5s are more intellectual, who like solving DIFFICULT and COMFORM problems, while 9s are comfort-seeking, who only want to do EASY stuff.

Unless you are NF’s 8🙏🦾♥️

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Black lives matter does the active form of stonewalling

4:45 Black Lives Matter

4:45 BLM protestors 😂

As an 8, I'm not going to protect the weak emotionally, I'm going to destroy the villian to protect the vulnerable.

I'm easily overwhelmed and easily overwhelming, but I'm also autistic...so what do you think about that?

INFP 6w7 and I totally relate to your experience of having those urges of just wanting to do something spontaneous, but then looking back and trying to be more frugal. I also relate to wanting to hide something that may cause offense or bring judgment, even though I don't care I want to avoid the blame and shame.

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This is the most helpful Enneagram 1 versus Enneagram 3 video I've come across (I'm a 1 for better and for worse); thank you Jennifer!

This is one topic I was wondering after what I didn't do wrong. You see, I saw my crush again with 3 of her closest friends at a library in college while working on my plates and I've never talked to her before and I felt embarrassed about myself around her and I'm shy to meet her when I looked at her often, but when it's 5 in the afternoon, we took the same elevator, but what I didn't do is to touch her long straight hair without her permission. If I do, that's a form of harassment. I refused to talk to her and I don't want her to be suspicious about me. I should have made a gentle and quiet greeting so I can get to know her.

As a 9w8 i feel like women are mostly interested in using me as their security blanket.

You definitely describe 9s very well. I have a love/hate relationship with 6s. They get under my skin like no other type in ways that i like and ways that i cant stand. Also, how do you guys expect us to listen to you for 10 mins?? Thats like torture. Give us the bullet points and be done with it lol.

What shes saying about 9w1 exploding is true- ive only known one 9w1 well enough to see the explosions and that's my dad. Its also part of why i had trouble typing myself as a 9(w8) because i dont really do that. I guess i do what she described 9w8 as doing, which is go back at someone forcefully and they are suprised and offended by it. But i also kind of disassociate when its happening so i view it as not a big deal. It only really happens when im already stressed out, im trying my best, im at my limit and someone is making demands of me or trying to control me.

You sound like a B word of wife. your more of a nagging mother than anything to him.

Where is she : ( she doesn't make videos anymore 😢

Great video! But one point you made about your husband kind of set me off. I’m a 9w8 INTP and what set me off was his unwillingness to go get the book while he isn’t doing sh*t! I sometimes may stall if asked to do something my wife asked me to do and I say yes I’ll do it, sometimes I don’t know if she means now or just whenever. But as you repeatedly asked him and then did it yourself, that’s BS on his part especially when he later said, oh sorry. Dude get your ass off the phone and go get your wife the book. 📕 Anyway, I’ve been married to my 6 w5 wife for over 30 years and I wished I would’ve known more about our enneagram types early on.Also, you can’t read his mind and don’t feel bad for his non communication like chicken fettuccine

1s improve world for everyone 8s, get justice for just their people

8 as their own God

8 - Just get out of my way

1s proactive, 8s reactive

Justice when fairness did not happen

I love this lecture. I would prefer to always state that before someone tries to try it. I don't appreciate the feeling. I resonate with feeling like living in hell when I sit between two people.

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Thank you I watched this again. I believe 9w1 fits me better. I am an INFP as well. I did once interrupt someone in a meeting because their question seemed redundant, but under usual circumstances I am far too polite and courteous to do that haha. I also relate to the holding my anger in until it explodes haha. I thought that was a 9w8 thing, but 9w1 seems to fit better. I definitely tend to seek consensus from others concerning life choices I will say.

Your video explains to me so much. Thank you very very much for sharing your knowledge ❤️

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I decided to look at this, hoping to find answers but looks like it was an absolute waste of time. Thank you so much

Dump is not an 8, he's a very unhealthy 3. He's just less skilled at image-management than most 3s because he's a spoiled brat who never had consequences for looking like the jackass the he is. This is one of the biggest weaknesses of most Enneagram commentators is that they lack knowledge of history, politics, and class consciousness. Riso and Hudson, groundbreaking as their work is, is completely lacking here. When I read Personality Types (I'm a 4, so is Riso) I kept thinking, this whole 4 description fits me really well except I'm not rich, lots of poor people feel unique and misunderstood too.

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Can you just be a core 8? Or do you always have a wing?

This is so sad 😞 I was dating someone that at any moment and any time he thought it was ok to touched my breast or my private parts at any moment without me expecting it, it broke up our relationship I voice it he called me crazy 🤪 the end of the relationship

This is awesome thank you so much, I’m a therapist myself and I incorporate the new program and my work and I have noticed some people that have taken a test and came off as a two they seem to have more of the seven qualities and I always wondered why so this is a great way to pay more attention. By the way I am an eight with a seven wing hopefully a healthy eight and understand both perspectives, I will definitely share your videos! Mahastee 😊

17:21 "shiesty bastard"- 🤣... You're right! We have learned! 😂And what's even more funny is that we know you know we know you know.😅 (I'm a 9w1. Wife is a 6w7.)

the thing that trips me up is that im normally very slow and cautious with the way that i think and act. and i have a better than average stamina for tedious activities. but i still have that insatiable hunger for new things, and i often get bored of things after a few months of being absolutely obsessed. so im pretty sure im a 7, just a lil unique i guess? 🤷🏻

this has been really helpful as an ENTJ who sometimes scores as a 7 and sometimes an 8. but i still don't know which i am. makes me wonder if we can't all be comfortably crammed into one column.

Well now I am more confused I thought I was a 9w1 then a 7w6 now its like I am a bit of both. Im also an introvert and homebody and the whole 9 filtering around binge watching shows while playing games and reading things on my phone spot on like whaoo I was like dang it am I actually a 9. Then came the whole flat emotion thing na mate because I am expressive!!! I'm that kid who is squirming in her seat with excitment that is the place I like to be. I hate feeling flat it makes me feel unmotivated and just blah ya know what I mean. Not sure if I have presence. I dont think my presence is like boom here I am maybe I dunno. It's not like I am super high energy all the time I like me a good nap and worry I'll over extend myself. I have a bit of social anxiety so I can get insecure and shrink back when I'm feeling anxious but when I'm comfortable, excited to be there and happy I'm a goofy dancing monkey living in my own world just having a good old time. So not sure what that makes me maybe a 10w11 lol.

Makes life work for you

Detach vs passive aggression