My hair is 3c. It’s really pretty and I like it but I just don’t feel like doing it😭 I’m too lazy
@The_IconicDiaries20 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience, your videos on loving your natural hair has truly healed me and is such a benefit for all of us who are trying to learn and love our natural .
@jusebacho22 күн бұрын
Wow !! Thats so cool ❤
@Laura-vl6db23 күн бұрын
Girl! I’m sorry but I keep my hair in for like 3 months.. I’m a lazy natural. So, they do be close to locking up but I’m just too, lazy
@DenshaOtoko224 күн бұрын
My dad says don't rely on others for happiness as friends will leave you. My mom says I can travel alone. And then I replied why would I? What's the point?
@JayLovez28Ай бұрын
Doing my research thinking to move to Columbia glad am here for honest reviews
@jasminet.4255Ай бұрын
I love the way your mini twists came out. 💕 I’ve been doing mini twists for the past few months and have seen a lot of growth. I find that the roots of my hair “lock “ up more when I braid them
@Callmebaby-c9gАй бұрын
I've been learning how to swim for 2 months now at the age of 26. My mother fear mongered and body shamed TF out of me. It took me recently starting therapy to tackle all my supressed fear and anxiety.
@theguy_222Ай бұрын
<333
@innerworksnycmagazineАй бұрын
Sister, I am soo much older than you, and it is your video that gave me the extra courage I needed to stop hating my natural hair and love on it for once. What your professor said to you hit me where I needed it. I lived so long with the lie that if my hair was this way or that way, life would be kinder to me, and I would be treated as though I mattered. Thank you.
@MsJones-mc9gqАй бұрын
Take 1 black girl to t Put down another one... very sad... when maryjane talks about her experiance and mention how her experianxe is on her travel you called her a criminal with red flags. But arent you pretty much doing the same thing??? Makes no sense, but as you put it, red flag all highlighted throughout your posted content n Is no diffrent.. Just learn to allow your black hate against another black women to yourself.. there is no place on social media for it... Her content is on a whole nother lever her experiance is hers. Is sad and really sickning and at some point we can find a place to appreciate another black women for standing in the face of fear and keeping it real. Appreciate it.. Dont down play it or disrespect her on your channel, then block comments.. 😮
@void________Ай бұрын
4C is the coolest texture. It looks so unique and cool.
@void________Ай бұрын
Two words...Zazie Beetz. Embrace it however it shows up. It's supposed to look that way.
@johannar91052 ай бұрын
Why the depressing music 🤦♀️
@onepunchmighty2 ай бұрын
am a man going thru this trying to resist a low cut
@sightsinging1012 ай бұрын
You are a beautiful sweetheart and thank you I needed this as I was sad about the same thing. My hair is it's shrunk state and it is me and it's beautiful, I'm beautiful and so are all of the 4c beauties. Yes I will rock my 4c shrunk hair I'm done with the underlining white girl crap (I'm not ragging on my white sisters) - just saying 4c is me. Just like the afro movement I'm now rocking the 4c movement. You can call it shrunk but I call it my hair (period) my hair. Peace out!!!
@hereforit23472 ай бұрын
In the 60s and 70s, the natural hair movement was not only far more pervasive, but also more positive. Part of the reason was there were global “Black is Beautiful”, civil rights, and Black Power movements happening simultaneously. There WAS no hair typing or focus on (or even conversation about) curl pattern or curl definition. Black men and women were universally throwing away hot combs and relaxers. We were doing LITERAL wash-and-go’s: shampoo, condition, pick out, and GO.
@hereforit23472 ай бұрын
I have to be honest. Not being “4C” has made me reluctant to start a KZbin channel. I don’t want to be one of those people who make other Black women say, “her hair is doing that because . . . “ or “she is retaining length because . . . “. I don’t want to be seen as “other” or to alienate my own sisters. I have been on an eight-year haircare journey and DO have Afro-textured hair. Before my journey I was only able to reach about armpit length. I have learned, primarily through KZbin, how to reach my now hip length. I want to share what I’ve learned. I long to start a channel about hair health, attitudes about Black hair, teaching our daughters to love and care for their hair, length retention (for those whose focus is length), and obliterating our obsession with curl pattern and curl definition. I want to join the fight to stop us rebelling against our own hair.
@ib40382 ай бұрын
Re the video on the aspect of Maryjane’s christianity, I think it is very common among evangelicals to want prosperity and sadly they blame people for their misfortune. Btw, why did you turn off comments on that video?
@Mariamox2 ай бұрын
Amazing storytelling 💜
@mimiwolfprincess2 ай бұрын
Amazing 🥲
@DDdelight2 ай бұрын
I've been a natural for most of my life. Barely manipulate it but still struggling.
@damxn73032 ай бұрын
Beautiful beautiful hair! Let it breathe and be free
@KwanitaAllen24682 ай бұрын
Heavy on the always
@KwanitaAllen24682 ай бұрын
❤
@KwanitaAllen24682 ай бұрын
Representation really does matter! It hits no matter how old you are. I remember a swim lesson in elementary school. We were getting dressed as a class. Boy and girls separate of course. After the lesson. A girl classmate of mine Jade, her mother was blow drying her hair. I wanted her to blow dry mine too. I realize now that I asked to chart undiscovered ground. I don’t see any moms who looked like mine or that were willing to help. Your story is amazing
@staysafe_eatcake65872 ай бұрын
My parents made sure me and my siblings knew how to swim from a very young age; I think I learned how to swim before I could walk! Seeing other peoples stories about this makes me so so grateful for their effort
@agnes_ww2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the vid ❤ y'all need to listen to '' I am not my hair '' by India.Arie, to understand
@babiegirl5262 ай бұрын
this is such a beautiful video i never learnt to swim since there was only a pool at summer camp. i remember playing water hose with my cousin and my hair got wet and i didnt know why my eyes kept burning! it was the hair grease! i wish it was easier to accept our hair like nappy being a insult or like somone sayingyour hair is so hard to deal with
@vwematu2 ай бұрын
This is been so so beautiful!
@antoniai96302 ай бұрын
i cried omg i love this whole video
@armpitjuiice2 ай бұрын
wooowww loved this. i loved the way you told a story through film and then told a couple different ones through speech. really really enjoyed this!! so relatable too ❤
@TemiDansoArt3 ай бұрын
A true cinematic masterpiece, you are a masterful storyteller, and the visuals are chefs kiss 🤌. As someone who can do the freestyle/front crawl and backstroke pretty well, I can relate to you trying to learn the breaststroke, it's still such an unnatural stroke to me 😭
@earthling42193 ай бұрын
I'm Southeast Asian and I have a 2b to 2c curls. In my society straight hair is beautiful if you are not then you'll be called names such as witch and etc. Because of this I grew up not loving my natural hair. Even our parents would give us money to spend for a hair treatment whenever they see curls growing. I'm just glad I bumped into YT videos like these helping me to love my natural hair. Now I'm in 1 year not having the rebond treatment and I hope I could survive this transition period and fully appreciate my natural hair. Thank you creating this video. It' an inspiration. Love you❤
@7aiya3 ай бұрын
Speaking as a black young teen who had to deal with lots of racism. I remember how hard it was for me to love myself, Because for some reason the way my hair looked mattered to me so much. some days i always used to spend hours trying to straighten my hair to the bone just to fit in with the other girls. My mom told me "i most definitely don't need to change anything for anyone , because my hair doesn't not define who i am in my heart." Ever since then , i've always been confident to wear my natural curly 3c hair without any shame. this video was a beautiful impact to me. 🥹💗!!
@Listening4n0w3 ай бұрын
I LOOOVE mini twist! That's how I wear my hair 95% of the time.
@vincentallen9433 ай бұрын
This was so beautiful thank you so much for this video. I am half Mexican and half black but look more Mexican. The only thing about my features that shows my black side is my very 4c hair when I was younger, my family would just shave it off because I grew up with my Mexican side and they didn’t know how to take care of it so at 30 now I am learning how to finally take care of it love it and accept it this hair is a lot of work, but it’s mine and there is something special about that that I’m learning to love and this video help me appreciate. Lol I have had this hair for my entire life and just started wearing protective stuff at night just doing something like this has made a huge difference in the moisture levels and it’s overall look something small that I didn’t really think about or appreciate before.
@Lin10uson3 ай бұрын
You are IT! I thank you so much for being you and so creative! This is amazing, and it's reminding me of *'Little Bill'.*
@KelsiasDiary3 ай бұрын
Lmao little bill?!
@Lin10uson3 ай бұрын
@@KelsiasDiary... Was that offensive, or something? Seeing as this is my first time coming across your channel and our first interaction, I'm confused.
@Lin10uson3 ай бұрын
@@KelsiasDiary, you know what, you can keep whatever response you might or might not have been about to prepare after reading that message because I have been turned-away from your channel by just this response. In the future, it would behoove you to understand that people from all walks of life are going to be appreciating your work; therefore, they will make comparisons to other (in my case *excellent Black)* work that reminds them of some of the few things that they grew-up with of this calibre. Some of the best childhood shows that brought me both peace and joy (as did this art) are 'Little Bill', 'Little Bear', & 'Franklin (and Friends)'; but there are not very many Black shows with which I grew-up of that same caliber because I was born in '94. I think that your neglect of a like' and/or a heart to my comment in comparison to all of the other comments posted to your channel says everything that I need to know about your personality, and it surely is not what's being conveyed in this video. I just did not think that comparing a talented Black artist's work to that of one of the greatest Black artists in our community was going to be offensive. Since it is, I will take my leave as this is not my scene and whatever excuse that you might have for this ugly response is null and void. #chasingfansaway
@KelsiasDiary3 ай бұрын
@ I’m not even about to read all that. Take care ❤️
@Lin10uson3 ай бұрын
Oh,@@KelsiasDiary, you too!
@hallease3 ай бұрын
This was such a joy to watch 🥹 thank you for sharing yourself with us.
@PinkCoils3 ай бұрын
Beautiful story. It is crucial that we all know how to swim or at least float.
@KelsiasDiary3 ай бұрын
at least float!!
@toji18983 ай бұрын
Can’t find a video I relate to more. When I was in the fourth grade I had gotten my first perm ever, I was excited at first to have nice “Silky Smooth” hair not knowing it would contribute to the frustration I had towards my hair. Fast forward to eight grade (2022), it was when my middle school started opening up after the lockdown and I hadn’t had a perm in a while so my mother put it in two cornrows and send me off to school that same day at lunch I was talking to a few of my classmates and they brought up the topic of hair. Discussing who had nice hair and what not, and when it got to me they all laughed at my hair. And that same month I got a perm and guess what? They started playing with my hair and saying how nice it was. Fast forward to now my hair is now fully natural and I hadn’t had a perm since eight grade and I’m learn to love my curls/coils each day! Lovely video ❤
@dtango35313 ай бұрын
you are soo pretty and your voice is so calming :)
@KelsiasDiary3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@isabellezionchipochaishe71033 ай бұрын
And no drama, we really don't want the drama, contrary to the popular belief. I hope they will change once they see that Love is Blind UK has higher ratings although they too tried it sprinkling a bit of drama here and there. Love is Blind USA is messy as hell.
@louimmature3 ай бұрын
lovethis
@Jvel-bq6qx3 ай бұрын
What pain? I swim, since I was 8 yes old. I am a person of color. Wash your condition it each time, remember skin care as well.
@JulianAlbino3 ай бұрын
love the storytelling! you're talented!
@KelsiasDiary3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@sheilalozada64283 ай бұрын
This is such an amazing and wonderful video for all of us going through this. Why have so many of us felt that hair is more important than the life-saving skill of swimming? We, as a people, better wake up and learn to prioritize the things that will keep us alive. If we are going to be around water, we need to make sure we are prepared in case of any emergency. Learn to swim and make sure our babies know how to swim as well. I love all my sisters and brothers. Take care! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@BB-pv6cf3 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing, you are such a gifted story teller and film producer! I can’t wait to see more of your films!