I would have gone no contact with the family a long time ago

Well, she was an adult and is responsible for her own actions. Your wife wasn't ready to be loyal to her husband.

Everyone sets boundaries for a reason. Allowing someone to be a narcissist is telling them it is okay. If you love someone set the boundaries up front and expect them to learn how to cope with boundaries.

She lucky you didn't sue her ass.

Well if your family thinks it's not a big deal to share that one I don't give up the house

She should have changed the locks and installed a security system after the first violation. She was dumb to trust her nut house family to respect her property

i really enjoyed the video and appreciate how you handled such a sensitive topic. however, i can't help but wonder if it's truly fair to judge someone solely on their past. everybody has a history, and people grow and change. maybe we should focus more on the present and the effort they're putting into the relationship now rather than what happened before. what do you all think?

I have no words. There's stomping on boundaries and there is this.

OP is obviously color blind to the color red. He chose to ignore the mother of all red flags that literally "b*tch slapped him" and he still married her... 🙄

Your father made his choice. Let him live with it...

OP should've recorded that call from the ex's father. What a POS. The whole family is all kinds of crazy.

What horrid, horrid, people. It's not defamation if it's the truth. OP's parents failed spectacularly. They should be ashamed. Karma decimates those with malicious and selfish intent.

OP should've taken them to court for defamation and theft. Good grief, OP, grow a pair already. Restraining order doesn't do sh*t. Your sister needs to learn that malicious actions have severe consequences. She's already shown you how far she'll go to get what she wants. OP's parents have failed spectacularly. If your parents and other family members are so concerned with their golden child, tell them to give up their own house and they can go live in an apartment.

Women get away with all sorts of shit before the police take it seriously

Buddy, you should know from the beginning about the so-called family fund.

You could always take Mia to court and sue her for defamation! Tell your parents they failed your sister and if she continues defaming her she will face steep fines for lying about her. Hopefully this will teach your sister that actions have consequences. Your money, your home.

Assure your sister that you'll be pracitising your second amendment rights next time she tries to break in.

Jake should be ashamed of himself. He is not man enough to provide for his family, and yet he keeps on producing children.

Glad the truth finally came out and justice was served 🙌

I would've told the parents to let all of them move in. & I'd never let anyone that tries to villainize me or get me fired cause they didn't get their way live with me anyway 🤦🏻‍♀️

People in these situations need to throw the “family means helping your family “ back in their faces. In my case, when my aunt criticized me for not helping my sibling, giving them my car, I told my aunt that if it’s so important to her to support family then she should give her car away to my sibling. Oh, that shut her up fast.

Funny how people just keep having kids despite not having the room for them....

Op apja a családra hivatkozik, azaz saját magukra. Op-nek van saját családja, számára ők a legfontosabbak. A szülők oldják meg a saját problémáikat, ők nevelték félre a sikkasztó "aranylányt".

Toxic? The husband is a wimp. Mimimi, she doesn't trust me, MIMIMI. What about his stupid family? She didn't believe him either (which is nonsense anyway) Is he also doing MIMIMI, I'm so poor?

How did she marry him yet dump him as a fiance?

So, no loss, who needs relatives like that?

You're also not obligated to listen to them you can block them from social media from your phone from your life and that way you don't have to put up with her BS. Unlike what you did who choose to continue to be abused, abused and abused. You had me when you grew the backbone and set up for yourself but then you just let them abuse you for the rest of the story. That's when you lost my respect.

Bet you're popular with the ladies. NOT!!!!!!!!

OP should grow more backbone and set clear bounderies from the beginning and told them if they push her further, she´ll go no contact with all of them.

Emma just needs her mom and dad, well done lad

How about the parents and their daughter switch homes!

For people in this situation, one of the best alternatives you can do is try to get into a trade school or work in the trades. 1) Study a trade on your own time. For example: Electrician is a good job that pays well, but almost all trade jobs require that you have completed trade school. Look up everything you can about how an electrician works. Look up building codes, look up how electrical symbols are drawn on construction plans. Watch tons of instructional videos on the topic from reputable sources. Do everything you can to get your foot in the door. Ask around in your family to see if anyone knows someone you can shadow. Trade schools are often not as expensive as college and most can be done in two years. Even better, trades pay well and you can have a job WEEKS after graduation. On top of that, the trades pay well enough that you will have your trade school loan paid off in no time. 2) Make SURE you live within your means. Just because you can buy a house does NOT mean you can afford it. Perfect example: One of my friends and his wife both make 6 figures and have for a while. He had a big savings and bought a really nice house in an HOA. The property values skyrocketed and the taxes on his house skyrocketed. The HOA fees went through the roof. It went from being easily affordable to being a big struggle. He did end up making a big profit on the house, but he was also forced to move to a much worse location for only a 30% less than his current house. If you live carefully for a few years, you will be in a great position to move upward. Do not try to go for the dream right away. 3) IMMEDIATELY set up an investment portfolio with a longstanding and reputable investment firm. Pick a firm that doesn't claim insane percentages every year. A few are legit, but many are shuffling money around and being shady. Investing is an insane market, and it takes a mad genius or very solid basics to do well. It is so impossibly hard to predict that there is a HAMSTER that outperformed the entire market just using his random movements around his cage - Mr Goxx. /watch?v=i5scs_NWTSg. The earlier you invest, the better. The more money you add per month, the better. You CAN EASILY be a millionaire by the time you hit 40 if you start early enough, pick a reputable investor, AND constantly add money. The real key these days is finding affordable housing and affording food. Picking a house is HARD. You need to pick a first house PRIMARILY for work access and opportunity, and not for aesthetic or comfort reasons. For those struggling, my respect and well wishes to you. Fight on. Don't give up.

Wow, what a captivating video! I really appreciated the way you shared your story. However, I can't help but think that cutting her off was a bit extreme. I mean, family is important, even if she did make a big mistake. It's tough to balance those feelings, right?

How could freaking $ 40.000, - be transferred without noticing the owner? Never have that much money nor lived in the West. So, I am curious! 😅

Any woman will always see a mans money as theirs whether you are related or not.

S 1 Big mistake. Called off the wedding and boasted about her secret wealth? Why not continue keeping it a secret?

OP, you should be very grateful for NOT INHERITING YOUR MOTHER'S LACK OF BRAIN CAPABILITY AND HEART COMPETENCY. You're welcome!!!

Why would you give anyone access to your account in the first place. OP you have to be stupid!!!!

I would have went straight to the lawyer and sued before they spent the money then ghosted the family

this video was really well put together, and you did a great job capturing the emotions involved. but honestly, it's kinda surprising how many people are quick to judge without knowing the whole story. i mean, can we really take sides when we don't have all the facts? it's a tricky situation and definitely raises questions about trust and communication.

Wow, this video was really eye-opening and the way you shared your story is commendable. But I have to say, it baffles me how some people jump to conclusions without knowing the whole picture. If you truly had wealth, why not share that before the wedding to avoid all this drama? Seems like a bit of a power play, don’t you think?

this video was really intriguing, and I appreciate how candidly you shared your experience. but honestly, part of me wonders if exposing someone like this is really the right approach. relationships can be complex, and not everything is black and white. maybe there’s a way to address these issues without putting someone on blast? just a thought!

Lucky he recorded her comments.

She CHOSE to be a single mom, She CHOSE to play favorites AND she gambled on the wrong son, lost everything. Lemme pull out the world's smallest violin.

LOL. Girl's trips/bachelorette parties = she's cheating

Karma hit them both. OP NTA, don’t feel guilty or sorry. Your mom failed her son when she spoiled him. He never faced consequences because she kept paying for all his “mistakes.” Have a great life. Enjoy every moment and live it well.

If having a promiscuous past is not bad, why hide it?

The problem was the OP. Why? The EX was always like that with her friend and... and he still married her. He should have out a stop before marrying or walk away.

Nope.........nope..........nope!!! Bye, bye

Single women love keeping other women single. 😂😂😂