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1-5 respect yourself and leave. 8 billion people on earth

1 thing : sunken cost fallacy!

The marriage is over. Saying that there is hope is just another cope. When the trust is broken, it can never be repaired. Working through the pain and the betrayal will take years... long after the logistics of the divorce.

How do god deal with her sit in the front row every Sunday a leader in church

But wat happen to my wife who is n child of but cheating is was grab by my neck when confronting her last night

It's so sad how some kids aren't allowed to celebrate Halloween. Yes, this holiday flows with the holiday season. It marks the beginning of the holiday season. It's like a warding off of evil spirits before the holidays. It's a fun way to clear the way for Christ. Thanksgiving represents the sharing and caring of the season. There's no reason to take the fun of dressing up and having safe fun away from children. I knew kids that didn't get to celebrate Halloween and they were resentful. It's so sad watching everyone else have fun while you have to sit on the sidelines.

The relationship is dead and the trust is almost always lost forever, bruh Enough with the religion crap

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I love how she insists that the cheater is confessing lol.

Why is it that any of these youtube type of therapists who preach about god always want the relationship to forgive the infidelity and stay together. What about it being a sin? I'm not holy one bit but I just don't like hearing this.

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Worst pain ever !!!!💔

Saved? Are you kidding me?

Empathy is rare and profound. Great insights Thank you

Cheating in a relationship is an unforgivable betrayal of trust that can not be remedied, at least for me. There is no excuse for it and, again for me, marks your character as a person as flawed beyond redemption, in the regards to a relationship,thanks to almods cyber genius Online for exposing my cheating ex through his phone, my doubts were right.

In all major religious texts, adultery actually is valid grounds for divorce. So the person betrayed is not wrong in the slightest if he/she believes the relationship is beyond repair and wants to leave

how does this not have like 1M views

The best day for me was 24 hours after finding out. I gave my garden tool the heave ho. I am still pleased with myself for having not tolerated that disgusting behavior.

Its all over, no-one can ever recover from an affair. Be honest with your partner and just leave. You have already betrayed them.

Get tested for STDs

When a spouse has been talking overnight to someone for hours each night for four months and is caught and says he’s just a friend..I love how the cheaters always say that when caught..and they really believe their spouse is that stupid..horrible selfish betrayal..eminent divorce 😢

My ex wife 36f cheated on me with a guy a few times and at the same time with our 22F daycare worker. There’s no saving that. Not even Jesus can redirect that dead marriage.

Wtf? Is this woman delulu? What kind of bordeline sociopathic husband just strolls up to their wife after cheating on her and just tells her :"Yeah, honey, here's the thing...I just kinda cheated on you and I hope that's cool with you. We cool?" Is she living in her own made up fantasy world? Crazy lady even suicidal husbands won't just confess to their wives what they've done until they're forced to by getting caught.

The real TRUTH is that once a person cheats on you the relationship as it was is OVER! Move on with your life without them, you deserve more....

In order to try and reconcile I insisted he cut all ties to his AP immediately and get therapy asap both individual and couples therapy … so much needs to be done before I will make a final decision on whether to stay and try to make our marriage work or file for separation … this betrayal has devastated our family but he is a very good man who did very bad things … can we move forward and create a new and improved life together … only time will tell 🙏🤞🙏🤞

pastors don't help with crap

Its in the Bible... headsup: Matthew 5:31-32 "It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce. ' But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery."

Nope, if the wife cheats on the man, tgere is NO way that it can be reconciled. The best the woman can hope fir is that he doesn't kill her, because that is the evolved default behavior. Men are competitive, mate-guarding, testosterone-driven creatures shaped by biological/psychological evolution. A woman who cheats on him insults him in the worst way. And men think graphically, especially in the sexual realm. And every few seconds. Men would think about the cheating wife being plowed in a seedy motel room, her head being rythmically slammed into a headboard. The graphic details and runaway imagination would play like a movie over and over in his head. How on earth would it be possible for a man to reconcile with his wife and stay married under those circumstances? It wouldn't be. Unless he had a cuckold fetish. The woman should just be thankful he didn't kill her, as is his default instinct, and get out. Its much, much more serious when a woman cheats. Whether or not society wants to admit that reality.

Yes, most of the time the spouse won’t come out and tell you.

I think this is the biggest problem in relationships not just marriage.

How do one deal with a partner you helped when she was homeless and no one to help or accommodate her. Then you bring her into your house, then after like 3months you noticed she received constant calls from a male friend and they talk and talk every night. And whenever you question all the late night calls she received from the male friend, she keep saying the male friend is just a friend. Unfortunately when we were supposed to go out together, she said she wasn’t going again. So I respected her choice and let her stay back. So when I head to my destination, I was suspicious of her sudden decision not to follow me to where we agreed to go together, so I decided to hang around some few meters from the house without her knowing. Then I noticed she went out of the house and meet her so called male friend and they chatted for almost 45mins not knowing I was watching from her afar. Then I kept calling and calling but she did not pick my calls. So I let her be and went straight to the house to wait till she arrives back home. So after 45mims she came back not knowing I was home already and not knowing I saw her with her male friend. So when we both got into the room, I let her relaxed for 30mins before I started questioning her movements, but she lied to me and kept saying she just went to the garden to relax, not knowing I saw her far away chatting and laughing all through with her male friend. At the end of it all she kept lying and lying that she was alone. So I had to lock the room kept the key in my pocket, knowing fully well nobody will hear our argument. So I decided to go hard and yell at her letting her know I caught her with evidence of pictures and video recording all the moment she had with her male friend. So I decided to show her so she was so shocked and start pleading. That they were just friends. So I need advised on how to deal with her unfaithful attitude, lies and deceitful. Please I await a strong response. Thank you

The knee jerk reaction is to leave. But give it time if you can. I had an idea my wife was having an affair - you just know. They ended it, and that's how l found out. He was divorced, so he had nothing to lose. He thought l would throw her out (he was hoping). I didn't mainly to spite him and she wanted to be with me. He tried to get back with her but failed. I was playing a game with him, and at the same time giving us time to work through it. Yes, l was devasted, but I knew l was the stronger man. Nearly 2 years have gone, times have been tough, he's completely out of the picture. It hasn't been easy at times, you learn to live with it and slowly the damage is repaired. I guess the moral of the story IF you both want to make it work and still love each other give it a go. If it doesn't work out then you've tried.

GOD was late to the party.

They told me "don't worry about Carl, he is just a friend" like I was an idiot. 9 years, 2 kids. She is Bi-polar. I'm single now.

I cheated on my wife with some one and over a year and half she find out and I regret doing that,I was not able to open up due to what went through due to my past relationships so she suffered for it and I promised my self never to do that in life…and the love I have her has developed more than words can say and any one who is trying to cheat on their partners should stop because both partners will be happy when you stay together peace…and I am sorry for this and will not happen as we grow together and die together,any time I look at you I say how beautiful you are and I will love you forever

Never ask the specific!!!!! Trust me you don't wanna know

this is dellusional and only masochists that want to prolong their unhappiness and healing... why put yourself through pain it would take if the cheater didnt care about you? they will do it again and lose any little respect they have left for you. also, live in reality, there is no god people! there's a universe and energy that lives in everything that conects us all. marriage is not a concept that is natural.. makes no sense.

Yeha, theres hope when you realize the person doesn't want to fix it and you eventually move on. Once you move on and realize how strong you are you'll realize you don't need that toxic person in your life. You'll make it, you're stronger than you think. I realized it and so will you

Regarding #3: Conversation with cheating spouse Useless. Cheaters lie. They lie a LOT. And they lie about EVERYTHING.

I am 27 from india about to get married, just to let to know divorce rate in india is barely 1% which is verry less as compared to world, but nowadays our culture is fucked up because of people influenced by western culture. But atleast in west you still have option after divorce we as an india its realhard fo4 men and women to get another partner. I came up here i just saw a video on internet from india a working women cheated on her husband with her divorce lowyer. It makes me afraid of getting married.

So true get the information from parents is better than classmates or just as bad the internet ☮️❤️💡

Some will say they weren’t happy in their current relationship and would suffer socially, financially or whatever reason if they left, and some will say that the other person had qualities their partner didn’t and it was new and exciting and not the day-to-day routines that families and long term relationships go through. Some will say they don’t actually love their partners but they more likely have traumas from childhood that we’re not healed and coming through into the relationship. For example, if a child learned at an early age that the ones closest to them cannot be trusted would get into adulthood and not trust the ones closest to them even if they were trustable partners and the traumatized partner would never let them “In” so they would unconsciously self sabotage or have no real connection with their partners and constantly disrespect their relationship by sleeping with who ever showed them attention. another reason is they don’t understand the up’s and downs of long term/ family and when something like children take precedence then they feel like their relationship is suffering and then find attention else where. Honestly there List could go on and on. Additionally there is no way you can be too sure that your spouse isn’t cheating behind your back. The only way you can be sure if your spouse is cheating on you or not is “TO FIND OUT“. Get to find out about a cheating spouse with evidence to prove it by spying their mobile and thereafter gaining access to all the things they might have been hiding away from you. If you need to find out about a cheating spouse; send a request to: Metaspyhub@gmail. com.........

Actually, there's just one thing that the cucked party must do)))

There is no saving the marriage.It will never be the same again You need to be offering divorce advise.Its bull what you are encouraging

Ohhh what a sad news today.......I felt so bad and don't expect my husband cheat with my best friend.

Like what

LOL.....there is only one thing to do.....kick their butt out of the house...That's what I did anyway

My husband is a serial cheat and he is not even remorseful about it