How I stopped Overcommitting
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How to Start Journaling in 2024
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I am a T1D Mom
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@HelenJoseph-kp1qh
@HelenJoseph-kp1qh 12 күн бұрын
I said no already ànd i felt Good 😊
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 11 күн бұрын
good job taking your power back!
@familychannel3824
@familychannel3824 16 күн бұрын
Something I found kinda goofy but also so healing for me was selecting a journal that I would have loved as a kid. I went looking for a journal that would be sensible for me but I spotted a hello kitty journal and my “inner child” was begging for it. At first I felt foolish buying it as an older woman. I can’t explain why I find using my hello kitty journal as so healing but it makes me smile when I see it because I wanted one so bad as a child and as always told hello kitty isn’t sensible so my notebook were aways plain and sensible but now as a mature woman I’m using a journal I would have loved as a kid.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 16 күн бұрын
That is so beautiful! I love that you threw sensibility out the window and picked a journal that you needed. Good for you ❤️. Your inner child was probably so grateful.
@criscrisler8604
@criscrisler8604 21 күн бұрын
I admire the even timbre of your voice and your seemingly effortless, (or practiced), presentation. Thank you.
@Purplegirl-o4e
@Purplegirl-o4e Ай бұрын
That video was SO helpful
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway Ай бұрын
I'm so glad!
@vincentmitsy
@vincentmitsy Ай бұрын
This what we are missing in our society today! I love your channel as it speaks to the season I’m in. I think most moms are losing the relationship with their children because they don’t know how to nurture them. We tend to focus on what they are doing wrong instead of understanding how to nurture them to restoration.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway Ай бұрын
We really have to be intentional about fostering healthy relationships with our children. So happy you found this video helpful ❤️
@darlenemalone1871
@darlenemalone1871 Ай бұрын
Wow draining or energetic
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway Ай бұрын
great thing to pay attention to.
@fun_filled
@fun_filled Ай бұрын
I like your thumbnail patience and voice
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@couokiemonster123
@couokiemonster123 Ай бұрын
It is better to journal at night before bed or in the morning?
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway Ай бұрын
Not sure if one is better than the other, I think it’s a preference thing. I prefer to do it in the morning.
@zarastevens2020
@zarastevens2020 Ай бұрын
Yass mama :)
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway Ай бұрын
🥰🥰🥰🥰
@jolynngood2746
@jolynngood2746 Ай бұрын
I had a therapist get upset with me because I would not let him read any of my journals. I explained to him that the reason I wouldn’t is because then it would not be mine anymore. I would have to destroy it the way I did most of my journals when I found out one of my sisters-in-law read them.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway Ай бұрын
That's interesting that a therapist asked you to read your journals. That would upset me too. Your sisters-in-law were so wrong for reading your journals. Such a violation of your privacy.
@ravesi88
@ravesi88 Ай бұрын
Wow Zena!! Congratulations on the first of many events!! 🎉
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway Ай бұрын
Thank you so much Raquel ❤
@PriscillaYiadom4
@PriscillaYiadom4 2 ай бұрын
I write a bible journal
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 2 ай бұрын
Awesome! I love that.
@ixchellehicks6660
@ixchellehicks6660 2 ай бұрын
I like the tools you provided, guided journal, conversation starters. We do new activities together such as Archery and mommy and daughter dates!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 2 ай бұрын
Mommy daughter dates are so much fun ❤️
@manouchekaginys4232
@manouchekaginys4232 2 ай бұрын
I don't t speak English very much but I like read my journal.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 2 ай бұрын
Reading your journals are so helpful
@Debbie-cu1pj
@Debbie-cu1pj 3 ай бұрын
This is my favorite episode thus far. Zena, I absolutely love what you’re doing. As mothers, whether married or single, we all at some point need encouragement and support on our motherhood journey. ❤
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 3 ай бұрын
I loved talking to Ixchelle! I’m glad you liked it too. Yes we do need some encouragement and I hope to do my part to uplift moms.
@stacybrewley9453
@stacybrewley9453 3 ай бұрын
Love love the morning car rides questions… will definitely incorporate that!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 3 ай бұрын
Yes. I always looked forward to hearing their answers 🥰
@ladericaallen5438
@ladericaallen5438 3 ай бұрын
I love all of this! I will be sure to adopt the conversational prompts with my toddlers. As we all grow, I will definitely adopt the journaling prompts as well. I am big on journaling and am so thankful I found your channel. Keep paving the way and sharing with us as you grow.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 3 ай бұрын
So happy it’s helpful! If you find any other tips or tools especially for younger kids, please share 🥰. Thank you for your support ❤️
@Atricks_29
@Atricks_29 3 ай бұрын
Go jada😁stay strong
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 3 ай бұрын
Yesss!!!!💪🏾
@VLoveTarot
@VLoveTarot 3 ай бұрын
Thanks!!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 3 ай бұрын
No problem!
@ixchellehicks6660
@ixchellehicks6660 3 ай бұрын
Asking for help when you don’t need is a great recommendation!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 3 ай бұрын
I have to remind myself to do this. It’s so easy to just get things done but the best time to ask for help is when you don’t need it :)
@Bizeymama88
@Bizeymama88 3 ай бұрын
Beautifully done kzbin.infosgNYCQYO27A?si=jwFxznrsa2l1YmYW
@podcasting_101
@podcasting_101 3 ай бұрын
Funny I was listening to this conversation while working out!!! Great advice with starting small. That’s how I started working out this year, I started with simply walking outside in the morning and now I’m doing strength training.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 3 ай бұрын
Such good advice! And good for you girl. So proud of you ❤️
@shecell321
@shecell321 3 ай бұрын
I’m afraid of the interview and criticism cause I’ve gotten it before like suddenly I’m judge for mentioning I had kids in the first place
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 3 ай бұрын
that is a fear for so many moms who are coming back to the workforce and it's so sad that companies still penalize moms for making the best decision for their family. I recorded this video with some interview tips, hope it can help you on your journey; kzbin.info/www/bejne/fZrTqphvgaqUapI
@ThisMoiseLife
@ThisMoiseLife 4 ай бұрын
Definitely struggle with overcompensating
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
I know many moms can resonate with that.
@ThisMoiseLife
@ThisMoiseLife 4 ай бұрын
Time management is key, and figuring out our Core values 👏🏾
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Agreed! The core values for the family is a big one and a complete game-changer.
@ThisMoiseLife
@ThisMoiseLife 4 ай бұрын
Setting boundaries with our kids…. That’s the hardest one I think 😭
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
That is pretty hard. I loved that Liz touched on that because it's so important. I saw your video the other day with you enforcing a boundary with your kids while you and your hubby were spending time together. You're doing a good job!
@4AmazingMusic
@4AmazingMusic 4 ай бұрын
Can you. PLEASE stop dividing moms into "working" and not? I've never worked so much since I became a stay at home mom and I was a busy physician! I've seen it and I wanna go back for some break from SO MUCH WORK AT HOME!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Not trying to divide moms and it's unfortunate that you took it that way. Being a SAHM is a lot of work and I would never try to minimize that. I hope you were able to find some value in what I shared and did not get stuck on the working mom title ❤
@ixchellehicks6660
@ixchellehicks6660 4 ай бұрын
I love lean into yourself and your own intuition.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Yes!! That instinct kicks in and moms have to learn to recognize it and trust it.
@ixchellehicks6660
@ixchellehicks6660 4 ай бұрын
I appreciate hearing about standing firm in Faith!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Same here. Such a good reminder.
@stacybrewley9453
@stacybrewley9453 4 ай бұрын
This was a good watch!! 👏🏽
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it. I loved talking to Teesh ❤️
@ekormesser
@ekormesser 4 ай бұрын
Such a great interview! You inspired me to get on the peloton and spin while watching. Such great advice and a true inspiration to start small and see changes
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Awesome Liz. Vanessa has some great tips to integrate fitness in your life.
@ekormesser
@ekormesser 4 ай бұрын
This was fabulous! I loved hearing both your stories.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching Liz ❤️
@keshandabridges9969
@keshandabridges9969 4 ай бұрын
Great job Teesh! I enjoyed this conversation!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
I absolutely loved chatting with Teesh 🙌🏾
@karenmarinez
@karenmarinez 4 ай бұрын
Me toooo!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Best company if you ask me.
@sillygoofygoobergoose8692
@sillygoofygoobergoose8692 4 ай бұрын
Shit I do that all the time. Put on some music or a video while you’re at it
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Yassss
@TheNomadMama
@TheNomadMama 4 ай бұрын
“Stop feeling guilty for taking care of yourself” 😭 That is it!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
That one hit me hard too 🙌🏾
@ThisMoiseLife
@ThisMoiseLife 4 ай бұрын
How does this serve me! I will be asking myself that when I eat moving forward. Thanks for sharing!!!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
That was one of my favorite takeaways from my conversation with Vanessa. How is this serving me? So good!
@ixchellehicks6660
@ixchellehicks6660 4 ай бұрын
I love the points Vanessa made about self/personal development, discipline and being intentional!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Me too! So many good takeaways from this conversation with Vanessa.
@mommybreakdown
@mommybreakdown 4 ай бұрын
Vanessa has been a HUGE inspiration to me as a mom trying to shift to making my health a priority. Thanks for this lovely interview! I learned so many little bits to take with me.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Vanessa is such a gem and a truly amazing person. So happy that I got to sit down with her to have this important conversation.
@ThisMoiseLife
@ThisMoiseLife 4 ай бұрын
I used to journal religiously as a teen, it helped me so much. I’d love to get back to doing it frequently.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
That’s cool! I hope you can get back to it. It has been such a transformative experience for me.
@JessicaSmith-ie7cm
@JessicaSmith-ie7cm Ай бұрын
ME TOO. I literally told someone that today. I think it will help me.
@kaydenesmall3902
@kaydenesmall3902 4 ай бұрын
This was great to watch, thank you
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 4 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!❤
@ToyaRoa1
@ToyaRoa1 5 ай бұрын
Been a SAHM for 18 years now. Thinking of going back to work.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 5 ай бұрын
Oh wow! That’s amazing that you were able to be at home for 18 years! I hope the tips I shared helped you on your journey. Please let me know if there’s anything I can do to help.
@JenniferGeorghiou
@JenniferGeorghiou 5 ай бұрын
Such a good video and so much value! Every word is so true! 🧡
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 5 ай бұрын
So happy it resonated with you ❤️
@AmaraUche
@AmaraUche 5 ай бұрын
Love that self care doesn’t have to be complicated.. sometimes the simplest things can help us refuel so that we have more to give to our family and the people around us ❤️
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 5 ай бұрын
Agreed! It’s the simple things that keep our cups filled.
@lauraarroyo4222
@lauraarroyo4222 5 ай бұрын
Loved this!! So useful! Thanks heaps!! We live in Australia but moving to Spain (we are from Venezuela) mainly because we lack of support network here and I want to focus on building one once we are in Spain (we have family and friends there plus language helps to connect better to people). I’ll definitely apply your advice!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 5 ай бұрын
You're welcome! So happy that this was helpful for you. Having support for your family can make a world of difference. Good luck on your move ❤
@msdarkangel7333
@msdarkangel7333 5 ай бұрын
Yep i was a super women but now im a super me first ❤
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 5 ай бұрын
I love that. Super ME first ❤️
@msdarkangel7333
@msdarkangel7333 5 ай бұрын
A nice bubble bath after a long day at work with all my smells good things for the body
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 5 ай бұрын
That’s a great self care tip
@internationalinez
@internationalinez 5 ай бұрын
Great video! The invisible load is definitely a beast. Writing a list of everything you are doing is really an eye opener. When I first did this in 2019 I also had my husband write down what was on his plate. Both he and I were blown away by how much was on my plate in comparison to his plate. I think seeing both really helped him be a lot more receptive to more delegation.
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I love your tip about having your husband write a list too, such a great exercise to highlight the difference in responsibility.
@AmaraUche
@AmaraUche 6 ай бұрын
Such an important topic.. I really agree that communication is key!
@PutYourCapeAway
@PutYourCapeAway 5 ай бұрын
Yes it is. I learned that the hard way…..