Pastor Kingsley and Mildred, you're a blessing to this generation, God bless you.
@adekanmbiolanrewaju640317 сағат бұрын
1:16 They look like they're the ones that asked the question or could be in similar circumstances. 😅
@SamuelAssistantКүн бұрын
KZbin suggested this video... I saw a preaching of this man that said a woman's past doesn't matter.. Young kings. Marry at your prime.. a man's prime is 30. In your 20s build your life... stop listening to this people.. Build your life in your 20s.. women are not helpers... Women are good at two things. Kitchen and making babies... Our ancestors got it right... Before you respond to me. What was the divorce rate in the days of our father's and now... You got your answer..
@SamuelAssistantКүн бұрын
One of the best helper in the world. Lol.
@kessysammy4407Күн бұрын
It will happen at the right time Everyone's fate is different Theres no rule Just be a responsible person
@Chrisik-tn1ov2 күн бұрын
Men, preferably never marry your age mate. There's too many reasons why... However, no formula works across board. Selah
@MamaAggrey2 күн бұрын
I also married at 23 ,my hubby was 36 we are surely happy
@GbemisolaOluwasina2 күн бұрын
Pastor K 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@miriam92303 күн бұрын
Thank you for this omg❤
@EverydayFunnyAdventures3 күн бұрын
Pastor Mildred cracked me up at the end 😂😂😂😆😆
@IsaacWoniala-x5j4 күн бұрын
I'm 22 planning to marry 18 year somebody's daughter
@AdeolaNafisat-f1h4 күн бұрын
Thanks
@lydiacelen50985 күн бұрын
Is it okay for guy to marry a older lady then him ? Like 7 and more ?
@daughterofelohim75 күн бұрын
The man wouldn't feel abandoned if he was helping his wife take care of the new baby instead of living everything for her.
@terhemengabriel94915 күн бұрын
Good question with a great answer. Why will tongue talking church girls fall for obvious bad boys after this explanation ?
@onyekaokonji285 күн бұрын
“prayer & other things, but go ahead to buy my books” … incredible!!
@orocktakangagbor41777 күн бұрын
Thanks so much ❤ for this; there's so much wisdom in your response. In my own understanding, I would say marriage is like a tree and children are like the fruits. The tree nourishes the fruits, but the tree itself needs nourishment. If it is not nourished, both the fruit and the tree will suffer. So, as important as taking care of children is, it should never come between the marital bond but rather strengthen it. At one point, you'll have to be intentional about intimacy; one won't always feel it necessary at the moment, but in the long run, you'll see the effect. Also, as you said, ma, there should be no assumptions in marriage. Communicate; don't assume he or she will understand. Communicate, or one will be putting oneself or the relationship in trouble.
@JoshuaAdamu-yi2nd7 күн бұрын
I am 26 age old now I still no married
@chescao63077 күн бұрын
I agree with what was shared in this video but the comment on marry on time. Is God not the one who blesses people with marriage on his timing? This statement sounds like we humans have control of when we will marry.
@patiencembah72755 күн бұрын
I used to have an issue with this comment but it isn’t meant for all of us. It’s a statement for those whom God has revealed thier spouses to them but are still drawing their feet or men who claim they want to ‘figure things out’ before they marry
@amarachistephanie6798 күн бұрын
Thank you sir I really needed to hear this
@emmanuelchinonso94998 күн бұрын
I'm not even planning on marrying a woman within my age group. I prefer going for much younger ladies like 12 - 14 years apart. There are ladies 21 who are even more mature in reasoning. So it's about preference and what we want in life. So as long my decision does not go against the Word of God, I know that I'm in walking in His will for my life
@MiracleMicheal-y5z10 күн бұрын
Can a girl of 20yrs marry a man of 34?
@raquelassis464311 күн бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@raquelassis464311 күн бұрын
"God will give your own for you to build up the man" 👏🏽
@chikaharrietndukwe562011 күн бұрын
She needs to understand the difference between love and lust as well.
@woofbark447520 сағат бұрын
Yes I totally agree! I met a girl who was a non Christian. I thought for certain that she would give her life to Jesus. She came to church with me and even assisted in Sunday school. But when it came to following Jesus she didn't want anything to do with following him. We had everything in common was the best friend I had for a year. But it just wasn't from the Lord. If we had children, she wanted to talk to them about Buddhism and Other ideas, but not Jesus. But even if she did agree to talk about Jesus with our possible future children, she still didn't desire to follow Jesus. It was an obvious NO GO!
@femidaniel11 күн бұрын
A good woman is a helper very consistent with what God said, it is not good for man to be alone let us make him a helpmeet, i have always argued that good women are helpers not destroyers.
@itasteven70711 күн бұрын
What works for one marriage might not necessarily work for another, just marry according to God's will and be intentional about it
@meritosagie43948 күн бұрын
Mr man, marry when you've got your life together, Don't follow women about when you're still broke. It's not a good advise, even if you want to. . Make sure she's helping you get better. Otherwise if you're doing it for love , you're in trouble.
@dinkozdedabilo435111 күн бұрын
I love this, before marriage meet Christ first
@lebohangmaafrika12 күн бұрын
I am 25 years old and my wife is 23 years old, even though we are newlyweds I concur that marrying young and marrying your age mate is very convenient🤞🏾❤️
@bismarkkanyanya284412 күн бұрын
Helper how? Help u to do what exactly? Besides sex men need help with😂😂, what else... Cos most guys dnt listen to no woman besides their mums, and most women today arent as bright.... So what help exactky?? Saving money
@AMADIFAVOUR-zp9xu12 күн бұрын
Generally, i think the hallmark for this should be Maturity and intentionality toi, not just age. There's no doubt that this young generation has fed on a lot of toxic information about relationships and marriages, however, there are exceptions to this as well. I've seen an 18yrs Old Girl who was so matured at her age, got married to a Man of over 30 years and the marriage is thriving and beautiful, while there are still other older ladies that thinks like a child. So the point shouldn't necessarily be about the age alone but Maturity should be tagged along the age. There are very young ladies that are super matured and Can sustain a beautiful marriage. I just believe in being an Adult first and then passing the second test of Emotional, Mental, Spiritual and Financial Maturity. Be Intentional, teachable and committed, and then Learn from the right source, just as we have you both, and the process will be less toughened and beautiful.
@MsRaziaKimani13 күн бұрын
Another woman’s husband, can never be your husband!!! That said, the person who asked the question sounds like they need healing from some wounds that have altered the way they see God and receive love from Him. Getting whole would be important before getting presented to the man God has for you.
@O-ifee13 күн бұрын
😂👏
@kevinkkirimii13 күн бұрын
😂😂😂Eh that question was from the pit of the flesh of desperation & pervasion.
@deolaronipede13 күн бұрын
1:55 Wahala o😂😂😂
@xave202314 күн бұрын
Thank you Sir😢
@prudentbase804414 күн бұрын
📌
@UgoSamuel-f8q14 күн бұрын
True talk sir i really learnt from your program. You re a blessing to this generation ❤❤
@AlexzDGreat14 күн бұрын
thank you very much Pastor sir please how can we online get the book sir
@thepricelessgems14 күн бұрын
Thank you sir and ma
@charitychinelo978715 күн бұрын
What's the name of the series please I didn't get it
@tolu_annie15 күн бұрын
This is too accurate
@TMJMINISTRIES15 күн бұрын
Uumm this is an attack on my age eehh..😊
@Unforgettable00015 күн бұрын
What do you guys say about marrying someone who is older than you as a man
@Ad-Lo14 күн бұрын
Why don’t you ask God, not them? Rebekah was older than Isaac by about 15 years. Look up the biblical history.
@ikechukwuchristian277915 күн бұрын
Nice
@onyedikachiemmanuel226715 күн бұрын
What's the relevance of this signing of a book? Are men of God now signing autographs like celebrities? Hmmm nawa o
@austineromosele157416 күн бұрын
I totally agree with this context. I’m a living witness ❤. Dating and building relationships with my age peers has been truly fulfilling