My goal is to be more calm with things that irritate me. Controlling my anxiety and health depression
@TheeH00dduelist2 ай бұрын
I always hear people bring astrology into relationships, do you really believe “ astral compatibility “ is valid to contributing to a healthy marriage ?
@Reecie923 ай бұрын
The fact that you all are here, trying, speaks volumes and to me says that you are already doing a great job! Being a parent, and maybe a single one, is thee hardest job in the world. There’s no one way to parent because all children are very different. Give yourself some grace Mommy’s and Daddy’s ❤ Thank for the video!
@landonprice56563 ай бұрын
New place my friend did that my layout similar to hers. Oblivious my scriptures will be different
@alexisyup74214 ай бұрын
I love your videos! I hope you start posting again soon!! 💛
@Carlagalletita944 ай бұрын
I am here because i feel i do everything for my kids and they keep misbehaving and not listening and that just makes me feel so bad like im not doing something right i feel I'm not a good mom and i honestly dont know what else to do 😭 And when i say i do everything i mean it i went to school got a job i work from home to be near them i have my mom at home w me to help me cook for them since i dont have time for that. I play w them sometimes i mean i also need a break and cant do this every day. I take them out, they have alot of toys which that i stop doing because i saw no matter how much toys i buy its never enough and they misbehave that i realized i shouldn't give them prices for that. I ask them about their day i say i love you so many times i make them laugh and they are so smart because i have thought them to speak colors numbers etc since they were 6mo. Old and i can keep writing about all the good things i have done for them and they dont see/appreciate but this is too long already 😅 being a mom sucks sometimes 😭
@Carlagalletita944 ай бұрын
Forgot to mention I have 2 girls 1yr old and 5 yr old the oldest is always saying we don't love her and honestly she is the one who gets all the love and all the things and attention all the time and when we ask why she feels like that she says she just wants to be a baby we try talking to her so many times making her understand that she can't be a baby anymore and that we love her and forever will but she doesn't understand she makes a mess all the time leaves clothes everywhere doesn't want to do anything alone she wants me to do everything for her meanwhile the little one is so independent 😢 I just feel my oldest has so much jealousy but really don't understand why if again she's the one who gets the most attention and is also not fair for the little one 😭 I'm just here for help not to be criticized 🙏
@damiakingbola5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@alexdeonversaagde5 ай бұрын
Trust.. Me there is no healing. The damage is permanent.
@azmomconnection6 ай бұрын
Omg I love your hair!!! Okay. Setting goals this week!!
@azmomconnection6 ай бұрын
Take 15 min to just talk when we're on the go! And/or call each other on our commutes.
@InfinitePossibilities8088 ай бұрын
Great ideas! Thank you!
@huntswoman9 ай бұрын
Great ideas!!! ❤ Thanks so much for sharing!!!
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and glad it was helpful to you
@cikizwabongoza69069 ай бұрын
How does a wife submit to a cheating husband?
@cloudydays627711 ай бұрын
Who stays with a cheat who can givd you HIV one day? Low self esteem people is who
@alisontill767711 ай бұрын
Relationship could boyfriend relationship family Jessica till
@mnsr1211 ай бұрын
Please pray for me. The voices are implying that I would hurt my husband and daughter. Please pray for deliverance for me and healing from trauma and peace of mind and righteousness. Please help pray for me. Please please please 🙏 😢
@Your_Lifestyle_Business Жыл бұрын
Building our home on a foundation of faith! 🏡✝ Love the idea of inscribing these 7 Scriptures on our walls. What a beautiful reminder that God's Word is the cornerstone of our lives and home. Thanks for sharing this meaningful and inspiring practice! 🙏🏠
@sivasai91 Жыл бұрын
Great video and advice….
@morgancampbell0624 Жыл бұрын
My husband has struggled with a p*** addiction for a very long time and we have been together for 8 years. We have been through hell and back with one another as Before getting to know who Christ was I was a prostitute and an alcoholic. He was a drug dealer and an alcoholic. We were together for a short time while I was in college but I honestly thought I deserve better than him not realizing the ruin I was myself 😂 Once I got out of college And went through many more mentally abusive relationships and ended up in the abuse shelter. I ended up etting with him again right as I was coming back to Jesus and believe it or not he had no idea who JESUS was and that he could help him❤ We started going to a small town church and got saved baptized and married way too soon. But our love for each other was so strong even if the trials were stronger. We were really bad the 1st year as he started mentally abusing me and I started doing reactive abuse back. However the truth is we knew no different then the relationships that we grew up around. My mom was on her 3rd marriage and his parents were mentally and physically abusive living in the same house and cheating on each other 😢 We decided if that wasn't enough to get a DOG and that poor dog fed off of every inch of the evil in the house, and so did the next one 😮💨. Since we have married we have been through 6 marriage counselors most of them looked at us and told us we were lost causes but God saw more in us. I began having visions and actually got to hear God speak OUT LOUD audibly as if he was towering over my house the day after we got married that we were gonna have a son. After he stopped talking I have the instant feeling to turn to Ezekiel and it turns out that he was a musician in The Bible. MY HUSBAND IS A MUSICIAN. I instantly knew that when we had our son that we were supposed to name him Ezekiel. Fast forward years later and my husband decides to join the military in the middle of covid😅 He definitely had a way of doing things extremely backwards. However you went In because I ended up having a lot of Vertigo attacks that I did not know where Vertigo attacks at the time I just could not keep a job and so he wanted to not be able to worry about that. Fast forward almost 3 years of being a military spouse I KANSAS and we welcomed a BABY girl after 6 years of infertility. I FINALLY have a diagnosis of my Vertigo its called Vertigo migraines ! Vestibular migraines Is the medical term. It took 3 years to get a diagnosis and my body has just been through it because even after the diagnosis there was no treatment other than managing my 12 triggers, But God gave me a whole community of people that go through the same thing ❤ God really put my body to the MAX as when I found out I was having a girl at the end of my pregnancy I had chronic preclampsia and had to get Transported to a major hospital. I almost died giving birth and had to go into my biggest fear which was a C section that God already told me beforehand was going to happen even if I didn't believe him... The thing is regular c-sections are normally an In-and-out process and you feel nothing 😅 Mine did not go that way the doctors got all my medicines mixed up and the bottom half of my body was not numb... Instead it went to my head and numbed my head !!! I can't explain the piece that I felt even if I was scared through the whole scenario. I believe to this day that he numbed my head so I did not have a vertical attack in the middle of my section. It may have been a blur that day and I still down myself that I didn't hear my baby's 1st cry or want hold her, but I was going through even more as I got pancreatitis and had to get my gallbladder removed all in the same week of giving birth 😮 She ended up having a feeding tube for 3 weeks but they said I did something really special by taking care of my body she was 6 pounds 6 oz even as a preemie !!! That's forward again and we have officially bought a house, Are in the midst of renovations, Baby girl is 18 pounds and 8 months❤, My husband is deployed and he cheats on me again because he thought I was cheating on him... But all I do is run this house, take care of our daughter and take care of myself and my friends. I asked one thing before he cheated that triggered him to go cheap and it was can I have a guy friend. I would have never asked if I knew that he was going to get belligerently drunk on deployment And that I was going to get screenshots and videos of him trying to j*** o** to another women on snap chat. I warned him against Snapchat as plenty of things were sent to me and then disappeared a long time ago. However he didn't listen and God got him back I believe because it was a 50 year old man impersonating a woman. I truly believe that my husband is traumatized but I'm scared that hes going to try it again. So right now even as hes deployed there's boundaries. I have passwords to all of his accounts. He deleted Instagram, He deleted his music profile on Facebook, and soon we will have a joint account on everything. I asked him one thing after he did it and I said do you want out 😢 I love this man so much that I don't want to force the love that we have. He said no "I want you girls and I want our marriage". And everything in me wants to believe him but it opened up a world wind of trauma that already wasn't healed all the way and with him being deployed I'm having a hard time trusting that hes being faithful. A happy note to this as my husband is now a Christian rupper soon to be signed ❤ He really struggles with addiction to everything. If he gets rid of one thing he picks another up, but I can see in him that when he sees me pushing through that he wants to push through too❤ And I thought I was a woman preacher and I have a lot of preaching setup but as you mentioned wife coach I am very interested if this is where God is calling me to go I have all of the background for it and I believe I have a lot of experience for being 28 years old. I am 7 years sober from alcohol, and prostitution. I honestly don't even believe I really wanted to prostitute my body I just wanted to be loved and have somebody love me back. I am sorry this is so long but I felt God calling me to share my testimony I'm still working on trying to shorten it because there's so many details.
@Dr.Cherokie Жыл бұрын
Hey, I’m also a pharmacist! I work remote from home but it is full time and very productivity based as I have to be in the phone (mtm). So my 2year old still goes to daycare. I feel like God is calling me to be at home. I resonate so much with homemakers mindset and videos. But I’m the main breadwinner. My husband does not yet bring in a stable income or have a specific career. We’ll see. And I have 6 figure student loans. And i’m not a homeowner. So I feel stuck. I am a new grad 2020 and I know im young. But my daughter is already 2 and I do want more children. I feel like I know what I want to do. But I have nooo support to do it 😢
@josephlemkemann1456 Жыл бұрын
We ended up having our wedding in our living room 3 months ago because there was so much pressure and fighting between everyone we ended up not inviting anyone and eloped and I’m happy I got married to my wife but I felt robbed of something that was supposed to be for us. I think that people need to remember what it isn’t their day they are there to support you not to cause damage with selfishness.
@aaliyahhenderson1888 Жыл бұрын
This is one warped patriarchy serving ideology
@NathalieVA56 Жыл бұрын
I started to think about what kind of work I could do from home instead of going out and working but I realize that as a stay at home mom I already have multiple hats. And whenever I try to sit down, my mind is constantly going through a list of tasks that need to be done so therefore, adding an additional job to my home, made me feel like I would be split at home, which would almost be worse then going out and working. Therefore I focus on my home, my children, my garden, my husband and managing the finances because if no one manages the finances, it might as well go down into a big dark hole
@erikaharrison5357 Жыл бұрын
🌈 *Promosm*
@keshiaroach8999 Жыл бұрын
Hi How do your coaching work? Do you accept insurance ?
@honeybun777 Жыл бұрын
honestly you people can keep lying to yourselves and act like you can go back to normal with someone that’s cheated on you. The truth is if they cheated on you they don’t love you or respect you. You’re gonna have doubt in your heart for the rest of your life and nothing can or will make that up. Do you really want to teach your kids that it’s okay to stay with a cheater as long as they are remorseful after? So twisted.
@rarebookreviewer11 ай бұрын
You don’t know because I’m guess you didn’t try it or your partner was not agonizing over their mistake/wasn’t remorseful. The experts in the field say differently than the KZbin commenters. Marriages can be FAR BETTER than ever after infidelity. I could point you to numerous experts with over 30 years experience in the field. But I’m sure you’ll have an army of random comments that agree with you. Mostly likely… A. They never went through it or B. Never chose to try forgiveness. These are the same people that stand up and boldly proclaim “For better OR WORSE” and later show that vow was nothing more than a waste of oxygen. Obviously, if one person isn’t willing to put in the work to heal, it’ll never work. Did you watch the video…it’s a choice to repair the relationship.
@joel734811 ай бұрын
Sorry you never healed from being cheated on..the truth is that’s your opinion but studies by professionals have shown that forgiveness is possible and second chances are given and many times relationships are still successful after infidelity. Not all but many. Hope you find peace
@honeybun77711 ай бұрын
@@joel7348 no I healed when I dumped his ass I hope you find some self respect.
@honeybun77711 ай бұрын
@@rarebookreviewer why would i waste years trying to forgive someone that disregarded me completely when they decided to betray me? buddy this isn’t the 1600s no one is obligated to stay in a place where they have clearly outgrown. Stop teaching people to settle for less than they deserve. Never have kids
@fixthatface48310 ай бұрын
@@honeybun777preach! Lol
@l30307 Жыл бұрын
I am in the military overseas currently with my wife back home in the States for this short tour. I just found out that she made a male friend with whom she would play tennis during the hours I was asleep (opposite time zones). She would disappear and not tell me who she was with, until I saw her leave the gym and go to a house for 40 minutes then proceed to call me after she left and that's how I found out. She finally confessed that she was hanging out with this guy "platonically" and didn't want to tell me because I wouldn't approve of her making a random guy friend while I wasn't around. I feel so betrayed and disgusted and hatred in my heart. We've been together for 6 years and married for 2 going on 3 years and I never in my life thought she would be capable of doing this. I just found out 2 days ago, and even though she claims it was strictly platonic, I still consider that cheating, having a secret relationship with a man without my knowledge. We're supposed to move across the world together in 3 months and I'm supposed to visit home in 1 month but now my world feels like its been turned upside down.
@ChuckGaharr-NapoАй бұрын
She's for rhe streets bro
@TAHIRAH24 Жыл бұрын
This is very helpful! Thank you!
@theroyaltybloodfamily Жыл бұрын
I have 2 kids
@theroyaltybloodfamily Жыл бұрын
Hi thanks it’s my first time being a mom
@isaiahjackson3254 Жыл бұрын
Idk I’m in a rough situation my wife just told me last week she had an affair with a coworker .she was at a get together with other workers and got so drunk she didn’t know she had sex with a coworker until he told him I know her heart and I know the women I married at the altar and we both live for Christ and I decided to stay with with but it’s so tough on my mind wish I can wash my Brain and never think of it again
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for your transparency. You are definitely not in an easy situation. Yet, with God at the center of your lives and marriage, you can move forward. While God did not give us the ability to forget, I would encourage you to seek Him and also counseling or therapy to help you both manage your thoughts and feelings in a better way.
@isaiahjackson3254 Жыл бұрын
@@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna yup quick update my wife just had another conversation she wants me and the other guy 🥲and I want my wife but I put my self in a bad predicament because I just came back to states stationed from Germany and started living with her family and I signed another contract with a duty station in Georgia my heart hurts but I expected to drown in my emotions but I’m not I’ve been through this before and I can’t even look at another guy but good has my heart but it’s still crushed I want her so bad and I don’t want to make things complicated and I don’t want to her family or my family because I would hate for her to be shamed
@isaiahjackson3254 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sick to my stomach I can’t believe it I want God to just take full control and give me clear direction’s to my wife and disconnect fully to other guy but she loves him to I wish God could just show in a dream to her to show her what she’s doing is wrong and she nows it’s wrong but she still wants him and also him
@kquestvision7248 Жыл бұрын
@@isaiahjackson3254this is awful! Try to find someone you can share a place with, maybe another military person. You can’t put in the work solo. Maybe she will come to her senses, but in the meantime, you MUST work in YOUR HEALING, and outside of the confines of a relationship with her. I pray God fixes what’s broken in her, your relationship, and your heart. Be blessed and trust God! 🙏🏽💙🙏🏽
@TheExcellentFamily Жыл бұрын
You nailed it Ayanna!! I totally agree with all that you said. God called me home too; & I was VERY resistant & unsure at first. But God! 🙌🏾 I LOVE being a SAHM! The best thing I’ve gained is the deeper relationship with God. It’s more than I could have ever dreamed. Thanks so much for sharing your experience & wisdom. As always, God bless you & your beautiful family, my dear sister. 🤗
@APeacefulPursuit Жыл бұрын
I love this! I recently became a SAHM (well, I work very part time from home) and all of these adjustments are so true! I went from working more than full time to now part time + managing the home more and taking care of my baby. I wasn’t expecting the adjustment of having to make my own schedule and play around with what works and makes the days efficient for us! It’s been a challenge. But a blessing for sure 🤍
@lauraramosdelgado Жыл бұрын
As a wife I enjoy cooking for my husband and making sure he likes it. ❤ Thank you for this video. I really enjoyed it!
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching, Laura, and I enjoy cooking for my hubby too. It really warms my heart to see him enjoy a meal I made.
@J3ANDME Жыл бұрын
I went from 1 to 3 as well 😭
@TheExcellentFamily Жыл бұрын
Great tips! 👌🏾I enjoy playing Uno & phase 10 with my hubby; as well as flying our airplane. One of the thing that I do that helps me have a healthy marriage is getting up early & spending time with God. Thanks for sharing this wonderful tips. 🙏🏾 God bless you & your family!
@jemimahhezekiah218 Жыл бұрын
I dont think i will ever trust my husband again..i hv forgiven him but will nvr trust him th same. He only claims he only emotionally cheated. Bcos after giving birth i was healing and couldnt meet him sexually
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching. Trust is one of those things that definitely cannot be regained overnight once it is lost. I would encourage you to seek help from some to help you work towards building trust in your marriage.
@hellhound551 Жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as "emotional" cheating. That is just gaslighting to make things seem less threatening. That excuse is as old as the hills. No cheater will ever tell the truth about their actions. At best, they will trickle truth only what you already know. Staying with a cheater is a high risk situation. If they stepped out once, you can be sure they will do it again when the opportunity arises. Trust takes a long time to build and is so easily destroyed with one action. Forgiveness is one thing, but forgetting never happens. The doubt will always be there no matter what the cheater says or does. Is staying with the cheater really worth it? I think not. There are better people out there.
@hellomaudlyn Жыл бұрын
I currently feel lost, and scared. I got cheated on while I was pregnant, 5 months down the line, I haven’t gotten over it. I dread lonely moment’s because I get flashbacks 😢
@hellhound551 Жыл бұрын
@@hellomaudlyn For a man to cheat on his wife while she is pregnant with his child is the ultimate disrespect. It is the pinnacle of selfish behavior and shows a lack of any real commitment to the relationship. You need to evaluate this relationship and decide if this person is worth staying with. If a person can do something like this at a crucial point in your relationship, he will undoubtedly do it again when he gets the opportunity. Cheaters don't make mistakes..they make choices...his choice was to push you aside and follow his own selfish desires. Do you really want to spend your life with someone you can't really ever trust again?
@fixthatface48310 ай бұрын
@@hellomaudlynWow smh
@theparttimehomemaker Жыл бұрын
I also find the house buying process stressful. I was also wedding planning at the same time, so things weren't easy! Praise God you're on the other side of it now- congrats on selling and buying! Sometimes we need to strip things back and just focus on the basics for a while. Yes, trusting Him is huge!!!
@theparttimehomemaker Жыл бұрын
@@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna thank you xxx
@Ash0216 Жыл бұрын
I have a 2 year old and find myself having so much mom guilt comparing myself to other moms who seem to navigate motherhood so effortlessly! Thank you for this video and all the tips you shared. And God bless your family ❤
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna Жыл бұрын
I am so glad this was able to encourage you, Ashley. Comparison is a thief of joy and trust me motherhood is anything but effortless.
@TheExcellentFamily Жыл бұрын
Wow!! You truly had ALOT going on. I’m so glad that you came through that season; & recovered. We were just talking about rest at Bible study on Saturday; & how necessary it is. I appreciate your genuineness & look forward to all that you will share. God bless you & your beautiful family dear sister!
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the great welcome back! The Bible speaks a lot about rest and it helps us to stay connected with God.
@TheExcellentFamily Жыл бұрын
@@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna ❤️
@ThatChristianFamChannel Жыл бұрын
Great to see you sis. Life is life and it doesn't stop. Keep pushin in the faith.
@sophiesreality Жыл бұрын
One of my biggest mom goals is to embrace my children with hugs and affirmations. To actually be affectionate with them more. I’m a mom of 5 and I have 1 foster so that’s six ages 18 ,11, 8,6,4,2. At times I get overwhelmed and frustrated but I got this. Thanks for this video. Thinking about making a jar with my children with popsicle sticks so they can pick out fun things for us to do weekly. My 11 year old brought it to my attention that I don’t play games with them and it was like wow. I need to buy some checkers and uno cards and show them how it’s done lol.
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna Жыл бұрын
I love the idea of a fun jar with popsicle sticks. And yes, Sophie, show them how it is done!
@nadineelseudy5835 Жыл бұрын
What an amazing mama you are 🥺😍❤️
@FaithLikeThat Жыл бұрын
Great video! I have a similar video coming out on my channel today, and this one came across my feed. I think it's powerful to share from this perspective. Great help to the kingdom!
@donolivia7501 Жыл бұрын
I just bought that book on your recommendation thanks 😊
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna Жыл бұрын
Awesome and I hope you enjoy the book.
@NeneLouisy1991 Жыл бұрын
I am really struggling because I was a single parent. I had to work and do everything in the house. And I really had no time for my sons. I feel really bad because financial support isn’t everything. I really want to be a better mom to my kids because I never had one. I honestly had to go no contact with mine because she is too much to take on. I don’t hate her but I can’t take her in my life. I don’t want to drive my sons to feel that way with me.
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching, Andreaka. Being a single mom is definitely not easy, but I know your boys see how much you love them and all you do for them.
@Exceedinglimitations Жыл бұрын
What to do when your spouse doesn't leave and cleave even after marriage it's been 4yrs of marriage husband still is not moved out of uncle house and moved with me and our 4 kids
@Christinessecretwords Жыл бұрын
I was promoting my video somewhere and i clicked on yours mistake