Hi! Yes, I've been a bit busy, but I have a new video coming out soon all about the new bridge we built here so stay tuned for that one.😊
@beaming_life_travels21522 сағат бұрын
@ that’s great. Looking forward to seeing your video.
@wishfulthinking-bw1to26 күн бұрын
I believe that you should only decluttering your home when it is really full of junk. In all other cases, your home is a place where you are surrounded by pleasant and memorable things. Where your great-grandmother's spice mortar is, and you use it with pleasure. After all, it is so easy to throw everything away, take it to Goodwill and remain a person who has no connection with generations of the family. Having listened to minimalists, I threw out beautiful clothes that were too small for me. A few years later, I lost weight and would gladly return what I had thrown out. But, alas, I punished myself.
@acajudi10026 күн бұрын
Disasters will eliminate your home, stuff and you in an instant.
@debbieguitor1745Ай бұрын
I cleared out my parent’s house after my mom died and my dad moved into care. It really shocked me into understanding what we accumulate. It’s a journey, but I am more conscious of what I will leave behind. There are some things I just can’t bear to part with, but I’m working to reduce and to limit what I now buy.
@joysomers262Ай бұрын
Thank you.
@ItsMissRiniАй бұрын
You're welcome.😊
@eighteenin78Ай бұрын
Why is it that after everyone is finished cleaning out their treasured possessions their house turns white and looks like an Ikea showroom? Downsizing and decluttering is important, but many take it to extremes. Why live in a place that feels like a rented motel room? Besides, as young adults, your children may not be interested in cleaning out all your junk right now, but as older adults, they may change their minds about your stuff when you eventually go.
@georgianamcglinchey573Ай бұрын
Have realized that all the stuff is dragging me down and overwhelming me. I am starting this journey and your videos are very helpful! I have emotional attachments that cause guilt, but now is the time. Wish me luck!
@ItsMissRiniАй бұрын
Good luck....and thanks for watching!🙏😘
@optimalhealingcenterofconn5039Ай бұрын
Thank you very informative
@melissagarvey2196Ай бұрын
Have read the book and listened to many people extolling the bliss of doing it but you are the first that presented it in such a gentle way. Repeating the immediate benefits and being honest about it being a process. Beautifully done. Inspiring. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@ItsMissRiniАй бұрын
Thanks so much! It really is an ongoing process and not an overnight thing. The important part is just getting started IMO. I appreciate your comment 🙏😘
@wilhelmina8843Ай бұрын
A new viewer to this channel. What a lovely presentation of this topic.
@ItsMissRiniАй бұрын
Thank you and welcome.☺
@nancyjohnson54832 ай бұрын
Spent all my life accumulating, then the last two years getting rid of. I cannot imagine my two sons getting stuck with all the stuff I had and still have when I pass. I just lost my brother who had barely any possessions and that was very difficult. It has given me new energy to get rid of much more. What a waste of money and time.
@foresterKK2 ай бұрын
I enjoyed it. There are still many places to visit in Japan. Next time, I recommend you to limit the number of places and it's good to be in a season like fall, winter and spring. Japan always welcomes you.
@ItsMissRini2 ай бұрын
Absolutely! It's important to not try for everything all at once. We went in Summer because it coincided with our Wedding Anniversary, but yes, not the best time to go! Thanks so much for watching.🙏
@timotube20072 ай бұрын
Could do without all that stock video.
@raydionangy2 ай бұрын
Nice video. You can actually get similar baked goods at Bread Top in Hobart.
@ItsMissRini2 ай бұрын
Oh yes! I love Bread Top! I always pop in there whenever we go down to Hobart. It's probably a lucky thing we don't have one near us.☺
@cathykaden2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this Japan travel video 👍🙏 Dumbledore is speaking german too. 😂 Greetings from OreMountains 🤩 Germany 🇩🇪 Cathy 🙋🏼♀️
@ItsMissRini2 ай бұрын
Dumbledore is VERY clever!😅 Thanks for watching.🙏
@gameboysdatabase68632 ай бұрын
I loved the parts where you wandered around the backstreets, so cool just to see the still life!
@ItsMissRini2 ай бұрын
There were some really cool buildings there.
@coolproperty2 ай бұрын
This video is the perfect summary of an amazing journey in Japan. Watch it, and you'll never need to actually go there. An awesome adventure! :) ♥
@herstoryourhistory2 ай бұрын
Great video! Loved the music too.
@ITBrainsTrust2 ай бұрын
LOL! That Deer was so funny!
@QuizCollective2 ай бұрын
Love this! I want to go to Japan now.😍
@adrianagalli75042 ай бұрын
Great video, thanks
@clairevandenberg82042 ай бұрын
My 95 year old mom has done this. It takes some convincing to get her to throw away a “perfectly good “ empty tissue box, but at 95, as long as she can still navigate her apartment with her cane, I let her be. Once every few weeks, I offer to tidy up because her balance is an issue of safety. She STILL says no. When she’s in the mood, she washes her floor, vacuums and cleans the loo. Yes, it’s cluttered. But it’s HER life. She’s all the things that make us hold onto”stuff”. I did wrestle away three cartons of tax returns dating prior to 1980! I hauled out boxes of my dad’s “ important” papers because he’s Been gone thirty eight years. What I left her instead was the framed paid off mortgage on her marital home. She paid off that house alone after he died, and worked a full time job and walked three miles to a bus at midnight to do it when she was 58 and had just lost her spouse of 35 years! After spending her savings in a used lemon of a car that died right away in ‘86, she wakes again for two years! And saved the money to buy a brand NEW Saturn! With an $8,000 cash down payment! So I have far too much respect and admiration for my mother’s achievements than to March in and “ Declutter”!
@clairevandenberg82042 ай бұрын
We have a think that follows. It’s the 1 9:18 12 12 12 rule. Each day, put away twelve things to clear your visual field. Donate 12 things you don’t need, and throw away 22 useless items. This reinforces all the work of the cleaning. I live in a studio apartment, in a Senior residence. We have a community table for give always, so no one feels things get wasted. Our thrift store is a block away and revenue from sales supports Christmas for the needy and keeping older homeowners independent.
@jennifermarie87072 ай бұрын
I do love an empty drawer!
@kathyred33102 ай бұрын
Great Video! ❤
@ItsMissRini2 ай бұрын
Thanks!🙏
@vivian98032 ай бұрын
One of the greatest benefits of minimalism is how it minimizes cleaning and tidying. I love that! I also love that, thanks to minimalism and döstädning, I will never be that parent that's resented for leaving my children with a horde of clutter to dispose of after I'm gone.
@beatrizfrank132 ай бұрын
it's so hard right now for me 😔
@maryd2532 ай бұрын
You spoke about the guilty feeling of having spent money on these items and then deciding that you don’t want it. Yep. That is where I have to just accept the fact, get rid of it and move on.
@UNIQUETVfilm2 ай бұрын
It is called, walking meditation and I do it too 🙂
@swithheld99052 ай бұрын
people "catalogue" their belongings?!?
@Somewhere-In-AZ2 ай бұрын
I can’t wait to retire. 2/3 of my wardrobe could go. Suits, shoes, dresses. I’ll keep one or two for special occasions, but I’m so tired of having all those outfits. I’ve been giving my kids everything I think they’ll want. I found a whole box of their school report cards! Trust me, they wouldn’t want their children seeing those! To the shredder those went. 😁
@jennifermarie87072 ай бұрын
I hate the idea of having to buy clothes for conferences or other events. I'd almost rather not go than have to shop.
@clairevandenberg82042 ай бұрын
That is so funny! I’m 64. My mom is 95. She had mine, too! And one that said I was lazy and not living up to my potential… ( well, that TEACHER was boring!) I read them, had a laugh, and tossed them. I’m blessed that my mom FINALLY has a touch of dementia! She doesn’t remember what junk I’ve thrown away, and doesn’t accuse me of stealing it yet! I tossed thirty five years of outdated tax returns. I just tore out the SSN # in the pages and shredded THAT. She did have her first “bad night”, where she didn’t remember where her art supplies were and accused me of taking her paintbrushes. Rather than be upset, I asked her which ones she needed, and replaced them from my stock. I brought her three tubes of different shades of bright red paint- her favorite color. This made her so happy she forgot to be mad about the “ missing” brushes, that it made me happy too!
@clairevandenberg82042 ай бұрын
@@jennifermarie8707I like shopping, so when my friends complain I go for them. I was a costume designer for local theater. I apply those principles to body type, color preference and budget. I’m always under budget, rarely buy a detested item( which I return or donate) and it makes ME very happy!
@AnneWilkynson2 ай бұрын
Adorbs ❤❤
@Kodikat22 ай бұрын
My mother was a hoarder. She had a lot of useless stuff she kept from her youth and before she got married. We had a full basement floor to ceiling full of stuff. When we needed to move her into a senior living facility it took my sister and I over eight months to clean out the house and repair it to be sold. I still have bitter feelings for what she put us through.
@ItsMissRini2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry. Thank you for sharing that.😘
@nogames89822 ай бұрын
Downsizing enough to get rid of the storage unit is probably the best place to start.
@ritaroad2 ай бұрын
I had an old inadequate kitchen. When we finally remodeled I told the contractor I wanted the extra tall cabinets and two big pantries. What a big mistake. I love kitchen things and yes before I knew it the cabinets were full. We’re only two people. I have now decluttered and all those upper shelves that are really out of anyone’s reach are empty. 😞
@faithnelson22612 ай бұрын
Ha ha. When I turned 50, I had a 3 year old. And other children, ages 8, 10, 13, and 15 living at home.
@melaniecummings19542 ай бұрын
I love your calm delivery. So much better than hyper people! I will subscribe now 😊
@ItsMissRini2 ай бұрын
Thank you ☺🙏
@uscitizen8983 ай бұрын
With the exception of my grand piano, I've already given instructions when I die, to throw everything that was mine into a dumpster. After years of purchasing clothing, home decor items as well as larger pieces of furniture from thrift stores or second-hand private sellers or we've had the bigger furniture for years and years, there's probably not a single thing that my children would want or would need to keep as its all had its day. ;-) Someone is always coming up with a new term (i.e. Swedish Death Cleaning) for what we all should be doing throughout our lives if we don't want our 'stuff' to become a burden for others when we die. Every age seems to think they've developed a whole "new concept". 🤪 It's not new...just a different way to look at the same process.
@ahill46423 ай бұрын
One tip I would pass on is to take pictures of some of the useless but sentimental stuff we know we need to part with. It might help us let go.
@ahill46423 ай бұрын
I keep wanting to sell everything but that’s a whole job unto itself. I find it very challenging to just give stuff away.
@TPayne-fm8ie3 ай бұрын
I absolutely love this video. It is so beautiful and educational. I know so very little about Tasmania that I'm finding it fascinating. I have a daughter with Autism so I really enjoy your insight. She is nonverbal and has never been able to vocalize her anxiety in words to me but I feel I understand her a bit more because of you. Thank you.
@ItsMissRini2 ай бұрын
Oh thank you so much! What a lovely comment.🥰
@debistuart3 ай бұрын
For gifts, we exchange consumables. Food, treats, wine ect. Keeps down on the “stuff”.
@yesiownfrodo3 ай бұрын
GOOD GRIEF. Here's my solution: anything of monetary value is in the living room. The lock box and gun are in my bedroom. Donate all the food and stuff in the pantry to the local food bank. ALL the rest can be thrown away after I die.
@AngelRoseHeaven3 ай бұрын
Thank you
@AlternativeBaseball-j3l3 ай бұрын
I'm determined to declutter so my autistic son will not have to deal with it all one day. My mother recently passed and it's hard to let go of her things.. I'm doing it little by little and trying to save just the things that are truly meaningful to me. We've given sooooo much away in the last few years, but still a lot to go now that I have all my mother's things.
@ninamaria13393 ай бұрын
You inspired me so much that I am energized to begin decluttering again! I truly loved the vision you shared at the very end for the life your children will know that you and your husband have lived.. I shall keep that very vision in my heart, too, for my loved ones, as I resume this journey with a beautiful mindset!❤
@lindseycunningham48543 ай бұрын
I grew up in the 60s in the 70s and back then minimalism is what we just called living. Back then you did not have the choices that you have today and you did not have the easy credit that you have today. So it basically didn’t exist because that’s how everyone lived.
@jude43813 ай бұрын
I'm in the middle of Swedish Death Cleaning, trudge on!
@ItsMissRini3 ай бұрын
Good on you! Sending motivational thoughts. 😁You got this.
@lightdancer41463 ай бұрын
My mum did a SDC when she was told she had heart disease at 72yrs but when she hadn’t gone on by 74, she started buying stuff again to replace the things she had given away! Not as much stuff but it still took me a lot of effort and time to clear her 1 bed flat when she passed at 92. I’m 60 and just started my SDC - it’s a great concept, especially, if like me, you don’t have kids to clear up after you. Thanks for the interesting video.
@lindabourketempleton40403 ай бұрын
I have read this book and after a year I have moved from a three bedroom home into a motor home. I’m still decluttering my sentimental items
@lindabourketempleton40403 ай бұрын
I retired and I gave my children their things I collected over their childhood and donated lots,