Story 3. I Am Pregnant
5:36
2 жыл бұрын
Story 2. Making Changes & A Move
21:15
Story 1. Starting Over
15:49
2 жыл бұрын
Become Aware of What You're Thinking
7:06
Come on a Fall Walk with Me 🍂
6:50
Reparenting Your Inner Child 🧒
10:57
Calm Running Creek | ASMR
31:12
3 жыл бұрын
A Reframe on Comparison
7:53
3 жыл бұрын
Projector: Waiting for the Invitation
15:08
Mindfulness ~ Beyond the Mind
9:34
4 жыл бұрын
How to Set Goals | A Reframe 👁️
11:01
Savoring Summer Moments 🌞
10:17
4 жыл бұрын
ANNOUNCEMENT
2:43
4 жыл бұрын
Пікірлер
@AnuoluwapoAyooluwa-y5u
@AnuoluwapoAyooluwa-y5u Ай бұрын
I want to also humminate m self
@EmmanuelMwenda-d6c
@EmmanuelMwenda-d6c Ай бұрын
Can we talk I want illuminant my life
@EmmanuelMwenda-d6c
@EmmanuelMwenda-d6c Ай бұрын
I want to join illuminant
@feliciasokol
@feliciasokol Ай бұрын
awesome 🤍
@NerissaSoChan
@NerissaSoChan Ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@Chaitogether
@Chaitogether 2 ай бұрын
You go girl 🎉
@Chaitogether
@Chaitogether 2 ай бұрын
Aw wish you still made videos!:) lol
@sat.shikha
@sat.shikha 2 ай бұрын
I will be coming back to making videos again, stay tuned!
@Chaitogether
@Chaitogether 2 ай бұрын
This is where I am too :) identity shift! 🌎
@Chaitogether
@Chaitogether 2 ай бұрын
Yess 😊🧡💛🤍
@Chaitogether
@Chaitogether 2 ай бұрын
Will checkout the podcast! The website and IG aren’t working 😊💜
@Chaitogether
@Chaitogether 2 ай бұрын
Love the channel girl 😊❤
@Chaitogether
@Chaitogether 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video! ❤
@sundayworldpeace7449
@sundayworldpeace7449 3 ай бұрын
Great video & information. Quick question in regards to initiating visibility with sharing personal passions, love, process, projects, etc etc so we can become visible to others & get invitations. Would this apply with being around people/strangers/friends physically ?...............like if i'm at a park & i come across a stranger......do i initiate a conversation with them & wait for the right moments to talk about myself & life ? Ever since i learned that i'm a Projector & understood a bit about the strategy.......if i'm in public & come across strangers, i never initiate a conversation, sometimes i don't even look at them or say hi because i would think " my aura is too penetrating, i'm not invited to look their way "
@KatorolijohannesSisarukira
@KatorolijohannesSisarukira 4 ай бұрын
Can we talk I want to illuminati my life
@shaid2130
@shaid2130 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. It really helped me. What I would add is that when you tell yourself what you are proud of, also list what quality that action shows. For example, I am proud of my self for doing well in school today - this shows that I am intelligent I am proud of having a good conversation with someone - this shows that I am sociable etc.
@Mysterygirl02-z5p
@Mysterygirl02-z5p 5 ай бұрын
How to escape. Tell me some good plans to escape.
@dhaneswarsahoo3609
@dhaneswarsahoo3609 5 ай бұрын
❤😊
@MalidadiEmmanuel
@MalidadiEmmanuel 5 ай бұрын
Tell me in Uganda help me
@MalidadiEmmanuel
@MalidadiEmmanuel 5 ай бұрын
What many
@sadiatasnuva4227
@sadiatasnuva4227 6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@sadiatasnuva4227
@sadiatasnuva4227 6 ай бұрын
You have no idea how much I needed to hear it. Thanks Kajal ❤
@deepakdaryanani2229
@deepakdaryanani2229 6 ай бұрын
Hello Kajal 🙏🙏🙏, I love listening to your stories that you articulated so nicely ...... 😊😊😊 My sister chose a home birth too, but not in water. I was invited to and did watch my nephew's birth live at home. Once again, congratulations on the birth of your daughter and thank you so very much for sharing your personal stories including this special beautiful one with us. God bless your for doing this 🙏🕉💞
@sat.shikha
@sat.shikha 6 ай бұрын
Thank you! That is amazing, the process of birth is beautiful to watch :)
@deepakdaryanani2229
@deepakdaryanani2229 6 ай бұрын
@@sat.shikha Thank you for taking the time to respond - your husband and daughter are very lucky to have a blessed soul like you in their lives ........ 🙏🙏🙏 You are an angel of God in my eyes. 🕉🕉🕉 I need more angels in my life.
@1523cat
@1523cat 6 ай бұрын
This is absolutely beautiful. Congratulations!!! Would love to see more of the labor and delivery footage.
@sat.shikha
@sat.shikha 6 ай бұрын
Thank you! I actually don't have any footage of me in thick labor aside from what I included, I was in it! And that is the delivery footage that I feel comfortable sharing :)
@Gorav20-w2o
@Gorav20-w2o 6 ай бұрын
Love from India punjab ❤️
@tonjanse7093
@tonjanse7093 6 ай бұрын
So beautiful ♥️♥️♥️
@KontorBoaduSamuel
@KontorBoaduSamuel 6 ай бұрын
Thanks dear ❤
@48038
@48038 8 ай бұрын
मेरी बेटी मेरी पहचान मेरी बेटी मेरा सम्मान
@joeljoh6
@joeljoh6 9 ай бұрын
Thanks for the encouraging words. As South Indian, I am also going through something with my parents. They have this mindset that I should be living near them and they are disappointed that I made a decision to move an hour away from them. I am living more closer to my wife’s side of the family and they see it as that I am choosing to be with her side of the family rather than them. They said I have hurt them for moving away.
@sat.shikha
@sat.shikha 9 ай бұрын
This is hard to go through this! They are hurt because to them it feels like you didn't choose them. I do feel to some extent, independence in Indian culture is discouraged because it opens of the possibility of you making your own choices, which again is discouraged. We all have to self individuate, that is the trajectory of the human experience. Can you allow them to feel what they feel without assuming responsibility for THEIR feelings. Can you accept that this is how they feel and can you be at peace with your decision? These some things I would explore.
@agabrook
@agabrook 9 ай бұрын
You've spoken to me. I really was born in a family that doesn't appreciate my talents but wants me to be someone else. Thanks
@yoliswaDiamond
@yoliswaDiamond 10 ай бұрын
Can we talk more
@blankearth5840
@blankearth5840 11 ай бұрын
This goes for people who are dealing with psychological trauma. If you seek external validation you’ll run the risk of getting invalidated and then salt enters the wounds.
@myinnerbeingknows
@myinnerbeingknows 11 ай бұрын
Wow I've never heard it in this way, i finally understand what it means to mirror 🪞 something back. Thank you so much❤
@myinnerbeingknows
@myinnerbeingknows 11 ай бұрын
I truly enjoyed you. Thank you❤
@myinnerbeingknows
@myinnerbeingknows 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this
@kannan1610
@kannan1610 Жыл бұрын
So much wisdom from such a young person 🙏🏽❤️
@relaxolotl834
@relaxolotl834 Жыл бұрын
I have a really big problem. Let me explain. I have some kind of rejection sensitive disphoria which means every time someone actually or seemingly rejects me i feel devastated. It takes me hours or even days to recover from that painful feeling. For the last 4 years it has been very rare that anyone liked me (it wasn’t always this way) and i still don‘t know why because im giving my absolute best, learn certain behaviors that make people like me more, try to work on my fear and behavior but nothing works. In my school everyone ignores me except for one person. But seemingly one friend is not enough for me because when she is not there or hangs around with her other friends who don‘t like me either i feel alone again (Btw i am unable of fully trusting my only friend and some people in my family. Im always scared they would someday leave me too). Its not only the loneliness that hurts so much, its also the feeling of having failed again at something that should be easy mixed with the feeling of being unnecessary in this world. Its like i shouldn’t even exist. I know what you are probably thinking right know. Why is she doing that? She should focus on getting more confident and stop searching for approval. The thing is i tried this already and a year ago i actually made a lot of progress when it comes to accepting myself. I learned a lot about who i am and now i can say i like myself the way i am with all my strengths and weaknesses. I tried to convince myself that i don’t need them, that they are not worth my time if they don‘t see the value in me. It didn’t help. It just caused me to feel waves of hate for other people. The hate that i felt for myself before is now directed to others which doesn’t make the situation any better since i somehow still want their approval. It is a real complicated situation and there are so many things i just don’t understand. Like what is it about me that they don‘t like? Why do i need something i hate? Why are the few people in my life who accept me not enough for me? Where do the trust issues come from? Do i even really like myself or am i just lying to myself about liking myself or why doesn’t it work the way it should? And why do i want other peoples approval if i have my own approval and the approval of my only friend and my family? I saw you read all the comments so i hope you can help me answer these questions. Ty for reading
@charitybridgeman2022
@charitybridgeman2022 Жыл бұрын
You are so on point!
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Жыл бұрын
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Жыл бұрын
wow your sessions!
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Жыл бұрын
you explained this waiting to be invited part really well. thank you.
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Жыл бұрын
I got invited to collaborations because people resonated and recognized me for my gifts
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Жыл бұрын
ooooh i am a projector too
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS
@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Жыл бұрын
yeaaaa finallly a resource
@sophiaalila
@sophiaalila Жыл бұрын
Thank you❤
@sophiaalila
@sophiaalila Жыл бұрын
I’ve encountered a lot of resistance in my family and other social settings when I share my opinions and passions. I have the Alpha channel.
@sat.shikha
@sat.shikha Жыл бұрын
Wait to be invited to share. I know you want to share because you have so much wisdom to offer and you see things other don't. But when it is not received you feel bitter. The feeling of bitterness is your sign that you share without being invited. And also not everyone deserves your guidance/wisdom - the ones who want will ask for it.
@sophiaalila
@sophiaalila Жыл бұрын
Thank you🌹 You explained and clarified it really well. One question: I like to travel. My inner guidance is showing me places to travel. I’ve just travelled by myself and enjoyed it. If I feel like inviting a friend on my next travel, will that flow or will I need to be invited on a trip instead for the energy to flow?
@sat.shikha
@sat.shikha Жыл бұрын
The hit from your inner guidance is the invitation :)
@sophiaalila
@sophiaalila Жыл бұрын
@@sat.shikha Thank you🌹
@acousticambiance
@acousticambiance Жыл бұрын
How can I control my impulsive reactions which are probably ingrained from childhood trauma? It's like I just burst unwillingly and then regret it after. It has caused many problems in my relationships.
@sat.shikha
@sat.shikha Жыл бұрын
I used to do this all the time, so know that you are not alone! This would be a great video for me to make as its something a lot of us do. To answer you question though: what you are describing is a trigger. Something is setting you off - and this is what you want to explore and get familiar with. I would sit with a journal and do some contemplation. What triggers this reaction in me, what is said, how is it said, what wound is touching/activating? See where this pattern is coming from, give yourself LOTS of grace. Is a need to defend myself, does it feel like I am being attacked, what is happening inside my body? Self-awareness is key to changing our RESPONSE .
@acousticambiance
@acousticambiance Жыл бұрын
@@sat.shikha Yes you are right, but it's easier said than done. It happens whenever someone attacks me with aggressiveness or disrespect, usually coming from my mom or my wife. I know where it comes from, I just wish I was able to successfully dismiss it before it overtakes me.
@brittanybrown840
@brittanybrown840 Жыл бұрын
The part that stood out to me is the example about being honest. Just because those around you don’t value honesty does not mean it does not have value. Start seeking people and places that value what you have to offer and what is important to you. Instead of trying to change yourself to fit in to other people’s ideals.
@sat.shikha
@sat.shikha Жыл бұрын
So well said!
@ii-vd8wv
@ii-vd8wv Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, you're explanation is awesome and natural and right to the point.
@simolator
@simolator Жыл бұрын
I'd argue that the reason for high expectations abroad partly have to do with class and immigration policy. Class leads to prejudice and standards. One of the most common ways to immigrate to the States is the H1B visa, which is restricted to specialty occupations. Thus, parents expect a kid to bust their ass the way they did because that's what made them get ahead.
@sat.shikha
@sat.shikha Жыл бұрын
true, every circumstance is different, but the effects can be similar.