I didn’t find out with my second son b/c I didn’t want to deal with the disappointment… I just wanted oh the joy of just having a healthy baby… but with the 3rd I couldn’t wait to find out… it’s the ONLY reason I got an NIPT done. Glad I did… I get a lot of time to hopefully get over the fact that I’ll never have a daughter. Hopefully. And at least I got to check the results alone away from other ppl.

Thank you Ms. Gigu, you have saved my marriage!

god does not give us children, we do, he has no part in finding out the gender of a baby, he does not give us sons or daughters, the gender of the baby is the gender anyway

The use of color is an important issue. Here are some techniques used to enhance the beauty of painting. Here is a beautiful technique of using tape. Thanks for the beautiful video.

I can't get over it I am in tears and 6 months pregnant no motivation at all

Thank you for sharing this. I am currently suffering from this. I cried, felt sad but guilty, not excited. I know these are all terrible and ungrateful feelings. I don’t know how long it takes for me to process this, or whether i will be able to handle it at all. I know i should be all excited and happy and feeling lucky about my pregnancy like i have been feeling before knowing the gender. Please will this be passed? I’m very sick.

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I just had a miscarriage, I did not know what I was having, I really wanted a girl. But know it doesn't matter the sex because it's gone 😭💔 boy or girl I would have been happy.

I also would like to hear from women whose gender disappointments didn’t go away after birth. After having my second son it didn’t go away. I still loved him but as soon as I got home from the hospital I was already planning another pregnancy and looking up sway techniques and making a new baby registry with all the girl items I wanted. Even now a year and a half after my last little boy was born I feel extremely disappointed when a friend or family member announce they are having a girl. One cousin I have cut out of my life completely for the sole reason that she is having a girl and I can’t deal with it. Gender disappointment does not always go away with birth.

I'll stick to freehand it's much straighter and no chance of bleed through

This was so helpful. Thank you all so much and sending love a your ways

I have a curved section where the wall meets the ceiling so it's not a sharp line. How can I make sure that the paint stays straight?

I usually use a very thin line of painter's caulk along the tape line and use your finger to flatten it. Then paint immediately. The caulk fills the tiny voids and you won't get bleed though.

I’m 15 weeks pregnant - I have two girls already - I am praying to god this ones a boy - I feel no shame that I feel this way - I will be devastates if it’s a girl - And its okay cause I know for a fact that if it is a girl I will love her more than life!

They have those plastic bullnose trim guides for miter cutting baseboards around those corners. I drilled a hole thru the middle of it, and use it to make a pencil mark in the middle of the corner for your tape.

This was great to hear. Many gender disappointment resources are for women. Can you recommend anything to relate to the fathers that experience this? My husband and I both thought we were having a girl. We are having a boy. I was able to adjust pretty quickly, but he’s still very sad, like some said, mourning the girl. If you have any thoughts on anything I can share with him, it would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks so much. Exactly the video I was looking for to see how this is to be done on rounded corners. Big help! God bless!

I thought i was having a boy i was over the moon until ob pointed out it was the umbilical cord. He said dont put money on it but he is sure its a girl. My heart sank. My husband just sat in the seat. I was in tears. I have been crying non stop. I really really wanted a boy. Its my last pregnancy i wanted a girl and a boy. Now i cant enjoy this pregnancy. I stopped touching my belly. I have made the decision not to breast feed anymore. I wanted a hungry boy. As far as im concerned hubby can have the first hold, hubby can feed it. I don’t even want to mention gender of this one. I don’t have a name only boys names. I have boys clothes that i have brought. I don’t want to buy pink. I don’t want to do frills again. I actually don’t want to buy baby clothes period. It will just have to put up with the blue things I already have. Am i proud of feeling this way? Nope. I am trying my best to work through this on my own. Hubby and i have had a huge fight over this.

Girls BOYS ARE BETTER I PRAYED TO HAVE 2 BOYS AND AND GOD GRANTED my wishes!!THANK U JESUS! My parents never wanted boys and God gave them 3 girls. I was the eldest and i always wanted a brother. I'm BLESS with my 2 little machos! JUST PRAY TO God and his son jesus with faith!!

We are trying for our girl. I have two wonderful boys. I'm 46 and very healthy. I'm following the diet and timing and positions all for a girl so am hopeful it may work. Get the Ashley spencer book. Choosing the gender of your child.

I know this is an old video but I have a 4yr old boy and 9yr old boy my only girl is 13yrs old so we decided to try one last time for another girl I literally just got home from my gender reveal and I’m balling my eyes out I just started crying I’m still crying I don’t know how I feel anymore I’m extremely disappointed the ultrasound girl felt my pain and my disappointment my daughter was with me and my husband and I feel horrible I’m mad upset disappointed I’m inconsolable right now

Thank you so much for posting this! I'm currently pregnant with my second child, my first is a boy and I desperately want a baby girl we know this one is our last baby. We are finding out in 4 days the gender and I'm extremely anxious to find out, I already feel if it's not a girl I will be very disappointed. Thank you for publicity talking about gender disappointment I now know that I'm not alone.

I feel like we are all kindred spirits

Thanx for this video. My situation is very much like Carolyn's only my Mam doesn't want help from anyone else but me. The whole situation is pulling my life apart.

Just found out two days ago that I am having my third boy and when one lady says that you are in "mourning", she is so right! I have not stopped crying and my husband doesn't know what to do.

Another tip, paint over the tape with the color that is under the tape. This ensures that if there is any bleeding, it doesn't matter because it's the same color. And it seals off any of those holes. After it dries, go back over with the new color.

i have two boys and the second time around I wanted a girl, I was so upset but than I got over it. he was handsome when he was born and holding him in my arms healthy as he can be. i over come it and accept what GOD gave me

just find out am having my third girl, I don't know what to do .hubby wanted a boy. am scared of my marriage 😅

thank you for the video, its a relief to hear others saying just how I've been feeling. Its a new journey for me, in the last year my father has succumbed to depression in old age and cognitive decline, I'm not a very patient person and beat myself up after I lose patience with him and my mother. I guess this situation is designed for me to grow and develop as human being. All the best to you

I love this video .. there are a lot of women who get gender disappointments.. and too concerned what someone opinion..

good job kiddo :)

good job kiddo :)

If you want a video from a loving and educational perspective and answers to a lot of your questions, I just watched a really helpful and informative video: m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=UlryMt2CB6E

thanks for excluding us men

17 minutes in. Thank you for sharing, raising awareness, and giving gender disappointment a voice. I am, unfortunately, a mom without a happy ending. I didn't find out the gender until birth the second time around because I thought I couldn't be disappointed holding a perfect baby in my arms, but he wasn't perfect. He has a birth injury. I was disappointed and because of the injury and my birthing history now, he will be our last. I'm not okay. I'm seeking professional help, but I just wanted to say, not everyone is okay. It doesn't always disappear after the baby is born. 10 months post-partum.

thank you for sharing this. many words I needed to hear

Hi Gigi, Could you update this video? It's nearly 4 years old thus probably due for a remake. The plugins must have been updated dozens of times since the original post. Thanks

I am dissapointed as well i just found out for days ago i am having a boy i really want a girl

I just found out im pregnant with my 3rd girl 😢 idk how to feel ..

Hi, I know this was 1yr ago but I am so glad I ran into this video. I am dealing with my mom who is 82yrs old. I have 4 siblings, 3 us live in the same state and 1 that lives in a different state. She started to cry and didnt want us to leave when we would go visit her that we told just to come stay with us. My brother with 4 kids in activities took her in but she was trying to run his household and that started to create a problem there. Im at a point of my life will my kids have become adults and now I was trying to focus on myself and now I feel like I have to put me on hold to help take care of her. For 3yrs I would go get her every Thursday and keep her til Sunday just to give my brother a break. However, the other 2 siblings, one is retired, the other is semi retired were just sitting back not helping while me and my younger brother work full time jobs. In the meantime my brother and I were becoming very exhausted that I finally pulled the other 2 into the picture and told them you need to take over. They have had her only 3 months and not 1 week has pass that we do not hear their complaints and they even have the nerve to say that me nor my younger brother want to help. They feel to see the time we have spent with her and the time we also put to take care of her house along with our own.....Now they are shipping her off to my other brother in another state because they do not want to deal with her and they said if she comes back she must go into Assisted Living. At this point because of her trying to control everyones home that is probably the best thing to do to keep everyone from going insane. I can relate to Carolyn, this is a very difficult time in my life that I never expected. Thank you for making and sharing this video.

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Thank you for this. I'm divorced with 3 children. While men do want to date me I decline because of my children.

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so - I guess I have to get a Business Account. Because with my personal one nothing works as you explained - to bad.

Great job! Beautiful girl!

Thanks so much for this. I work for a UK charity raising money to provide welfare for all ex service personnel. This will help me fundraise so much easier. Your a star!

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