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@AnastasiaYonick
@AnastasiaYonick 2 күн бұрын
The worst non supportive partner at birth. He was weirdly sleeping on the tub. Odd reaction from him when the baby was born. I got weird vibes entire time watching his odd behaviour. Geez
@jenngreen4925
@jenngreen4925 4 күн бұрын
THAT WAS ONE OF THEEEE MOST BEAUTI-FULL ome births I've ever watched on You Tube....😮 Your Darling Hubby was so totally in the whole experience with you! 🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉
@zoeefisher2112
@zoeefisher2112 5 күн бұрын
i’m not a mom or anywhere near the season in my life where i’m ready to have a child. But i am so grateful to women like you that share their experience as well as the wisdom you gain throughout it. It gives me more peace of mind because birth and pregnancy is something i so look forward to in my life. And it’s nice to see people sharing their experiences. Its so empowering to hear women talk about what their bodies are capable of🥹
@HannahMills-m1h
@HannahMills-m1h 14 күн бұрын
Your birth was beautiful! I had my son February 25, 2023 and Kathy was my midwife as well! So cool
@EmilyKeena
@EmilyKeena 19 күн бұрын
What is a good place to get your
@emvrrd
@emvrrd Ай бұрын
What background music is playing? Its so peaceful
@msjoby89
@msjoby89 Ай бұрын
Dude 3 minutes to get to the actual video….
@themellowmama
@themellowmama Ай бұрын
@@msjoby89 well without it people like you will also take to the comments section to say whatever offended you or bothered you, so I try my best to acknowledge what I can to mitigate that- however there’s always a way to complain and you have found it. 😂
@cindyseaton670
@cindyseaton670 Ай бұрын
I can hear your mother heart wanting to school at home. Schooling at home can be super simple. My youngest of five wasn't schooled until grade two. I let him play with lego and be creative while I educated the older children. In grade three we started school with Eythan. By then end of the year he was caught up to his peers. We start children in education way too young when their brains need to be creative and they need lots of outdoor play.
@haleycada4808
@haleycada4808 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! What hypnobirthing did you do for your first birth?
@themellowmama
@themellowmama 2 ай бұрын
I used Kathryn Clark's tracks!
@oliviathatcher1459
@oliviathatcher1459 3 ай бұрын
The mirroring part sounds redundant - until someone does it for you. 💡
@themellowmama
@themellowmama 2 ай бұрын
Beautifully put. I felt this comment, 😌
@oliviathatcher1459
@oliviathatcher1459 3 ай бұрын
Maybe the best aspect of this video was your response to Donovan’s interruptions. So inspiring. 🙏 Thank you.
@thatgirlnamednat
@thatgirlnamednat 3 ай бұрын
I’ve probably watched a total of 20 videos on women speaking about their labor experience and even though they were positive this video is by far the most helpful and has given me the most peace of mind and has made me feel so empowered. Thank you so much for sharing 🤍
@milo_thatch_incarnate
@milo_thatch_incarnate 3 ай бұрын
I'm a soon-to-be mom, and I'm trying to learn everything I can about different parenting styles. Thank you for laying out the basics of RIE parenting with examples! However, I'm uncertain about the point about people "objectifying" the baby if they want to touch or hold him. It seems to me that that's a natural instinct, and that it would help the baby learn interaction with lots of different people. Super early socialization, if you will. Lots of other animals pass their babies around, because the group takes care of the babies and looks after them, together. Isn't that natural? Also, that sometimes people DO touch you in social interactions, and it's not the end of the world. I'm obviously NOT talking about any kind of abusive touch here, but in the adult world, sometimes a new acquaintance will touch your arm when they're laughing, or go for a hug, and it's not their fault, and it would be MORE weird for you to say something about something so small. What about that? I'm not trying to poke you here, (no pun intended lol), just understand better.
@longwalkeroo
@longwalkeroo 3 ай бұрын
Can't watch.😢
@longwalkeroo
@longwalkeroo 3 ай бұрын
The background music is distracting.
@MariaPosadaRicci
@MariaPosadaRicci 4 ай бұрын
This video made me cry!! So so beautiful!! Your words and encouragement so uplifting, motivating, pure, and powerful!! Thank you so so much for making this video!! I have it saved to watch in September when I’m due and again for any future babies I may have as a beautiful reminder!! Thank you!! 🙏🏻 ❤😍🥰
@Emilygregoire9
@Emilygregoire9 4 ай бұрын
I'm on my fourth pregnancy and I've had a baby at 36, 37, and 41 weeks!
@2girls1world98
@2girls1world98 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this vulnerable and beautiful story. I’m pregnant with my first and this made me feel so empowered and normal to want to have my baby at home. Thank you thank you thank you!!!
@haileycline4998
@haileycline4998 5 ай бұрын
I’m pregnant with my first and always knew I would home birth. It has been so hard to find someone who showcases a TRUE home birthing experience… and a positive one. This was beautiful to watch, thank you for sharing such an intimate experience- this gives me so much confidence!
@alijoc
@alijoc 5 ай бұрын
I’m not a parent nor am i married, but i’ve talked with my partner before about children and how many we want. My reasoning for wanting a minimum 4 year age gap is more so to be able to financially recover so that if and when they want to go to university i can support them equally
@rozeflyrbridge7335
@rozeflyrbridge7335 5 ай бұрын
I am pregnant with my first and am planning an unmedicated home birth. its never something I thought I would ever consider... I always just assumed i would opt for a hospital and as many free drugs as I could get... but actually, now, being pregnant and speaking with my midwives and my doula... I believe I can do it. I am afraid, but excited about it. Your story and others are so encouraging!
@terriwhite6733
@terriwhite6733 5 ай бұрын
Good job!!!! ❤❤❤❤
@heatherantonini8238
@heatherantonini8238 5 ай бұрын
This video is very good, and I love your calm voice.
@Eylin859
@Eylin859 5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@brooklynnlavoy5682
@brooklynnlavoy5682 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your birth! I am due in September with my second baby. My first I had at home too, and I definitely experienced pain, and I didn’t have as much of a controlled birth experience as I wanted. Your video makes me feel even more excited to do it all again, and I will be using the same strategies you used. Surrender!! Thanks again 💕
@laurenwilcox3509
@laurenwilcox3509 6 ай бұрын
God I remember, can't believe I have to go through this again haha
@user-vo1ni4tw5t
@user-vo1ni4tw5t 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for showing us this. It was beautiful! I am a 69 year old widow. I cried so much. God gives us beautiful gifts from heaven. She is beautiful and your husband was so sweet during all of this. God Bless your family. Wish I could hold her. My kids are grown and I have 11 grandchildren all grown the youngest is 16. I wish you the best. Thank you so much. Love you videos.
@jennavanvolkswagen2822
@jennavanvolkswagen2822 6 ай бұрын
Weird question, but where is your bralette from that you wore in labor? Most beautiful birth and what a great way to document this! So proud of you!
@rachelelisabeth1189
@rachelelisabeth1189 6 ай бұрын
Talking to your baby in a high voice isn't "clown" It's actually been noted throughout child psychology that raising your voice with a child helps their learning. It also wouldn't be creating a "false reality" as most people are generally excited when they see babies and young children and just naturally are more tender and expressive with them.
@themellowmama
@themellowmama 6 ай бұрын
It’s the inauthenticity piece that I’m referring to. Addressing my children as if they can’t understand me if I were to use my real voice and speak about real things. Of course I’m aware of “motherese” and also speak in a sweet, potentially higher tone with my kids from time to time. You missed the point :(
@jessicastephens8712
@jessicastephens8712 7 ай бұрын
You’re story is beautiful. Your real footage was very helpful and reassuring for me. Thank you for sharing these precious moments.
@daisysoul5934
@daisysoul5934 7 ай бұрын
This video has touched me so deeply. Thank you for sharing so vulnerably 💕 i cried along with you & your family 😁
@user-nw2hy8hf9y
@user-nw2hy8hf9y 7 ай бұрын
Just beautiful!
@kxily
@kxily 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video! What birthing pool did you use?
@rohenechatterjee662
@rohenechatterjee662 8 ай бұрын
This is hands down my favourite birthing story and video. I’m gonna keep this in my back pocket to rewatch in a few months when it’s time for me (my first). Thank you so much for being vulnerable and open with sharing your story ❤
@baileerichard6024
@baileerichard6024 8 ай бұрын
I absolutely love your videos. I am so so happy I came across your page!
@baileerichard6024
@baileerichard6024 8 ай бұрын
I so needed this video! I just found out I’m pregnant and my daughter is 4. The baby is actually due on her 5th birthday. She is so so excited and already wants to help with the baby. I am so excited we decided to wait. Not only for my mental health, but for my older child as well. I was able to focus on just raising her for those 4 very very important years.❤
@jessicalierman6424
@jessicalierman6424 9 ай бұрын
11:23- great advice, my mother in law bless her heart. She was so excited but would ask me every 10 minutes, are the contractions getting stronger, do you think you’re progressing yet. This went on and on. I would recommend only yourself and your husband. It sounds great to make it a family affair until the reality of the situation takes place. Thank you for sharing! ❤
@LB-ku6ry
@LB-ku6ry 9 ай бұрын
I’m not embarrassed to say I cried. This was so beautiful. Thank you.
@gracens5548
@gracens5548 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing 💓
@user-pk7db5wz2c
@user-pk7db5wz2c 10 ай бұрын
This is so encouraging, thank you 🙏🏽
@k.y.peters796
@k.y.peters796 10 ай бұрын
I have a 13 month old and a 25 month old. In my experience, adding my youngest to the family was as smooth as can be, and at the moment people often mistake them as twins. They play together and look for each other when the other one is not around. My daughter (25 month old), took her brother with no jealousy at all. Maybe because she was so young when he was born- but she would go give him kisses, give him toys and was extremely nourishing and understanding of her baby brother despite the young age. So I’m not sure psychologically a close age gap is bad- quite the opposite in my experience. The two biggest drawbacks for me and hubby were sleep and finances (nursery prices in UK are astronomical even for one child, let alone two)- however we are slowly coming out of this phase. I do want to have a third one day though so it was interesting to hear the arguments for a longer age gap. Thanks for sharing! 😊
@sarah29880
@sarah29880 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing we want the same! I have a 9 month old ❤
@madssays
@madssays 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this, such a touching experience to watch 😢🥺
@aurielthemermaid
@aurielthemermaid 10 ай бұрын
Hi! I really enjoyed this video -- thank you for sharing such a vulnerable and beautiful birthing experience. I have a question: I understand baby needed some assistance in breathing. How did you provide that assistance? And why did you have to cut the umbilical cord sooner than you hoped? My understanding is that most babies will breathe immediately on their own upon birth, and sometimes not. Regardless, delayed cord clamping enables them to continue receiving oxygen from the placenta (should it still be attached to the uterus). If baby breathes immediately at birth (usually within ten seconds), the umbilical cord is still providing the baby oxygen and nutrients until that blood flow has stopped. Does this describe your experience?
@Redlights111
@Redlights111 10 ай бұрын
Idk why I'm watching cuz I'm planning either not to have more kids or have another one in my late 30's when my kid is already an adult.
@Proverbs3.3
@Proverbs3.3 10 ай бұрын
This is beautiful so inspiring thank you for this upload
@MrsAPeterson
@MrsAPeterson 11 ай бұрын
I’ve had two home births so far and am open to as many children as the Lord gives us ❤ congrats!
@pinkcharm91789
@pinkcharm91789 11 ай бұрын
My sons are 5 years apart and it has been nothing but an absolute joy. The calm I feel is amazing. The help I get from my older son with his little brother is so sweet and gentle. My sister and I are 8 years apart and we are best friends. I loved taking care of her when I was little and being goofy with her.
@kieykieymama95
@kieykieymama95 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this.
@vanessawest1664
@vanessawest1664 11 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much for sharing your experience. You are so so beautiful inside and out. You have such a sweet and kind nature and i loved your video. I am pregnant for the first time and my fiancé and i are preparing for a home birth. Iv had a few people try to talk me out of it and say 'especially because its your first'... im like what difference does it make if its your first or 3rd or 10th?? Would love an opinion. I trust my body and my baby and i really want to go through it at home. THANKYOU!! <3