I am working on forgiving myself for being faithful and loving some one for way to long. The rewards were never there for me.

NOT REALLY .

Good better off without them. Smart

I had something similar only the female said to me that she wasn’t a lesbian and I just responded with saying neither was I. After that her attitude changed towards me and I decided to block her. I discussed this matter with an outside person who said that she was testing me and when I rejected her she went on the warpath, he also said that this type of person is dangerous and I believe it.

Don't worry about it. Think about it and tell yourself " at least someone has me on their minds". Keep being yourself and realize that most will not be your friends. Friendships are forged with genuine people. When you meet one you two will just click. I've known 3 people like that and two are deceased. I've got one left and we've been besties since we were 3 and we are both 66.

Thank you

it isnt only about forgiveness, i would agree. though I replace the word forgiveness with ACCEPTANCE..not acceptance that the wrong doing was okay, like Denzel mentioned, but rather ACCEPTING what had happened, happened and a one point , it cannot be undone. Accept the actions , not as justified, but accept what happened and realize the depth of the consequences, I feel some may not want to accept because the realization is too painful . TO fight or deny the wrongdoing keeps one in battle, and in unhappiness. TO accept the unchangeable and move on, not with a requirement of having those ppl back in your life, the latter is a choice . IF the boundary crossed by the hurtful actions is a boundary important to your well-being, I would suggest to not take them back, especially without true repentance/ For without the work of repentance or taking responsibility for the wrong doing ,or doings, you sufferred, you are assuring that the hurtful action will repeat itself and probably be much worse the second time, WIthout the other's taking responsibility, you give them permission to hurt you. again.

​@@jazmarinoI'm 65 , no second chances for disrespectful people... silence. I am gone my self respect and inner peace is priceless..I don't have time for revenge either

Totally disagree. Part of what you can't control are the people,who are in your life and their actions. It's easy to think, that you can just let them go. You can't. The classic example is that of a cheating spouse. You can't cut them out. They have excess to your children.You have financial obligations and are, at least in part, dependent on them. Another example.You have a difficult family member. If you cut them out, you pay the price of being shamed or even discarded by the rest of the family. There's someone, who acts against you in the workplace.Can you fire him or her? Most likely not.Or you'll be fired! A friend is a frenemy. Can you cut him out? Not, if you don't want to loose the rest of your circle of friends. One should always be aware of the consequences of one's actions. They are often not worth it.

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