So I get that all the bad behavior is normal for what the person went through. When does the person take responsibility for his actions. Is hitler held accountable , Stalin Haman, the murderous terrorist in Palestine ?? Understanding the effects of CPTSD is very valuable . But how does this help when ppl are victims of the bad behaviors of ppl with cptsd?

The love avoidant’s greatest fear is engulfment not intimacy

This is wonderful,thank you.

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...we know about what has happened tp us. It is a shame you talk so long about what the problem is instead of talking about how we recover our authenticity. 98% where we got it wrong doesn't advance ones need. We are needing help, not reinforcement pleasse.

This is the best presentation on CPTSD I have seen to date. Wow, so much resonated with me.

Hello Diane. So Wonderful to watch this, and listen to all of that sage advice. I felt like I was sitting down with another Woman having a Cuppa, and just listening and taking it all in. I am looking to deepen my Recovery.. as it has been a huge adventure of un-wiring, un-folding so much of *life in all of its aspects. All the Best, Nicole.

Sound quality would hugely improve this vlog and surely would reach more people. Right now it’s at times difficult to understand and it’s a shame because the materials are the top notch.

Thank you very much for posting this. It’s very helpful.

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Structural Violence. Circular causality.

The wisdom of sociology. Sam Richards. Tedx Talks.

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Can a person heal in the relationship or must he get divorced and heal then enter into a healthy relationship

I believe that I too have CPTSD but I have not been diagnosed. I have talked with my Primary care physician but they have not diagnosed me.

Find your content really interesting, thanks for providing you insights. 😊

This talk is giving me the feeling of being overwhelmed. But I’m going to take some deep breaths and try to relax down a bit

I pray for god to take me home 😢. I’ve made too many mistakes and hurt too many people. I don’t want to live anymore 😢😢😢

Some words from a Madonna song: “Outside I was a bird who couldn’t mend a broken wing. Inside I tried to teach my heart to sing.” Does this feel familiar? I have tried sessions and they have at least helped.

I hear you in your place right now . What a life so expanded in many ways . I wish you deep healing

Hi Dianne, in the 70’s I lost a brother-in-law, my oldest brother, my sister (they were all 32) and from cancer and suicide. I also had 4 miscarriages. I was divorced in 1984, and in a pretty raw state having taken on my sister’s 4 children. I was widowed in 2012 after 20 years, and met my 3rd husband a year later. This beautiful relationship my last husband and I had, was totally life changing and we were soulmates and he passed very suddenly 1 year ago. Unfortunately I also lost my older son @43 in 2020. I have had counselling which helped a lot. But having now lost my best friend, I find it difficult to get motivated.

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That makes so much sense thank you ❤

The reason the doctors have any data _ is how the doctors in the 60s convinced my parents that i was retarded and they should abuse me_ so they did abuse me to make me smarter. And now today _ u doctors can put me in a scanner _ pump me full of drugs and soon put me in a petri dish and cut me into many slices _ so u can be rich and famous. The doctors in rural ontario 60s were abusing the women and their children _ born with no arms _ we just research animals

Shame reduction for having a brain

Omg generations dependent in SSRIs. Do u realuze that every mass shooter was on SSRIs and when they tried to go off _ they went off at the kindergarden or movie theater.

I had to survive by acting stupid so my parents didnt get jealous of my intelligence and hurt me. Your models are a bit off _ maybe allow for offset

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Brilliant pod cast. Great to hear about men's mental health. South Pacific and the team were instrumental in helping me to discover and repair my journey through Trauma and mental health. Unfortunately to many men suffer some die. From the fear and the stigma of mental health. Being a part of my existence as well as alcoholism. It has been a rocky road at times. But it has only ever been the fear of the unknown. As well as the judgement or thought I am letting other people down. But with the correct therapy, guidance and support. Miracles really do happen. My mental health, trauma and addiction is being arrested one day at a time. My thoughts and support goes out to those that may be afflicted or those that are supporting family and friends. To the 12 Step Fellowship and the professionals. Thankyou for your on going support and friendship. Spp for me was like the icing on the cake for my recovery. I was 8 years sober when I entered. Now nearing 11years. Could not be more grateful for the help I have received. Stay safe and please do not be afraid to ask for help. First time for me was Lifeline. Many years ago. Was so surprised how good it was to speak with someone who understood. Awsome Podcast.🙏

This is quite new to me im so glad i stumbled accross it. Hopeful 😊

Live long with Di Young. Appreciate this channel alot.

Thank you for these sessions.

Thank you so much for your work in this field.

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This is enormously helpful. Thank you!

the sound issue is on their end. I turned my volume up and could hear you fine

This all makes sense to me now, thank you❤

Mystory. I am 73, now. Been a searcher all my life. I did a 30 day course to improve my breathing. Then I spent time with the physiotherapist who created the course. This took away my death wish. Got a lot more insight. It is not a magic bullet "cure". I have to work with new insights and new perspectives. I do slide backwards sometimes. I think that checking breathing function could be a component of diagnosis. That is my personal message. Thanks.

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53:52 What are "SUDS" ?

Excellent talk, but bad quality audio, presenter’s heavy Aussie accent and advertising interruptions are making it unlistenable.

Wounded child I was 15 years old when I was raped I hate my rapist I can’t believe I actually defended him. I didn’t even know he traumatized me. I can’t believe I defended him 7 months ago and throughout them months is when I realized that I had trauma. I knew my rapist he was like a brother tp me. I never have hates anyone in my life. Now I hate him. I birthed his son and I should have never ever told Anyone. He had the audacity 2 ask me Mine d u thru text how many kid did I have. 😡. I lied to him and told him that our son died. I replied with “that’s what I was about 2 Say let’s hope u don’t lose no more babies” 🤬.. I can’t stand him. I can’t believe I tried to protect him so he would be able to enjoy his life w his wife and kids.. and throughout all Or this I was having movjymares every freaking night with that demon. He is evil. Cold day in hell if he was to ever know that we both have a son together. My son, which suproeed me, wanted to meet him! I could not believe my ears day after day as I was being told by him and his frd and wife that he wanted to meet that no good sob. Now .. because my phone beinr tapped and all that I went thru with online harassment and what not .. I literally had no choice but to avoid my son. 😢 I did this because I did not want his father to know he exist. But this resulted in my son getting arrested and had I would have not avoided him because of that demon 😈 I know in my broken heart that my son would not be in jail right now. O my I hate my so called brother. I hate him.

This might be the most important video I have seen in my adult life. Thank you.

Damn so all that trauma in the orphanage really did affect me. 24 and only just safe enough in life to "wake up" this shit sucks, but it'll be worth it. Anyone who experiences this, I wish I could give you a hug, (Blunt if you smoke), and a genuine friend and safe space for you to be yourself. Even if you don't know who in the fuck that is yet.

That, that, that....and, and, and.....is, is, is, ...ugh