Fear Factor
5:38
3 жыл бұрын
Hospital Stay Pt 2
9:16
4 жыл бұрын
Hospital Stay Pt 1
20:20
4 жыл бұрын
MRKH Journey With Kia Ray
8:50
4 жыл бұрын
Post Surgery Update
15:37
5 жыл бұрын
Its Surgery Time!!!
18:09
5 жыл бұрын
Surgery Update
9:27
5 жыл бұрын
MOM TAG- my MRKH, HER journey
45:14
5 жыл бұрын
Trust The Process!
29:38
6 жыл бұрын
The Power of Choice!
21:39
6 жыл бұрын
MRKH Journey
23:48
6 жыл бұрын
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@GraceGodding
@GraceGodding 2 ай бұрын
Girllllll I love you and I see you. I HAVE MRKH (MULLERIAN AGENEISIS) also. It took me awhile to be comfortable speaking on it as well. Our journeys to discovery are slightly different I have the upper canal just slightly shorter ovaries nothing else. Dilators worked for me but I see that struggle I know your pain same, same but different. Your video resignated and your strength is great. I'm able and comfortable with it now, and able to achieve the O but there is a lot of misconstrued opinions like it's not hard enough and it effects me daily. I didn't seek therapy but should've. Your strong and beautiful and I wish you the best
@jazminecapel8677
@jazminecapel8677 4 ай бұрын
Do you have your overies and fallopian tubes?
@jazminecapel8677
@jazminecapel8677 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for being open with your diagnosis. I was “diagnosed” with it at a young age as well. I def understand that exclusion feeling and it sucks especially when everyone around are starting to have littles. The dr. Didn’t say much after saying I have no uterus…I just found out I have uterine fibroids a day ago. You can only get them when you have one…How idk, but I’ll be finding out soon. Go keep getting tested because mines didn’t show and for some reason it has…
@lizziethepotatopancake8974
@lizziethepotatopancake8974 6 ай бұрын
Thanks - this video is really encouraging <3 I'm 16 years old right now and found a few years back that I have MRKH type 2. I'm barely at the start of this journey and I know it's going to be a rough one, but looking at videos like this gives me hope that in 10 years I could be making videos online too about my experiences!
@jordynmuirbrown8173
@jordynmuirbrown8173 Жыл бұрын
hey i just got diagnosed with it yesterday (im 16) and i have no idea like what to do going forward, like physical thearpy and surgery or anything, do you have any advice going forward.
@jazminecapel8677
@jazminecapel8677 4 ай бұрын
Please ask your parents to seek multiple opinions
@عليالعقابي-ظ7ج
@عليالعقابي-ظ7ج Жыл бұрын
هج❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤حتق❤نما😂😂🎉😢😮😮❤😅😊😊
@sahrakhadar7676
@sahrakhadar7676 2 жыл бұрын
Your mom is so strong 😭❤️
@ankra12
@ankra12 2 жыл бұрын
Be happy you dont have the cycle.
@GraceGodding
@GraceGodding 2 ай бұрын
Clearly you don't have mrkh, because I do and would give anything to have the cycle
@mimichoum1105
@mimichoum1105 3 жыл бұрын
Pour celles souffrant de MRKH, ce n'est pas une fatalité. Grâce à la science elle peuvent devenir maman soit à travers une greffe d'utérus, soit la GPA. Moi par exemple, ma fille est née grâce à la mère porteuse du groupe de reproduction humaine de Feskov. J'étais très inquiète, je pensais même qu'elle ne me ressemblerait pas, mais quand je l'ai vue, j'ai réalisé que c'était le plus beau cadeau que la vie m'avait fait.
@casheray89
@casheray89 3 жыл бұрын
First off, you are glowing friend! Beautiful inside and out. You deserve all good and peaceful vibrations coming your way. Now the dating advice, as an adult, I've only been in 2 semi solid but long relationships and the first one either of us had kids or any significant health issues that we knew about. But over time we had a child, I developed serious health conditions that he didn't understand or could comprehend. He wasn't really interested in past my physical state for a span of 6 years. Fast forward, single and dating men with and without kids, very concerned about who would want me as a single mom with now major health conditions. Stumbled upon a man who was attracted to my physical but also my mental and spiritual being, I was completely honest about my past and present, within just the dating phase because I choose to just put it out on the table, let's not waist each other's time lol I had no issue with relatability with being a single parent because he was one. He had no pre existing or current health issues but his mother did and was in the Healthcare field. I had to educate him on my condition and he had to witness it for him to semi understand what I was going through and we weren't even on 1 year yet lol anyone who you seriously wants to be with you has to be interested in All of you, the good and the bad, sickness and in health, children or not. Take your time, we find love sometimes when it finds us but that selfcare glow you currently have is from you! When someone gives you that same glow you will know it's time to share your most vulnerable information💜
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow thank you so much Kymmy for those kind words and advise. So happy you have found love and support. You deserve it all💕
@octaviaeverett635
@octaviaeverett635 3 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful💕 Happy you are back!
@sonyahankerson5477
@sonyahankerson5477 3 жыл бұрын
Man I should have gone with you😊
@casheray89
@casheray89 3 жыл бұрын
Live friend!
@lorettamathis2784
@lorettamathis2784 3 жыл бұрын
Good to see you back
@casheray89
@casheray89 3 жыл бұрын
You are one of the strongest, beautiful, worthy, determined WOMAN I know friend. Love you whole heartedly. Thank you for sharing.
@theoneandonlyceline
@theoneandonlyceline 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I could talk about this and people not look at me crazy 😔
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
Are you apart of any FB or IG support groups? I can definitely refer you to a few. Sistahs Surviving Infertility has a virtual call every Wednesday night. You can discuss anything no judgement. Let me know if you'd like to join in.
@theoneandonlyceline
@theoneandonlyceline 4 жыл бұрын
@@kiaray856 yeah I do
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
@@theoneandonlyceline You can send me an email to [email protected] and we can go over all the details.
@theoneandonlyceline
@theoneandonlyceline 4 жыл бұрын
@@kiaray856 do you have Instagram?
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
@@theoneandonlyceline yes @_noigray
@sameeramoosa3278
@sameeramoosa3278 4 жыл бұрын
Ft
@kellybrown2819
@kellybrown2819 4 жыл бұрын
Sad
@kellybrown2819
@kellybrown2819 4 жыл бұрын
No kids
@kellybrown2819
@kellybrown2819 4 жыл бұрын
mrhk
@hikmahhood7133
@hikmahhood7133 4 жыл бұрын
Hi dear sister im also MRKH i have sad story' too hope u always get happiness in this world
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Wishing you healing and happiness as well sis!! I’m always here if you want to share your story 💕
@hikmahhood7133
@hikmahhood7133 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe i can share in email...so can u send me ur email address?
@purttiegurl
@purttiegurl 4 жыл бұрын
Is there a way I could talk to you privately about this? I have the same condition and I would like to ask questions.
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
You can send me an email to [email protected] and we can exchange contacts. My apologies about the late response.
@Maishue1473
@Maishue1473 4 жыл бұрын
Hi everyone, I read all the comments below and so touching that Im not alone in this situation. Im also a woman who had a MRKH syndrome. When I was in my teenage,Ive noticed that I don't have a menstruation. I came from a poor family, so my parents didn't bring me to the doctor for check up. It was a very hard journey in my life also because Im very shy to let other know about my situation. I can relate on your story. I keep it as a secret. Until when I got a job then I have some money, I went to see the doctor. Then the doctor told me that I don't have a uterus also. At that time, I was like im floating in the air. Everything is not clear to me why this all happen to me. My situation affects my character, i become secretive, I struggle a lot in my emotion that no one can understand me, no other people support me except that Im holding on to God. And then later on, God by His grace helps me understand why its happen. Then I thanked God my situation becuase I become closer to Him. And I believed God has a purpose. To my fellow women who has this MRKH syndrome, we are beautifully and wonderfully made by God. If God allows it to happen to us,so that we can be a testimony of His goodness, mercy and grace. We all loved by our CREATOR.
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
Michelle Ambaic thank you so much for sharing your story and encouraging words!! 💕
@maryhellwig4482
@maryhellwig4482 4 жыл бұрын
how long did you have to stay in hosipal and also how long were you hooked up to everything?
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
I stayed in the hospital for 4 days. On my last day I was able to take everything off.
@PrettyyMuchMika
@PrettyyMuchMika 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much for sharing! You have such a great support system!!
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching sis💕
@nahalymtl9445
@nahalymtl9445 4 жыл бұрын
Hang in there sista. Thank you for sharing with the world. You honesty is moving. May you be happy, wishing you love and happiness.
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the support and kind words. 💕
@unicorngurl89
@unicorngurl89 4 жыл бұрын
I have mrkh and am looking at having the davydov surgery too.. I'm pretty nervous but waiting until i have a boyfriend. Thanks for filming after and including pain scale
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome and thank you for watching. Stay tuned for Part2.
@brinneshamarion7532
@brinneshamarion7532 4 жыл бұрын
Good job 😊
@nickeyn675
@nickeyn675 5 жыл бұрын
A very emotional video! Additionally, any desire to be with a man comes with the dreaded conversation about how different things are with body... than with most women. I know somebody who was diagnosed almost 20 years ago when doctors had very little information in the way of what to do. Now they grow vaginal tissue...and do all kinds of reconstruction. There are things like IVF and surrogacy. I believe all this helps to remain more optimistic..Wishing you all the very best ahead!
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I'm definitely trying to stay optimistic throughout this process.
@jerceygleam4940
@jerceygleam4940 5 жыл бұрын
MRKH is such a demanding issue..I don't know how one can get through this on her own. Its so nice of you to share your condition with others. As this might be such an isolating path..People are hardly aware unless the issue affects their own life. I wanted to thank you for creating this video. Will definitely recommend it to a friend of mine who has MRKH type 2 and is currently undergoing surrogacy to have a child.You are very upfront and honest about this. May God bless you!
@nickeyn675
@nickeyn675 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear this..Your friend must be lucky to have you by her side!! As far as I know, type 2 MRKH is too tricky..And moreover, ladies have to pass surrogacy in case they want to have kids..IVF won't work for many..I'm glad your friend has made the decision, may god help her on the way. Where did she go?
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. You are correct MRKH is very demanding, and it never stops just moves from one stage to the next.
@celestarimble3463
@celestarimble3463 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story.. I've never known about MRKH before actually met a woman who's become a cloe friend of mine and who turned out to be MRKH sufferer too. Since then I started doing research on the point. And th every first thing I read was sth like 'Women who suffer from the condition either have an underdeveloped vagina and uterus or these structures are absent altogether. In the majority of cases, affected women do not have periods and a lack of menstruation by age 16 is often the first symptom of the condition. Women with MRKH syndrome do have normal, functioning ovaries and can still have children with the help of assisted reproduction..' The latter gives hope there MIGHT BE the solution for every case. My friend is currently looking onto surrogacy, since her dh wants genetically related kids. It's hard to understand the pains you're going through, MRKH ladies. May god help all of you.
@jerceygleam4940
@jerceygleam4940 5 жыл бұрын
Not everyone knows that ladies diagnosed with MRKH havevaginal agenesis, which refers to an absent or incomplete vagina. The uterus is very small or absent and the cervix is also missing. It’s important to understand that young women with this syndrome are just like others. I mean they have normal ovaries and experience puberty without having periods. MRKH is a syndrome that may or may not be associated with missing one kidney, skeletal, and hearing problems..Though those definitely affect the women's lives..I believe your friend has made a great decision turning to surrogacy. There are lots of options nowadays and still some perfect destinations. It's known that Ukraine has become very popular. And it's understandable why.
@nickeyn675
@nickeyn675 5 жыл бұрын
@@jerceygleam4940 I know somebody who hasn't had such a ''joyous'' experience with MRKH. She's 36 and watching all the other friends and family members carry children and then give birth to them. It is a constant reminder that the world chose differently for her..she says. With no explanation given. She's closed her fb account because she told she's got so incredibly jealous that these people all around pop out kids left and right and she can't!! Poor thing she was diagnosed almost 20 years ago when doctors had very little information in the way of what to do. Now they grow vaginal tissue...and do all kinds of reconstruction. There are things like IVF and surrogacy..donor egg and mitochondrial donation..
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
@celesta rimble Thank you so much. Please continue to be there for your friend. She is very lucky to have your support!
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
@@nickeyn675 That is the worst feeling ever. I was much like your friend. For ten years I had no social media because I just couldn't deal with the constant reminder of my "abnormality". Please continue to be in her corner with uplifting and encouraging words.
@retrify123
@retrify123 5 жыл бұрын
At what point did you reach out to the surgeons? I want to do a consult but I don't know if I need to go through a normal OBGYN to get in contact with them.
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 5 жыл бұрын
I REACHED OUT TO THE SURGEONS AFTER GOING THROUGH A SEVERAL OB'S AND TRYING DILATION FOR A COUPLE YEARS. DILATION WAS NOT HELPFUL FOR ME SO SUGERY WAS MY ONLY OPTION. I CONTACTED THE SURGEONS OFFICE DIRECTLY I DIDN'T HAVE TO GO THROUGH MY DOCTOR. IF YOU DON'T HAVE A SURGEON IS MIND IT MAY BE HELPFUL TO ASK YOUR DOCTOR FOR A REFERRAL.
@retrify123
@retrify123 5 жыл бұрын
Hi, I'm new to all of this. I ended up doing research on my own and came up with this conclusion. I have an appointment scheduled for this week to get it confirmed. I've also suffered from scoliosis (I have a severe case, had Harrington rods placed). I'm now 24 years old and I noticed that I didn't have a period, but I wasn't really concerned. I didn't start to worry until I attempted to have sex and I was told that there was a wall. Thank you for your video, I can't wait to learn more about the surgery options, how did it go for you?
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 4 жыл бұрын
Surgery went well for me. The recovery was difficult the first few weeks. The dilating process is the hardest part. My one year mark just passed and I can honestly say I have no regrets. I have scoliosis too and also had to get the rods a few years back. It sounds like you may have Type 2 MRKH. Sry for the late response, I hope your appointment went well and you were able to get more clarity.
@amberhenderson8227
@amberhenderson8227 5 жыл бұрын
Can we get another update 💛💛💛
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 5 жыл бұрын
YES I WILL BE DOING AN UPDATE SOON. SO MUCH HAS TRANSPIRED. THANK YOU FOR WATCHING.
@test1dfadfse995
@test1dfadfse995 5 жыл бұрын
can i have ur fb id please? wanna ask u something
@CytrinaShutterbug
@CytrinaShutterbug 5 жыл бұрын
I think we stayed in the same hotel different time but same hotel!
@zaddytori8124
@zaddytori8124 5 жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you....I kinda envy you for this, you're a strong woman, I recently just had a pelvic Altra sound and they couldn't find anything.....I go back Wednesday to get my true results but I truly believe I have this as well.....I'm scared even commenting lol but you let me know that I'm not alone and I had to let you know the same, I wish you the best 💜💜
@zaddytori8124
@zaddytori8124 5 жыл бұрын
I also have scoliosis and deaf in my right ear.....and of course no periods and I'm 21....you kinda have me wanting to do a video as well just to put out awareness but ehhh😭, again much love 💜
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! I hope all goes well Wednesday. This can be a very overwhelming process but no need to be scared. Like you said you are not alone. Ik it sounds cliche af lol but I really am here if you need to reach out. Appreciate your comment and support with my video🙌🏾💪🏾💕
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 5 жыл бұрын
@@zaddytori8124 You should!! I watched your video so ik you're not shy in front of the camera lol. Making my video helped me heal but ik it takes a lot to put something so personal out. Just think on it. Thanks again for the support 💕
@zaddytori8124
@zaddytori8124 5 жыл бұрын
I know wym and same to you love💜
@thetaylorshow394
@thetaylorshow394 5 жыл бұрын
miklos and moore are amazing. i have surgery next tuesday so watching your videos REALLY helped me!
@JackieNicoleex3
@JackieNicoleex3 5 жыл бұрын
Hey girl! I just came across your video & I loved it! I also have MRKH. I got emotional watching your video as it brought up so many memories & rough moments I forgot about. It’s not a bad thing, so I want to thank you! I went to go check out your channel & realized somebody gave you a shout out in one of the MRKH groups I’m in on Facebook! ❤️
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 5 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome and thank you as well for watching and supporting my videos. Brings me joy knowing I’m not alone💕
@nicolajones1695
@nicolajones1695 4 жыл бұрын
I also have Mrkh I found out 12 years ago when I was 18 I still struggle everyday but watching your video I know I’m not alone never met anyone with the condition I had no help from doctors it was so poorly done I was told I couldn’t have children then that was it I had to research it myself. I’m married now but everyday I’m terrified he will resent me one day
@camillestrickland9979
@camillestrickland9979 5 жыл бұрын
Is there an update video?
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 5 жыл бұрын
Yess I am uploading it this week!!!
@wyeshiaborden1904
@wyeshiaborden1904 5 жыл бұрын
Hey I would like to share my story with you
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 5 жыл бұрын
Wyeshia Borden Please do. I’d love to hear it. If you don’t want to share publicly feel free to email me at [email protected] Thank you so much for the support. Hope to hear from you soon💕
@StarPorter
@StarPorter 5 жыл бұрын
Awwww Ray, praying for you! You will get through it as you already stated; trust the process! God has you in his hands ❤️ love ya
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 5 жыл бұрын
Star Porter Thank you so much Sandra!!! Surgery went well and recovery well it’s going lol. Checked out your channel your still gorgeous as ever. Miss you girly. Thank you so much for the support 💕
@StarPorter
@StarPorter 5 жыл бұрын
Kia Ray you’re welcome. 😘 thank u. Miss u too.
@undergroundsaint
@undergroundsaint 6 жыл бұрын
You are an inspiration to not just women but everyone around the world. You are a fighter, keep fighting. I love you so much and am very proud of you for doing this. Love you big sis
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 6 жыл бұрын
Camryn Riley Omg thank you so much Cam!!! Just brought tears to my eyes 😭 I love you more baby bro 💕
@shaylana5880
@shaylana5880 6 жыл бұрын
I had my surgery as a teenager and I'm so happy my mom made that decision for me. Thank you for posting this video you are awesome. I will be praying for you.
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 6 жыл бұрын
shay lana Thank you ☺️💞
@ForeverBeautyx28
@ForeverBeautyx28 6 жыл бұрын
I literally felt the same way when I found out, at the time I didn’t care or worry about the possibility of not carrying my own child. Now that I’m older it’s something I think about ever single day. Just know you’re not alone girl! I just filmed a video about my experience with MRKH too if you wanna check it out!!
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 6 жыл бұрын
AslinNieshel Yess thank you for the support. I will definitely go check your video out. MRKH will not defeat us! 💕
@vivien0430
@vivien0430 6 жыл бұрын
“What I am is good enough if I would only be it openly.” - Carl R. Rogers You are doing great, sis! This is Viv on Instagram! xx
@ursulamathis8305
@ursulamathis8305 6 жыл бұрын
I am proud of you!!! The Fearless Female... God is Good and its your TIME and Season! I LOVE YOU
@ritamaynard
@ritamaynard 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve hidden it too 😞 still am tbh 😞
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 6 жыл бұрын
Narimane Mz Up until this past week I was too. I definitely understand. You will share when you’re ready no need to rush.
@ritamaynard
@ritamaynard 6 жыл бұрын
Hey , I watched till the end , it was so relatable 😭 , if you wanna talk I’m here !
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 6 жыл бұрын
Narimane Mz like wise 💕
@raulycarlacastro-moure6116
@raulycarlacastro-moure6116 6 жыл бұрын
You are not alone!!, Thank you for this video girl, you are amazing !!!!!!!
@kiaray856
@kiaray856 6 жыл бұрын
You are the amazing one!! Glad to know I don't stand alone. Thank you for the support!