yeah sounds like a fun job to have. do pursue ❤. I also don’t wanna drink while I’m at clubs, one way is to drink mocktails and enjoy the music. another thing is maybe they feel you are desperate when you offer to pay everything and even sorting rides . I really like what you’re trying to do but best course of action is to offer help only when someone asks for it. Also be careful cause some freeloaders might take advantage of you . Everyone likes free drinks a better way to offer drinks is by framing it differently, for example . for example challenges , games (makes it more fun) for e.g you can say drinks on me if you can make me laugh , drinks on me if you beat me at bowling ,darts ,minigolf whatever . try befriending one , and slowly more friends . I hope that helps . And If you ever come to Iceland just send me a message I’d love to go 🪩 dance.

Don't give up just yet. Go look at other video on the same subject. It could be that your brain process things different than how he is presenting. I watched music theory video that approach things differently than this way and was totally confused and wanted to give up. I watched this and totally understood it better. So try different videos until that light in your head click on. Peace.