What happens to our karma when we dedicate our merit to the benefit of all beings? I do this every day. It’s something Jetsumna recommends. 🙏
@lazitazen68822 күн бұрын
Ven Yonten, you're a Star 🌟 What a wonderful Teacher you are❤ Thank you so much for your Teachings for they're so very clear ❤
@John.W812 күн бұрын
Do you know of any Lamas here in the States that are very patient and would be willing to work with an unconventional student with a TBI?
@VenYonten2 күн бұрын
@@John.W81 they should all be, look in your area and be proactive in checking if they are a good fit for you. You can also learn a lot from teachers just a few steps ahead of you, it doesn’t have to be a Lama. Happy practicing
@John.W812 күн бұрын
@@VenYonten 🙏🙏🙏
@John.W81Күн бұрын
@@VenYonten thank you again. I don’t understand tantra completely. I feel like I’m squinting through a keyhole trying to grasp it. 🙏🙏🙏 I’m reading the Dalai Lama book also and that’s helpful but I think you’re right. I’m making tons of progress right now anyways so no need to rush. 😇
@John.W814 күн бұрын
❤❤❤ 42:54 ❤❤❤
@korzhykynia4 күн бұрын
i love the way you use simple language to explain Buddhist things. your channel is such an eye-opener to me, for I don't always understand the Buddhist scripture ❤🎉
@SamtenYeshi30125 күн бұрын
👍🙏♥️
@ladanebastard48435 күн бұрын
Thank you dear venerable Yonten for this merveilleux teaching❤❤May it benefit all beings. May you have long lire and je safe. 🎉🎉🎉
@John.W815 күн бұрын
36:00 ~❤❤❤~🙏🙏🙏
@John.W815 күн бұрын
What a powerful definition of shame. That’s much more workable I think.❤
@John.W815 күн бұрын
What a powerful definition of shame. That’s much more workable I think.❤
@John.W815 күн бұрын
I noticed that my field of vision narrows when I feel attached. Like I can only see one thing but I guess it’s also true on my mind as well. When I’m feeling loving, I know that my mind is much more open and spacious and so two of my field of vision I can just see more around me❤
@John.W815 күн бұрын
Focus on being detached without being disengaged❤
@John.W815 күн бұрын
Pay very close attention to the relationship between attachment and anger❤
@John.W815 күн бұрын
Anything happened to you~It’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility.
@John.W815 күн бұрын
The last thoughts that you have when you die are the seeds that condition your rebirth❤
@John.W815 күн бұрын
There’s that word again ~exaggerated~❤❤❤
@John.W815 күн бұрын
This was absolutely wonderful. I’m gonna come back and watch this probably once a year. look at the comments and you know what I always do.❤❤❤❤
@John.W815 күн бұрын
Attachment is exaggerated. I have to remember that!!!!!!!!!!❤
@John.W815 күн бұрын
The need for validation… I have to work on that
@John.W815 күн бұрын
Do you know of any colleges offer a special education degree with an emphasis on Buddhist teachings? I think this could be profound for those who want to work with children with intellectual disabilities. I really really really wish I had this training before I became a special teacher.❤
@lazitazen68826 күн бұрын
This is lovely ❤ Thank you so much for this video ❤
@John.W816 күн бұрын
41:02 we have to notice how our cravings impact other people
@John.W817 күн бұрын
Today is the 89th birthday of the Dalai Lama🙏🙏🙏
@John.W817 күн бұрын
you have a beautiful voice~ I keep practicing and sometimes every record my voice and I sound absolutely nothing like you lol😂
@John.W817 күн бұрын
🫀🕷️
@John.W817 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@John.W818 күн бұрын
I think more men should learn from women.❤ I just do things. I really don’t worry about consequences that much. It’s just not the same way for women is it? I see all of you ladies and p the earnestness to achieve enlightenment. I wish you all the success in the world. I truly do. I will try to make a lot of kind of more gentle place for us all.
@John.W818 күн бұрын
It’s so interesting learning about spirituality from women. I mean, I think it’s easier for me to make my daily life my spiritual life because of my gender I can work with the homeless. I can go out and practice generosity pretty much whenever I want to. I don’t really have to worry about the crazy, complicated, social implications. I’m just being nice to someone the way a woman has to…
@John.W818 күн бұрын
One mala is 108 * 10= 1080. I didn’t know we were supposed to keep track lol now I do.😅
@John.W818 күн бұрын
For those who struggle with visualization, I just visualize a field of grass. Each individual blade of grass represents some aspect of the Devine… that’s how I do it…❤ I hope that’s sufficient. 🙏
@John.W819 күн бұрын
I really think Buddhism is the study of language… Universal spiritual language. The language of the divine.❤
@John.W819 күн бұрын
I’m sure I said this before but you’re an excellent teacher. I love the visuals. I’m definitely a visual learner. I just really appreciate this so much.
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
Do we need a Lama?
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
Method and wisdom, male and female
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
Think about causes versus conditions…
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
I dropped my coffee cup first thing in the morning… I get up around 330 4 o’clock in the morning because that’s what time I get up and I dropped my coffee cup and today was the craziest day. but it was the perfect day of practice... What a day… Still, we made remarkable progress. I mean I’m purified a bunch of past that actions that I had to be something. Oh my God oh my goodness wow wow wow wow OK well that’s happened.
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
That’s interesting. I do all kinds of chants all day long… I just do them because I like them because they make me feel good. I don’t even count them… there’s a bunch of beautiful stuff. There’s all kinds of stuff on KZbin and I just sing along with those.
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
Vows are training ~ notice, purify, restore 😊
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
Here’s what I’m trying to solve and I’ll just get right to the point. What is the best way to create a world in a society that cares for people with intellectual disabilities? I was a special education teacher, but I got badly burnt out like really burnt out and that’s on top of the traumatic brain injury and everything else that happened to me during my life… I’m deeply committed to ending suffering for all beings everywhere. I think this is just gonna require tremendous amount of patience even with tantra… ❤
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
lately it has been anger, impulsivity, and self-control… I know I’m struggling with attachment because I’m clearly exaggerating things that could obviously wait. God knows I grew up Lutheran so I have no problem apologizing when I make mistakes ~ my goodness that’s my one saving grace at the moment.❤
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
I’m gonna focus on Tantra now, but I don’t think I’m gonna practice it until much later… I really like the basic stuff honestly. The precepts, the Bodhisattva vow, the eighth verses of mine training that I got from the Dalai Lama app. And then I’ll just lay this in gradually… If I can just keep things simple, that’s best for me😂 I also loved Tara. But honestly, I just enjoy the chant because I feel like it’s a great way to learn new languages. She’s very helpful but I think it’s more like I’m just trying to embody her good qualities if that makes makes sense. That was my understanding anyways I think I’m good. I think I’m good. I just had a crazy day today but everything’s fine.❤
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
Is it OK if I’m learning about this and a rather I don’t know what the right way is to describe it. I feel like my knowledge level has just a lot of holes in it.
@VenYonten10 күн бұрын
@@John.W81 of course. Just keep studying with an open mind and asking questions
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
@@VenYonten thank you so much. I think I’m making lots of progress just I kind of all over the map, but I’ll get there.
@John.W8110 күн бұрын
So why is Akshobhya ~ touching earth, {water=mirror, water~anger, water=openness} water is he touching?
@John.W8111 күн бұрын
Love results in honest self reflection~ Attachment results in inflated promises… pay attention to the feeling of urgency! Over estimating oneself, leads to depression, anger, or apathy ~~~ that’s too funny. I didn’t realize there was additional reading.😂 I’m not gonna lie. I don’t read anymore. I don’t I don’t read anymore. I don’t like the written word. I think the written word was a mistake. It does not work for me. I prefer to use my listening and speaking skills just like right now I’m just talking into this microphone and it’s recording what I’m saying and I’m gonna trust that it’s right and I’m gonna move on.😂
@John.W8111 күн бұрын
Attachment equals assumption… I do this all the time I do this all the time I really have to pay attention this wow.🤯
@John.W8111 күн бұрын
Love wants happiness {for} the person, attachment wants happiness {from} the person! I can’t help but think about my relationship with my ex-husband and why does he want a divorce for me… I had an attachment. I expected him to make me happy wow I had no idea. I really was a jerk my goodness…
@John.W8111 күн бұрын
Attachment means exaggerated❤
@John.W8111 күн бұрын
I need to make sure I’m not taking false refuge in the eight early concerns. I know that I do this. I’m aware of my thoughts, but there’s that underlining tug that I still feel… I wanna be a reliable source of refuge for other people which means I need to create a stable mind for myself first…
@John.W8111 күн бұрын
We need to pay attention to both the thoughts that’s driving the desire for attention, and also the underlining hook or desire beneath the desire…