My elder sister died a month ago due to breast cancer I am depressed because she doesn' t want to seek treatment she gone while asleep

William Michael Stulp, my brother. 10/22/2024 from lymphoma-suddenly. Breaks my soul

Thank you for this. I'm currently waiting on a phone call and have so many emotions, I know he does as well... but holding on to hope that this will work out

I just lost my older brother. I miss him so much

Trying to buy a home and getting rejected over and over again has absolutely nothing to do with burnout, this guy is delusional lol

My wife and i lost our newborn in march.She went through a full healthy pregnancy. No signs of anything going wrong. The baby wa sborn took a breath or two and stopped breathing, she died. I was the only one who held her while she still had color and the last one to see her befoe cremation. This past fathers day i broke down. i grabbed her urn and started crying uncontrollaby and apologizing for not being able to protect, i told my wife how sorry i was i couldnt protect her either and had to deliver th ebad news. Weve been going to church and it helps but i thought on fathers day i let everything out but today i realized i still have so mjch anger in my heart. if anyone can help with how to get this anger out. i still cry and my wife has been there for me and she sees me breakdown but idk what else to do

Thank you so much for this, it has given me hope as I've been really trapped in the circle of mum guilt and feeling unable to talk to others for fear of judgement. I often feel trapped in the 'Old generation' and 'New Generations' way... espically in expectations of children to be respectful, and to do as asked of them. Often I feel new generation way of talking it over and equipping them to be adults to think for self... I'm worried that I'm invertally equipping my daughter that everything is negotiable etc. Thank you for this session ❤

I lost my big brother when I was 11 years old, he was 14, shot and killed 10 years ago. I lost my big sister when I was 19, she was 20years old, laced with fentanyl died unknowingly 2 years ago. Neither the chance to have kids so I lost nieces and nephews too. Life is so weird

Im sobbing 😢

Thanks for these

One of our twin sons died at 4 days old. My husband sat with me and we cried together, but then he shut down.

Thanks for verbalizing this. You don't have to be strong. We need you to be open and vulnerable. You don't need to "help or fix" grief - just share it and express your hurt.

I lost my little sister to suicide at age 29 one month ago. My heart is completely and utterly broken.

I lost my brother in July 2022... he was 23 I was 6 months pregnant at the time with my first child. I miss him so much some times it's hard to breath from the pain.

My older (42) brother was killed from a collision while he was parked on the shoulder of a highway. I keep hoping it will be less awful feeling and I just roll through day after day. I cant share anything I could have shared with him in the past. That relationship is gone. Someone in another of these videos said that you lose the past and the future with the death of a sibling and that is spot on.

I am a child of divorced parents and that experience led to estrangement from my father. It's been almost 13 years since he was "dad" to me, but tonight I am calling him to hopefully find a starting point to build a new relationship. When the divorce started I was only 12 and living with my mother/occasionally visiting my dad. I was hurt and vulnerable at the time, and unfortunately I was heavily influenced by my bitter/angry mother who demonized my dad. He's not blameless, he cheated, but in the decade plus since I've gotten much better context as I worked on my own mental health and healing, distanced myself from my mom, and reached out to other family members to gain a better understanding of the full picture. I've also realized how manipulative my mother is and that I was a child who didn't know how to cope with the divorce, and she used that to push me into cutting contact with him and accusing him of very negative things that simply weren't true. I lost over a decade of time where my dad could've been part of my life and my children's lives because I let her influence me so much. I have better clarity now and one of my brothers that has a good relationship with him has said dad wants us to reconcile, so I'm hoping today can be the beginning of that. We can't get back the years lost but we can stay fresh now.

Yea.i couldn’t fix it

excellent. pain changes people. and hurt people hurt people. it is a slippery slope... to contend with our emotions when there is unresolved trauma thank you great answer

This just happened to me in September and idk what to do I still haven’t gotten over it.

Thanks very much. Very helpful!

Wow Christian, this is touching. God bless you!

Well that was informative...😂

I lost my one and only big brother over 20 years ago and it still hurts. I often feel abnormal because so much time has passed, yet I'm still hurting as if the loss was recent. We were only 2 and a half years apart in age, so we were extremely close and did lots of things together. After he died, i had to force myself to graduate high school. He missed that. He also missed the birth of my nephew, his son. It's so tragic. He's missed everything. He didn't get to see his own son grow into a man.

I lost my sister four months ago to alcohol and I feel so bad for not being able to save her I’m missing her so much now.

I understand ❤

I have been widowed twice. The first time after almost seventeen years, the second time after twenty seven years. The pain and trauma never disappear.

i just cremated my brother who just went to work one day and died of a brain aneurysm. Not expected at all which makes the loss even more heart breaking. When you are not prepared for something you just feel so lost.

Am a widow man this woman i met is divorced after 25 Years want to ask about marriage what is your suggestion

I lost my brother 2 years ago. I cry about it every night and I find myself thinking about death alot.

I missed my brother already 😭😭😭

i lost my little sister last month. she was only 20 and lake michigan took her from us. everyone who comes here from some trauma in your life. its okay. keep going, they wanted you to. for whatever reason they were lost, please find yourself. i hope you read this some day. thank you for posting this video. i miss her so much. if only everyone had more time with their loved ones. take care of yourself and be safe.

So beautiful! ❤

Being a 18 year old, lost my brother who was just 6 years younger than me, it's so hard, I just can't understand what happened, why suddenly I can't talk with him, why I can't act stupid with him, I miss him each day. We used to do each and everything together, I don't wanna accept the fact that I will not see him ever. I think I will meet him soon or I might just go up there to meet him

My sister passed suddenly 3 months ago during an epileptic seizure, she was 27. Our mom found her and I was on the phone with mom at the time. I still hear her scream😭 it’s so unreal and unfair. Siblings are supposed to stand by your side your entire life and grow old together. It’s traumatizing. #fuckepilepsy

My big brother passed Dec 29, 2021 due to Covid at 39. I'm still broken by it.

Great message Rob. Well done for keeping going for 35 years. You’re doing a great job.

I haven't seen my dad in 15+ years Christmas Eve. I used to hate him but I've learned to dislike to him. I don't know if I could ever forgive him, confront him or even attend his funeral when the times comes. I did what I could as a kid to keep the relationship but his selfish off and on abandonment became too much and didn't want to put myself through it anymore and told him to his face that Christmas Eve.

My oldest brother died on Mar 25 2023 due to complications of diabetes. He was 73.

Lovely message, thank you!

I lost my older sister 6 months ago due to fentanyl-laced street drugs. It's becoming an ever-present problem in my country. There were 12 years between us.

I lost my sister on 13 march this year in a car accident she fought in icu for 5 days 😢😢😢😢😢😢

I lost my brother in September he was killed

Really helpful guidance. Thank you. In my experience, asking and communicating is key. Teenagers can use terms which might sound suicidal but they really mean they are desperate for the situation to change Asking doesn't give them ideas and knowing can help you and your young person get the help you need.

I ma looking to do a positive parenting course in London near hithrow but I don't know how to do register

please can u help me to do parenting course