You're a fucking idiot if you think women have or ever will have it light on accountability. There is NEVER a single situation of assault or rape that doesn't have this "NO accountability" hypothetical you're talking about. They *always* get the "why didn't you---" or "if you would've just---" from people and, more importantly, themselves for the rest of their lives. Get your priorities straight women are *ALWAYS AWARE* of the risk. But we're allowed to live like guys and have fun with the assumption that everyone will respect their personal space. The thing is - these aren't grizzlys-- they're men. Telling hikers to avoid a bigger, stronger creature they can't relate to is not the fucking same as women not expecting to get raped by men. No matter what, guys should have their shit together enough to know not to fucking touch something they shouldn't touch. They don't get a pass to rob people because they're drunk and the person they robbed was really rich. And no one berates the person who gets robbed for not locking his shit up more. Drunk guys don't get to stab someone because they're angry and are drunk. The person getting stabbed doesn't get told "they shouldn't have worn something so stabbable" either. Drunk guys don't get to grope or rape women because the women are in short dresses on a cold day or whatever bullshit you find strange (hello it's a goddamn club, everyone is looking their best and it's hot and sweaty inside why is this odd?). Yet here we are making sure women know they fucked up by trying to have fun at a club like a guy has. "Look, appreciate, that's fine. But don't touch what isn't yours." is the fucking point of this video. It's not hard to understand and there isn't need to victim shame here, which is exactly what you're doing. Guys are always given credit for being so in control of their emotions and will, and yet when they do shit they KNOW THEY ARE NOT MEANT AND ALLOWED TO DO - *that's* when we have to say "BUT the girl should've not worn a small dress on a cold day and she shouldn't have drank. Cuz of grizzlys." - seriously fuck off.

Mr Lake men are not grizzlies, your analogy is not suitable the society and media creates and image that you are free to act on your legal rights, like walking with miniskirt on the streets and not get assaulted because society and the authorities are there to protect you. Carelessness is a human right, and it cant be measured objectively, thus blaming someone for it is not logical, furthermore, blaming someone for it AFTER her rights have been violated is condescending and arrogant, which, logically decreases the report rates of crimes. Do you want to help the criminals just so you can preach over a victim and try to look smart?

"It is funny"??

Not true, wedding guests are invited to try the cake even though they didn't make it or pay for it. But only invited guests, and when the couple say it's ok to try the cake. Guests can also say no, that they don't want the cake, or don't want the cake right then, and that is also fine.

Really? Focus on the issue at hand here.

no it doesn't mean it's a bad one. it just means you hang out with fucking morons :)

Emilie... le lien avec le gâteau c'est qu'il est alléchant et qu'elle n'a pas pu se retenir, elle a succombé et que c'est de la faute du pâtissier, qu'il n'aurait pas dû le faire aussi tentant - en fesant référence aux femmes qui s'habillent/se comportent de certaines façons et que ça soit automatiquement perçu à l'avoir chercher - excuse souvent dite pour justifier des abus sexuels/viols. Et la toilette bien... elle a une envie qu'elle ne peux contrôler et qu'elle doit assouvir à ce moment, même si ça ne fait aucun sens... (les hommes et leur envies) et qu'il n'avait juste pas à mettre une toilette en display.... une autre excuse. J'imagine que tu ne parles pas l'anglais...