Very interesting talk. Carolyn asked some great questions and Donna gave some very interesting answers. I don't like tattoos although I have the start of 1 on my forearm from when I was sixteen, high and drunk. At that time, I had an older friend who was in and out of jail and was covered with "Jailhouse" tattoos, which I thought was sooo cool! I wanted one. fortunately for me, my friend who was also wasted, was too drunk and was jabbing the needle too deep causing blood to run down my arm and onto the floor. He felt bad and stopped. Since I matured, I find tattoos gross and the ones on peoples faces very telling. It's like theyr'e crying ink. Imho, they need therapy.

Does that mean that Grandma's Mac and cheese is the problem?

Ohmy goodness! I had no idea there was such an amazing guided relaxation meditation at the end. Excellent. THANK you so much!

I am so glad I scrolled on through my search until I found this. Self forgiveness is hard for me, because I know how painful the behaviors I got from my parents and siblings, but in an unhealed place, I passed on some of this harmful behaviors to my children. I am having a harder time forgiving myself for this 😭

Tattoos used to be primarily for military men and male inmates. Now, when I go for a walk at lunch time, I see far more women with tattoos than men. For me it masculinizes women. One guy said that putting a tattoo on a woman is like putting a bumper sticker on a Lamborghini.

It's interesting that we don't hear about "cutting" anymore.

Thank you. I’m a survivor of multiple betrayal traumas. The most recent was discovering something so horrific about my mother at age 38. Trying to heal. I’m married with 3 children

Hello Dr. Cocker Ross, I would like to buy your book but the code isn’t giving us the link. Where is it available for shipping? Thank you

Hi! This video was so enlightening! Thank you! The QR Code keeps coming up with a message saying, "Oops! The page could not be loaded" Is this perhaps because it's only available in the US?

Hi. Word salad. Huh?

I use to have extensive burn scars from domestic violence. I had a tattoo artist design personalized custom art to cover my scars. I am extremely happy with the outcome. I went to therapy for 10 years before I finally got the tattoos. My therapist supported my decision

No, it's because they are Jewish and still rightly fear another pogrom.

The INCELS on this thread who say they won't date a woman with tattoos is hilarious. First off, your lack of self confidence and the fact you're a judgmental prick will pretty much ensure that 80% of the female population won't touch you. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Depends on how I'm mentally feeling or if I'm stressed or not.

Avoid men with tattoos ❌

I have a cousin who parents divorced and she has tattoos. I strongly suspect is because she doesn't have her biological dad in her and she likely feels abondoned by him, likely. Every women I know who has both parents in their life 🧬 has no tattos, just ear piercing to have pretty earings their ears usually a precious metal and jewel 😍.

Leviticus 19:28 New International Version “’Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD

I dont need tattoos i just wear some nice clothes and jewelry for creativity. when tattoos get old and dingy, you can't throw them away like clothes. You just get a new one and cover your body more and more

My uncle's son struggled with ADHD for years, but after six months of using natural solutions, he found complete relief. The transformation has been incredible-his focus and mood have greatly improved. We are so grateful for the positive impact this treatment has had on his life, thanks to IAFA Ayurveda!

Surprise. Guess who?

I’m asking this for my own clarification but the following is my understanding. “Heritance” from somatic cells is far different from what occurs after meiosis in the germ cell line, and it is that cell line that is responsible for transgenerational “inheritance.” In mammals, all of the epigenetics changes are removed and restored back to baseline. The cysteine is demethylated, and the histone’s spatial orientation/morphology epigenetics changes removed, which I find fascinating but is indeed a fact and was a surprise which destroys transgenerational epigenetic theory in fact. This is actually done twice, once after inception and once after implantation. Therefore no prior epigenetic changes from parent will pass to child, barring an extremely rare mistake ie: the equivalence of a rare nucleotide substitution that occurs in a genetic mutation if you will. This has been and continues to be extensively studied, but there is no evidence that the parent’s epigenetic changes can be passed to the offspring. If I am wrong, please elaborate, because I find it potentially dangerous that people are extrapolating this unproven if not disproven theory to subjects that could have large societal implications. For instance, I’ve already seen videos claiming that transgenerational traumas can and has been passed down over time etc, which creates a case for a victim/perpetrator dynamic that isn’t just in the past but in the present currently. Currently the science proves this to be untrue, but there are so many KZbin channels making claim after claim about epigenetic inheritance. Maybe these people are ignorant to the scientific meaning of somatic cell heritance and assume it means the commonly used term inheritance, or perhaps purposefully using unproven theory that they firmly state as fact for an agenda. Either way it’s another example of misinformation that is being propagated, and I can assure you that most don’t have the background nor the ability to fact check, so it will soon be accepted as “fact”, as the word “fact” no longer means truth apparently. Again, please educate me if I’m incorrect, as I’m willing to learn.

Dr of what?

Hmmm...very westernised views presented here. For me, they express the shamanic part of me, their meaning are spiritual, and beyond words attributed through any religion.

As a Christian, I will never get a tattoo. But even if I wasn't, I don't see the point. It makes men look unsocial and women ugly.

If you take your trauma to my office you can enjoy unemployment benefits. We look for professionals not children who cannot deal with their emotions. The only inclusivity that matters is everyone understands the business comes first. I never had an employee quit.

I don’t tattoo my body because I don’t want something permanent on my skin. I cannot commit to that. I also have never really seen a tattoo that I thought truly truly looked good. Tattoos just look 'busy' and 'cluttered' on people. They don't 'go' with everything you wear. Sometimes they clash...hard. They are painful to get. And if I want to express myself artistically in my own appearance...it's call jewelry and fashion accessories.

You must know about family constellations?Or biodecodification?

This is way too much for me right now. You're tricksy good.

Long before I came to learn about epigenetics, I "intuitively knew"that the reason many African Americans avoid water sports (swimming, etc) was due to the historical relationship of Africans drowning during the Transatlantic Slave Trade.

Thank you. Very helpful.

I think it’s important to note that women with tattoos have a lack of respect for themselves and show patterns of poor boundaries and not a strong relationship with their father usually.

It's a good thing my sister and I didn't have kids. My brother's kid is rich and happy and healthy. Good for him. He broke the chain.

lovely, soothing voice. Thank you.

BEWARE: They are wanting to collect your most personal and private medical and family histories online for their databases.

Thank you Carolyn, I'm a survivor of betrayal trauma, and am looking for resources to progress from surviving to thriving

Thank you this was a beautiful meditation 🙏☺

I can't believe you endorse horrific treatment of mice. I'm all set.

Is it gene change or learned behaviour from watching your parents reaction to cherries? Or whatever they are reacting too?

Thank you for creating this video/meditation! Things are put in our path when we need them and I needed this! I'm excited to share it with my family. We're working on healing generational trauma and I feel this will be a helpful tool 🙏🏼

Did she interview any people that were sorry they got tattoos? What was their outlook?

It's a form of self-trashing

When I was a little girl I loved watching historical documentaries ( i still love them ) and I was watching about the Armenian genocide were the women where taken by the ottomans to become sex slaves and they got tattooed by their captors as a mark of ownership or during the holocaust where people got their number as a tatoo.Tattoos make me think of these moments in history. I never got anything ,i dont even have my ears pierced.

Tattoos seem a bit counter intuitive in a sense: if you have trauma and this is your escape, well its a big picture on your skin reminding you of why you got it aka your trauma

These comments are sad. Read Luke 6:37…. Then ask yourself these questions: Was this about trying to understand something unknown to you in order to deepen your empathy and understanding of the human condition? Or was it about feeling superior to others because you think looking “clean” actually makes you so?

Studs, piercings, tattoos, are all fashionable now, but soon they will not be anymore, just like every other fashion. Only problem is that when these fashions are no longer appropriate, it is not so easy to get tattoos burned out by lasers, and any hole that you have made in your face will be there forever. These sorts of self-mutilation are promoted by the fascists to soften a person up preparatory for the injected RFID implant. Once you take that 'fashion', you are as good as dead. ethermail

The people getting tattoos now (within the last 20 years) are ALL SHEEP! THEY ARE ALL FOLLOWERS TRYING TO BE COOL! Tattoos make beautiful weomen ugly and make guys look at the Ugly weomen...

Hello

I hate kim Kardashian but i do agree with one thing she responded when asked why she has no tattoos her answer... have you ever seen a Rolls-Royce royce with a bumper sticker😂😂😂

I never understood how girl's do this to there body...like i have low self confidence let me see how i can make myself uglier than i am now ... every girl i meet also has her Nipples piercing...and I want to know why parents let there 15 16 year old girls get tattoos.... The truth is that today's youth are stupid and followers nobody thinks for themselves or is original

Read the bible !!! Our bodies are a temple for the holy spirt.