USELESS ADVICE! This "clinical analysis" is as "out-of-date" as the presenters. They spill useless and even dangerous platitudes of the "classic" excuses and blame, usually shaming the man and never looking at the wife's behaviors. Remember, the CLASSIC BS excuse is that ANY problem is ALWAYS the man's fault.

Oh yeah. She was hurt that he didn't trust her and "come out" earlier to her. RIGHT! To be mocked, scorned, offended, vilified and threatened with divorce. YEAH! THAT"S a great incentive to tell your wife your needs and desires! Especially when you realize that it's YOU who has driven him to seek sexual outlet alternatives since you've been starving him of these. That means it's YOU who has to fix this, not him. It might just be as simple as , he needs to feel "desired" and crossdressing gets him there because YOU DON'T. Feed him his "favorite foods" and he won't need to seek it elsewhere. If YOU behaved more like a sexy woman then it's likely that he would behave more like a masculine man. Wives who "tolerate" this behavior are just being lazy and copping out of their responsibility to satisfy their husband's sexual needs.

Did it EVER occur to you women that MAYBE his crossdressing has, over the years, become his refuge and outlet for his sexual desires and release because YOU have denied him intimacy for a long long time? Not so different from porn as an erotic alternative, which serves a similar purpose. And she's probably either in denial or unaware of his way of satisfying his sexual needs and is probably relieved that he doesn't "bother" her anymore about having sex which is either totally unimportant or even disgusting to her. It might just be YOU who has turned your husband into an "InCel" and this is his ONLY sexual outlet without resorting to an affair, prostitutes or even divorce. If you don't "cook what he enjoys" at home, don't be surprised that he secretly eats something on the sly that you don't like. Don't blame him. Look at YOURSELF and what you yourself have made of your relationship (or what's left of it). If there is "shame" to be assigned it should be to the wife who has not properly taken care of her husband's needs and therefore driven him to seek alternate sexual outlets. Sad, but all too frequent if you REALLY drill down to the root causes of marital issues.

The hurt wives should be hurt but now that it is out in the open there is an opportunity for the HUSBAND to be the leader and control him/herself. Crossdressers are complex. Trans-people are more complex. There is a huge difference.

I think most cross dressers just want a little time every now and again, when they can dress. As a wife, this might be all you have to tolerate. Would that really be that difficult for you to allow? If he wants to do more then this, like have sex with you whilst dressed or engage in sexual acts with others, then that's understandable if you do not want that to happean. I don't think cross dressers want to lie to their wives about what they do. But they do fear bad reactions when they break the news. Dressing is like a drug. And even though you know it might ruin your life, its hard to stop.

you have no idea, no empathy for the wife who has been profoundly wronged. Cross dressing is something your fiance should know BEFORE marraige. I found out after working to put him through engineering school and building a life with him and having two kids. I was, and still am, crushed, betrayed, uncared for, disrespected, .... after being married now for 40 years,,, it is more horrible now than it was the day I found out. If your behavior hurts your spouse that much, why would you continue to do it?

I like to wear heels and pantyhoes 😊

it took me 27 years of marriage to tell my wife about my feminine side, while we are still married 13 years later it is really in name only.

I'm a Straight Male who is a Transvestic Women's Shoe Fetishist and I'm not out of the "Closet" at 65 years old. I have to get High or Drunk, have a befogged mind, etc.,to be out in public in certain areas that are non-judgemental and I don't know anyone.

I have a Female Friend who said - " If you are Ashamed of something, then you shouldn't do it".

Thank you.... your lovely assistance and suggeriment❤

It is the LIE that he made of her life. No one has the right to deceive another person in their intimate relationship. She has every right to feel all these emotions. She is allowed to set her own boundaries.

I can tell you from personal experience this is not a choice. Transgender picks you, you don't pick being transgender. It is not like cheating on your partner where you can make a rational choice and walk away from it. Also, it will never just go away, most crossdressers will eventually want to become female. My female partner was totally not supportive when I told her. She was demeaning and hurtful and almost drove me to suicide. I feel the real problem here is with the wife. Cis women should try to understand that if they really love the other person they shouldn't condemn or humiliate them. If the wife can't try to understand and accept then move on and end the relationship. It is not going to go away believe me. Transgender people like myself have a choice, live alone in stealth or find other like minded people to spend your life with.

Great video it such hard situation i was found out a few years ago we are still married my wife doesn't like it but she knows it is a part of me since age 4 and she allows it a couple times a month when she is out of town or working on a Saturday stopping only makes miserable and she loves me and wants happy but doesn't want to see me dressed up or participate in any way

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As a wife, you articulated a lot of what I am feeling right now so well. Something not touched on though was that you feel so alone and that you can't talk to anyone because how bloody embarrassing and it's not really my secret to share is it? My husband has been wearing women's thongs and shaving his body hair (which is a huge turn off) for a few years now. He started wearing the odd women's track pants and sweaters along the way, then girly socks. A couple of days ago I found that he is trying to grow breasts with herbal supplements. That was a huge slap in the face for me, like wow, he's just going to keep getting worse and there is no way I'm ever going to be able to be attracted to him again. The struggle is where to go from here, it's a scary place.

I think if a wreath as a winter decoration because you can have one out for different seasons. Right now I have a fall wreath on my door. And I do not see it has any connection to a Christian holiday. So I don’t see the winter wreath as being Christian item. I think the origins of the Christmas tree is more pagan. But I do see your point as more of it related to the holiday of Christmas.

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