Thank you so much, Mohamed! I really appreciate your kind words-it means a lot. 😊You’re absolutely right-society often makes us feel like we need to have a huge social circle to be fulfilled, but the truth is, quality > quantity. Embracing solitude is such a powerful skill because it allows us to truly enjoy our own company. And honestly? A solo restaurant date can be so underrated! Great food, your own thoughts, and no pressure to fill the silence-what’s not to love?

I hear you-job interviews can be so unpredictable, and it sounds like you had a lot going on with the storm and all. But from what you described, you actually did a lot right! You showcased your initiative by mentioning your channel (which is a business-monetized, affiliate marketing? That’s real experience!), and the fact that the interviewer was engaging, talking a lot, and discussing hours could mean you were a strong candidate. The quick rejection stings, but don’t take it as a sign that you “bombed” the interview. Hiring decisions can be complex-sometimes, they already have someone in mind or last-minute internal factors shift things. The fact that you reached out for feedback is exactly the right move! It shows self-awareness and a growth mindset. 💪 Keep pushing forward-you clearly have skills, experience, and initiative. The right opportunity will come your way! What’s your biggest takeaway from this experience so far? 🚀

@ExplearningCo That I should keep working on my interview skills and keep going, not letting rejection dampen my efforts

​@@blackqweenmars Keep on keeping on 💫

So glad you found this video valuable, Jan~

So glad it was helpful! 🙏🏻😊

So glad this resonated with you! 🙏🏻😊 You are very welcome

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Rudy! So generous of you! Thank you!!! 🙏🏻😊

What an incredible goal for 2025, Cyberla! 🙌 Becoming an empathetic communicator is such a powerful way to connect with others-and with yourself. Breaking the pattern of being judgmental is no small feat, but the fact that you’re setting this intention means you’re already on the right path. A great first step is practicing self-compassion. When we’re kinder to ourselves, it naturally becomes easier to extend that same understanding to others. Pair that with active listening and asking open-ended questions, and you’re well on your way to mastering empathetic communication! If you’re looking for extra support, tomorrow, January 8th, I’m hosting a FREE LIVE class in Explearning Academy on Developing Confidence to Continue a Conversation. While it’s not directly about empathy, the skills we’ll discuss-like building meaningful connections and listening deeply-can help you achieve your goal. You can RSVP here: academy.explearning.co/ Here’s to a 2025 full of growth and deeper connections! You’ve got this! 💪✨

Hi! Thank you so much! So happy you enjoyed this video! 🎉 I love the self-awareness - recognizing that tendency to cut conversations short is a HUGE first step. It sounds like you've got a touch of that 'I'm probably boring them' anxiety, which is incredibly common, even among very successful people! The video really resonated with you and that's fantastic. Let's reframe this and work on building that conversation-extending muscle. Here's what I'd suggest to help you break the habit: * Challenge that assumption! You're assuming people don't want to talk to you. Instead of jumping to that conclusion, try assuming the opposite. Assume they are interested! Most people enjoy genuine connection, and you likely have a lot more to offer in a conversation than you give yourself credit for. * Use the 'Golden Pause' from the video. Remember how I talked about that extra beat after you think the conversation is over? That's your secret weapon! Resist the urge to wrap things up immediately. Take a breath, smile, and see if the other person jumps in. You might be surprised how often they do. * Have a few open-ended questions up your sleeve. This is about being prepared to carry the conversation if the other person doesn't naturally continue after the pause. Think of a few general, open-ended questions related to what you were just discussing. For example, if you were talking about work, you could ask, "What are you most excited about working on these days?" Or, "What's the biggest challenge you're facing in your role right now?" If it's more personal, it can be as simple as asking about their weekend. * Pay attention to body language. Is the other person leaning in, making eye contact, and nodding? Those are good signs they're engaged! If they start looking around, checking their phone, or giving short answers, it might be a signal they're ready to move on, and that's okay, too. This is not a reflection of you! * Practice, practice, practice! Like any skill, extending conversations takes practice. Start small, with people you feel comfortable with, and gradually build your confidence. The more you do it, the easier it will become. You've already identified the issue, which is fantastic. Now, it's about implementing these strategies and believing in your ability to connect with others. You absolutely got this. I'm here to support you every step of the way, so keep me updated on your progress! Let's turn those assumptions into engaging, fulfilling conversations!

@@ExplearningCo Yes, I will work on strengthening that conversation-extending muscle and continue to work on challenging that negative assumption. Also, trying to ideate questions or topics of common interest to discuss instead of having only an ice-breaker and nothing else to say. Great idea to have a few open-ended questions up my sleeve, and read body language (e.g. open vs closed etc.). I have been practicing more recently but probably need to take massive action to take it to the next level. Greatly, appreciate your feedback Mary! You are a communication Angel 😇

@@CyberLA_Rudy Thank you so much for your kind words 😇 It sounds like you’re putting in some fantastic effort and being really intentional about building those conversation skills. That’s amazing! I have some exciting news that might help you take things to the next level! Tomorrow, January 8th, I’m teaching a FREE LIVE class in Explearning Academy, and the topic is Developing Confidence to Continue a Conversation. 🎉 We’ll dive deep into strategies like extending conversations, navigating those awkward silences, and confidently finding common ground. I’d love for you to join us! You can create a free account and RSVP to the call here: academy.explearning.co/ It’s going to be a fun, interactive session, and we’d love to see you there! 💬

@@ExplearningCo BTW ! I had no idea this was you, Rudy! We'll be doing a lot more good work in our Academy -- so happy you're part of it ✨

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@ mine site, 2 female cat loader operators collided, talking to each other, 2 x 988 cat loaders with $500,000 damage plus the cost of hire of two replacement loaders. And down time of the processing plant. They also had two way radios in each machine which could have been used! Phones have a place but not in work situations unless they are work supplied!

@@austinmattole Great question, Austin! Building strong relationships takes time, but it doesn’t always have to mean a lot of time-it’s more about the quality of your interactions than the quantity. When you’re just starting to get to know someone, seeing them regularly enough to build familiarity is important, but it doesn’t need to be overwhelming. A good rule of thumb is to aim for consistency. For example, you might meet up every couple of weeks or so, depending on both of your schedules. In between, staying in touch through a quick message, sharing something you think they’d enjoy, or checking in about their day can help keep the momentum going without feeling forced. The key is showing genuine interest while giving the relationship space to grow naturally. What kind of activities do you enjoy doing with others? Finding something you both like can make those meetups even more fun and meaningful!

@@ExplearningCothis helps so much. Thank you!

Can you elaborate on your kindness regarding what you did for her? I'm working through some challenges like that myself