This channel has been one of the greatest channels I’ve ever watched. Im surprised to find how few subscribers you have. It is filmed well, informative, short, and to the point. I am currently getting a divorce, and have gotten through soo many obstacles cleanly due to watching these. Thanks for all the help, keep up the good work
@Chad_MaxКүн бұрын
It’s bc women engage in comparative analysis. They’re constantly checking to see how their relationship measures up to everyone else she knows. This leads to her being unhappy. Remember women live for everyone else and therefore they’re incapable of finding enlightenment which is self directed. Only the Buddha could sit still under a tree for years, no woman would be able to do that without going crazy. Marriage today has just become too costly for men bc there will never be a fully happy state, she will always feel like something is lacking bc of her nature…
@Imakemusic-l6y4 күн бұрын
I’m scared of women
@ThompsonJustin14 күн бұрын
What house is she taking care of? Oh yeah the one men are paying for. Ya men are definitely not needed
@alykhannizar40904 күн бұрын
Without the woman the house will be a mess
@bole30194 күн бұрын
@@alykhannizar4090I think cleaning a house might be slightly easier than paying for one considering you can pay a cleaner like $30 to do it for you
@mjaybee5 күн бұрын
Complete BS
@IMOO18965 күн бұрын
All he had to do was answer the question with a number, that was the question!
@BasketballCINEMA06 күн бұрын
Wow. A main reason is people get bored with each other and don’t respect each other, anytime there’s a problem no one has patience with each other
@CDVOX7 күн бұрын
That’s how it is once they get ‘the dole’- with 98%. There are still some good ones out there, but most are taken or going though the same struggle as others looking. 8 billion people in the world. Half of that is 3.96 billion . 2% of that is 79.6 million Of that number of people who ‘understand what a good relationship takes’ being married is 39.6 million. Half of that already in a relationship is 19.8 million. And about 2/3 left who are actually seeking a relationship leaves you with relatively 13.2 million people globally who understand what it takes, what comprises, and what one must do in a healthy relationship. In summation, emotionally available, cognizant ,and ethical people represent the smallest contingent in the dating pool- Good luck. 😉 Anyone who tells you you have a shot at this is selling you something -
@mauzeking66619 күн бұрын
um, BS, this may work for women (I doubt it), if I as a dude shut up I might buy myself 3 min of time at the expense of her continuing. Most women either, 1) have prepared for the fight they planned (and may need to have) or 2) it's built up over time and has now exploded. In either case, this is the time that the fight is going to happen, She can not or will she wait. The best advice ask her to pause while you get a notebook so you can listen. Then tell her you are going to hear her out and write notes. Once she has completed, read back to her what you heard and ask two questions 1) is this an accurate summary of what you said 2) did I miss anything of importance? once that is completed you have two options 1) Ask for time to consider what she has said, you must give her a timeline of when you will follow up with her. 2) address any part of the list of items that you too consider an issue, and clearly define your plans to address it, as well as your opinion on what parts should be each person's responsibility. For anything you have not considered ask for time to consider a solution. The most important thing is this is not the time to address your grievances, you need to have a separate fight for that. I would suggest making a list of no more than 5 times with every item being related to at least 1 other item on the list. Then tell her you would like to talk about these items at a set time (which allows her at least 4 hours of free-ish time to review and consider these items.) than proceed to discuss it. The point of every fight needs to be to solve the problem, if at any time you believe this is no longer the point of the fight you need to find a way to either get be back on course or end it so that it can be review later.
@caitlinmyriah765710 күн бұрын
It's an important rule, but it's also one of the hardest things for a lot of people to do.
@duanekoch559111 күн бұрын
Ha. This guy needs to meet my ex-wife. I’m literally in the women’s role while my ex wife lives her life like a single Austin powers, can’t even get her to see her kid. I willing to bet there’s more women out there than projected 100% just like my wonderful ex. There’s way more Good dads out there like myself that married wrong busting their ass in a society that favors women through the courts, nice little underground chat room called awdtsg blasting men, because “ghosted me”. It’s sad the amount of crap women can get away with especially with children. More awareness for single dads. More awareness for women’s mental health #dadsliveatter
@Sheislove14412 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 i have no kids i am the soon to be ex of a man that has two kids with a evil narcissist ! I am laughing because you are saying just let her take advantage of him is that what you are saying ! Im a out of this nonsense ! I am out not dealing with this nonsense 😂 sorry but divorced people are all trash ! Trash trash trash ! What a joke ! This is all insanity!
@ed00012 күн бұрын
I did, faced all the 3 reasons and the shock i experienced, friends and family all left me. I don't regret my decision at all. Thank you for affirming.
@mspaint9313 күн бұрын
Why not both. Some days you've been talking to fkwits for 10 hours and need to sit in silence to not implode, some days its nice to chat with the person you love.
@zodiacwitch13 күн бұрын
that's a lot of words for saying absolute malarky
@misamisa267713 күн бұрын
Happy both happy
@SetCCC13 күн бұрын
Has this guy been married? Sometimes you need to decompress. Sometimes you're tired and want to zone out. Married 15 yrs here. It's ok to feel like this sometimes! If you feel like this every day for weeks and months at a time...then need to look at your marriage and yourself and find ways to reconnect with your spouse.
@letigidou866013 күн бұрын
Nonsense. Way too simple and does not factor real life situations.
@stephaniebatchelor608213 күн бұрын
That is an inaccurate test
@BurbridgeFamily13 күн бұрын
🛀
@CraftedByDirt13 күн бұрын
Yappa-saurus Rex
@sirdeadlock13 күн бұрын
If that person is an extrovert, sure.
@Crayonmuncher1113 күн бұрын
Theres a lot more to consider than just that. When I walk in the door I go to the kids first and say hi and check on them before I even acknowledge my wife. Doesn’t mean I don’t love her or anything like that. I just like hearing about my kids days first
@restlesspwns8813 күн бұрын
Bro as a man, I’m going to my chair and relax. Fuck all that yapping. Relax.
@zyzzyz703513 күн бұрын
Exactly.
@-Umbrella.13 күн бұрын
Ngl when I get home after work I don't want to talk to anyone. All I want is dinner and a shower. When thats done then I'm ready. I work late tho
@JodiPhillips-ul1lq14 күн бұрын
Exactly
@user-dj2zx3si2b14 күн бұрын
But I don’t… we have a king size bed and we don’t say a word. She rolls over to her 2 foot side and I do the same…. There is a queen size bed between us. It breaks my heart every night. I don’t know what to do. Every night it seems like the gap gets bigger and bigger. I know that we love each other but it just feels like it’s getting bigger and it makes me feel so sad. How is it that the woman of your dreams falls asleep next to you and you can wake up and she’s so far away…. This feels so terrible….
@Wild_Bill5714 күн бұрын
You’re overlooking the guy who has literally fought with heavy traffic for over an hour trying to just make it home safely, needing a period of time to unwind quietly until his nerves calm from the battle. I did that for 8 years, the first 6 of my marriage. I loved her dearly, but needed the time so I wouldn’t snap at her wrongly,
@maxJnrPille14 күн бұрын
And when she supports this and understands this, once your stress levels have calmed down just enough for you to be able to take a breath and be thankful
@clydeholiday590718 күн бұрын
Shut up Satan
@joanntenio22120 күн бұрын
This is so right
@joanntenio22120 күн бұрын
Agree
@rlinvestments608121 күн бұрын
What happens if they’re hiding money from you and not contributing to the home and they are very emotional and verbally abusive to you and your children which I don’t care about me but my children is another story it’s not fair for them
@user-ld4ic6eq1t22 күн бұрын
Dude you are talking out of your Ass. Why would a man want a challenge at work and at home? Just read the comments coz all the men are telling you that you don't know what your talking about and you definitely don't speak for any one other than yourself.
@user-mr3ei1dz3b22 күн бұрын
Hellooooo all of hollywood there a joke 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@GrandmaGG00122 күн бұрын
🤢 🤮 That is disgusting. Cheating on your spouse is the lowest form of betrayal. It takes years to overcome that type of trauma.
@user-us9wu1xk1z22 күн бұрын
We have worse to worry about now.
@GrandmaGG00122 күн бұрын
@@user-us9wu1xk1z that is not the topic here. Stop 🛑 trying to be combative, here. We are taking about cheating on your spouse. This is my opinion on the matter. My ex-husband of 10 years got his mistress pregnant twice while we were married. It crushed my son and me both. When there is subject about other issues, we can talk about those as well. This video is about something that directly affected my child and myself. 🛑 Go troll somewhere else.
@user-us9wu1xk1z22 күн бұрын
@@GrandmaGG001 Sounds like you're the one who allowed that to happen.
@user-us9wu1xk1z22 күн бұрын
@@GrandmaGG001 No one cares if your spouse is a cheater compared to the end of our democracy. But then, I don't imagine you comprehend that.
@jamesferguson340122 күн бұрын
@@GrandmaGG001can’t imagine why he cheated. You’re a basket case Also I like how you used the buzz word “trauma”. Everything is traumatic and life altering and make it break you. Get a grip
@alliekosek60722 күн бұрын
Eww
@thisworldhasgonemad22 күн бұрын
It says there's a comment. But I don't see one anywhere. 😂 youtube is really going to town with censoring people. Keep it up, you'll end up like x.
@23LaQueen24 күн бұрын
How about, don't date during your divorce
@womanofsteel927624 күн бұрын
Try not dating until you’re single. Worked for me.
@YoMommazNUTZ24 күн бұрын
Or the kids! Kids need time to be heal the divorce plus need stability, they do not need to meet everyone you mess around with, if you haven't been with them for 6 months then it's a no go at 6 months introduction should be as a friend to see if that person will mesh with your kids and if they don't like the person then that relationship is over!
@gettingschooled309424 күн бұрын
Correct
@georgesontag219225 күн бұрын
The courts gives her the house, alimony, children and custody almost all the time. Grounds for divorce means very little. She just says irreconcilable differences. Cheating means nothing too. Don't waste your time proving it.
@akboyz125 күн бұрын
Jill Biden babysat for Joe Biden's kids when she was fifteen...
@raihanelhakeem-bey844128 күн бұрын
Invoke your RIGHT To EQUITABLE SUBROGATION in writing in the court case file.
@Brutish129 күн бұрын
Dude must be from Springfield - Cause that's a Simp Son.
@dustyrhodes2717Ай бұрын
LoL at having to pay this slimy POS attorney fees. He isn’t wrong though 😂
@jeremyduke4938Ай бұрын
i just wanted her to do the damn dishes but she identified as a dirty dish haver.
@bluetopguitar1104Ай бұрын
Yeah. I am not interested in any woman who voted for trump. No values. I wont even date a trumpie.