Firstly! I can’t believe I’m writing this. My friend about every 3 to 4 weeks likes to start arguments. I am a peaceful person who generally likes positive people, and don’t arguing. My friend lets people take advantage of them, when they should be putting their foot down. But when it comes to me, this person tries to throw slick comments at me, to irritate me, out of nowhere. I mean it’s crazy. This is the type of person who when things go wrong for them, they try and blame others, including me. but themself. I’ve been dealing with this person for 12 years. And I’m about fed up. I’ve been very nice to this person this whole month. But I feel very unappreciated. This has been going on, far too long. I mean you allow someone to steal $8,000 from you, and don’t do anything about it, but complain. Or work a job, but don’t get paid because the owner is ducking you, and you’re not taking it to the next level to get what you worked for. I am constantly in their corner with great advice, But yet quick to start shite with me for no reason. Sometimes I just want to die. This is a person I love, and been with for a long time. This really, really sucks.

I’m 27 and I’ve just realized this year that my dad is a narcissist. The part of the video about the empty hole & needing to be good enough hit me in my feels 😭 yup sure isn’t my fault. I’m putting myself and my needs first idc about how he feels and what he thinks anymore.

Mysogony and domestic violence

I wasted so much time and years with my kids because I didn't see I was allowing myself to get triggers over and over by not confronting the cause an putting boundaries. How did I not see that

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Thanks for the reminder for the ones who didn't have it, that we didn't have it. 😒

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!

I could call mines out on a simple lie i know he told and he would turn and say "oh so you're perfect huh?" As if i was judging him for being an imperfect liar. And that it hurt so much to be accused of not being perfect when i never said that in the first place.😢 exhausting.

😢😢😢 I have been in a relationship who I know now clearly he is narcissistic. No more hope I have tried so many times to make it work. No more. Done 😢😢😢 Not sure I have high empathy. I feel I am done. Scary! 54 years long! If I could talk with someone I would appreciate it. Need help 😢😮

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Its crazy how it sounds like you've lived my life! And yes, I cant let go of how can I help my children see whats happening? One is 22, another 21 and youngest is 19. I know they are hurting, I know theyre in pain and I cant not want to make it stop. Why wouldnt I send them this video and ask them to just listen with an open mind? Futile!?!

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A narcissistic parent will be the one to invalidate your experiences often😅

This narcissistic term is used. A lot nowadays, and even so out of context, when it comes to a true, caring parent. And the other parent does not like to be exposed, even not realizing they are exposing themselves to children. That are not stupid period. Children can discern and see for themselves, things that are happening and we discredit it the ability of a child to understand that appearance is being negative to the other appearance or to them. Children will learn to survive and navigate, and children have a free will to choose is safest for them, and they will learn as Children will learn to survive and navigate, and children have a free will to choose is safest for them and they will learn as they are growing. It is a very fine line as a parent. You have a duty to protect your child. And you have a duty to be honest, totally honest with your children so they can understand in a healthy manner. Is happening in the relationship with the family. Not every family meeting is a negative one. We need to be honest with our children if we don't someone else will or their own immature thoughts, we'll cause them 2. Evaluate things in a wrong way and even counselors who are not living in a home and seeing the full picture of things. Can steer your children wrong. I grew up in shelters and foster homes and have many stories from children who were damaged when they were encouraged to be around either negative parents totally destroyed. Because this system that says children need both parents are incredibly wrong, children need Parents that are good parents and if one parent is not a good fit for that child, then the child has the freedom and the right to not be around that negative parent and children will eventually grow up and they will choose. So no matter what a narcissistic person does, karma will visit them. And I pray all children grow up in the grace of God. And have their eyes open to see the truth. It always sets us free❤. Children, it is not your fault, never blame yourself. I have also seen children who have grown up and have become the mediator between parents, so there is hope. There are so many narcissis blaming each other. I've been calling each other a narcissist. This word is overrated. Add no one of you. Parent is God or above the other. We need to learn to pray for each other. And stop this foolishness and finger pointing and start to take accountability for the wrongs that are in all of us. We are as strong as our weakest link period again. Don't get it wrong. We need to take accountability bye, acknowledging Dangerous behaviors and qualities will affect our children. That we may display whether it be drug use, whether it be condescending attitudes towards each other, whether it be unfaithfulness, anger issues, whatever it may be, we need to acknowledge these things within ourselves. Do our best to get treated and not be in denial and start pointing the finger. Add the other person, take accountability for yourself if we all can just do that. I think the world would be a better place.

😢may God have mercy in HIS TIME OF JUDGEMENT AGAINST ANYONE WITH LYING DECEITFUL MOTIVES WHEN THEIR RECOMPENSE IS DELIVER

My mother died about a yr ago. When she died, my sister took her grief, turned it into anger and resentment directed towards me. On top of it, she is childless by choice but has been maintaining for the last few yrs that she is entitled to have a relationship with my children (kids r 12 &13 yrs old). WITHOUT me. So on top of blaming a poop ton of family dysfunction on me, she justified her rage by claiming i block "the love she has for my children" and that hence I am a bad mother. Ironically she is NC with me and has me blocked emails, FB, text. Its awful and I mourn often the loss of my family bc for all intents and purposes, I dont have ine anymore.

Im learning about narcissism and look at gorgeous women.

Oh! Wow!! You described my mon 😮😮 She was a nightmare 😡😡 She was a "GOOD OL CHRISTIAN" too 🤦 After she died I realized nothing was my fault. My mom was the problem. She stated arguments, was violent and abusive. And it was ALWAYS everyone's fault but hers. She never took responsibility for her actions 😡😡🤦🤦 The day she died I wasn't sad. I haven't been to her gravesite since her funeral. That was 16 years ago.

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Lisa, Thank you so much for this video. It has opened my eyes, I have realised so many things and definitely will no feel more the pain I was having because I am splitting up .

Does this mean mother is narcissist or it doesn’t have to be the case?

Excellent talk, thankyou

I'm at the grateful for it stage.

I have awakened...

Thank you Lisa ❤

My husband’s emotional intimacy with multiple women over the years has ruined my self confidence and all he says he that he never had sex with these women so why am I upset? It has made me wonder if I’m just not a good person, that I am controlling him or trying to control him. I just want to be able to care about myself and I don’t know why I cannot bring myself to leave him.

My husband’s emotional intimacy with multiple women over the years has ruined my self confidence and all he says he that he never had sex with these women so why am I upset? It has made me wonder if I’m just not a good person, that I am controlling him or trying to control him. I just want to be able to care about myself and I don’t know why I cannot bring myself to leave him.

Narcissism = psyOp Flouride on Tap

Garbage

Excellent thanks very much 😅💜

Not our fault; but, we are the ones who have to fix it. Edit: I blocked my entire family years ago. I’m healed from the people but I’m trying to fix the damage.

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Additional examples in the case of parents whose emotional neglect wasn't overtly cruel (like if they're passive-aggressive so you could never be sure you're not "too sensitive") or it was inconsistent: - They spend little time with you - Or if they did spend time with you it was not on your terms. You had to do what they wanted to do, watch what they wanted to watch, etc. just to get their attention. - No Emotional Support - some emotionally neglectful parents will actually make your problem, issue, or even your good news into something THEY have to deal with somehow. With this parent, you end up comforting them even though you called them with the need for comfort. You end up explaining and justifying your good news until it feels awful.

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My dad hates hearing about my brother's vindictive, petty, crafty and abusive narcissistic behavior. Almost as much as my brother does. The faces he makes... it's almost comical. He really can't handle being called out on his crap. NC is the way with narcissists. They're toxic, angry, bitter and at war with everyone. Everyone is an enemy they need to placate superficially while scheming how to defeat in the background. You don't need anyone like that in your life, family or not.

Our daughter is dating a narcissist and is getting engaged soon. He’s already tried to cut her sister out of her life and is now working on us. Are we expected to pay for a wedding we don’t want to happen?

She did everything to destroy me and my sister. I got out of that house. At the age of 24 and I didn't look back.

Absolutely 💯 I've tried to be opposite mother than I had. I had a narcissistic mother I was scapegoat child. My health paid for it due to her lying to my doctors