Perfect Video!, love it. I know Video Game Addiction very well, I stopped playing games like 9 Years ago, i was super addicted to League of Legends, 14 hours per day was the standard gametime for me, but i never reached something, stuck in gold and waste all my time with it, I wanted to become a streamer on Mixer but they shut it down after i reached like 100 viewers, twitch was too big for me as a small fish without any Videomaking skills. One day my Uncle was visiting my parents and I give him my PC and all that stuff and just said: It ruined my life, take it and have fun. after that moment something magical happened, I learned what boredome is and how powerful it can be. I started to think about where I want to go in life, I lost weight, meet my girlfriend and started to study and make myself a decent animal behavior therapist, it brings some money and I helped my family to pay off dept´s. But as you said, Video Games are also very nice, they helped me as an introvert to meet people also in real life and give me stuff to talk about, after all these years i started playing games again a month ago, but something changed over these years, games are not a challenge for me anymore, they are just fun and I love Indie Games in particular, nowadays I can just play an hour or two on my switch, have a nice relaxing time and live a real life. sorry for bad grammar. Greetings from Germany!
@schoolneverteach3 күн бұрын
Heartfelt message
@3MoOoRxD4 күн бұрын
👏
@typethedeveloper5 күн бұрын
I replaced games with coding. What I noticed was that I liked how video games made me feel. As if I was making some sort of achievements even though I wasn’t. Programming on the other hand does. It’s amazing, satisfying, and delays gratification which is nice. Also, brother, I agree with you video games became too much of a problem for me and I cannot manage a healthy amount of time unfortunately. But that’s alright.
@tiffqnie9 күн бұрын
Dope video. It's always nice to see people's excitement Chen landing in NYC for the first time, because I relate so much !!
@schoolneverteach13 күн бұрын
Brings back memories of my sojourn in hk 2007-2009! It's a HUUUGE thing that u r able to let go of something so dear to u.... Thank u for your honest sharing especially wrt your mum.
@Sean4Chen12 күн бұрын
@@schoolneverteach Thank you for taking some time to watch this video and leaving this comment! It has been rewarding and a learning curve
@Socialine-mz3xi16 күн бұрын
💝
@davdav3119 күн бұрын
I am happy to hear your achievement 🙂↕️🙂↕️❤
@YelloHello10022 күн бұрын
Your video looks great bro, can i know what camera do you use?
@Sean4Chen22 күн бұрын
@@YelloHello100 thank you fam. This video was filmed with sony zve1 with a 24-70mm lens f2.8
@ExpertCheekClapper23 күн бұрын
This resonated alot bro you seem like a great dude keep it up ❤
@Face2East24 күн бұрын
Nice video and nice story. Do you find that leaving such a significant part of your life behind you are seeking to fill that gap with something singularly fulfilling or a broad range of things? Or maybe life finds it's own ways of filling that gap? Either way, giving up is really hard, in many things. And you've done a great job, showing a strength and maturity beyond your years.👏
@Sean4Chen23 күн бұрын
@@Face2East thanks for the lovely question. It did take a good amount of effort. But at the same time, after the first couple of weeks, i started realizing the amount of things i could try, and that was a really intriguing and hopeful feeling. Happy to report i’ve been practising a lot of singing and film making ☺️☺️
@Kaichiing25 күн бұрын
man so well spoken! You are good at storytelling keep up with it :) I played 10 years daily computer games and was addicted aswell. It was a coping mechanism and let me miss out on many personal experiences and grow. Years later I still fight with the consequences and something think how could my life be if i did not waste so much time. I know its not a good way of thinking about it but in the end it was a addiction and thats how i feel mostly about the time, but it was the right decision and claiming my life back is hard but rewarding in the longrun. Idk normaly not the type of person sharing my stuff online, but maybe someone can relate and knows he is not alone. I wish you all a wonderful day
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
@@Kaichiing thank you for sharing Kai. Proud of you for quitting, and yeah sometimes i ponder about what life could have been as well. I’d say, channel the energy into the present, take a small step towards something you like and don’t dwell on the past. We got this
@aiyyuu25 күн бұрын
also here before this blows up extremely relatable video. your note about video game ego resonates soo hard, I was at some point a tier 3/2 counter strike player in 2018, now I can't seem to play these games for fun Also the Island Line! Happy to see someone in HK
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
@@aiyyuu 👋🏼👋🏼 香港人 hii Gaming ego is a bit of a curse when it comes to enjoyment 😌
@RemyZeee25 күн бұрын
tremendous video Sean. thanks for sharing your own journey and relationship with video games, a lot of the sentiments hit home bro
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
@@RemyZeee appreciate you brother ☺️☺️
@C60-d5k25 күн бұрын
really like the message behind this video, sorry for your loss. Hope the best for you!
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
@@C60-d5k really appreciate this comment, thank you!
@watchingjinx25 күн бұрын
Really informative video, really liked how despite quitting video games, you still view video games as a positive thing with a lot of passion rather than beating down on it and that really resonated with me as I have recently quit playing counter strike and other competitive games after playing them for 8 years. I still go back to time to time but I have pretty much quit competitive gaming in general as I am trying to persue a job as I have recently graduated. Overall liked your overal insight, subbed and I'm curious on where you go from here! Lots of love and support
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
@@watchingjinx proud of you!! I hope you do amazing on your journey too ❤️
@andrechen84625 күн бұрын
I wonder if it possible for us to live without any dopaminergic activity completely. Currently, as a university student it seems that removing distractions would be taking back control of my time. However, one must wonder if doing so will have potential negative consequences on the brain. I've stopped playing valorant for about 8 months time now, but have gotten addicted to watching youtube. Even now, I limit my usage to about 1 hour a day.
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
@@andrechen846 i would say its impossible. Dopaminergic activity scales based on your habits and activities. Exercising, reading, eating, anything really can influence your dopamine level. Personally i’d say if you have a balanced life. Meaning you have multiple aspects that you care about, and you devote yourself to them properly. As well as feeling generally happy, then you are all good. Similarly, i would say if someone is incredibly stressed from work or life, something like video games might even be a necessary escape. I tried removing youtube off my phone for a month, it was quite refreshing! Might be worthwhile to give it a shot
@andrechen84625 күн бұрын
@@Sean4Chen sup man, yeah I mean like not doing artificially dopaminergic activity like video games etc. Although I wonder if a life of peace involving reading, puzzles, would be hard to maintain because of FOMO. As in, all of your friends are on instagram, playing valorant together, it can be hard to not feel FOMO. Although none of this is a problem if balance can be achieved. However in the modern age, it is very very easy to take a short "escape" and turn it into a long waste of time and procrastination session.
@vincepedutem25 күн бұрын
Beautiful video. Thank you. I’ve been thinking of doing this for a long time because I really want to travel the world but I always feel like if I stopped playing I would lose my identity as “excellent gamer” so thank you. Now I will do the same thing. :)
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
you're a sick af person without the identity of an excellent gamer. Sometimes its good to move on to other chapters of your life! Being an excellent gamer will always be apart of you, you're just putting it aside while learning other things
@Ony-l1j25 күн бұрын
Great video! My addiction to video games specifically CSGO ruined my 9 year relationship with my ex gf. When we started living together, I couldn't take care of her cause I was too pre-occupied with trying to be good at CSGO. My identity was tied with wanting to be good at CS where I would play whenever I had free time to the point where I didn't even think much of her. Eventually, she went with another guy, and I realized how I fucked my life up because of it. Now I'm just trying to fix myself. I still play video games from time to time but I don't play online games anymore because that's what makes me addicted.
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
@@Ony-l1j bro that happened to me too HAHAHA. Anyway, super proud of you for acknowledging it and working towards a better self, take care brother!
@kirbyrisu25 күн бұрын
such a good watch!! the part where u talked to the lady who was working in the video game store was really touching, and I hope she's able to keep the store open :((
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
@@kirbyrisu i hope so too, those stores are so nostalgic to me
@VennyGee26 күн бұрын
damn. the timing of this...
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
@@VennyGee you got this fam!
@ericfrederickson269226 күн бұрын
Here before this goes viral
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
thank you for being here
@Ovalee26 күн бұрын
I can relate a lot, video game burn out is real. My childhood was just like yours where I was glued to my pc the moment I got home from school and all hours of the weekend, distracting myself from real life. I played competitively too, wanted to go pro, but I felt resentful overtime. It took me almost 3 years of a break to learn how to genuinely enjoy video games again, it made me sad when I realized I wasn’t at the time. I’m glad both of us were able to separate our identity from gaming and grow from it, while continuing to appreciate it more than before.
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
Wow, you and I have a pretty similar journey huh. I'm glad you're able to pick it up in a healthy way now. I can't wait to be the kid that jumps in front of the tv due to excitement again. lets see when that would happen
@isitMaaz26 күн бұрын
Loved the video Sean! Thank you for this. Really insightful. Made me rethink about my relationship with video games and time management. Helpful stuff!
@Sean4Chen25 күн бұрын
thank you for taking the time to comment, it means a lot to me. I'm glad the video made you have some introspective thoughts <3
@typerightseesight26 күн бұрын
I wouldn't quit gaming computers tho.. There's nothing wrong with being able to display 4 4k monitors at the same time while its being water cooled. hahaha
@Sean4Chen26 күн бұрын
@@typerightseesight true! I still use two monitor setup but with my macbook pro. Made the switch to IOS after i stopped playing video games and its basically been the same for me
@typerightseesight26 күн бұрын
@@Sean4Chen I've literally never daily driver a mac. I used one once at a friends house 20 years ago in highschool and couldn't believe he ran it. I like got headlag trying to find the harddrive. lol
@amil1is26 күн бұрын
My man over here was Chan and stopped playing .. i have no excuses
@Sean4Chen26 күн бұрын
@@amil1is YOU GOT THIS
@pofkmeno645426 күн бұрын
Amazing video. I've tried quitting videogames multiple times already but find myself always going back to them due to boredom. In the end, I found out that I should just play for fun and my relationship with videogames is much healthier now than it was before. I still play, but it doesn't get in the way of my relationships, school or other goals I want to achieve. Thank you for sharing your story with us <3
@Sean4Chen26 күн бұрын
@@pofkmeno6454 happy for you man! Honestly being bored is a good thing sometimes, at least it allowed me to figure out what i wanted to spend more time on
@monsterfe250525 күн бұрын
Hey man just had a question.So I’ve haven’t been having any fun lately playing video games(I’m only able to play valorant and Roblox because my laptop is on the lower side and can’t afford to get a better one),but I keep coming back to it ruining my education and what not, so like how did you make it so you can control yourself to only play it if you enjoy and constrict yourself when you don’t like it?
@pofkmeno645425 күн бұрын
@@monsterfe2505 Honestly it was very hard. I had to change my whole mentality in a way. The first step I made was getting other hobbies besides gaming. As a gamer I would often stay up late into the night, and one day I thought maybe I should go look at the stars, maybe search for some galaxies or nebulas with my grandpa's spyglass, and I started being interested in astronomy. I also started to exercise more, bought a gym membership and made a fixed plan. Overall I started to feel like I wasn't playing videogames to escape from reality anymore, but to have fun, like in the good old days. After all that, school became less stressfull and improved my relationships with my family and friends as well. I also started to stay away from competitive games, or at least playing ranked modes, because it stressed me out that I wasn't hitting my goals. So perhps that could help you too. I hope you figure things out as soon as possible <3
@pofkmeno645425 күн бұрын
@@Sean4Chen Exactly man, the same thing happened to me! Glad to hear you had a simmilair experience, it just proves that boredom can be a good thing too.
@posh_lol27 күн бұрын
I recently completed Super Mario Galaxy 2 (PC similator) I wasn't able to play the game when I was a jit, so I kinda just enjoyed watching it on KZbin like I played it when I was a little. it was so satisfying to complete the game through my laptop monitor. I 99% resonate with your passion and exitement about growing up with video games. For me it was NDS, one of my uncle bought an "R4" chip where I can basically download every single game I wanted, and I only dedicated in playing pokemon games as I was such a pokemon fan . Then goes team fortress 2, 跑online where friends I still talk with since primary school. For me my learning curve from how video game addiction from being an escape from reality, into how video games can benefit me, or how I can use it as an advantage in real life. How the analytical skills, "never give up" try-hard competitve nature can apply into stuffs like competitive level sports, internships/ jobs into learning other skills in general (and how social- climbing on league help me to become a more geniune person lol). Often times I reflect on stuffs I did not enjoy or satisfy into how I can become a better self is what League taught me the most. I met a bunch of genuine, nice people, that helpede me through a lot of stuffs in life, from college applications, interviews, relationshi advices and meeting and having good times in person, and more of improving ourselves together, I truly appreciate it. Life is not a video game but video game is part of life. Feel free to play some video games when you feel the "grip" of yours, cheers mate.
@posh_lol27 күн бұрын
Love the thoughtful sharings and the memories you had with you
@Sean4Chen26 күн бұрын
thanks brother. I miss our league days HAHA
@indigo76928 күн бұрын
❤
@suyukii228 күн бұрын
My absolute goat proving once again he is worthy of being a role model
@Sean4Chen27 күн бұрын
you are a legend man <3
@chencity28 күн бұрын
Beautiful video ❤
@Sean4Chen27 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! It means a lot to me ❤️
@xlLostScorelx28 күн бұрын
Thanks for making this video. Video games shouldn't be the only thing that identifies you. I realized when I stopped playing video games is that I didn't enjoy playing the game itself but the act of playing with friends and getting a community. But there's no reason that you can't do that outside of videogames. Games can act as a crutch from interacting with the real world and cause you to miss out on some beautiful moments.
@Sean4Chen27 күн бұрын
that's an amazing point LostScore. thank you for the comment <3
@Sean4Chen28 күн бұрын
This video is not suppose to talk trash about video games. I think video games are wonderful and beautiful. But we tend to abuse our relationships with things we like, especially if we are in periods of our lives where we feel lost or confused. If you are someone who somewhat believes they are playing too much video games, or want to change up your lifestyle. I believe in you, go pick up the guitar, go pick up the book or go on the hike you've been meaning to go on. I promise that life can be pretty interesting. much love - Sean
@anthnyy28 күн бұрын
such a masterpiece, very underrated!
@Sean4Chen28 күн бұрын
thank you, you are very kind <3
@larus761Ай бұрын
Strong analysis👏
@schoolneverteachАй бұрын
Amazing experience
@VisitLiveLoveMauiАй бұрын
Deleting social media ... except KZbin ... well, yeah, KZbin is kinda social media but not exactly. I wish you the best in this journey of yours. I subscribes to follow your journey and to support your endeavor.
@Sean4ChenАй бұрын
Thank you! That means a lot to me. I hope you’ll enjoy the journey
@omaralkhayat2921Ай бұрын
this video is severely underrated love the stuff man!
@Sean4ChenАй бұрын
thank you, that honestly means a lot to me. glad you liked it
@aldum14Ай бұрын
I was born here and have been here my entire life. NYC is beautiful, but not great. It is no longer a place with grit and charm. Tourists give a false narrative about the city being a place of diverse groups living in wonderland and it is not. Get on the train during rush hour and you will meet some of the rudest people. Come to Flatbush brooklyn or Fordham in the Bronx and then come back with your fairytail. You don't know the real NYC. You are a priviledged person who will never dare step in the real NYC. Once we hit the danger zone, which we are getting to, you'll run to your priviledged home.
@Sean4ChenАй бұрын
Of course a tourist's perspective of any location will be different than the local. Never did I really claim that the city is "great", that's why instead of writing "city of dreams" I wrote city for those that dare to dream. I stayed in Harlem and saw a lot of issues. But the truth is, there's two types of people in the world, one that tries to look for positivity, art, and beauty. And one that highlights negativity and tragedy. I am definitely more along the lines of the first group. I'm sure you'll be able to find lots of content online that can help you feel related towards your experience of NYC. Coming to this video and then making assumptions about me is not worth your time or mine.
@GlobalsDreamlandАй бұрын
I’m moving to Harlem in a few weeks this helps
@vadapavop8007Ай бұрын
nice vlog !!
@Sean4ChenАй бұрын
thank you for watching <3
@edward_mycАй бұрын
What an interesting and exciting experience tho; the lanterns are so cool, reminds me of Tangled
@Sean4ChenАй бұрын
right? it was such a magical night
@RemyZeeeАй бұрын
SD card grew legs 😢
@Sean4ChenАй бұрын
god dang sd card :(
@indigo769Ай бұрын
🎉
@Sean4ChenАй бұрын
Thank you to Zoe for taking me around Toronto! Its crazy how open and kind she was to someone she is meeting for the first time
@jimbojimbo6873Ай бұрын
Thought New York was wakc tbh
@Sean4ChenАй бұрын
OH MY LORDY LORD FRIENDS. We are almost at 500SUBS? That blows my mind Doing a Q&A once we hit 500 subs. Ask me anything under this comment! - Sean