always have a plan b if you leave your job depending on a KZbin check..you'll be living in your car listening to these ppl if

I'm 71. Wasted my life. Got fired from toxic workplace after 37 years. I feel great!

You're beautiful ♥️♥️♥️🩷♥️

Awesome talk! TY

Glad to see you back!!

I have two weeks left before my contract ends. I’ll be out of the hell hole.

You give me the courage to leave my toxic workplace and i left. Toxic workplace is really.

agg i say this, black women we gotta do less. and be allowed to do the barest minimum, we gotta just wake up to a life of ease more often. 😮‍💨

I did quit a toxic job last year and started a KZbin channel. Though i have realized that growing a KZbin channel is hard.i have no regrets and giving up is not an option one day the channel will grow. So I agree 💯 with this video

You Took the Words Right out My Mouth! 🎯 I would never hurt myself or a job Though, self love is everything is this cruel world ☮

I just want to add that in this society ruthlessness backbiting and cruelty seem to be okay in the workplace whereas it is not okay to be kind and generous in spirit. These qualities are seen as weak. I doubt there is any work place left that is toxic free. The whole of society is so dysfunctional.

I just watched this video. I wished I had seen this before because I left one toxic place after another, but always left too late. I would become very ill, go off sick then not go back because I could not face it. The last time it happened was in 2017. I try to stay for the security as there is big job shortage. After i went sick i remained sick. I am still very ill too ill to do housework go and do the things I would like to do. I am on medication with side effects and I am bedridden alot of the time. Kindness is very undervalued by society. I was this nice and kind person who got bullied and harassed over and over again. It is sound advice you saying self care of your mental health comes before money. I wish i realised this a long time ago. Now I am too mentally ill.

i remember working a job that, at the time i did not realize was toxic the pay was ass i even went to heights of saying i would work more days because of the pay so i could make more due to my financial struggles at the time, my advice to anybody is to never do that. always go and find a job that is suitable for you and that benefits you in the long run you will get so much farther mentally really. your mental and energy matter and sometimes that means walking away from a job even if you like it.

I quit a toxic job and I didn’t have another job. I don’t need to be abused to make a living.

Great video ❤

Glad this video found me. An incompetent man yelled at me in front of others. I reacted and stood up for myself and he recommended termination. Somehow, I found myself nervous about being fired , nervous about finances but as I look at my anxiety… no growth potential, I’m okay with whatever happens tomorrow

Great advice! I quit and I feel so relieved!!!

I have been listening to quit your job videos since 2 a.m. Yours is the most profound. Unfortunately I did not save in my younger years so still have to work. But that doesn’t mean I have to put up with toxic people at work. I don’t mind the work (law firm) but some of the people there are nasty. I am planning my exit strategy today. I am so glad I found you. Thank you.

I feel this. My current job I’ve been at for about 2 1/2 years. It is so toxic and my manager doesn’t do anything about it. I work at a clinic btw. Patients are constantly complaining, coworkers being petty, poor communication and if we don’t do something that someone doesn’t want us to do such as putting too many patients on the schedule even though there are openings, the nurse practitioner may get mad instead of communicating with us telling us they only want a certain amount checked in, sending messages to the providers and not getting a response from them even though they read the messages and then the patients call back mad and then then the nurses get mad if we call them and tell them a patient is on the phone since they’re in clinic and I need to SEND ANOTHER MESSAGE!! Another coworker of mine doesn’t want to ever do shit and she even vapes at work and no one does anything about it. Aldo another coworker came in drunk a couple weeks ago and didn’t even get fired. One of the nurse practitioners has been suspended a couple of times for her bad behavior and bullying but never fired. And another coworker of mine has called me a midget because I’m short(4’10) and when I got my hair cut last year I think, she and a few others told me “did you cut your hair yourself? You should have gotten layers.” Stuff like that and so I ended up going and getting layers and it made me hate my hair even more! I even like K-pop and K-dramas and my coworkers think that’s weird(except for 1 who is just as weird as I am 😁) These are just some of the things about my job that I can think of right now. I’ve been trying for almost a year to get a new job and have not been successful. I need to leave my job but I don’t want to until I find another job which just adds to the stress because I’m do scared to start something new when I could just stay at a job that is “comfortable”. My home life is so toxic and negative too. I don’t feel happy or emotionally safe anywhere!

Hello I’m a lawyer in the Philadelphia area who enjoys watching your videos. I remember you mentioning that you were from Philly in a previous video. If you’re ever in the area, maybe we could meet for coffee. Take care! And thank you for being such an inspiration.

Thank you. That was helpful. 🙏

It was nice meeting you years ago in Rocky Mount. You were always smiling and improving every area you filled with your inner joy

Thank you so much! Bless you x

I work with people who have serious mental illnesses. One of these spent two months institutionalized, and is now a manager! She has been bullying me since day one. I resigned today, and immediately feel better !

You are pretty awesome! Hope and pray the Lord keeps blessing you. Enjoyed your video.

Good video!!! I am definitely going to make that toxic job i am at. Thanks 👍

I did, with several. But only due to the fact that I had some other jobs secure. Most people just can't do it.

Great advice and perfect timing! Thanks!

Thank you for your encouragement!

Most employers where I live don’t care about their employees. There are no wellness programs. Heck, no appreciation is shown to employees for their hard work.

It is!! I left the last workplace that had a very toxic female who was a long time employee and went out of her way to sabotage me. I left that job and moved out of state. My mental health is priceless. I started to dread going to work in the morning. I called in sick twice (migraines and dread). I couldn’t work properly because I was constantly criticized, talked down to, and watched.

I just officially quit my job yesterday. On Friday when my shift was over I decided that Im not returning. I sent an official resignation letter to the manager via email on Monday. The environment is turning toxic and unbearable because of a certain employee. Its so bad that no one really likes her at the workplace. Shes causing all types of drama and chaos but the managers haven't done anything about it because shes a narcissist and knows how to play that card smh. I got into a confrontation with her and had to put her in her place. Im so glad to be gone and Im much happier!!!!

I can recall actually praying the Our Father and Hail Mary prayers when I was getting close to work while in my car. This was years ago and I was much younger and right out of college. My supervisor was brutal and relentless. At some point, I said to myself, “Screw this. I’m not backing down. I’ll be here every day early and on-time. I’m going to remind my supervisor that I exist and bless him with my presence everyday. I’m going to be the one to initiate all conversations and work issues. In other words, I’ll approach him before he approaches me. I’m going to become an attack dog in my own mind.” After work, went straight to the free-weight room and lifted heavy weights building my quads, chest, and arms. And did I ever. That was 28 years ago and I’m still standing and still just as motivated. He’s long retired. I’m still in the same office. I won’t let anyone beat me. Not happening.

great message!

I just quit my toxic job today after 20 years 🎉never felt so happy-ask Jesus and he will provide, thank you for the video!

This video was so helpful. You really gave me confirmation in my current situation. God Bless you Sister!

Oh my goodness - yes, yes, yes, sister! 👏 my body has been suffering and I am just so drained but worried because of bills, but like you said God does amazing things and I feel like I’m so close to taking that plunge. This is definitely a confirmation! Love you and thank you ♥️

youre a bad ass!

How did your birthday go?

Just left a job after only two weeks there because of toxic manager. Best thing I could've done

This video is absolutely amazing and refreshing to know that I’m not alone. I just started my new job 11 days ago and it has been the worse working environment that I’ve ever I worked in. I have a drug screen scheduled this coming Monday and once I get my official job offer from new my employer I’m definitely leaving this current employer. I’ve never questioned my capabilities until working with this company and it’s all because of my manager that I’m training with. I spoke to the manager above her multiple times and he’s obviously bias and not taking my complaints into considerations so it’s no point of staying. I told him to put me in in a different department and it’s been great. All the associates in that department are extremely respectful, helpful, and work as a team. Even though the new department has been great my first manager made a bad impression. So I’m leaving to a better company with better pay.

Wow This was so good.

I just quit my job at a chicken processing plant. The work was disgusting, grueling, hard and labor intensive. Me being who I am I worked harder than everybody else but all that happened was me getting taken advantage of because of my work ethic. All the hardest jobs I get to do while the lazy guys get off with the easy work. My body hurts and my mental health is taking a dive. I have support from my family but it sucks not having a job. I just couldn’t take another day.

New subscriber too! I'm binge watching your videos. This is an on time word, you are a blessing. Just don't know how much I needed this sis. God bles you!! 🙏 🙏 🙏

New subscriber here! This was such a good talk, I listened to it twice. I love the way you speak to yourself, about yourself. It's important that we have healthy self talk, reminding ourselves what's acceptable and what is not. Thank you sis! I love your hairstyle too, very chic and professional. Thank you for sharing your faith, its refreshing!🙏

Looking for another job is an act of strength, courage, resilience and self care. I made the decision to look for a new gig! So releaving.

I was working with a woman that would probably get violent or use the system against someone she didn’t like, or even use false accusations. She was that nuts. I’m just not going to be around that. Not worth it.

Thank you so much.I gave my two weeks notice at job that was a very toxic environment.

Very well stated. I wish I had found this video when you first posted it. This was very helpful!

This is a message in season and a confirmation for me. I left end June 2023. After I left I didn't miss anything about the job even though I no longer earn that amount of money. I'm glad I put my self first. They were also asking me if I am leaving the Government.