I wish my husband would admit he's abusive. He tells me all of his actions are my fault. He also thinks I'm out to get him. Any time I try to talk to him he says I'm cornering and just starts screaming over me. Then he says I'm the one yelling. It's so exhausting.

These messages were intentional from my parents. I’m a childhood trauma survivor who went through years of recovery with therapists and educating myself on the ramifications as an adult coming from a toxic family environment. My life was sabotaged from birth on. No matter how hard I’ve worked in recovery & having accepted Christ 30 years ago the residuals of my trauma still remain. Why don’t you address this ??

So true on how it will get 5x’s worse after marriage!! I saw that and regret I didn’t call off the wedding when the fighting began planning the wedding. 😢

Amen, amen. Helpful words about being with family at Christmas time.

This is nothing but an advertisement. Disappointed. M

👏👏 Good short Bro John-John

The last call was awesome so was Justin 'a call. My married son is in recovery and the calls gave me a lot of insight.

For the first caller, his married didn't work out because his ex spouse 's heart was not in the marriage. I lived through that because my ex couldn't separate from his family of origin.

Listening Late today ... luckily had an AA meeting prior to running "holler day" 🚎 🚞 errands !

For he says to Moses, “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.”

Brian Perez is great! Love his spirit and insight

You start making stories up?

FOR THE CALLER Named K A R E N : As a fellow "BEREAVED PARENT" I just want to stop and take a moment to say GOD BLESS YOU HUGELY for using THE WISDOM OF THE WONDERFULLLLLLL COUNSELOR- to have HOLY COURAGE to Always take the TIME you NEED- in Order to G e t Strong AND STAY STRONG- during your Journey Of Mourning All T H E W A Y To Forever🦅 The traumatic horrific pain of a BEREAVED PARENT is like NO OTHER. We could NOT even BREATHE- if it were not for d a i l y Heavenly H O L Y ComFORT From THE LORD🕊 HE PROvides a "HOLY PROTHESTIC" for us to use for the HOLE in our hearts💔❤‍🩹because PART of us is ALREADY in Heaven. ETERNAL LOVE Lifts us UP "...THE GLORY and THE LIFTER of our heads..."- As we begin to FLY - THE FATHER OF ALL COMFORT Gives us MERCY and COMPASSION From CHRIST-as HIS Conduits to ComFORT others with the ComFORT that we have been ComFORTed with through THE DEEP COMPASSION OF CHRIST. "...CHRIST In You- THE HOPE Of GLORY..." You are Giving GOD GREAT GLORY In your story- as you are not only Surviving... but with GRACE Upon GRACE you are T H R I V I N G- as a GLORIOUS Example Of HIS UNFAILING EVERLASTING LOVE💞

The fragmentation caused by having experienced this form of hurt and abuse, may take a lifetime to heal from. Thank you!

When you can’t forgive yourself you are putting yourself above God Amen It is pride that is present Confess the pride and the Lord will give grave for the need This is the Word of the Lord

Thanks for the godly content NLT Your labor for the Lord is truly making a difference in the lives of many God’s continued blessings

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” Matthew 11 Jesus will give the weary rest

Amen Thanks for sharing

Chris mentioned Author and Counselor Leslie Vernick's Excellent Book: "THE EMOTIONALLY DESTRUCTIVE MARRIAGE" 🤔Just wondering...is it possible to maybe have LESLIE VERNICK on The New Life Program as a Guest Host in 2025❓❤

My heart is so sad for Karla.

Dr. Sheri, we LOVE The NAMES Of GOD❕❣❕ How TRULY POWERFULLLLLLL that you mentioned JEHOVAH EL EM-ETH/The GOD Of T R U T H (Hebrew Accent on First syllable: "El EM'-eth") BEAUTIFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯

💟My Heart goes out to MICAH in prayers...🙏

When we are wounded We wound others Lord help us to seek your healing

Snail Like SLOW 🐌 ...

Luv " Employment 'stuck-itis' 😟 "

Amen Dr. Jacqui !

Duplicity • Delusional • Dysfunctional • and even after hubby dies ... Dastardly 😮

" Being a baseball ⚾️ guy " 😅 ... good one Chris !

. . . ALICE ❤ JACQUI ❤ CHRIS ! smart and compassionate ✝️ angels

Yay its Thursday !

Congratulations 😊 that's a real pro host (word from a former radio presenter) although, Steve was "The" host chief...

My heart feels like it’s permanently cracked down the middle. I can’t bear the pain. How is it i gave my heart to him and it wasn’t enough and some other tramp shows up and takes my place instantly and she gets the ring?! Why. Why. WHY

That first callers husband sounds a lot like the convert narcissist I was married to. 😢 #shame

I love the way Sherry talked to Karen annd explained the reality of her relationship with her sister. The Bible asks us to speak the truth with love. That is exactly what Sherry did. I also love how Becky summarizes a situation and treats the caller with empathy and compassion.

A lot of wisdom here. Thank you!

Miss ya on 710 AM Sacramento. 28 years we listened. BUT You're right I have lots of options to catch up anytime. And stop. Pause. As I need to. Do love love the topical snap shots you each do on specific topic! Each day. Thank you so much. Becky. Chris. Mark. And Our fabulous lady doc/ counselors...you are ALL continuing the powerful NLL ministry of Steve & AĹL THE LEGENDARY "BOYS". GIVING ongoing gratitude. Claudia & Jim Moll

They didn't mean to. If you are willing, I beg of thee to forgive them.

Happy Thanksgiving New Life!

In NY grandparents get visits once a month through family court legally. Check your state laws. But the child is 8 so maybe as she gets older, her mom won't be able to keep her from grandma?

Thankyou Alice Shame, one issue

Dr Jill, can you offer advice with living in a home with an excessive cluttering, causing infestation,

Such a great response for this sister.

Happy thanksgiving NLT

Lori, I will suggest, distance from your abusive husband, do not trust yourself alone with him, respect the boundaries set by the attorneys and the court and only communicate with him via your attorney. Also, stay connected to a support group and trust that God will lead you out safely and has a beautiful life waiting for you. Get professional counseling to heal from this tragic experience and find your wounded parts and heal fully and completely. Blessings! 💕

Rachel please get help before you are unable to make that one decision that will save your life. You cannot survive in an environment where you know you are rejected and unloved. Please seek professional help to separate for a while to take care of yourself and bring your body, mind, and spirit in harmony so that you may make the right choice of paths for the rest of your life. Blessings to you!

Karen, you have done your work, but your work is not complete until you are emotionally detached and no one can hurt you or have you react. And you are not responsible for the others peace, you are only responsible for your response to everyone around you. I relate. I have two sisters, and older and a younger one. I have done my work. Like you. Unconditional love and acceptance is needed. Compassion and detachment. Blessings to you!

I am grateful you are here for us! Blessings to you three ladies! 💕

New Life has accompanied me for the last 20 years in my recovery in all aspects! I am grateful for you! May God bless you all!❤❤

Happy Thanksgiving everyone there at New Life ❤

Listening on thanksgiving happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍁🍽 New life ❤❤ Always enjoy steve & John