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@davidstair9657 21 сағат бұрын
I harped on my wife to get in ADHD meds… I realized that I myself have ADHD and have used alcohol to soothe myself from childhood trauma… my whole life!!
@gamingisbloody Күн бұрын
Perfect! Video I have adhd and love Chris Voss too!
@jennyrokeach523 Күн бұрын
So eye-opening!!! Thank you
@annalizathomson3226 2 күн бұрын
Love the IFS, part, love Brit... Her intelligence and willingness to share her unhealed self
@aryankhodadadi2403 3 күн бұрын
Great stuff keep it up 👍
@martinb3483 4 күн бұрын
"it's not an explanation, it's a description" of an ongoing process🙂 "A nominalisation is a process" was one of the first things that I learned when I once got in touch with NLP 25 years ago. So many people, and even doctors, use their diagnosis as an explanation or as an excuse for staying stuck instead of changing the process. I had to teach my doctor, when I freed myself from the symptoms of an "incurable, chronic autoimmune disease" by ignoring the prescribed medicine after it didn't work for some years, and instead by compassionately "talking" with my body. I came up with this solution after I read some buddhist book about mindful communication and using what I learned before about meditation and hypnosis. I did read "The myth of normal", and learned a lot from Mr. Gabor. And after this interview I think next I'd read the "Scattered minds" and "When the body sais no". Still so many interesting things to learn... 🙂Thanks for the inspiration!
@S.Stamos 4 күн бұрын
😍💎Thank you!!!!!
@user-tb8fh3wl6i 5 күн бұрын
For those that work long hours at home etc. I would recommend using a Rebounder on breaks. It’s a mini trampoline that has all kinds of benefits and helps with blood circulation. Some offer hand rails, and it’s for all skill levels.
@user-tb8fh3wl6i 5 күн бұрын
7%= Communication in Words 38%= Tone of Voice 55%= Body Language =100%
@suegodfrey9676 6 күн бұрын
I wish they knew about this stuff when i was a kid .
@rein450 6 күн бұрын
I am so intrigued...and it's eye opening the perspectives that Dr Mete brought up. Just wow
@cmauro7912 6 күн бұрын
kzbin.infowwYHlMkkI-E?si=KWtomuZfwAgmxolk
@user-hz1hb9mx5y 7 күн бұрын
😂 every 2 months
@burgerbait 7 күн бұрын
I have never held down a job for longer than a year because I struggle so much to get in on time.
@ILoveMaths07 7 күн бұрын
I want to start living life. Can't wait to become independent and FREE! I'm already 33!
@ralitsailieva2205 7 күн бұрын
Amazing!!! Thank you! So positive and needed thank you 🙏 Sometimes we feel lonely in our path but this is very encouraging!!!
@ILoveMaths07 7 күн бұрын
Never mind job hopping... what about being unemployed all your life? I'm 33 and still unemployed. It's very FRUSTRATING. I can't work because I'm VERY LAZY and TIME-BLIND!
@CoachingWithBrooke 7 күн бұрын
It is a very real struggle!
@user-hz1hb9mx5y 7 күн бұрын
You’re not suited for the 9-5 jobs but you need a work from home type job where there’s no time pressure. Maybe like an artist or graphic artist or architect. I don’t know what your talent is but you just want to think outside the box
@MindsetMary 9 күн бұрын
Dr. Jeff is one of my all time favorite humans, thank you for inviting him to speak on your podcast, I loved your questions! ❤
@DosBear 11 күн бұрын
This is exactly the reason I finally chose to go NO CONTACT with my family, after 60 years, as I will no longer allow this threat of abandonment to be used against me. It's neglect and abuse. Listening to this man is very helpful with coming to some understanding as to why they behaved in this fashion. It may not make it easier but it certainly helps to know that the issue was not mine to begin with & is not my fault.
@ooulalah4333 8 күн бұрын
It's GAH-bor not Guh-BOR.
@DosBear 8 күн бұрын
@@ooulalah4333 It's Gabor. What's your point?
@transformwithmenow4186 6 күн бұрын
@@ooulalah4333🤷🏻♀️
@drendelous Күн бұрын
@@DosBear he has a tricky to pronounce name for some people. they might have wanted to add a comment, not a response to yours
@DosBear Күн бұрын
@@drendelous they were being rude & saying he is boring.
@TheSoulBlossom 11 күн бұрын
Everybody on this planet has ADHD. Turns out you guys are not that special 😂
@maryebert4980 11 күн бұрын
We have ADHD in our family. I am a sensitive child. Raised in the 1960s. I was hyper active and bored in school. My parents put me in swim team in middle school. The massive exercise made me sleep at night, straight A student. Captain of the swim team. I have asked to be tested for ADHD at age 66 and I do not have it. What is going on?
@ooulalah4333 8 күн бұрын
How were you tested? If it was brain activity as Dr. Amen uses, you "cured" yourself. Otherwise you may have been mistakenly diagnosed originally.
@jencooper2200 11 күн бұрын
He makes more sense to me than most regarding this subject and addiction... brilliant man
@drendelous Күн бұрын
consider pls watching more of his interviews.. he is the only medication we need
@HauptmannDE 11 күн бұрын
Love this
@georginagalanis210 11 күн бұрын
This is how the standard is challenged and new perspectives and solutions are created . This is how love and wisdom clearly breaks through cyclical and old ways thinking -diagnosis dissected dismantled. Thank you Dr Mate. ❤
@jclyntoledo 12 күн бұрын
Literally happened with me in school all the time. That's also why I refuse to do anymore traditional schooling.
@tonydabaloney 12 күн бұрын
I can understand your feelings. I can't help but think of all the people in the past, say 100-forever years ago that suffered from ADHD or OCD who couldn't get anyone to begin to grasp their mind set.
@DD-jm5ug 13 күн бұрын
Also lessons at school are not interesting. If we incorporate individual interests they may be more motivated.
@DD-jm5ug 13 күн бұрын
You'd be surprised how many school staff don't believe ADHD exists and that the kids are just "little shi1s" even after months of training. Ignorance.
@kaylaste1635 13 күн бұрын
Haha i have lots of stuff in my cabinets from a few years ago. Every now and then, I discover them and throw them away 😃🙈
@jayrussell26 13 күн бұрын
Nice message - very wise
@barryhopkins292 14 күн бұрын
Fan of gabor mate, you should interview Russel Barkley :-)
@deebanda 14 күн бұрын
I feel like she's describing me here. 😂 Thank you for pointing out ☺️
@ashleacutitta6372 14 күн бұрын
I’m so glad that I continued to listen to/watch this video, despite being in complete disagreement initially lol 😂 I actually learned a lot about a topic that I genuinely DO know a lot about. I love when someone can make me completely question what I thought I knew
@GreenSharpieScience 8 күн бұрын
This guy isn’t backed by the medical and scientific communities for his beliefs on adhd. They aren’t backed by actual research. He’s just a good speaker and bull shitter.
@oanavonu-boriceanu5046 8 күн бұрын
@@GreenSharpieSciencehe literally quoted the Harvard center of the developing child!
@GreenSharpieScience 7 күн бұрын
@@oanavonu-boriceanu5046 harvard didn’t quote him though. Parts of what he says are fine but not everything. He denies solid research on the genetics of adhd. He essentially has confused that people with adhd encounter more trauma and so have trauma responses as well with having adhd in the first place. It’s a problem.
@oanavonu-boriceanu5046 7 күн бұрын
@@GreenSharpieScience Yes, there’s mixed research out there as in any field. I think it’s a good indication that what he speaks about is in line with more recent research. We are still catching up - most adhd research was completed in the 80’s and 90’s and now we are focusing on trauma more. The adhd brain and trauma brain look the same on scans. The heavy emphasis on the medical model in previous decades has prevented some of the understanding on how trauma manifests as psychological diagnoses. Personally in my practice, I have yet to see a client with adhd who didn’t have childhood trauma. I am open to both views but so far the evidence I’ve seen is skewing in dr. Gabor’s direction.
@GreenSharpieScience 7 күн бұрын
@@oanavonu-boriceanu5046 you should probably do another lit review. Most research on ADHD is being done now. It’s also considered the third most genetic psychiatric condition. Trauma is absolutely an issue with adhd and that deserves significant attention, but anyone who goes around saying that decades of solid research is just wrong because he just doesn’t feel it’s right, that kind of person should never be trusted or looked at for any kind of medical advice. It’s one thing if he were actually doing research to back any of his personal beliefs but he doesn’t, nor is any lab I’m aware of. And that alone should be a huge red flag, because if you know any researchers, testing new hypotheses that has the possibility contradict and/or expand our understanding on a condition is the best way to progress understanding. But no one in adhd research is bothering with his views, because there’s nothing there.
@capgains 14 күн бұрын
Dialogue/Debate, Russel Barkley & Gabor Mate
@djtuskan 7 күн бұрын
scientific research vs feelings - RB has addressed GB as more than wrong
@KairosDBT 3 күн бұрын
I would love this dialogue/debate. I know Russell has taken exception to Gabor's personal hypothesis on the nature of ADHD. kzbin.info/www/bejne/mICUan-Nf5WNpK8
@capgains 14 күн бұрын
Emotional lives of children As a parent, I see the importance of
@ILoveMaths07 14 күн бұрын
👍 The truth was spoken.
@charlesco7413 15 күн бұрын
Building with legos or generic building materials. I loved creating wooden houses out of random sized wooden blocks the key to creativity is variety.
@RomieMedrano 15 күн бұрын
😢
@drinkapavlovic 17 күн бұрын
Thank you Brooke, you did it great!