is true.

100% everything you said was my childhood. I was, and still am with my family, walking on eggshells. This really resonated with me. Leaving my old church, which has some leadership that was narcissistic and lying and finding new church with a welcoming, healthy atmosphere has been a huge blessing and a start to my recovery. Undoing the damage from unemotionally available parents and narcissistic father is taking a long time though. Is this normal?

Exactly ❤

The part about visual component of PTSD isn’t true, there are plenty of people with aphantasia and PTSD who obviously don’t have visual flashbacks. Visual flashbacks is not a necessity of PTSD diagnosis

I have seen a million of these vids and try to distract myself and have a dog even. But I am sad most of the time and can't really socialize- too afraid

My therapist said she wants me to do that forgiveness piece next. I actually just wrote her saying I am too angry. How interesting! I am a victim of narc abuse by my ex and somewhat by my dad and even my ex's mom. (not my mom, who died, though). Now I am feeling that w/my adult children. They were loving and caring and there is a trauma bond there because of their dad but both are far away (Australia and Chicago) and they rarely call or text. Saw them only one time each. I was the heavy lifter of raising them. I don't know how to get out of the trauma because it's being relived on holidays and when I am alone which is a lot. Esp because I am close to retiring. Trying to reinvent my life- like maybe relocating, getting rid of their things (sending them to them) etc. It's so painful - what do you suggest for me?

Boy is THIS me