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@Pintrestusernames Күн бұрын
Hey! Ur awesome and I noticed u usually have little to no comments on your videos so I’ll be subscribing and posting this on a bunch of videos to help you maybe gain popularity! Good Luck! (This is my last one bc I need to go outside)
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
lol! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
@Pintrestusernames Күн бұрын
Hey! Ur awesome and I noticed u usually have little to no comments on your videos so I’ll be subscribing and posting this on a bunch of videos to help you maybe gain popularity! Good Luck!
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
So kind! Thank you!
@Pintrestusernames Күн бұрын
Hey! Ur awesome and I noticed u usually have little to no comments on your videos so I’ll be subscribing and posting this on a bunch of videos to help you maybe gain popularity! Good Luck!
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
Great! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
@Pintrestusernames Күн бұрын
Hey! Ur awesome and I noticed u usually have little to no comments on your videos so I’ll be subscribing and posting this on a bunch of videos to help you maybe gain popularity! Good Luck!
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
Great! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍. I appreciate your kindness
@Pintrestusernames Күн бұрын
Hey! Ur awesome and I noticed u usually have little to no comments on your videos so I’ll be subscribing and posting this on a bunch of videos to help you maybe gain popularity! Good Luck!
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
Great! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
@Pintrestusernames Күн бұрын
Hey! Ur awesome and I noticed u usually have little to no comments on your videos so I’ll be subscribing and posting this on a bunch of videos to help you maybe gain popularity! Good Luck!
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
Great! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍 So kind of you!
@Pintrestusernames Күн бұрын
Hey! Ur awesome and I noticed u usually have little to no comments on your videos so I’ll be subscribing and posting this on a bunch of videos to help you maybe gain popularity! Good Luck!
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
Great! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
@Pintrestusernames Күн бұрын
Hey! Ur awesome and I noticed u usually have little to no comments on your videos so I’ll be subscribing and posting this on a bunch of videos to help you maybe gain popularity! Good Luck!
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
Great! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
@Pintrestusernames Күн бұрын
Hey! Ur awesome and I noticed u usually have little to no comments on your videos so I’ll be subscribing and posting this on a bunch of videos to help you maybe gain popularity! Good Luck!
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
Great! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
@Creaturepaws. Күн бұрын
omg yesss
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
😁😁😁
@Pintrestusernames 2 күн бұрын
Why how and what are like the most important questions ever it’s important to give a child a sense of inquiry… like what?…
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
Great points! It’s always great when we can remember this 😀😊😊
@Guillan80 2 күн бұрын
I always give my son explanations to why when he asks “why” Communication is very important and for their development and decision making. And if I don’t know the answer we google it together or ask someone who would know.
@osayilasisi Күн бұрын
Yes!!! Let’s find the answer together! 🙂🙂🙂
@yachtsmith 5 күн бұрын
Parents can easily fall victim to this out of omission not necessarily intentional. I would recommend catching yourself when such situations arise
@osayilasisi 4 күн бұрын
Yes! It’s usually not intentional! Thanks for sharing! 🤍🤍🤍
@yachtsmith 7 күн бұрын
Choice of words really matters
@osayilasisi 6 күн бұрын
Good point! Thanks for sharing🤍
@TitusArsole 8 күн бұрын
I'm glad I came upon this video because I'm currently having an issue at work where a woman read an email I sent to a group of us. I guess she read my words through the lens of her perception and now shes accusing me of being aggressive and rude. Now while everyone else in the group works with me directly in person, she doesn't, so all of them understood that she's reading it wrong. The problem is she is head of HR so now who is there to go to sort this out but her underlings, who understandably don't want to make their superior mad. Anyway I'm rambling now. Just wanted to say thank you for showing me how to approach this
@osayilasisi 8 күн бұрын
I’m so glad this is helpful. Please keep me updated 🤍 All the best with the conversations 🙂
@TitusArsole 8 күн бұрын
@@osayilasisi thank you I will. I'm actually on leave right now because I broke my wrist so that puts that conversation on hold for at least a month but that also gives me time to contemplate what you've said here and approach the situation correctly. I've also sent your video to a few people I know because I feel like this is the kind of stuff the internet was made for, not prank videos so I wish you all the best with this venture and great success
@osayilasisi 8 күн бұрын
Thanks for your kind words 🙂 And thanks for sharing 🤍🤍🤍
@MealswithSossy 11 күн бұрын
Thank you so much once again for having me on your podcast. I had an amazing time speaking with you on mealtime matters ❤
@osayilasisi 10 күн бұрын
It was such a pleasure! Thanks for being an amazing guest!
@MealswithSossy 11 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Osayi for having me. I thoroughly enjoyed our time on your podcast. ❤
@osayilasisi 10 күн бұрын
I'm so glad! I had an amazing time too!
@esosaa5278 15 күн бұрын
Whoop whoop! Looking forward to it!
@osayilasisi 15 күн бұрын
So good!!! 🔥🔥💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
@yachtsmith 18 күн бұрын
This reminds me of the blind men trying to describe an elephant while feeling different parts of the elephant
@osayilasisi 18 күн бұрын
Great analogy! Thank you!
@yachtsmith 18 күн бұрын
The cup is always half full
@osayilasisi 18 күн бұрын
You are so right! Thanks for sharing!
@BlaacHollow 19 күн бұрын
The back of my mothers hand made me see things her way.
@osayilasisi 19 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your perspective.
@e4free 22 күн бұрын
Yes they do. They have made me be slow, efficient, loving, and driven in a different way
@osayilasisi 22 күн бұрын
“In a different way” - that’s beautiful. thanks for sharing. 🤍🤍🤍
@carlsiren 22 күн бұрын
No, not even once. What horrible people think that way?
@osayilasisi 22 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience .
@yachtsmith 24 күн бұрын
Emotional safe space ❤
@osayilasisi 23 күн бұрын
So true! Thank you for sharing!
@yachtsmith 26 күн бұрын
Money answereth all things
@osayilasisi 26 күн бұрын
I love that! Thanks for sharing!
@LauraBarbir Ай бұрын
That is so true
@osayilasisi Ай бұрын
Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
@nathanielnwachukwu9698 Ай бұрын
Children love fun. They really love fun.
@osayilasisi Ай бұрын
So true! We all love fun!
@Eyesopeningheartrealigning Ай бұрын
I actually love that. No knee jerk reactions but observe and consider what made them act like they did. 😅
@osayilasisi Ай бұрын
@@Eyesopeningheartrealigning Yes! Sometimes when we know the reasons, we can direct them to make different decisions🤍🤍🤍
@cashmerehazel21 Ай бұрын
Does not always work. My sister practices what you said and her children turned out to be manipulative liars with no remorse and they are only below 6 years old.
@osayilasisi Ай бұрын
@@cashmerehazel21 thanks for sharing your experience. I’d love to hear more and to support your family if you’d like. Please go to my website and book a free call osayilasisi.com/parent
@livewithlynn9349 Ай бұрын
I agree it doesn’t have to be disrespectful but you need to know how your kid thinks and how to best guide them. That’s why when we became of age we just left because most of our parents didn’t explain or teach us. However, today I believe kids are word for word with parents and we’re not wheeling it in. A lot of parents say they want to do better, but they also want to be their kid’s friend. We can be friends when you’re an adult with your own family 😂
@osayilasisi Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience. Yes as parents we get to guide and coach, if we are able to respond from a place of wanting to help, not a place of wanting to control or a place of wanting to be liked.
@laceyleighlovell2967 Ай бұрын
I agree with you, but I feel like your analogy is a bit off. Simone Biles is literally the best gymnast of her time. Maybe any time. That's why she's in a league of her own. Everyday people like you and me and our kids aren't in leagues off our own. A better metaphors would be the gymnasts on her team.
@osayilasisi Ай бұрын
Good point! Thanks for sharing your experience. 🤍🤍🤍 It all depends on how we see ourselves.
@salimas7979 Ай бұрын
Makes sense. BTW, beautiful eye shadow.
@osayilasisi Ай бұрын
Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
@oyekunleoyejide4352 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Osayi, thank you for this expose on the valuable, life-transforming impact and benefits of chess, I'm always excited about the development of children.
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
@@oyekunleoyejide4352 it’s my pleasure! Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
@Ooez3000 2 ай бұрын
Live!!!
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
Thank you sir!
@nsritube4232 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
🤍🤍🤍🤍😊
@edithruby7498 2 ай бұрын
Beautiful lesson to learn. Thank you for sharing❤
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@LeahYYC 2 ай бұрын
Beautiful message for not only parents but adults, friendships, coworkers. Live & enjoy the small moments. Thank you 🙏 ❤️
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
Great point! Thank you!
@MofolusadeSonaike 2 ай бұрын
It takes a lot of intentionality. I try to do better every time, but children are so different, some test you more than others.
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
Very true. Some trigger us more than others. Thanks for sharing 🤍🤍🤍
@batteriesnotincluded4715 2 ай бұрын
I wished that I had more patience with my children. And now THEY have absolutely none. 😢
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
Hmm that can be hard. And it’s also not too late. Sending you love 🤍🤍🤍
@Britttywitty 2 ай бұрын
This is very beautiful!
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
You’re so kind! Thank you!
@msmariamaselinahenson448 2 ай бұрын
❤😊I love that. Thank you for sharing 😊❤
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Thank you too!
@lilpaula55 2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
You’re welcome!
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 2 ай бұрын
It's no harm to tell your kids a blunt 'no' sometimes, too. They're hear it when they fly the nest from other people, so it helps if they hear it from you, first. It also shows them a clear boundary, which makes kids feel safe. Wrapping kids up in cotton wool doesn't help them, because it doesn't prepare them for life.
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience. I don’t believe in preparing my kids for the harsh world by becoming the harsh world. I believe in speaking with kindness to everyone, especially my children, because we all deserve respect and kindness. When we experience kindness at home, we know that unkindness is unusual - and we can give grace to those who have chosen to be unkind. When one values a relationship, one decides what kind of boundary is important and how best to communicate the boundary so that the other person truly hears and understands. I have found that there are different ways to prepare our children for life: 1. Help them become the kind of people who build the future we want. Or 2. Help them become the kind of people that none of us like to be around. Hope that gives you more clarity.
@rosa5 2 ай бұрын
True words😪
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🤍🤍🤍
@bernicebecker1852 2 ай бұрын
It's really important that parents take care of themselves so that resenment doesn't build up and they don't reach the point of yelling. Thank you for sharing your insight. It absolutely doesn't work and your child will loose trust and/or respect for you over time.
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
So true! Thanks for sharing! 🤍🤍🤍
@NimlothEnnue 2 ай бұрын
I'm not even religious but this is great advice. You have a very calming presence.
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
You are so kind! Thank you 🤍🤍🤍
@patriciaojobaro9318 2 ай бұрын
See me open my ears the hear the gist.
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
The gist is very sweet Abi??? 😂😂😂
@patriciaojobaro9318 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
😅😅🤣🤣🤣
@neenadorsey6554 2 ай бұрын
The most annoying maybe , please
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
Very interesting! Can you clarify what you mean?
@kapsican 2 ай бұрын
couldn't agree more. so many people express how scared they were of their parents growing up and didn't talk to them because of this. and ultimately, this is about raising your kids to be better. because they may have even gotten themselves in trouble they don't know how to get out of, so having your parents be a safe space to admit your wrongdoing and then get help too is so much healthier for both sides than constantly keeping up a lie and facade, it is so stressful
@osayilasisi 2 ай бұрын
I love the way you phrased it. We miss out on the opportunity to help our kids, when they are so scared that they will get in trouble. Thanks for sharing! 🤍🤍🤍