I don't know why I just came across your channel. No offense, I haven't watched it before, but wow, this is so accurate. I really appreciate you putting this information out here for people that might be going through this or starting to go through this and I hope they come across this so they can realize the signs because I went through so much financial abuse and I didn't have anybody to talk to about what I was going through. When it first was happening, I didn't know and then I started doing more research because I knew there had to be a name for what I was going through at the time. Because I knew it wasn't right. I just didn't know what the name of it was back then.. And I was like OMG when I figured out what the name was it all made more sense. Yeah, the situation was horrible. I had 2 small children and it was so bad that I couldn't even put gas in my car unless I called at the gas station saying exactly how much I needed and there would be times I would literally have to stand at the pump and wait for him to send me the money. Via app to receive the money or several times he would threaten to shut my phone off on me if he got mad at me because he didn't get his way. Remind you you we had 2 very small children at the time when this was going on. Or when I was at the grocery store and I would be in a line and I couldn't pay until I would call him or text him when I was at the register. And I would have to wait for him to send me the money via an app completely ridiculous. Yep, he made me max out my credit cards, made me do cash advance, never paid it back on the card. Because he would threaten to not pay for other things. Knowing that I couldn't go anywhere because I was staying home with our children. I literally had no family around no friends. I was isolated from everybody. I had wanted to get a job and because we had no family around and my now ex he had his own business and he could switch his schedule around, he refused to do that. Because I had asked him if I have an interview for a job who's gonna watch our kids? We don't have anybody else to watch them. And I asked him if he could watch them if I had to do a job interview. He literally told me. Not my problem, figure it out. It was honestly, really horrible. Like I pray my kids never know all of the horrible stuff that was done. Because it would break their hearts when they get a lot older. I mean, he is so selfish and controlling when the government was sending out the 3 stimulus checks for children during covid, ge literally made me give him the second stimulus check and said he was not going to pay other bills if I didn't give it to him. He was refusing to pay other bills, so he literally took our kids money. Total piece of work. I could go on and on but oh my God, this brings back so many horrible memories and I'm so glad I got away from him but when I did leave, I went through a lot to get back on my feet.

It’s organized crime by the Money Cult.

When I was married, I kid you not, I never even had 25 cents in my purse. This was before cell phones. I would not have even been able to use a pay phone to call anyone if there was an emergency. I had no money for food. He had to do ALL the grocery shopping. Our kids had one outfit to wear to school. Yet he seemed to have money for things he wanted.

I had to beg for lunch money for work, small in house canteen whilst he was spending huge amounts lunching in exoensive restaurants and drinking it up in the London city scene

What about when you're being blocked from getting a job or do anything to progress? It was made hard for me to start school, college, to do pretty much anything to advance my self. And his dad and step mom getting money

Here’s a odd situation I’m a mother with current 50/50 custody of my 13 year old son and I go to court 10/7 for his motion for full custody which he lied about everything, he has alienated my son on my scheduled visit I’m denied Holidays denied bday and drs appointments denied. He has no grounds other than I moved on and I’m happy meanwhile my poor son is around two narcissists and a liar his dad and grandparents that bash me every time they see an opportunity. He has manipulated my son to lie for him and half the time makes him block me so I can’t get through to my kid and I’m praying so hard that the judge will see him for who he really is this court hearing. My son deserves a safe loving environment and he’s obviously in survival mode living with his father.

All our money is kept separate. I pay half utilities and half the rent till my dad gave me my house before he passed. So my income t@×es are higher because I file married filing separate. Husband put a property he has in a trust for a charity, I get nothing at his passing. Wants me to do all the cleaning and buy the cleaners. And he's hoarding cats so there is constant cleaning. Mine has called me at work and yelled at me over the phone. Or tried to start an argument or asks a question that requires a discussion as I go out the door to work. I paid for furnace repair while he was out of town. He refuses to repay me for half, and has bought himself several toys since then. Years ago while we were renting from my dad I bought a new faucet because ours was leaking and had my brother install it. My husband asked me for the receipt then gave it to my dad when my dad came around for the rent. So my dad discounted his share of the rent for the amount that I paid for the new faucet.

My ex was always complaining that I was spending too much money for groceries. ( I would grocery stopping on Saturday). When we would go to church on Sunday. The pastor was always begging for money. He would want me to write a check for $100.00 from my checking account. I would tell him no because I didn't have a $100. O0 in my checking account.

Iam in Georgia I need you're help so I need a way to talk to you

Financial abuse is when you work top provide to give this person everything and because of whatever she makes up in her head that she feeling she needs and can't see the work you have done for her lifestyle and she goes behind your back cheating lies makes up argument just to have a excuse to make u look like your the problem and then after divorce you get kicked out your own fucken house so you can keep making payments and keep her way of lifestyle the same because now she becomes a victim is abuse....i mean why are men not fighting for equal rights

I was convinced to move into my in-laws home and pay bills as my husband wasn’t working. He’s now working and wants to separate. My $$ went to the family his $$ went to entertainment/ upstart projects.

ID RATHER BE ALONE THEN BE ABUSED ANYMORE 😢 PERIOD SICK AND TIRED OF DISGUSTING MANIPULATORS

Also - a man who refuses to hold down a regular job but keeps pushing his wife to work harder and harder so that he can take it easy. And when he does occasionally work, won’t put his paychecks in the joint account.

Although not as common women are capable of some of this behavior as well.

Thanks. Many don't believe financial abuse happens. My ex spouse financially abused me. M

my ex husband will not even pay his share of the meal on my children's birthday, saying no money all the time 😂😂#where'syourballs

7:34 you kind of got me here but not really. My job is my kids and making sure they aren’t home alone just for me to make money. Or with anyone who can take advantage of them. Also i don’t want to work bc i know he’d be worse!!! I do work online and i do make some money but it’s more good for groceries for the kids and i since he doesn’t think that’s important.

My wife refused to work for years. Now employed, but refuses to pay any of the bills and taxes.

What's better to apply for state or federal?

How much do you charge to get this done?

Wait… only one year of undergrad?

I get all the advice I can from Sam & Dani. They’re legal genius and nobody will fight harder for your best interests.

Dani & Sam represented me and I felt like I won the lottery with them. You can’t ask for a smarter, more empathetic pair of lawyers or friends to represent you.

My man! This father and son dunamic duo worked together to help me in every sticky situation I ever went through. Thank you Sam & Dani! I know who to call if I ever need help again. They went out of their way to help me in multiple counties.

FOLLOWING IT

Can you refuse to blow and opt for a blood draw?

Which breathalyzer gives you the automatic 90 day suspension? The one on the road or the one at the station?

What about a felony charge like distribution

He had my bank card and All my details he was reading my emails and was tracking me by my phone; but when I decided to leave, I laft everything behind except my bank card which he decided to give back after he decided that I should retire and HE would take care of me. I left my phone ( tracking) but he still knew whereabouts I was, because he tracked me by my bank card. He knew where I was before the police, but said nothing. He told a friend that I had emptied my bank account £500 and he was angry, thinking he should have it even though it was a very little retirement money £42+ every month. I hadn't realised that he was robbing me blind and wanted more. I'm now in control of the money I receive every month and it's good to see exactly what I have and what I can afford. What goes around, comes around. Now it's the waiting game for me.

Finance is most common dominator of Domestic Voilence 😡 as is Coercive Control 🤬

Is there any way you would be able to answer questions concerning this? My wife has left and been gone for 9 months and refuses to provide an address for divorce. Would I be able to terminate her rights?

Everything you're saying is straight up bullshit. So sick of you evil family attorney's you all practice color of law and commit fraud on the court and malpratice.

There are also less EXTREME forms of Financial Abuse than the ones listed in this video. These ones are easy to detect

My x, supported his x, during pur marriage.

Him and his sister were in on it. Collected my cash from 2010-2019 for his house that he failed to tell me that it was already paid off... (about $90,000 total) I left that pos in 2020 after finding out mid 2019. I didn't get anything close....

At 7:40 Is it Financial Abuse when you make 80% of the income and your spouse does all the Banking. Then going nearly into Bankruptcy and find out your spouse is forging your name on your cheques and all your pay is going to another bank account you never knew existed with another mailing address. Is this common!

Thumbnail....man punching a female in the head...thats a sign!

I had a live in gf in the mid 80's who would spend bills' money on stupid shit, like designer shoes. She put me in $5k in credit card debt, it would be about $20k today. I broke up with her, and it took almost 4 years to pay it off. I still think I got off cheap.

Schools should teach students about financial abuse in health class and how to recognize signs of narcissistic personality disorder and how to go No Contact.

Coersive control. If they financially abuse the will abuse you mentally, emotionally and i hope not, but yes sometimes physically. Or even using intimidation.

I had all this, not allowed to work or drive, no access to money not even a few pence. If I wanted a small item I had to explain why and it was often refused...all under the disguise of 'I'm looking after you, take you where you need to go, sort out all the finances etc'. I eventually got out but it took 25 years when the kids were grown to gain my freedom. Now I have my own money, am driving etc., no one controlling me

I would love to talk to you about this

Allowing one partner to take on the bulk of credit cards charges for various things. Agree to pay half of everything & doesn't 😢

Hey how can I get my violence charges expunged

Girls do need to buy practical stuff like hygiene, medicine, cleaning products for the family or household and pet supplies. It’s the big expenditures like men’s toys or egotistical stuff that gets impractical expenses ruining finances creating household debt. Some girls buying excess extravagant makeup hoarding stuff. Girls hair can be extremely extravagant is out of control bc media fake people.

The reverse of all of this is women using sex as a weapon to manipulate the husband.

Or the spouse gets critically ill and they stop paying cancer treatments

🙏🏼 Do you practice in Florida?? I desperately need help before mine makes me lose the roof over my head while he's off playing house with his girlfriend in Ft Myers. If you don't practice in Florida, do you know anyone who does and could help me? He's done everything in his power to prevent me from filing forca divorce and he made over $200,000.00 last year, but he ran off with our business and is living the high life while I was forced on EBT and I'm struggling to survive everything. 😢 Any help would definitely be appreciated! 🙏🏼

Wow sounds just like my ex wife colvert narcissist not always a guy

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