So important to talk about!

Mam how to coreect my breathing and fear

Yes!!

Sorry, but I completely disagree. As a child, I was very perfectionistic, and it was treated as a good thing and encouraged. However, now that I’m in my 20s, I’ve been dealing with many difficulties related to something that could have been addressed much earlier. Perfectionism is closely tied to a deep fear of failure, and if a child already experiences this fear over things with little consequence when done poorly, imagine how they’ll feel when life becomes more serious and the outcomes of their actions start shaping their future and career. For me, now even simple, everyday tasks, can bring me anxiety and it have been challenging to accomplish. So, basically, if you’re a parent to a child that is showing these traits I would heavily recommend to work on it now.

I will like to know where do I get services for my son's gestalt because he has a speech therapist at home and a behavioral therapist I need to find someone that is an expert with this condition please help iam in ny

Thank you for clarifying and differentiating these elements. Am area I need to get more educated on.

I am curious how this could be introduced to those entangled with NPD

Great for personal relationships too.

Masking in itself was an abominable act of sheer stupidity. Masking deaf people was nothing less than CRIMINAL.

I will be taking an Adlerian play therapy course in the next couple of weeks. I enjoyed this video and look forward to learning more during the course.

Thank you so much, very needed!

Was telling a psychologist about sexual abuse when i was a kid when i noticed he had an erection.He turned around in his chair to hide his erection and told me the appointment was over to find my way out of the clinic. He never did explain about Countertransferrence or somatic experiencing to me . The fact that i meet his friends he spoke of after he fired me as a patient was very confusing and hurtful considering what they did to me.That was more than 10 years ago

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a trans kid is like a vegan cat. we all know who's really making the decisions.

If you are going to post these on KZbin, please videotape your podcast. Staring at a still image for 30 minutes was unpleasant for me. Otherwise, this is good information.

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Always the most interesting discussion, thank you Lisa!

Estará la versión en español ?

I just purchased the book, and I am excited to start reading it. I will comment after I've read it.

The flow between the fight/flight and freeze/fawn. Comfortably, uncomfortable. I like that. Good to know that's where the safety is. I feel that. I can be resilient and grounded at the same time. I had therapists that could not do this. They would put me too much in comfort or too much in processing. One would stop me from processing in our therapy session if she felt if was too much. I went home feeling like shit and believing I couldn't handle myself. I had another that would either dive me deep into processing and not have casual talks about daily stuff that was bothering me like my marriage.

Hello! Is there a Spanish video that explains this wonderful process?

Watching this for a graduate course! Thanks!

This was so neat to watch!

Thank you! Can you talk more about regulation .. specifically how does it happen through the use of sand.

I’m trying to learn how I could use sandtray to work with adults suffering from addiction and PTSD . I’m in grad school and lean more CBT but I love this method

You wasted people time. Because you dont show how we separate them

Great insights Lisa. Also gotta say that's one of my favorite paintings behind you.

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I love the way you explain this. I wish I had animations to go with it for parents!

That's an important point. Unfortunately, many adults often overlook the fact that empathizing with children and actually understanding them is so much different from those with adults. That's why there are a lot of "professionals" working with children, who fail to even connect with the child in the first place.

Thank you so much dear Lisa for this great video with a great person.

Thank you

Imho, You should also have "drawn the parallel" to the more well known (and closely related) term "synergistic" Brgds.

I LOVE this idea of swirly...I had an image come to mind, inspired by your body movements as you explained it...dancing to a music/rhythm we are not familiar with, nonetheless we listen, we tune in and move our bodies according to each upcoming beat. Improvising and dancing following the music as we hear it. Wonderful, thank you so much for unlocking this for me! ❤

Beautiful sharing Thank-you I remember being in supervision (as a Gestalt Therapist) and in therapy (as more the whole of myself) 30 years ago and thinking the 'boundary' between the two was sometimes too high and thick and divisive.

Such a helpful episode. I learned so much. Thank you both.

This is so helpful for my own reflection as I refine my work with children but also to share with young adult clients who are often struggling to find their path and purpose. Thank-you, Lisa, for your wisdom and knowledge.

This is so good! Thank you! One I'll definitely be sharing with colleagues

Thank you so much for this.

Wow! This is super helpful! Thank you. 💜

Awesome! Are you a coach or business owner? Let's grow your social media account, do you have a business email or I'll shoot a DM on your whatsapp?

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