A man is only attracted to you when you say no to him... When you like him and you say yes, he vanishes. I don't have power to say no, i don't want to say no, but saying yes meaning you are loosing him almost immediately.

It's NOT easy for a woman to find a guy. You men should stop thinking this way, like there is always someone in our phone we can call to have sex. That thinking makes me insane actually. There must me a reason we don't call those guys we presumably have in our phone. Finding someone you like is almost impossible.

This is hilarious because as men we are taught to allow women to pursue us after dates/sex so we know where we mentally stand with women. If they message us first we can assume that everything went well and it’s safe to plan another time to make plans together. If you guys don’t message us at all then we RISK overextending by reach out early. This could interfere with women’s processing time and COULD make you as the man appear needy/eager. (Which is associated with weakness) The bottom line is woman can afford to make emotional decisions whereas Men absolutely cannot. If a woman doesn’t contact the man after sex we are to assume logically that she’s simply not interested. If a guy doesn’t reach out it can also mean he’s not interested OR he could be exercising patience so that he doesn’t overextend. See how this information could be misleading? Remember only ONE of us could AFFORD to make an emotional decision here. Sure, both parties are at risk of being manipulated emotionally… but out of the two only women have the ability to socially step out on a emotional decision, not men. Just be careful with the information in this video. Y’all stay safe out there

I fell in love with a functional alcoholic & he warned me that he didn't want to hurt me and I should just run from him like he was on fire. He was treating so good and it took a while too see his true colors. He quit drinking cold-turkey instead of going to rehab as planned. I saw his angry side and I was shocked. We got into a bad argument and we broke up. I miss him daily, but I can't be with him like this. 😢

What if the sex is bad but it's not the woman's fault it was. Like what if the guy is super rough and aggressive and then they ghost the woman. Will the man still try to come back after "bad" sex?

There's no way to tell since sometimes they'll wait a long time then do the same thing after he finally gets sex. Fact is we can literally go thru thousands of men and have the same thing happen. There's no gurantees. Im not happy in my lukewarm marriage but its either go thructhe hellscape of these men or be single

My ex ruined his marriage & now our relationship He went to detox once but only got sober for one day I finally had to leave after giving him three chances over a year and a half I’ve been through this with other alcoholics and I can’t do it anymore 😢💔 I didn’t give him any ultimatums. He ended it because of something he perceived I did wrong! Bc he wouldn’t talk about it

Just happened this weekend, im angry with me! He told me who he was. I didn't listen. Total loser. Acted like tjis quite good guy. Lesson learned.

If women dont call men they’re manipulators

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Is there any greater or more obvious red flag waving in the wind when you start falling for an alcoholic or drug addict? It's not them you need to save; it's yourself.

Thank you for making this video. It was really helpful. I've been dating an alcoholic for about a year and finally hit my breaking point. The lies and aggression got to be too much. I do love him and believe he can change and be sober one day. He's done it in the past and he can do it again. He begs that I be there for him as support through this. And that he's fully committed. He started our relationship with an active addiction and was careless about it, hurting me and creating trauma in the process. I struggle with what period of time should go by to see if he's committed to sobriety. You mentioned at least 3 to 6 months. I guess there's no exact amount of time but that's a good starting point. I just have to move on and focus on taking care of myself in the present and hope for the best for him. Time will tell...

So how do I feel better when this happened? I'm so sad now. He only asked if I took a pill for avoiding getting pregnant. Duche :(

I gave my fiance 2 years to stop drinking and she never did. I loved her so much but I had to finally leave for myself. I would find empty mini shots in the cabinets and trash. Constant lies and driving drunk. We both have kids from previous relationships. I just couldn’t do it anymore. Thank you for sharing

I've been there. He speaks the truth. The alcoholic either gives it up or it takes him down. Eventually.

There’s not a lot of videos that talk about the perspective of the ones affected by the alcoholic. Thank you for posting this. You explained it well. I couldn’t put it in words but you did. 😊

I had a experience recently. The first time we had sex he messged quickly after. The next day we had sex again and he went funny on me. I reacherd out first to say how is he. And he replied with "grand rising" as it was morning. When i said ' morning how are you' since then no reply. Ignored. I am not too sure how to go forward now with his. I am so angry about it and angry with myself. He has a daughter and 4 sisters and he does this to women.

I am not married still people the Romania only his contry

I have the some drink i have 2 children some time they coming angry with me and when i was put sleep they locked door not inter in room i sleep in kitchen i dont have friend only my family i can't live children they need help them it Romania i am molteses in Malta They help children in my country it not easy 😢😢

My ex was introducing everyone to his mom to fake relationships.

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Be brave enough to fail!

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Yes, and amen! My housemate has become combative, argumentative, belligerent, verbally, emotionally abusive, spewing out obscenities when she drinks excessively. She is in denial, rebellious to seek any help and has fought me as her friend and roommate, her children and family throwing everyone out if we try to keep her accountable. I thought she would drink herself to death had I not been in the home with her she would have been gone, I it's bad her alcohol abuse is out of control it's not a matter of her life hanging in the balance. She has a full blown addiction to alcohol and prescription meds. She has started dating men and not yet legally divorced, that's risky business and immoral, I can't say anything to give her good wise advice because she becomes abusive...

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I'm not sure whether to laugh or to cry. This is so effing sad...

The relationships don't work, but if a guy is looking for an easier lay than a woman in her prime, and if the older woman doesn't mind getting ghosted after a few rounds of sex, then people are free to do as they please.

Oh man... Just do a lazy Google search on how many older, rich men get taken to the cleaners by young dumb blondes. And you advocate that men jump all in with women who are by definition more world savvy and sophisticated than themselves? Good luck son, sign that prenup.

Pretty dear Suria ...❤ I'm happy you found love ❤ miss you 😘

What does this have to do with interracial? Interracial relationships are evil. If I was emperor I'd make it illegal, punishable by sterilization and possibly jail time for rehabilitation depending on the circumstances

he wanted me for 5 years but i didnt at first but now that we were dating for 11 weeks and then when we had our first time “doing it” he stopped texting and calling me back.. so i stopped reaching out

Terrible advice telling someone to go have sex. Living for yourself and not for GOD will only lead to sadness and heartbreak. Those who don't follow the simple instructions that GOD gave us, will never be blessed.

Thank you so much for watching

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It been a lifetime since i left my alcoholic and the trauma still fills my dreams. Ivremarried and moved on, but i will never get over tyevhurt, fear and anger. He died drunk and alone. It's so hard to understand why?

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Appreciate ur honesty!!! 👍👍

Alcoholics make the worst husbands. There is no cure. It only gets worse 5 Percent of drunks quit Those who quit transfer their addiction to something else Sad life

it seems bias of you to imply that this is a problem, especially in interracial relationships

Sometimes they give us some small talk for a few days and then fade away.. that's another thing I learnt like it's a tactic to make themselves not to look as bad as we might feel... honestly this young generation have NO rules anymore

I realised they can text me after only because they want to keep me as an option and string me along.. but not trying to get to know me better or date me.. so I'm not sure if them contacting us after sex is really that meaningful. Sometimes it's better when guys like that disappear straight away than waste our time

Men think about sex 24/7. They can’t help it their brain is really that way