I like girls from loving families. If you’re in my area I’d love to take you on a date.

👑🤴🏾🧬🙌🏾🙏🏾 all praise to the king of kings Jesus Christ!

May the Lord bless you sister 🙌🏾🙏🏾👼🏾🤠👑

soooo i am the friend who is never approached at the club. i AM approached everywhere else. I think maybe they can sense that I don't really want to be there. sometimes we are not getting attention because we are not in the right space for us to shine

"A person that approaches you in the wild is wild."

Thank you I really needed to hear this. I have been single for 20 years going onto 21. I am a big hopeless romantic that would get rejected because of rejection I started becoming insecure & thought I was ugly. Even in public guys would always go up to my friends and never me. So hearing this opened my eyes a lot!

i really neede this video thank you smmmmm😭😭😭❤❤

girl you're literally so pretty

EXPAND YOUR OPTIONS. And I'm saying this as a black man. Most of these comments are feeding you a bunch of coping mechanism bs. As men we are visual 1st & personality 2nd. If we don't like what we see, who she is as a person, is irrelevant. She damn near doesn't even exist when we aren't physically attracted to a woman. My advice would be to expand your options and take race off the table. There are men who do find you attractive you just have to be open to trying new things.

You’re gorgeous. Im among the minority of men that love darker skinned women.

This is every day for 23 years as a man so i do still have a lot of empathy for you. You still get reminded that youre not wanted. That sucks. Youre attractive, i know youll call me a creep for saying that though so idk what you want. Its truly terrible for you. At least with me im a man so i know its over for me. I dont have societal pressure by my parents surprisingly. I wish you the best

i am 37, single and no prospects. i wish things were different but for now thats how it is. Lexington is a beautiful place with so many people but i just find myself alone🙃🙃

you are so pretty literally no lie! its unfortunate men aint out here for you.

Nice video 💙

After coming across your channel i have decided to be more confident about topics like this and be vulnerable about topics like this with the right community. Actually i am in that era of my life were i want to be in a relationship but at the same time do not want to be. So confused 😢. Am 25 been in a less than a month relationship when I was 16 since then i have never dated

0:29 that’s exactly what I am going through right now. Feeling constant guilt for not being productive during school break 😅

No pigment as usual. I’m tired of lip oils trend.

Omg love you

This chanel is so underrated😭❤️

Also that Left Behind/idk where I'm going song is actually kinda fire you should definitely do something with that🔥

I'm no guturist but I did teach myself the basics and I would just learn chords and then strum every song lol, especially worship songs.

6:04 OKAY BUT LIKE WHY IS THAT LOW KEY FIRE

You are beautiful, black beauty

I'm 25 and I didn't get into my first relationship until 23. My advice would be to not settle, if your gut says no listen to it and its better to leave early than stick around and find out.

Excited to see what comes next

Ur so pretty!❤

2:32 that caught me so of guard though 😭😂

Yay I’m so happy for you! A new chapter for this channel. Can’t wait to see what the future brings🫶

2:11 Home alone is so real 🫶✨ Happy holidays🎄💗

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Merry Christmas♥️

It’s unfortunate because I feel like women who go through this just get told “oh you shouldn’t care” but hey in ANY situation being excluded hurts. Everyone is so damn insensitive.

You're so pretty ☺️✨💗

I can really relate to you because I’m the mama bear of my friend group but my girls gets more notice than me , but I refuse to let myself go that easy cus I’m the shy and anti social one I always gets scared when ever my friends try to help me out to break outta my shell

I know this video is old but I felt I should share something. I knew a girl , very pretty and well spoken but guys would not approach her. For context she was light skin , shapely , and dressed very nicely not to mention she was kind and made herself approachable. While we were out together the men she was talking to kept leaning over the table to compliment me while she was talking to them. I’m not a person that likes to be bothered especially not by random men. I politely said thank you and continued eating. She continued to try to talk to them she was very forward and i couldn’t understand how a woman that pretty would be bothered with those clowns. Anyhow a couple days after that happened she brought it up and told me “I think they liked you because you had mystery” she told me even while she was privately conversating with one of them that he kept bringing me up. I told her the same thing I am going to tell you “Men that are up to no good tend to like what they can’t have. They lie all the time about not wanting to play games but the bad ones love to play games. I told her she should be happy she didn’t deal with one of those losers as I could easily see they were trouble makers” When bad guys don’t like you, you should be happy. Most of them just want sex and you are too young and too beautiful to be some guys sex object. Save yourself for marriage and go out God with your body. The women who they approach they are typically only thinking what they can gain from them. When you get older it’ll make sense.

Lost 70 lbs in college. Started stripping and wow. When I saw how vain people really were. It was tough.However I didnt meet my white boyfriend until I gained 50 lbs back and actually found my real interests. Men thrive on energy and A lot of women sabatoge good energy they feel threatened by. Im surrounded by skinny women who are mostly white and hispanic and the way😊 they envy me is not surprising especially when the trend now is to "copy" the black girl vibe" well imagine how they feel when they see me with a white man and I look good, have hair almost to my butt and its natural and im curvy not to mention i grew up suburban but my parents were from the hood. So I could never be intimidated by the same ladies who instantly become uncomfortable in my presence. Find what u enjoy. Pursue that. Go to therapy. Always have your own money and flex ur natural hair at ANY LENGTH. Im 30 no kids and 2 years away from gettin my doctorate in psychology. I also dont pay bills. So stop lettin the internet lie to u & manifest whatever u want. PS men of other races absolutely treat you better. Stop thinking emotionally and understand not to put any man on a pedastool. ❤❤❤ new sub 😊

I can totally relate as a dark skinned woman as well. I was bullied by dark skinned men when i was younger for being "too black" or whatever. Its ridiculous. So i get what you went through. Btw, this was a very positive and uplifting message! ❤

Gorgeous girlie❤

SLAYYYYYY😊❤

It's J; It was hard to listen to your video. You're not bad looking but I would say, get some skills and start practicing. Your confidence would get a boost and who knows?

Where are we getting this information? I believe that too though.

I was terrified when I approached my now wife for the first time! She is your complexion with beautiful, intense eyes! I was very intimidated but I forced myself to approach her and initiate conversation. I was scared being a white man approaching this beautiful dark skinned princess. But thank god she didn’t crush me because she could have, easily. My point is, it’s not always you, sometimes guys just can’t force themselves to do it.

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Girl where do you live that a pretty girl like you has never been approached or asked out? Idaho? Wisconsin? Because I could not imagine this being the case for you in a place like Brooklyn or Atlanta. Especially nowadays that dark skin women are celebrated in these areas. Please travel and spend time in other communities if your beauty is not celebrated where you are. Good on you that you have this self-loving attitude but it's also helpful to receive affirmation from other humans and folks in your dating pool. Go where you are loved! 🌺

It's definitely your environment because you are definitely not an ugly girl. Move somewhere else.

You are gorgeous ❤ Trust me it's better to not be approached by every guy, it's not serving you...

2:49 real tho

Woooow, my wonderful daughter in Christ ❤❤❤

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