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@LauraVolpintesta
@LauraVolpintesta Күн бұрын
I wonder if anxious and avoidant relationships were born after schooling was invented, as it eroded the relationships between parents and children by keeping them apart significantly so that their relationship had to be truly limited. And children were spending most of their time in inauthentic relationships in an institution
@LauraVolpintesta
@LauraVolpintesta Күн бұрын
It’s interesting how it’s become a common joke how women are the only ones interested in this stuff and “men are oblivious” when behind the laughter there is such profound pain , suffering , neglect, destroyed families and generational trauma going forward and backward
@LauraVolpintesta
@LauraVolpintesta Күн бұрын
It’s interesting how it’s become a common joke how women are the only ones interested in this stuff and “men are oblivious” when behind the laughter there is such profound pain , suffering , neglect, destroyed families and generational trauma going forward and backward
@LauraVolpintesta
@LauraVolpintesta Күн бұрын
The sex life is reflective of the whole relationship
@suvisillanpaa-zx3bc
@suvisillanpaa-zx3bc 3 күн бұрын
Hi from FINLAND 🎉
@brittvaughn9447
@brittvaughn9447 5 күн бұрын
I'm interested, but the topic of "productive vs lazy" is kinda turning me off. I fought my way to a doctorate and I work my butt off, but productivity shouldn't be the measure of my worth or success.
@yaaklynx56
@yaaklynx56 6 күн бұрын
Do you have any advice for how to bring up 'checking in' or talking about intentionally building a healthy relationship with a new partner? I am a year out of a very toxic failed marriage. I've learned a lot since then about how I can show up better next time. Now I'm seeing someone new and really want to grow it in a healthy way from the beginning, but am unclear about the best way to start that conversation without my new guy feeling overwhelmed and running in fear😅. Thanks for any tips.
@billihawk368
@billihawk368 27 күн бұрын
Dont agree, the faster, IF HONEST, the better. Idk
@billihawk368
@billihawk368 27 күн бұрын
What if i was on Steroids but wasnt aware of the consequences? And reacted horribly to her? And what if i had Trauma and thats why i reacted badly sometimes to a person?
@Frost64
@Frost64 Ай бұрын
Im so resentful, I feel like I do everything in our relationship and my gf does nothing but sit back and accept what I give and do for her. If I bring it up, she says she's too tired or stressed to give me the same effort I give her
@lauraindira8421
@lauraindira8421 2 ай бұрын
I’m soo resentful. I’ve waited 13 years for this guy and he’s finally telling his kids and bringing me into the picture.( he wanted to wait until his kids had graduated high school) and now that the process is starting, I have so much angrier that I waited so long. ( forgot to say: loove Jimmys advice! He is the greatest! )
@velvetvoiceartist7733
@velvetvoiceartist7733 2 ай бұрын
This was wonderful guys!! Jimmy don't feel pressured to "get on women". Part of your impact when addressing men is that you ARE a man. Helping women to understand what our male partners need from us is huge, but we still have to figure out how to give it while maintaining self-respect as a female. The need for emotional safety is a catalyst for me. Everything flows from that place. My partner can talk to me about anything from that space and we can even laugh through it because of mutual safety. I would love to hear more about creating that space for men who have also been in previous toxic relationships. Thanks for this conversation. Both of your openness means the world!!🙏🏽💜💜
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 2 ай бұрын
This is the kindest comment I’ve ever got, THANK YOU
@velvetvoiceartist7733
@velvetvoiceartist7733 Ай бұрын
@@couplyapp Well you are quite welcome and deeply deserving of many more. Keep going strong!✨️🙏🏽
@user-id3sg5ek6s
@user-id3sg5ek6s 2 ай бұрын
The chart: Where can I get me one?
@BusinessTradingDay
@BusinessTradingDay 3 ай бұрын
Really interested topic and research. Came across this video on my recommended.
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@rudrasurati5761
@rudrasurati5761 3 ай бұрын
How I join my partner on this app!
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 3 ай бұрын
Send the code on the linking screen!
@maritanizam9124
@maritanizam9124 3 ай бұрын
Loved this conversation. I had to learn that because someone is great doesn't make them my person. It's hard sometimes to let those people go.
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for tuning in!!
@a.jcreditsworld2005
@a.jcreditsworld2005 3 ай бұрын
The way I had to pause this video multiple times to take it all in because Joe literally blew my mind away!
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for tuning in!!
@EzraD-qk1pf
@EzraD-qk1pf 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the info, I tried what I told you about and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest in Greyzar Drinbo's PE Solution and now she just can't have enough
@TheCvlt
@TheCvlt 3 ай бұрын
AD
@KeeleyRankin
@KeeleyRankin 4 ай бұрын
So fun chatting! Hope many men and couple that need support around premature ejaculation find us chatting here!
@KayMartin-ci1tc
@KayMartin-ci1tc 4 ай бұрын
I wish every couple would listen to this. Invaluable advice as always!
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for tuning in 🙏🏻
@ahmedadly
@ahmedadly 5 ай бұрын
i don't do dishes AND i don't know her love language :)
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 5 ай бұрын
Ahmed but you DO use Couply!! So soon you’ll know her love language at least 🤣😂
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 5 ай бұрын
This episode was a fun one! Thank you Jimmy!!
@-0rbital-
@-0rbital- 5 ай бұрын
So wait a second here. You are saying that people are attracted to physically attractive people? My god, this is revolutionary info!
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 5 ай бұрын
Does your relationship have any toxic elements?
@ErinThorn-bq8nb
@ErinThorn-bq8nb 6 ай бұрын
Love this!
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for tuning in!!!
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 6 ай бұрын
Next interview we are recording is with Jason VanRuler... if you've got questions for him - ask them right here!
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@olaakinlade4362
@olaakinlade4362 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Spoke about money check the " obviously that's important" with regards to money...its just the way it is. People want what they don't have
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 6 ай бұрын
A little self edit there!
@MichaelSmith-oy2he
@MichaelSmith-oy2he 6 ай бұрын
Some people just enjoy believing bullshit
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 6 ай бұрын
What do you mean Mike?
@ahmadmedakka1173
@ahmadmedakka1173 6 ай бұрын
No 2 females in the world want the same characteristics in a man so nice try 👍
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 6 ай бұрын
We’ve done some studies on this and the data shows otherwise.
@Matt-the-Wise
@Matt-the-Wise 6 ай бұрын
Wrong. You're confusing the same thing that the female sixes who can get a male nine to sleep with them but not date them do. Women are attracted to the confident and charismatic douchebags, so they sleep with and date them while they're young and attractive, but once 30 comes rolling around, they look to find the successful guy to settle down and raise all of Chad's kids with. Its TWO dynamics rolled into one. That's why we have like 51% single mother rate in this country. So just like how swagger and whether other women desire him are what define female SEXUAL attraction but not necessarily who they want to settle down with, looks are all that is important to a male's sexual attraction but not the only criteria for who he stays with.
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 6 ай бұрын
You’re cherry picking data to support a hypothesis that’s false. You’re looking at data from single parent households and the correct stat is this: Of single parent households. 51% of single mothers have never been married vs 41% of single dads who have never been married that make up single parent households. Still an issue, but putting it they way you do doesn’t stand. This said. We’re focussed on 43% stat of marriages failing. So… why do marriages fail? And we know women are instigating a lot of the divorces, so what’s up with that? We surveyed 2K people and what women wanted the most in their male partners was emotional intimacy, feeling a lack of understanding etc. Truth is, even younger females (Have u met a gen z?) are seeking this for a long term relationship over someone who is jacked and had the emotional development of a teabag.
@Matt-the-Wise
@Matt-the-Wise 6 ай бұрын
@@couplyapp No, that sums up my point quite well. I don't doubt that most single mothers who get pregnant by the douchebags they are attracted to when younger (even if they lie about wanting "emotional maturity", as the 51% stat proves they weren't after) can't find the successful and stable men they want later on, and wind up still single 51% of the time. And cherry picking stats? You're gonna put a 41% single father rate next to a 51% single mother rate like that correlates somehow, when less than 5% of all kids are being raised by a single father? There are more single GRANDMOTHERS raising kids than fathers, but you cherry picked out those numbers bc they were similar to each other to make some kind of point, when the reality is that one of those stats represents millions of kids and one barely represents thousands. I KNOW what you're saying, but it's not anything new. You're arguing that the emotions and feelings that women speak of are real and actually mean something, but they don't. It's no different than the same women who claim to want decent honest men but only go after their opposite. Giving credence to emotional claims is always a bad idea, but especially one this bunk. Gen Z is NOT any more introspective and enlightened than any previous generation, but just like all their predecessors they BELIEVE they are. Pfft, 27% of Gen Z kids are sexual deviants, who don't even acknowledge the reality of sexuality. 1 in 4 is so sideways they are attracted to something that they are not designed to even have sex with, or believe themselves to be a different gender than they actually are. That's even worse than the Boomers who grew up thinking LSD and free love was the future, or the Gen X kids who thought they'd be Goth forever but both grew out of it. There's always a great deal of ignorance and defiance in every young generation, but very little truth. The problem with marriage today is that female emotions and irrationalities are being given validity. It's always been that men may feel like cheating and getting physical bc that's what testosterone does, but things work out best when they don't. Same for the elaborate and nonsensical concepts women come up with about emotional maturity and validation, when they never choose men based on that and marriages are happier when they deal with those instead of expressing them. In the past, women didn't give themselves to, or at the very least didn't give children to, the douchebags and bad boys they liked. They married based on who was best suited to live and love with them, not on vague and nondescript concepts like "emotional maturity" that always just ends up being the same confidence and charisma that every woman crushes on. The difference was that grandma didn't make excuses for her feelings or invent reasons to act on them, and instead married the man her family and faith approved of so she didn't end up 51% alone. After getting married duty and promise mattered more than her feelings and opinions, so marriages stayed together. Just save it, all the "but they were unhappy, oppressed and abused!" rhetoric your little fingers are twitching to type, bc the grandmothers I've talked to wildly disagree with that. You just want your ideas to mean more than truth, and you want the feelings women claim to have to be a representation of their choices, but they don't. The ever widening divorce and single parent dynamics that are increasing step by step with as more and more women are given freedom to act on their feelings is proof of that. Facts and character matter, not feelings and concepts. Men still accept this, but women have stopped. That's why it's getting worse.
@bernadinadimitt3971
@bernadinadimitt3971 6 ай бұрын
Promo`SM 😠
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 6 ай бұрын
🥰
@echochildus2441
@echochildus2441 7 ай бұрын
got out of a relationship with someone whom entire personality was built upon the refusal of accountability and agency through blaming adhd for anything that they did. It's the most frustrating thing to care for someone and watch a cycle of self-destruction with no interest in personal betterment.
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 6 ай бұрын
That is SO frustrating. Sorry to hear that ❤️
@georgepantzikis7988
@georgepantzikis7988 7 ай бұрын
This is not true. A brain difference is assumed to exist because of how modern psychiatry conceptualises mental illness, and also because some studies have shown a positive correlation between ADHD and certain brain anomalies. However, there is no established, definitive correlation between ADHD and specific brain areas supported by all the relevant scientific literature, let alone the causal relationship this video is talking about. If there was, ADHD diagnoses would be done through brain-scans. The best we currently have are self-reported symptoms.
@couplyapp
@couplyapp 6 ай бұрын
Here is a great video on this exact subject: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5S3i5KqYsacq7cfeature=shared
@Charlotte6193
@Charlotte6193 7 ай бұрын
As someone with adhd it sucks being perceived as being lazy
@j.a.kohler6097
@j.a.kohler6097 Жыл бұрын
I have BPD & find most people don't comprehend BPD on any level & usually get it confused or think it's the same as bipolar or schizophrenia, lol 😂🤣😭😜, but yes I agree with you that we do love in a way that is totally unencumbered by any type of reservation or filter when we love somebody we give all of our love that we have for them and we would do anything for that person and I pity the anyone that would hurt the person we love because we would slay dragons for the people we love
@couplyapp
@couplyapp Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! You’re so right. There is a lot of education that needs to be done. I love what you said around slating dragons as well! ❤️ 🐉
@tucker9658
@tucker9658 Жыл бұрын
P R O M O S M
@timjohnson8700
@timjohnson8700 Жыл бұрын
Great episode, thank you Azia!!
@timjohnson8700
@timjohnson8700 Жыл бұрын
Amazing work! Thank you Esteve!
@borderlinepersonalitydisordera
@borderlinepersonalitydisordera Жыл бұрын
Thanks for having me on your podcast. I feel honored ♡ I was nervous because it was my first podcast, but talking with you completely made me feel at ease. Thank you ♡
@couplyapp
@couplyapp Жыл бұрын
Absolutely my pleasure Amanda! Thank you so much for sharing your story and all your resources with us.
@couplyapp
@couplyapp Жыл бұрын
I think this will help a lot of people!
@andreacruz8641
@andreacruz8641 Жыл бұрын
I have borderline and I’ve notice my symptoms getting better, but I still can’t control when other people antagonize me. I was taking out money not so long ago, and my machine did not work and I sighed and the woman next to me said to shut up and I could not control my BPD that day, and instead of going lady I’m in my own stall I didn’t say anything I just sighed I started laughing for her getting into my business and I said I hope you get hit by a car cause I already did. It took me five years to learn how to walk. I hope it takes 10 for you.
@couplyapp
@couplyapp Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing that with us Andrea! Improvements are rarely a straight line, but you’re reflecting and thinking about it! Thank you for coming by 🙏🏻
@vilmabalicog1600
@vilmabalicog1600 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@couplyapp
@couplyapp Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
@luvr381
@luvr381 Жыл бұрын
Life is better when you just ignore the unnecessary made-up drama.
@timjohnson8700
@timjohnson8700 Жыл бұрын
This was such a great episode! Janice was awesome!
@thesoulsworkpodcast
@thesoulsworkpodcast Жыл бұрын
Thank you for having me on the show! We always have the best conversations. 😁
@couplyapp
@couplyapp Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@couplyapp
@couplyapp Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Janice 🫶