026  : Queer, Lynch and icky alien
45:29
025 : Lesbian representation matters
29:22
Movies that made me cry and break down
29:47
023 : I hate your boyfriend
37:53
018 : The way of living
23:51
2 ай бұрын
017 : Take care of yourself
16:28
3 ай бұрын
014 : The less you know the better
31:31
011 : No more dating girls for me
23:42
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@AnnyDiaz
@AnnyDiaz 18 сағат бұрын
CANT BELIEVE YOU DIDNT PUT GAP THERE, Dude! (I know its not a movie, jk)
@AnnyDiaz
@AnnyDiaz 18 сағат бұрын
Did u watch GAP? Or any thai gls?
@AnnyDiaz
@AnnyDiaz 18 сағат бұрын
You tell me!
@eekalindgren90
@eekalindgren90 Күн бұрын
Maybe you want to watch: -Kissing Jessica Stein (2002) -Lapsia ja Aikuisia (Producing Adults, 2004) -Appropriate Behaviour (2009) -Reaching for the Moon (2013) -Tyttökuningas (The Girl King, 2015) -Lizzie (2018) -Colette (2018) -Baby Jane (2019) -Summerland (2020) -Tove (2020)
@Ensleyreads
@Ensleyreads Күн бұрын
post video clarity hit so hard after this episode woah
@jesimielchibundom
@jesimielchibundom Күн бұрын
I so far mainly get from discord When I tried dating app I was just given men and straight women even when I put only women as a woman Where I am there is really no queer physical space
@pinqfriday2490
@pinqfriday2490 22 сағат бұрын
what servers?
@IshtarNike
@IshtarNike 2 күн бұрын
9:14 straight guy here, please feel free to delete if this isn't the appropriate space but it just resonated with me a lot. This is exactly my take, but unfortunately due to the behaviour of certain men, straight women absolutely hate men who say this. As a straight man, if I go on dating apps and say I'm here to explore or just see how things go I get zero matches. I think your take is honestly the most mature and the most true to actual human nature. But unfortunately due to our conservative culture (relatively), more free style relationships are still frowned upon. And men have obviously made this worse by constantly lying about what they want so straight women are jaded af. Not sure where I'm going with this but I just had to say I agree 💯
@confusedinmyroom
@confusedinmyroom Күн бұрын
Safe space for everyone! Glad to hear your take on it 👊👊
@bugbrain5815
@bugbrain5815 Күн бұрын
brooo, your pfp 😭😭
@jcravenclaw
@jcravenclaw Күн бұрын
But some people just wanna have serious relationships. In my pov, If you want a casual relationship (with me), nothing physical will happen. I wait until we are serious to have it.
@barnaliadhikary9421
@barnaliadhikary9421 3 күн бұрын
You are so cute 😊😊
@p_chr
@p_chr 3 күн бұрын
Hi, I've been watching your videos, and they're always very comforting. In one of the past media recommendations you recommended the movie Conclave and you convinced me, I saw it and I loved it; thank you for taking the time of making these recommendations. Now I want to recommend two movies, these are very different from each other, but both are Mexican. First, “Como agua para chocolate” / Like water for chocolate by Alfonso Arau is based on a famous Mexican love/drama novel. The second is “Ya no estoy aqui”/ I'm No Longer Here by Fernando Frías, I think this one is on Netflix. Anyways thank you for making these videos, they're always nice to listen :)
@confusedinmyroom
@confusedinmyroom 2 күн бұрын
Thank you for listening and the recommendations!! Just put it on my watch list
@gtdcoder
@gtdcoder 3 күн бұрын
Yes, going out and meeting people is good advice. I did not get a date until I was 36 because I was so shy wnd introverted. But then I started meeting women on dating apps and in person and now I am happily married.😊
@confusedinmyroom
@confusedinmyroom 2 күн бұрын
That's really sweet happy for you!!
@suntidetheartist5912
@suntidetheartist5912 3 күн бұрын
what can you do if you’re 16-17?
@confusedinmyroom
@confusedinmyroom 2 күн бұрын
I'll try to talk about it next episode!
@suntidetheartist5912
@suntidetheartist5912 3 күн бұрын
omg I needed this so bad thank you 🙏
@Eidet
@Eidet 4 күн бұрын
Hey Youjin! I never comment but I just heard that you are going to Barcelona next month, that's awesome! I'm from Barcelona and I'm sure you're going to love it, aside of its amazing architecture, food and culture, it's one of the most lgbt-friendly cities in europe, with plenty of bars, drag events & queer couples holding hands on the streets.
@confusedinmyroom
@confusedinmyroom 2 күн бұрын
Yeahhh that's one of the reasons I chose Barcelona!!
@uvtftufd
@uvtftufd 4 күн бұрын
first
@uvtftufd
@uvtftufd 6 күн бұрын
i love your video 🥺
@GayMuses
@GayMuses 8 күн бұрын
I can't believe Bound's been around for like 30 years and you just introduced me to it. THANK YOU, WOW.
@Andrea.df.
@Andrea.df. 8 күн бұрын
hi youjin! I found your videos a few days ago! I'm from Madrid, Spain :) I really like your videos because they are relatable and also i just like hearing to you talk. Your pov on rejection really resonated with me. I'm learning french and im a bit anxious bc tomorrow i have a french exam and i strugle with perfectionism so it scares me to fail but when you spoke about how when you get rejected it sucks but you will survive it made me feel better. Anyways I just wanted to say i appreciate your videos hehe
@confusedinmyroom
@confusedinmyroom 8 күн бұрын
Good luck with your exam!!
@Andrea.df.
@Andrea.df. 7 күн бұрын
@@confusedinmyroom thank you! i went better than i expected so im happy hehe 🥰
@johnhickey4289
@johnhickey4289 9 күн бұрын
Always remember two things, in the words of Leroy Jethro Gibbs from N.C.I.S never apologise it’s a sign of weakness, and second, most important a faint heart never won any glory. All I can say as an old English man, be true to yourself, and remember you cannot draw others in until you learn to love yourself
@gtdcoder
@gtdcoder 9 күн бұрын
Thanks!
@clarettacicero
@clarettacicero 9 күн бұрын
Ahahahaha love the cliffhanger at the end 😂 curious to know what happened when you were 14 and dating a boy lol can't wait for episode 2!!
@runningonempty1094
@runningonempty1094 10 күн бұрын
hype for episode 2, may i ask what the name of the band is?
@confusedinmyroom
@confusedinmyroom 10 күн бұрын
Sure! They are called humming instinct :)
@gtdcoder
@gtdcoder 10 күн бұрын
Looking forward to Episode 2!
@Bizzy.82
@Bizzy.82 11 күн бұрын
Cute Project 👍🏾
@Gamutifc
@Gamutifc 11 күн бұрын
The vibe of this podcast is so cool
@gtdcoder
@gtdcoder 14 күн бұрын
RIP David Lynch. Loved Dune and Twin Peaks.
@stephk1970
@stephk1970 18 күн бұрын
It's -30°C here in Manitoba, Canada today. 🙃
@AshleyBaxter-m6c
@AshleyBaxter-m6c 18 күн бұрын
I also think there needs to be more sapphic representation.
@SammyLammy1D
@SammyLammy1D 20 күн бұрын
I LOVE LOVE LOVE F*cking Åmål. I am a bit too young to fully understand, but it was HUGE when it first came out. Not just in Sweden/Scandinavia. And... rumours has it that Åmål is still at odds with Trollhättan because a movie called f*cking Åmål was recorded/filmed in Trollhättan and not Åmål.
@anasjljl
@anasjljl 20 күн бұрын
Hey! Here in Russia in some regions it actually is much colder that -13 :)
@진달래-f3x
@진달래-f3x 19 күн бұрын
Раша кмон
@katiknb
@katiknb 21 күн бұрын
whats ur letterboxd??
@katiknb
@katiknb 21 күн бұрын
its really sad that the word "lesbian" has become like a swear and hard to say out because there are so many things to be proud of being part of the lesbian community. during the aids epidemic for example they were like the people who took care of the gay people hence the reason why the l stands first in the lgbtq and also in the 1970s lesbians played a huge part in the womens liberation movement. But in the place of wuhluhwuh i think it is for entertaining purposes.
@pdcc06057
@pdcc06057 21 күн бұрын
한국에 계시는군여...! 요새 너무 춥져.... 알고리즘에 우연히 떴는데,, 공감가는 얘기 많이 하셔서 요새 너무 재밌게 듣고 있어요😆🤗 Plz keep making nice vids :)
@countonmina
@countonmina 21 күн бұрын
When talking to someone I usually just say I am queer because I also don't like getting stuck on a label, but on some occasions I also use the term lesbian (mostly when talking to friends). I think since sexuality is fluid its just up to you, what you're comfortable with you can call yourself, since it is no one elses business but yourselfs. And lesbian representation, YES! It's so important, I remember growing up and not even knowing that being gay was a thing. As soon as I found out i saw a whole new possibility for me and it answered so many questions. The L Word helped me a lot during that time (I was like 12/13). I also watched every sapphic media out there (which was not a lot). I am very happy though to see that lesbian represantation got so much better.
@gtdcoder
@gtdcoder 21 күн бұрын
Yes, it's crazy now. MAGA media is actually trying to blame the LA fires on lesbians!
@Andrea.df.
@Andrea.df. 21 күн бұрын
I like calling myself a lesbian bc im not gonna let straight people define what a lesbian is like they would just do the same to the term wlw or gay woman eventually so there is no point in avoiding the word.
@Andrea.df.
@Andrea.df. 21 күн бұрын
Elon musk gives me the ick (he reminds me of a public restroom like there is something gross about him)
@fukosdimples
@fukosdimples 21 күн бұрын
This video was recommended to me after watching all of boogerlover2007’s videos so I’m excited to discover another sapphic youtuber with this video style. Seriously I’m gonna binge all of your videos when I find the time!! I’m kind of in the same boat with you, also frustrated with the lack of lesbian representation. But I discovered a whole new world of Thai GL and I think it’s worth checking out if you haven’t already. I’ve pretty much seen every American show that has even a hint of sapphic representation in it and I must say that I’ve fallen into a rabbit hole with GL from Thailand lolll (most of them are available on youtube in short snippets at a time which is such a plus). So far, from my perspective and in comparison to the handful of other ones I’ve seen, I would recommend “Pluto” first. Everything from the script to the story is really well written, the actresses have great chemistry, the cinematography is beautiful and the love scenes are very gentle and respectful. The Thai industry has been producing up to 10 GL shows each year since the first one, “GAP,” in 2022 and it’s only growing.
@Z200a
@Z200a 21 күн бұрын
Elon Musk is king of the incels. He gave almost $250 million to elect Donald Trump. He turned Twitter into a firehose of lies and disinformation. He's using his wealth and power to threaten everyone he doesn't like. He's easily the most dangerous man in the world right now. I finally quit Twitter. A ton of people have switched over to Bluesky. Bluesky is like Twitter used to be before Elon Musk turned it into a platform for neo-Nazis and incels.
@Z200a
@Z200a 21 күн бұрын
OMG, new camera and mic! Looks and sounds great! Looking forward to watching this -- stuck at work atm. Something tells me I will be watching most of these movies after this! 😂
@elizabethcurganovich59
@elizabethcurganovich59 22 күн бұрын
What about Lost & Delirious?
@JinghanLiu-z5l
@JinghanLiu-z5l 22 күн бұрын
Are there anybody who could list the name of those movies one by one? It will be inconvenient to identify each posters.
@theamy1016
@theamy1016 22 күн бұрын
0:56 "I love crying" 🥲i feel u girl.. 😂
@Ellie_loves_Dina
@Ellie_loves_Dina 22 күн бұрын
I wanted to cry and this video pop up. Thank you♡
@gtdcoder
@gtdcoder 22 күн бұрын
Great video! Nice work 💯
@vanish241
@vanish241 22 күн бұрын
Face card on another level I couldn't focus on the content
@markelcrawford8258
@markelcrawford8258 22 күн бұрын
1st
@rinkooo6006
@rinkooo6006 22 күн бұрын
You’re so real for gushing over Margaret Qualley lmaoo, she’s so gorgeous
@sapphicism
@sapphicism 24 күн бұрын
noticed this literally the second i clicked on this video but oh my god… is that a kristen stewart vogue australia 2022 poster right beside u…..
@sapphicism
@sapphicism 24 күн бұрын
after staring at it the entire video i feel like it’s maybe not ? but the outfit def looks like kristen’s outfit in that photoshoot AKSJSJSJS
@Пользовательъ
@Пользовательъ 24 күн бұрын
I recently stumbled upon your videos, and they made a huge impression on me! I feel like we've known each other for a long time, maybe because of the cozy content and your charm. Even though I don't speak English, the translator helps, and I'm amazed at how AI voices the videos. I want to express my gratitude for your heartfelt and sincere videos - they really help me not feel alone. Thanks again and Happy New Year! ;-) ❤
@computerblue84
@computerblue84 24 күн бұрын
WAIT JUST ONE SPINNING MINUTE… I’ve known of this film for so many years (never pinged on my radar until recently) but when you said it was based off of a book by Patricia Highsmith who I absolutely ADORE?! I really had no idea! Ok now i HAVE to see it! Thanks to ya now I have Carol on the top of my list and I hope I get to see why this one became your favorite! Thanks again for another slam dunk review!! 🎉