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@bradvincet1848
@bradvincet1848 Күн бұрын
Are you controlling your money, or is your money controlling you?
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 11 сағат бұрын
That's a good question! Do you feel restricted or free when it comes to $$$?
@cliftonhammock1152
@cliftonhammock1152 6 күн бұрын
You're a wise young man Ben....Keep it Up....
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 6 күн бұрын
Thanks for the kind words :)
@pokedude0579
@pokedude0579 7 күн бұрын
Such a gold mine of information in this video. I couldn't agree more, having capital is great but what good is it if it never leaves your index fund. But on the flip side living paycheck to paycheck is a recipe for disaster. So a healthy mix of being financially conscience but also being a producer is something I wholeheartedly agree with, that's why you see me coaching 4 days a week on top of my day job ;)
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 7 күн бұрын
Yeah, financially conscious is a good way to put it. It's about using your money in useful ways instead of wasteful ways. Cheers!
@user-lm6me2tz9t
@user-lm6me2tz9t 7 күн бұрын
Frugal literally means "cautious, economical, prudent". It NEVER meant that you are a cheapskate that bought nothing and tried to live on peanuts. By the way the word ECO-NOMY literally means "managing your house" (from the greek words "οικος" (house) and "νέμω" (govern) ). Whoever said that "economy" means to by just one step upwards from living in a tent, other than silly people that wanted to make "content" for their books or online :/ Things are actually simple: A) Invest in life and things that are important to you. Buy good healthy food and a quality chair and desk (if you work from the computer), buy a quality bed and mattress - sleep is 1/3 of your day! - buy quality things that you use a lot and will last you decades B) Save money on frivolous things and do not buy them at all (e.g. expensive phones, cars, watches, jewelery, houses, brand products, etc. ) C) Take care that your house is neat and nice on the inside, do not bother much on the looks and the outside. D) Buy a cheap sensible car brand new and keep it forever (a Corolla is 27k brand new - it will last you many decades, never sell it. That way who cares about depreciation?) E) Try to be independent in general, not only financially. E.g. get some solar panels for your house. Buy a water filter, buy tools and learn to DYI some things that seem fun and not dangerous (electrical wiring? Dangerous. Avoid it unless you know what you are doing. Plumbing? Not dangerous. Try it out.) Life is not THAT hard. Stay away from hyperbole and you can have a nice life while living frugally :)
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 6 күн бұрын
That's a great list!
@mom2artists
@mom2artists Күн бұрын
I like your comment but solar panels are often a poor investment. It depends on how it's done and most people do it wrong.
@user-lm6me2tz9t
@user-lm6me2tz9t Күн бұрын
​@@mom2artists Obviously you won't put solar panels in a place they are not suitable for and you won't hire amateurs to do a professional job. At least I didn't. My panels actually produce far more energy than I consume, so with the net-mettering contract I've signed I am building an energy buffer. Even with a few months of the panels working at full strength, I've gained a 1.4 Megawatts of surplus which is practically stored for me, by the electricity company, for free. ;) Did I mention that I got half of the system's cost on a "green power subsidy"? Yeah, sure, those tactics are not for every country/place, but if you look things up there are good chances everywhere now that "green energy" is the current trend.
@kellydoeslife
@kellydoeslife 8 күн бұрын
Great video Ben!!! Really enjoyed 😊
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 7 күн бұрын
Thanks so much!
@natashatheresa
@natashatheresa 8 күн бұрын
The cost per use was such a great point! Great video Ben!!
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 7 күн бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@OKBrickFamily
@OKBrickFamily 8 күн бұрын
Yes, I buy so much in bed!!!
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 8 күн бұрын
I actually created a rule for myself where I don't use my cellphone in bed anymore. Helps with sleep schedule!
@OKBrickFamily
@OKBrickFamily 8 күн бұрын
@@ben-adler So smart!!!
@OKBrickFamily
@OKBrickFamily 9 күн бұрын
Great video! And wow, how do you live on so little?!? Does that include your mortgage/rent too?
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 8 күн бұрын
Yep that includes everything. The biggest savings hack I do is I rent a room, which makes my rent in the bottom 2% for my city. I also work from home and don't have any debt. Then I don't really buy useless stuff and zero junk food.
@OKBrickFamily
@OKBrickFamily 8 күн бұрын
@@ben-adler That’s amazing!
@user-kb5vg6vh2z
@user-kb5vg6vh2z 9 күн бұрын
great content
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 9 күн бұрын
Thanks :)
@KevinOLoughlin-ys5ef
@KevinOLoughlin-ys5ef 9 күн бұрын
I think everyone should live frugally but we all need to find the balance that suits us. When you're young you're time-rich and financially-poor, later in life it flips over. The key is to live within your means. My wife and I got into serious debt about 20 years ago, mortgage size debt and one day it came to a head, we remortgaged the house, cleared the debts and we became "born again misers"! These days we're mortgage free and debt free, we never stopped saving into pensions and savings no matter what happened. These days I'm putting about 40% take home into savings, 25% is for bills. The rest is for groceries and gas for the car, if we have a lean month then leftovers goes straight into savings, some months we've done 60% into savings by just going without. I'm 52 and I want to retire before I'm 60. My mum died at age 63 and never got to retire, a good friend recently died aged just 49. My workmate one his friends recently died at age 57, just a week before retirement. No good saving all this money if you're never going to enjoy it, save it, retire as early as you can manage and then enjoy all the time you have left as reward.
@edisonguy7151
@edisonguy7151 9 күн бұрын
Awesome content!
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 9 күн бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@Pizzageek-jc4xp
@Pizzageek-jc4xp 9 күн бұрын
As a lifelong frugal person, the scarcity mindset became a real problem for me, it really starts to affect your mental health. You can have a ton of money in the bank and still feel poverty stricken and that just poisons your life. You're as rich as you feel so splurge once in a while, notably for things that will last.
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 9 күн бұрын
It's good that you recognized it. Cheers!
@bradvincet1848
@bradvincet1848 Күн бұрын
Yes, I couldn't agree more with the scarcity mindset and well-being. Your life takes a backseat to money.
@llane375
@llane375 9 күн бұрын
cool video - this is realistic.
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 9 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it 😊
@2468mrg
@2468mrg 9 күн бұрын
Ive had he same hair clippers for 15 years,so suppose unintentionally ive saved spending at hairdressers ,cant stand the small talk anyway :)
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 9 күн бұрын
Totally agree about the small talk! Kinda wish there was a button you could press the let's the barber know if you want to talk or not.
@Odia_bhaina
@Odia_bhaina 8 күн бұрын
​@@ben-adlerone such barbershop started in Sweden. No talking at all.
@user-lf3zu6fx2r
@user-lf3zu6fx2r 9 күн бұрын
Live frugal but live with purpose (invest 2) and not punishment is what I'm getting from this video. I also found the 'what vs why' paradox interesting. Scarcity Mindset is something that isn't talked about a lot within 'frugal' or otherwise money saving forums - well done! Your whole video is well put together, has nice flow and messaging. Surprised you don't have more followers!
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 9 күн бұрын
Thanks! I think that is a great way to summarize it, have purpose and not a punishment.
@RitaMarhaban
@RitaMarhaban 9 күн бұрын
Great content. Keep it up. Airpods are bad for your brain, so try to avoid them.
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 9 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it. I haven't heard that earpods before, I'll research that.
@kallistoindrani5689
@kallistoindrani5689 9 күн бұрын
At last, someone that is realistic about being frugal/spending less money.
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 9 күн бұрын
Yep, sometimes it's about balance too
@user-lm6me2tz9t
@user-lm6me2tz9t 7 күн бұрын
​@@ben-adler Or a good thesaurus :P Frugal literally means "cautious, economical, prudent". It NEVER meant that you are a cheapskate that bought nothing and tried to live on peanuts. By the way the word ECO-NOMY literally means "managing your house" (from the greek words "οικος" (house) and "νέμω" (govern) ). Whoever said that "economy" means to by just one step upwards from living in a tent, other than silly people that wanted to make "content" for their books or online :/ Things are actually simple: A) Invest in life and things that are important to you. Buy good healthy food and a quality chair and desk (if you work from the computer), buy a quality bed and mattress - sleep is 1/3 of your day! - buy quality things that you use a lot and will last you decades B) Save money on frivolous things and do not buy them at all (e.g. expensive phones, cars, watches, jewelery, houses, brand products, etc. ) C) Take care that your house is neat and nice on the inside, do not bother much on the looks and the outside. D) Buy a cheap sensible car brand new and keep it forever (a Corolla is 27k brand new - it will last you many decades, never sell it. That way who cares about depreciation?) E) Try to be independent in general, not only financially. E.g. get some solar panels for your house. Buy a water filter, buy tools and learn to DYI some things that seem fun and not dangerous (electrical wiring? Dangerous. Avoid it unless you know what you are doing. Plumbing? Not dangerous. Try it out.) Life is not THAT hard. Stay away from hyperbole and you can have a nice life while living frugally :)
@andreiureche
@andreiureche 9 күн бұрын
Your videos are getting better and better, congrats! Where do you get those refurbished laptops?
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 9 күн бұрын
Thanks! I use swappa.com. You can buy brand new electronics that are technically "used" for much cheaper. I bought my pixel 7 there for 1/2 off. Not a scratch on it and works perfect.
@sarangnikam-sr5hg
@sarangnikam-sr5hg 10 күн бұрын
1. Hv dedicated containers, 2. Use Calenders, 3. Get a whiteboard, 4. Morning and night routines, 5. Limit distractions..
@patriciacerwin6266
@patriciacerwin6266 16 күн бұрын
I believe debit cards have the same fraud protection if you use it without your pin number. Thus, it is like a credit card. Only rime i use pin is if i want cash back. Otherwise, i never use pin, just run the card, and i dont even have to sign. I guess check with the bank that issued debit card to see how they handle fraud if using your debit card.
@kens805
@kens805 25 күн бұрын
News FLash! No such thing as "High Yield" savings account!! DUH.
@user-ou1ui3dy1g
@user-ou1ui3dy1g 25 күн бұрын
1. pay off debt (start with lowest amount) 2. Emergency fund (3-6 months salary) 3. Invest 4. Enjoy it (i.e. travel) 5. Give back
@user-yo1cs9jw4j
@user-yo1cs9jw4j 26 күн бұрын
Rent alone is 2 grand. I have a baby. I pay bills alone as if I’m single. Then you have gas and electric, some people’s laundry, trash; pet, groceries etc. the mains is at least 3 grand. 😂
@davyhenry8985
@davyhenry8985 26 күн бұрын
It's possible
@mrexpress8002
@mrexpress8002 Ай бұрын
my biggest debt is my wife
@user-ou1ui3dy1g
@user-ou1ui3dy1g 25 күн бұрын
Sounds like a happy and healthy relationship …
@libbaT
@libbaT 14 күн бұрын
😂........ahem. I have no idea what you're talking about! 😇
@user-ou1ui3dy1g
@user-ou1ui3dy1g 11 күн бұрын
@@libbaT Are you the wife? 😁
@libbaT
@libbaT 11 күн бұрын
@@user-ou1ui3dy1g lol
@scotwelker9741
@scotwelker9741 Ай бұрын
I am 68 and retired. What you say is all true and good advice. I started early, took advantage of my employer's match for the entire term of my 35 years with that company. It's pretty amazing how much you can accumulate without a lot of noticeable outlay each month. Good job on the video Ben. Hope people are watching and listening!
@ben-adler
@ben-adler 29 күн бұрын
Glad you liked it. I totally agree that starting early is key. When you start early, you don't need to invest as much because of the compounding interest. One of my mistakes was not learning about this earlier.
@JakobRoseMorrison
@JakobRoseMorrison Ай бұрын
It is possible! My fixed costs add up to $954. I choose not to because that would be miserable, but it is for sure possible for some
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Yep, I think it's definitely important to have some joy in your life
@rprevolution1
@rprevolution1 Ай бұрын
I love your videos, I am new to investing . Are Robo accounts like Acorns, Wealthfront , any good to do . How do you buy the vanguard complete market with out a financial advisor getting involved ? I tried setting up a self employed account and a advisor said that you need a advisor to set up these accounts. Thanks for all you do ?
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Aw thanks very much. I haven't used robo accounts before. Buying total stock market funds are easy and you don't need an advisor. What you want to do is create an account with your broker (Vanguard or Fidelity are good), then you'll link your bank account, then you can buy the fund you want. I also set up my solo 401k myself but I worked with a CPA to make sure I was doing it right.
@andreiureche
@andreiureche Ай бұрын
great video, need to address those credit card debts. I counted and it's like paying a Tesla Y every-month to the bank
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Will be nice once you clear those debts!
@Alienonearth287
@Alienonearth287 Ай бұрын
1000 per month???? 😂😂😂 This a joke,right? 😂😂😂 In my country we live with 80 per month😂😂😂 1000 per month....😂😂😂 You hawe to be very rich to spend 1000,this is luxury here😂😂😂 you are funny anyway 👍😄
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
In the USA, $1000 per month is below the poverty level. It's more expensive here compared to other countries.
@sugarmagnolia1147
@sugarmagnolia1147 Ай бұрын
I literally live on 1000$ a month. In Cali on a property so no rent, solar setup keeps the lights on, but its rough.
@rprevolution1
@rprevolution1 Ай бұрын
Hi Ben , I am new to your channel just subscribe today . I cut my cable out to put that extra money on my credit cards. I will be debt free in 3 months. Is Acorns good to invest in? I not real knowledgeable in investing, and some friend of mine told me they make it easy . Keep the videos coming I going to look into mint mobile soon . Can’t wait to be debt free .
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Wow congrats! Seems like you are on the right track. I haven't used Acorns. I usually recommend fidelity and vanguard for investments.
@snehathakur3296
@snehathakur3296 Ай бұрын
I love your smile 🥂❤
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Thank you :)
@-holic6486
@-holic6486 Ай бұрын
New subber here, I like the less to no-music bg and explaining things upfront, just like how finances should really be 🙂 more power
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Sometimes simple is best. Thanks for the comment :)
@dawidbober9564
@dawidbober9564 Ай бұрын
Valuable information, short, straight to the point. Good video :)
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it :)
@DjBaapreB
@DjBaapreB Ай бұрын
If on payday there is a leftover amount of previous month then transfer that to your savings.
@pb25193
@pb25193 Ай бұрын
No, i want 90K in 10 days. 😢
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
The closest I've come to doing that was building a business!
@andreiureche
@andreiureche Ай бұрын
Your videos are getting better and better each time! 💪
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Thanks very much :)
@GabeBult
@GabeBult Ай бұрын
Simplifying your finances is a game changer 🔥 much less stressful
@tamihill4229
@tamihill4229 Ай бұрын
Yes it is possible. I do it evert month. I am on ssi
@nanannyse
@nanannyse Ай бұрын
Fantastic video! Glad I ran into your channel.
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
aww glad you liked it!
@pshivie
@pshivie Ай бұрын
Thank you
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Glad it helped :)
@kaythegardener
@kaythegardener Ай бұрын
How much does your seasonal expenses, eg auto insurance, etc. add to your monthly fixed expenses? How much do you have for variable expenses, eg food, gas, energy, etc?
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
For auto insurance, I use AAA and pay $180 every 6 months (~$30/mo). Working from home really helps. I don't budget the rest of the expenses since I'm able to save a lot.
@kellyclark7517
@kellyclark7517 Ай бұрын
No more social media for me!!! I feel so free……………
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
wow, that's a big step. I pretty much live online so that would be quite difficult for me
@kellyclark7517
@kellyclark7517 Ай бұрын
Ty!
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Check out SoFi. Earn $25 with $25 deposit and $300 when you set up direct deposit: www.sofi.com/invite/money?gcp=120a3862-de27-48e8-b04f-39c513be9da6&isAliasGcp=false
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Hi guys, I just opened a SoFI HYSA. They have high fees and you can get free $25 when you signup and an extra $300 when you do direct deposit. www.sofi.com/invite/money?gcp=120a3862-de27-48e8-b04f-39c513be9da6&isAliasGcp=false
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
Hi guys, I just opened a SoFI HYSA. They have high fees and you can get free $25 when you signup and an extra $300 when you do direct deposit. www.sofi.com/invite/money?gcp=120a3862-de27-48e8-b04f-39c513be9da6&isAliasGcp=false
@garypiont6114
@garypiont6114 Ай бұрын
Don't invest in completely useless tattoos.
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
I don't have any but each their own!
@philipp3001
@philipp3001 Ай бұрын
I spend $400 a month on groceries and I'm also shopping smart. Looking for better prices. I dont know how someone can spend less than that and eat healthy at the same time.
@ben-adler
@ben-adler Ай бұрын
For me I don't buy any drinks, snacks, or deserts which helps