Isn't the male cop watching every step?

U wana know whats a worse crime than rape... lieing that u got raped and putting an innocent man in jial where he will most likely be raped

Bravery, compassion, sincere and passionate advocacy, and with such eloquence. Thank you for sharing

The Doctor said that, although, THERE ARE several similarities between female victims and male victims of sexual abuse........there are ALSO DIFFERENCES. What are those differences?

One of the MAIN INGREDIENTS in programming and grooming boys for the perversion of homosexual acts and lifestyle..........IS militant domineering FEMALES

FEMALES ARE wicked........just as much so as men

The SOLE objective of the abuse and perversions I had to go through........WAS........to make me a HOMOSEXUAL. THANKFULLY, the programme FAILED

My OWN mother handed me over to sex abusers. She was a pervert of the first order. Sadly, we HEAR SOOOOOOO MUCH about the atrocities committed against females. Sadly, little........or........absolutely NOTHING is said about the insane HORROR that young boys have to endure!😢

When I was a kid from the age of 5 till 11 or 12, I would get sexualy abused by my grandmother every day for summer vacations, and I taught it was normal, I didn't tell anyone because I know it was not right... now I'm 21 and idk man it's very messed up

Swab goddesses.

Also they probably need to be attorneys because they have to be able to convince the d.a. To file charges. But if I have a bag of weed god forbid anything else warrant is out immediately

Also I think Investigators need to have more experience than the I past the test scenario to be an iinvestigatorsgators

Back in the day they never belived inhe say she say story. But nowdays even audio and video still doesn't help the supposedly experience investigators. this video is the first video that is 11years old and saying exactly what investigators Need to say to the victim of crimes.

Bullshit. The vast majority are homosexuals adults who like young boy butt. Dummy.

I was 42 when it started God came to me through Spirit and raped me in my mother's bed. He had said I was to give birth to two nations. The rape continued and in fact over 300,000 different men were manifested through his mind while he held me down and raped me laying in my Spirit. True story I still have not comprehended fully to this day.

Yes there is a need for designated services for men because the women’s centers for S.A. Are not adequately trained nor are they open to treating men

If you’re watching this video and haven’t figured out who to talk to, the advocates at the RAINN sexual assault hotline are amazing. They can help you start to unscramble your mind so you can take the next step. ❤️‍🩹

Nice. Most victims don’t really want “justice.” We just want the rest of society to show they care, and they’re saddened this happened to us. We don’t actually care what happens to the perpetrator(s).

Good. But they probably should have had a male playing a victim too. There are cases of men getting drugged and assaulted or perhaps in the gay community, smaller males who get overpowered by a stronger male.

The woman who assaulted me was my own female doctor. Not only did she lead me straight to the slaughter, she prescribed me Prozac in the two years leading up to it. She knew exactly which keys to turn to completely hijack my sexuality.

How do you gather data on false accusations? Victims go back on their reports all the time when they realize how hard it is to talk about it, especially to a skeptical audience like cops and defense lawyers. And we can't measure it based on whether or not the plaintiff was found guilty, either, as you have to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that it *did* happen: the plaintiff does not have to prove that it didn't. Thus, an innocent verdict is simply agnosticism, saying, "Maybe it happened, maybe it didn't." And when we're talking about SA, many rapists are found innocent merely because this type of crime doesn't tend to leave behind much evidence. It really isn't compatible with our current justice system (guess I can only speak about the US, but it sounds like this is true in most countries). So how would you know? Is there a different lie-detector test than grilling them on the sequence of events like you were describing as the typical technique? You say the false allegations crumble pretty quickly, but how do you distinguish between that and a real victim getting cold feet?

God bless us all Jesus Christ amen 🙏🌹🌹🙏👼🐺🦋

Outstanding accuracy and detail. Thank you

I feel that there is incredible resistance, by women, to the fact that women do evil things to others. Unfortunately the evil of the mother is shunned, disregarded and even totally denied as possible.

You forgot one…. “Men can’t be sexually assaulted”. It is jaw dropping that you produce this clip about rape myths and put forth a group of women to talk about women. Haven’t you heard? Women abuse men all the time and you are perpetuating stereotypes and further preventing men to come forth and report.

How's Megan? Matt is probably regretting touching me.

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This is so incredibly important work for understanding not only forensic investigations, but in advocacy work. This is a crucial part of the human experience when relating an event from one area to another. So much is lost in translation that a person's behaviors can be found to be offensive when in reality they are not. This is incredibly important in diplomacy and in general human interactions. In "Preparing for Arbitration" training classes, a seasoned arbitrator explained how to present a case in his hearing. He said something about "sequencing" sights, sounds, smells and relatable information in such a way to clarify an event, and written (or transcribed) in a way the event(s) are preserved for posterity. In short, he said, "I want to smell the popcorn from the break room." Most events can be better pieced together (by a number of events or witnesses) sequentially and not a miss-related timeline. 🍿

Will they put thay thingy when the hymen is intact

i'm a gay man, and got raped by a teenage women as a kid , and i still feel emotionally numb to this day. i well never get over the feelings associated with, and i don't know where to start for help

It took me 40 years of dissociation and a major breakdown till I disclose to myself and others. Yes, I’ve spent years thinking that something is wrong with me sexually but couldn’t put my finger on it. My attacker was within the family and he did it to many boys and girls until he got caught

I was rape by spirit after leaving cult and demons possessed me, I left with physical trauma reaction in my privacy part. Every time I was around some men socially, a bit of physically touch like social dances, my whole body and my vagina got scared and shaken and after muscle tension…! I hope I will find a way to relieve this.

This is an excellent perspective.

This is very interesting. I'm surprised that many men feel gay after being rapeing or molested . I knew I liked women from the start and being raped never changed that.

The belief that a man who seeks out and perpetrates sexual crimes against a boy is a heterosexual... is ridiculous. That is nothing more than feminist ideology to keep the focus on heterosexual males as being the primary offender of children, based on the power imbalanced narrative. The reality is if you are a male and you intentionally seek out a male child…. then that is a homosexual attraction in the Offender. The victim’s sexuality is not part of the equation because the Offender is attracted to the gender, and not a perceived sexuality in the child. I think it idealistic with regards to your comment on Men and Women healing together. As victim/Survivors we can as a collective come together to create environments and processes for healing regardless of gender or sexuality differences but, I believe there is a emotional if not Spiritual healing that comes from men working with other men, and the same for female victim/Survivors. Like it or not men and women are different, and the dynamics of sexual violence perpetrated against us and our responses to that trauma are different. At some point we are going to have to speak truth into the discussion if we are ever to get ahead of sexual assault but, I do not see that happening until we open up the Sexual Assault Response Community to Male Victimization which presently it is not. In Canada we have a female dominated to exclusivity response community that is based on the feminist ideology of Male as Offender Only and Female as Victim Only. This despite studies which have shown since the early 80’s that 35% of all sex crimes against children are committed by females.

I am a survivor of three years of sexual abuse. It started when I was 19, in late adolescence. I spent seven years in mental health, and no one ever asked about my life or past. I fought for 30 years to come back from this. (I want to say that as a gay man, it was just as hard to understanding myself, just in the other direction.) Male image was definitely a part of dealing. And I just want to affirm that male sexual abuse, although prevalent among younger boys, still happens to young men and adults. Everything he says is true, but some of us were used and abused by a person who was simply controlling and abusive. The process is similar. Thank you for this video. Just remember it is not just young boys.

I don’t find any any healthcare providers that specialize in sexual abuse by mother’s and their son’s. What is the long term effects and psychological effects that these men have later in their lives ?

What would be the benefits and downsides of someone telling her story about having being sexually abused when he/she was a child if this person is already an adult now?

It is absurd for him to state that 'trauma is trauma", and then equate a tornado experience to sexual assault. The trauma of interpersonal violence is a completely different thing that really defies the ability of speech to communicate. I also believe that we have to move away from the myth that "men are perpetrators and women are victims", it serves neither one. The numbers of men that are sexually assaulted by women is rapidly increasing and we have to move the conversation towards understanding that sexual violence is about power, and not gender.

I opened up to my mom today I’m so proud of my self I feel relief it happened as a kid I never forgave myself for what happened I started having throat problem from not speaking up it kills your body spending love an healing to everyone 🧿♥️

Is there away i can talk with this man?

I believe this is the best explanation of trauma I have seen in a while. Perfectly explained. As a trauma survivor, this is makes sense so much sense. My question would be: why does your brain remembers vividly traumatic memories? Any feedback is appreciated.

Last segment title: "rapport building" and not "Report building"

Lord if I hear the word "victim" one more time... this needs a SERIOUS update. It's "survivor" now... we need to provide learning materials that are better than this.

This happened to me as a young teenager. I had suffered sexual abuse from family and after the state took me away I got picked up by some men who took me to the woods and almost raped me . I kept this secret for a week or two . Later I was pressed to go to the police by my dads attorney and because of my trauma my story changed according the law enforcement and they totally called me liar including social services. I am speaking my truth . They would not allow me to me speak about . Thank you for bringing this to light ❤️

great eucational vid. Many girl living wiht that pain because of her shy..Any girl or woman have to feel shy beacuse of that what has happend to them..>Opposite ave to do anything to be punished involved persons in that disguzting acts

If the sexual offenses are not reported then how do authorities know the percentage of reported compared to unreported.

Also...if the victim is young or fresh post partum...please be careful.

Um .. THIS is fantasy...not how it's done. Good ideas, tho.

what about kids