Thats natural you want a man not a girl....thats being homosexual.
@PPjuice22 күн бұрын
Im a closeted boy who is currently seeing someone but ive begun feeling ashamed of not being out because everytime i search smt like couples with a closeted boyfriend its mostly, "why we dont date closeted men" and "DONT DATE CLOSETED GUY!" it feels wierd seeing these videos basically telling people not to date someone like me. I do plan on coming out when i feel the time is right and if i would get called out or anyone figures out i wouldn't deny it. My boyfriend knows im not out and that my parents cant know yet but im feel like im a bad person for doing this because i see so many telling people that closeted guys arent worth it. (Srry for no commas but my language and English comma system is different so i wont attempt)
@Joel-Tracy26 күн бұрын
VT has great outdoors, mountains, no cities, and very much embracing of us... so you know there are options other than cities. Stay safe and keep speaking up!
@DrummondCulture25 күн бұрын
Yeah it's always nice to hear about more accepting places that exist. But that also requires us to move far away from our friends and families. Vermont is definitely too far from the people I care about. I've lived in different states before that were more accepting but when it comes to only being able to come home to see my family once to twice a year and having to spend a fortune to travel to see them it makes those options less appealing.
@CollinW9328 күн бұрын
I found your channel a few months ago and loved it. Nice to see your update! Take care 😊
@DrummondCulture25 күн бұрын
Welcome aboard! Hope to keep posting new content this year as I figure out the direction I want to take this channel.
@Stephenrsm760029 күн бұрын
Glad to see you are doing well in 2024!!! Appreciate this update!!!
@DrummondCulture28 күн бұрын
Hope you’ve been doing well!
@angelvisions44429 күн бұрын
First! I hope you are well Drummond!
@DrummondCulture28 күн бұрын
Thanks! I’m definitely living life to the fullest. Experiencing it all. The good the bad and the ugly!
@GrowwithAysia1365Ай бұрын
Ben I’m filled with tears when I watch your videos 🥹 your words are so powerful. They deeply touch my soul and all the parts of me that I was afraid to share for so many years. I appreciate you and applaud who you are ❤
@DrummondCultureАй бұрын
I’m so glad you came into my life right now. You’re absolutely amazing and your love and support means the world to me Aysia! 🩷🩷🩷
@GrowwithAysia1365Ай бұрын
🥹😍🥰❤❤ you are the most beautiful person. I adore your soul
@GrowwithAysia1365Ай бұрын
You’re wonderful 🥰
@lf2099Ай бұрын
Hi nathan wood. Great insight. Love this episode
@episode402 ай бұрын
beautiful video 🦋
@tommyparrott41723 ай бұрын
I just discovered your channel within the last month but this is my first time leaving a comment! I am 39, gay and live in VA. You seem like the kind of guy I would love to have as a friend. I deal with a lot of social anxiety (and also OCD), and even though I have been out to myself for almost 20 years and a few family members and my best friend, I have yet to make contacts within the gay community in the Northern VA/D.C. area. Anyway, just wanted to leave you a comment and to let you know I have been enjoying your channel. ☺
@KaHoJakeLeung3 ай бұрын
💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
@Tripper1113 ай бұрын
Cool place but I'm confused is Kevin your boyfriend or your roommate?
@DrummondCulture3 ай бұрын
Boyfriend
@Tripper1113 ай бұрын
@@DrummondCulture Cool deal.
@leahabraham11113 ай бұрын
Ahh!! Here we are on KZbin! Love it! Such a great conversation!! 👏🩷
@michaeljonpeterson3 ай бұрын
I love watching this… that area of the states is o beautiful. 😉❤️❤️❤️✨✨✨✨✨
@BrownsBacker3 ай бұрын
What a nice place! Congrats!
@dickstarrbuck3 ай бұрын
I love it
@rickybrian.3 ай бұрын
Are you Taken 😍
@DrummondCulture3 ай бұрын
Yes I’m happily off the market
@rickybrian.3 ай бұрын
@@DrummondCulture Who's him/she 😏
@neilschipper37413 ай бұрын
❤
@joshreese17213 ай бұрын
Wow, it's all so beautiful!
@tommyparrott41724 ай бұрын
I know this is from 7 years ago, but I just came across your channel and had to subscribe. This helps me more than I can put into words right now. I am also in Virginia. Thank you, Ben.
@tommyparrott41724 ай бұрын
I just found your channel and subscribed. Really enjoying your content and vibe so far. I can identify so much with what you talk about regarding coming out. I am almost 40 and grew up in a pretty conservative family, but my parents and brother have been very accepting and I think always had a feeling that I'm gay. Sadly both my parents have passed away within the last 7 years... my mom in 2017 and my dad last year. I feel like the security and acceptance that they gave me is now something that has been lost with them and I don't feel like I can be as authentic with my family that is still living. I don't mean to make this reply so depressing, but watching your video just brought up a lot for me and it feels good to get this off my chest. I have yet to have my first in-person sexual experience with another guy, but like a lot of the things that have happened in my life, it will when the time is right. Thanks for reading. 🙂
@robsugarbear19564 ай бұрын
Drummond, Very moved by your video. You are quite a brave individual. My story is very similar to yours. My childhood was wrecked, unhappy and filled with emotional, mental, psychological abuse. This let to bullying from a child all the way through high school. The sexual abuse started in seventh grade by my own father and later by an uncle. The abuse continued to age 19. I avoided my father my first year of college and then left my hometown. He was a poor excuse of a father, stole my innocence, betrayal, and a coward. I despised him and my uncle was no better. My world was one of no love and I didn't accept myself. Struggled with inner self, my gayness and despised God for all the pain and trauma. I too suffer from PTSD and never had anything to smile or be happy about. Felt my world and will to live was gone therefore I was attracted to people who abused me and put me down. I have been fondled, and caped in a YMCA, twice in Chattanooga, TN. I don't trust hardly anybody, shy. My belief in people did not and I felt there was no goodness left in the world. Relationships failed since my days at UT and my weekends were spent with alcohol plus the wrong types of people in the bars. One relationship with an abusive alcoholic nearly cost me my life. I went into therapy and have been in therapy for nearly 40 years. Getting better and now have a significant other for nearly 26 and a half years. He keeps me emotionally grounded, and he is affectionate bringing out my playful impish streak. We met through a mutual friend just before Halloween 1997. Our anniversary is in December, and we are very happy. He calls me "Sugarbear". I call him "Furry Monkey". His friends are affirming, the family welcoming. Would love to keep in touch by email and/or Facebook. Email is [email protected]. Facebook picture is from Florida. (Robert Andrews) Send friend request and ID yourself!
@rickybrian.4 ай бұрын
😛 You Gorgeous 🔥
@leahabraham11114 ай бұрын
Ahh!! This was so wonderful!! Thank you my friend, for allowing my light to shine on your platform!🤗✨💗 love chatting with you! 🙏💙
@charlesmccormick5855 ай бұрын
Thank you Drummond for putting yourself out there. I doubt if there is one gay Christian who can't relate to your struggles with your faith. Your kindness toward former partners is beautiful and healing. It is not easy working through the pain of loss.
@rickybrian.5 ай бұрын
Handsome Gay Guy 👍🏻
@scarbluff6 ай бұрын
I can identify with so much of this -- the needless self-doubt and the cautious forays forward. I'm glad there are reasonable voices like yours out there. Screaming and waving banners doesn't help individuals much; straightforward talks like yours do.
@Idrick6 ай бұрын
Me I’m gay don’t want a relationship yet just want the sex for now peace
@mattbonanza90327 ай бұрын
Intersting how hard is to find a gay positive content on KZbin. I thank you for making this video.
@Tripper1117 ай бұрын
Dude, welcome back and glad you found love. Lets now keep up on this channel. lol
@OLDS987 ай бұрын
All the best to you in 2024. Thank you for sharing your year through the many photos. It has been a long time since I posted on your videos, but a lot has changed for you and for the better in many ways. All the best to you and happiness and joy to you in 2024.
@aromamelange7 ай бұрын
I will never forget this year💖💖💖
@Not-Ap8 ай бұрын
Interesting suit... be very interested in seeing how this works out. On a side note though lol I misread the title and thought it said "Trying out Zoloft" XD.
@Idrick8 ай бұрын
I am always going to be gay they say it’s wrong I guess I be wrong all my life I love guys
@ernestlam56328 ай бұрын
Hexagons are bestagons
@joshreese17218 ай бұрын
hmmmm, I'm curious but I'm kinda scared to know 🤔 lol
@bobebbeskotte8 ай бұрын
Very interesting technology. Let us know how it all works. And how about a tour of your apartment. Looks pretty awesome!!
@musicmoviesandmorewithbrian8 ай бұрын
Nice to see a new video finally! I missed your smile and your sweet voice.(No creepy vibes intended)
@davidferguson65078 ай бұрын
I have never heard of a Zozo suit, but I now want one.
@DrummondCulture8 ай бұрын
Shared the link under the video if you wanted to check out their website.
@treborjefferys26528 ай бұрын
Do show
@Robert-vf6ny9 ай бұрын
Everyone on the face of the earth knows you're still in the closet. You are TRANSGENDER