Seriously?? How???

I understand exactly what you mean.

Hinduism follows more than one God, so the law of attraction would bring all the powers of the gods into one power. And Buddhism is about enlightment and meditation and meditation is needed to visualise for the law the attraction to work x

Definitely!

Where did you get this? Curious.

Well said.

Thank you!!! I have been trying to explain this to others but they don’t understand. I want to emphasize that if we continue to just give up on them, us empath’s, the cycle will never be broken. Empaths are the only hope to beat narcissism at its core and I am living proof that we can help narcissists see the light. I know it’s ultimately up to them to help themselves but without an empath, the chances of them seeing their true self is almost virtually impossible. I should add that it took me years of my own therapy and grounding myself through meditation and self care before I was even close to being ready to take on a narcissist. Like you said, we have to be confident with our own emotional tolerance and be able to withstand whatever they are going to throw our way. I learned that reacting to a narcissist during their episodes or rage would never be an effective method of appealing to their POV. It takes patience in waiting for that storm to pass and then approaching them in a loving and caring way. We have to remember that narcissism was created from insecurity, fear of abandonment, and other narcissist so showing them a relentless amount of unconditional love even during the most challenging times, can wear them down. Narcissist really do feel shameful after lashing out or showing their true selves, that’s when their insecurities really take root and when they see your distaste of them, it makes them more blocked off and guarded. However, when they see that your willing to love them and take the bad and the good, that’s when you start breaking through those layers and layers of bricks they had built up for so long. O do want to stress over and over not to give up your own inner peace or self love if it is al being sacrificed to them. I learned a lot from listening to Abraham Hicks on being comfortable in my own vibration and loving myself in a secure way. It’s important to stand your ground on your boundaries with them. For example, my narcissist significant other used to literally throw passive aggressive tan tantrums any time I did anything for myself but I still did the things that make me happy and ignored these “fits”. When we give into the tantrums it’s like giving into a child’s tantrums, they will see it worked and throw an even bigger one next time. When they start to see that they get them nowhere, they eventually stop caring as much and forget why it upset them in the first place. We ARE love and we need to set the example of love in order to make the changes we were are here for. I want to STRESS more than anything that if you are in an dangerous abusive relationship DO NOT try to “stick it out” or help that person. It goes back to saying that if it means sacrificing your safety or mental health, you are NOT ready for the challenge and if someone is physically abusive, no matter how prepared you think you might be. DO NOT stay. Thank you for your comment.

@@astridlove2327 this was so beautifully and eloquently put. I commend you immensely. May i ask, how do you receive the apologies you deserve? I know not to take anything personal when he’s having these episodes, I completely tune it out and move on, I genuinely forget about it, most of the time. And then other times my ego is triggered and I wonder why he isn’t kissing the ground I walk on. Is it worth it in the end? I guess I can only answer that for myself. Nonetheless, I truly enjoyed your sentiment above.

@@sovereignxv hi, thank you for your comment. I do want to put out there that my significant other is on the lower end of the narcissistic spectrum. That does not mean someone at the higher end is hopeless but it would take a lot more work, persistence and emotional stability to be able to break through. I had learned an interesting lesson through my own past experiences, beating drug addiction and finding myself again. I think this can apply to anything that is a negative behavior or habit that has had years to develop. I actually taught this is my substance abuse therapy group. People have to have a break down before they can break through. So for instance, my significant other will behave in undesirable ways, passive aggressive, moody, you know how it goes but I have also stood my ground on what my boundaries are and what I’m willing to tolerate. So when he crosses that line, I make him fully aware and I let him experience a break down. That isn’t by trying to battle with words or even appeal to his emotions. I do not respond to him in any way other than leave and go stay somewhere else with the kids until the storm has passed but when I do this this, I do not tell him I don’t communicate when I’m coming home or if I even plan to come home. This allows him time to be alone because remember they fear abandonment and being left behind, so sitting at home worried that his wife and kids may never come back as a result of his behaviors (even if he gaslights and flips the switch on me because when does and they will) they know deep down what the root of that problem is. So I give him time and space and I give me time and space, then as time goes by he softens his stance on who is at fault. He will begin to slowly take responsibility. When things have calmed down and I see that his anger and rage has dissipated to vulnerability and there is break through, then I am able to delicately approach it. I usually just let him know how I feel without any kind of “you” statements towards him. I will say that I’m willing to come home but I still have some self reflection and care to work on before I am ready to approach it with him. I let him know that he’s loved and needed but also that doesn’t mean that I am willing to take whatever he throws at me. I always get an apology upon returning back home. The important thing about this is like I mentioned before, they are kids throwing tantrums so if you are not consistent in making your boundaries clear and you let certain things slide that are crossing your line, next time the tantrum is going to be louder and last longer if they thing it will give them their way. Being firm and consistent on where you stand, slowly breaks them down. When we started a family years ago, I don’t know how I dealt with it. His moods and passive aggressive behaviors would last sometimes more than a week at a time and it was hard. But after being consistent with my boundaries over the years, he has now broken down and has had a major break through with these behaviors. He isn’t cured by any means but he has improve significantly and has relaly come a long way, and he will admit it to anyone who knows him that my tolerance, willingness to love him but not take his shit, has made him a much better and secure person. He will make jokes about how he doesn’t know how I have put up with him over the year and that’s how he knows I’m someone who is able to love and see the good in anyone, but I know when he jokes like that it’s his way of expressing what it’s hard for him to say in seriousness. It hasn’t been easy by any means but I think keeping in mind that people have to breakdown in order to break through is a good start. Best of luck!!

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