Erikson’s research and theory has been since disproved many many times. You might want to look up the theory of constructed emotions for a more nuanced look.

Save your time, this video teaches you that someone knows something you wont ever know. Thee end.

Movie name please?

The day before he was paralyzed his doctor told informed his family he wouldn’t make it past the night. Milton Erickson fought all night long not to fall asleep. He survived and was left paralyzed.

Well, this mask wearing is not always healthy, a fact Freudian psychologists themselves have declared. It must be something related to your true personality, your own self, not a mask that makes you a PRETENDER all your life. It becomes suffocating then. If being an actor is difficult, being yourself is also not easy. Being your true self, true to your values is what makes you a person with whom people can deal with trust, not a persona who is just a 'persona' (Jungian term for 'mask')

“… therefore you have to wear a mask”. I haven’t heard a more untrue and pernicious statement in a long time.

I like being able to read people

I'm not very social. I only talk to somebody if they talk to me first and I'm not very good at making conversations. They would be doing the talking for the most part. Every time I walk past someone I think of greeting them but instead I look the other way and walk away. I want to have a big circle of friends/people I know. I want to be social but I don't want all eyes on me which is why I'm not very active. Since I don't actively participate in diff activities , I don't get the chance to talk to a lot of people . Yeah , I'm just an introvert.

I don't wear a mask. My personal is to be close to myself even though it was quite extravert before, way before. Now I'm close to myself naturally. I don't think I'll be winning much by wearing a mask. I'm authentic! I'll keep it that way.

I feel like Milton Erikson's life was boring. Imagine if you could tell what people were feeling at say any time and any information about them just by having casual conversation with them. It would all be so boring. No surprises or challenges. Just... Plain and uneventful.

In this video you talked about Milton Erickson. Please recommend a book by him that covers all the aspects of social skills. Also your content is really good, try to upload more videos!

This was really interesting i like it.

6:44 anybody knows the movie name?

Has someone how went from being an introverted to a "fake?" Extroverted I relate so much, like, almost all my interactions are me fake agreeing or just listening to the other person even tho I don't really agree or don't get along with them.

Also, at least in America; when you can see deeper than people want you to, they avoid you.

I feel perverted while continuously scaning the body of the other person.

how do i mask i am the person described at 30-1.01

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People don't have to take off their mask when you can read there soul. That is a gift I got from my father. 🥲

I practise minimalism because i’m a broke student🤣

The other side of the story here is that it took a smart person to become completely paralyzed before he started to notice these sorts of things and he can still be wrong. Personally I am much more of the belief people are *not* all that adept at reading each other. The amount of times I meet someone claiming to be Highly Sensitive but they end up being the worst judges of character drives this home for me personally.

I really appreciate the environmental motivations under minimalism, but I find the look of it to be so souless and dull, specially when it comes to architecture and interior design. This was a very informative video though, keep up the good work!

Our consumption is really ridiculous, but it's not going to get much better as people either don't know the effects of their consumer choices, or just don't care. It's never-ending work trying to make good choices according to our budget, so we can't really blame people for giving up, either. We need better systematic solutions to take the burden off the individual, which would make consumerism more minimalist in a way!

Clearly he lied about having Polio. Clearly you're a dolt.

He said he was "the only right psychiatrist for her" so he decided to clock her and make her feel like shit for being trans? Also she's not a "young man". Sex and gender are different things

Observe how diferent animal species are comunicating without using any sound and you will just love them.What about humans🤔

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I don't know him, but i'm following the same path as his. I create a mask for myself that comes from the knowledge on people's behaviour to further understand what's on their mind. Analyze the consistency comes first. Though i don't use all masks i created. A mask needs an experience to flourish. Wether it's their talking skill, their way of think, etc. If i can't fulfill those, i can't be them fully. One of my mask tends to not use inner monologue, but rather to enjoy & response to the outside world as it is. Thus he's more extroverted. He don't like being distracted by his own mind. It's harder to pull off if i stick on one mask for too long. There's a way to break it, is to experience something again that is fond for the other mask. To break a mask needs an exercise of mind. I need to erase the impression from the other mask and view it from the current mask. Do it until the impression is all gone and become a forgotten mask. I won't live on a mask's fate. It's a tool to deal, relate, and read people. I love being someone, because i don't have home for myself. I won't fix my weaker self when i can forget it. Before using all of this, surrender selfishness. I don't know what's this mechanism called, because i prefer to self taught myself without my bias perspective for a long time.

Just paying attention!

I wasn't like this as a kid

U guys have masks But I have an WALL WAHAHAHAHAH

My heck for social skill is playing poker😁😁

Dude pshychopaths are probably having a heyday with all this psychology stuff on youtube lmao

A completely honest person doesn't get shunned. I am living proof of it. I never lie, but occasionally I will omit information. I'm not as good as Erickson, but after talking to someone for a few minutes, I know for sure if I can trust them or not, and I know when people are feeling stressed or anxious, even when others don't catch it.

As someone who is extremely interested in psychology and applied it to himself, this video was truly fascinating! I hope you will make a part 2 of this series soon!

I hate all humans I lucky i found out at 20

I'm using this to become a better spy main

I just want to say, you cannot crack my mask. I have a triple layer defense of two personalities and an unusual body language.

"How to be a bigger imposter" No, but thanks

Becoming transgender wasn’t even possible till only 50 years ago tf?

Impressive, very nice. Lets see paul allens social skills

People are just mad, because my mother taught me to see through other people and how to recognize when my own face talks.

I hate people, especially myself. Just an average guy so whatever , keep not giving a fuck if you read this. I hate people because they aren’t direct, the “mask” they put on, just to, cope , blend in, be included, ect. Fuck that it does t work. Then the other half of people, ask a question and if they don’t like it they make it a big deal. The other person is offended too because they got ridicule for telling the truth!? and they get upset over that !? There’s only 2 choices here. Be fake, or be yourself, if you think there is a 3rd option, there isn’t, it’s either the pressure to make the decision makes you quit, or others hate you.

3:35 using my deduction and ideas, i thinki his paralised part of brain that work for movement is been forced back to live be himself so he can walk again on his own

Holy crap, I just started paying attention to the people around me I saw exactly what they were feeling.

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The person they described sounds like me 💀💀 not even trying to be cringe

I am a writer and have been struggling with a story. Mostly thinking that I just don't have the skill. But somehow God has sent me to your video to put this lesson in front of me, which I'm so grateful for. Paying attention to details. Seeing the work of those amazing writers I admire that's definitely what I've noticed, attention to finer details. I think I didn't pushed through the pain of figuring out the details. Seeing that example of Parasite totally clicked these things for me. It is definitely an amazing lesson in its entirety but I'm taking one with me to hone it. 'Dedication to finer points is what sets apart the remarkable from the ordinary.' This lesson describes my passion to write something I'd love to read, to push through struggles and difficult situations with dedication. And being meticulous towards the finer details that truly make a massive difference. Thank you so much for this lesson. This has been truly inspirational.

I’m so glad I found this video. I have social anxiety and I struggle with reading other people and also expressing my own cues. I also wish to study medicine as well as psychology and psychiatry, and I believe in the mind having just as much, if not more power than the body. I had never met or heard of anyone else just like me, but now I think I’ve found myself a new inspiration :)

so ppl who don’t wear a mask are naturally not likable? nah not buying into that