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@chopsieflores4844 2 күн бұрын
This is a lie. Unmarried women are happier, healthier.
@AlisaAbdullaeva Күн бұрын
I am not talking about women married to feminine men who do 50-50 with them or are not responsible for their wife’s or families. Women are happy when married to masculine men who provide, lead, and protect them.
@AlisaAbdullaeva Күн бұрын
That’s how a woman truly feels safe and protected.
@monicasanders7526 2 күн бұрын
100% true
@AlisaAbdullaeva Күн бұрын
Thank you
@amina_prosper 3 күн бұрын
I agree. I want to vote for Trump but I just hope he leaves women’s rights alone with the ab*rtion thing and let them decide for themselves
@AlisaAbdullaeva 2 күн бұрын
Of course he supports women and will let them decide for themselves.
@Bugs11000 3 күн бұрын
I'd vote for Trump too, but I'm not American.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing! Where are you from? And where do you live?
@Bugs11000 3 күн бұрын
@@AlisaAbdullaeva I live in Vancouver Bc Canada. I'm a trucker in the mountains where they do the tv show, " Highway through hell ". Love my job.
@tomz1daful 3 күн бұрын
Admitting you voted for Trump took courage. The U.S.A. bureaucracy is bitter communist.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 3 күн бұрын
Thank you Tom, and yes, I know. I was worried I would be blocked again, like in 2020, for a few months. However, without honesty, we are sinking deeper into a corrupt, socialist-communist regime.
@erinholleran837 3 күн бұрын
Is she Russian?
@cookml 3 күн бұрын
I would say that she is one of the national minorities from the former Soviet Union. Might be Azeri. But difficult to say. We love them all.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 3 күн бұрын
Yes I am from Azerbaijan! I speak Russian but I am Azeri!
@androidbabe 4 күн бұрын
These are both communication not one way.. one needs to understand that .. and that is a point to be made here. It’s not like you acknowledge appreciate admire etc your men and these don’t apply for him. This is relationship advice not how you treat your men.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 4 күн бұрын
Thanks
@oncinhalittlechrissie2518 4 күн бұрын
Oh John, I’m here in distress and need your advice. 😞
@AlisaAbdullaeva 4 күн бұрын
I know, right!
@HumanityInCrisis 4 күн бұрын
Dear John, AI has come a long way, I'm sure Elon will have a solution to your problem v soon.
@Cateater123 6 күн бұрын
Core problem with modern men is modern women
@AlisaAbdullaeva 6 күн бұрын
In this world, everything unfolds with undeniable fairness. Masculine men magnetically draw in feminine women, forging a dynamic that is both healthy and harmonious-a perfect balance that fuels their connection. But on the flip side, when masculine women attract feminine men, chaos and drama ensues.
@Cateater123 5 күн бұрын
@@AlisaAbdullaeva nope , no feminine woman is actually feminine these days they are just loud and good in being gold diggers and over exaggerate their own value . And men are becoming hyper independent so and so that even the society is feeling scared about the behaviour of young men who are just getting involved in this gynocentric society. Men will always be happy even in a war, we are born that way we will always manage a way let's see who wins this battle. Men vs the world they made .
@jeromejamies3641 7 күн бұрын
Most men can't even become promiiscous, cuz they are invisible to wmn. Most wmn want it without protectiion when they are aroooused, I have more than 40 own examples
@AlisaAbdullaeva 6 күн бұрын
Yeah but this video is about promiscuous women! Have you watched it fully?
@jeromejamies3641 6 күн бұрын
@@AlisaAbdullaeva I was writing about promiscous wmn, what else? Wmn r promiiscous cuz it's their nature and they have a high seggsdrive and today they have many options and choices, whereas 80% of men don't have any options. Every man knows these facts and that's why more and more mgtow
@steventheartist7667 7 күн бұрын
Oh my.God .why.must you.tell me the truth.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 7 күн бұрын
Because only truth sets us free!
@danielnovak4284 9 күн бұрын
You've got to be careful ladies with what you do or it will backfire on you. Just as it has backfired on us men. So don't be kind, but be kind. Don't be a nice guy, but be a nice guy. So which is it? You can't have it both ways. I needed my wife to be a comforter and, especially my lover. But if I can't rely on her to talk with her about my problems, then I don't need her. My need was for her companionship, friendship, and as lovers. To share thoughts, feelings, and dreams with. If not then it isn't worth it for us men to date or even to marry. This is from a 52 year old man in an almost 20 year broken marriage. I'm telling you what us men want and need. Be careful how you influence your man or it will backfire on you. Just some wisdom to the wise. God bless you!
@AlisaAbdullaeva 9 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Daniel. A truly intelligent and masculine man who provides, protects, and leads his woman knows deep in his heart whether she is genuinely invested in him and has his best interests at heart. And of course, a man can and should communicate with his woman, as long as he doesn’t burden her with his problems. It seems that, in modern society, many men have lost touch with their true nature as protectors and providers, while women have drifted away from their soft, gentle, and feminine side. If both men and women reconnect with their true nature and learn to understand, respect, and love one another-embracing each other’s differences-everyone will benefit, especially children, who thrive in a happy and loving family dynamic. Thank you again for sharing yourself!
@AlisaAbdullaeva 9 күн бұрын
Here is the reply to your other comment. First of all, let me acknowledge your vulnerability in sharing your thoughts and struggles in your marriage, Daniel. In my program “What Men Need in a Relationship,” I actually cover the points you’re bringing up. What I shared here on the KZbin channel was just a small fragment of a larger discussion. A man can only truly relax at home in the arms of a feminine woman who creates a safe space for him to talk and share his thoughts and feelings. Men are not islands; they need connection and understanding. It seems that as women have adopted more masculine traits due to the influence of feminism, many men have, by default, become more feminine in their behaviors. For instance, I sometimes visit a friend, and when her husband comes home, he constantly complains about his job, the economy, politics, and more, all while their small children are running around. This behavior is unacceptable from a man. A woman cannot bear the burden of her husband’s negativity. It’s no wonder she stops desiring him when he is always angry and complaining. It’s essential to understand that while it is a woman’s role to provide a happy, harmonious, and peaceful environment at home for her husband and children, it is equally a man’s duty to address his negativity with a counselor, priest, coach, or friends-not to use his wife as an emotional dumping ground. As long as this pattern continues, a woman will not feel safe with a man who behaves this way. It is a man’s responsibility to protect a woman from negative emotions, not the other way around. That’s what truly makes a man strong. Of course, if a man faces a significant life challenge, such as a car accident, the loss of a best friend, a job, or a parent, his wife can and should support him through that difficult period. However, this support should not be taken for granted or abused, as women are inherently more sensitive and may struggle to handle an overwhelming amount of negativity.
@amina_prosper 9 күн бұрын
Really great video. It’s amazing how well you understand both women and men
@AlisaAbdullaeva 9 күн бұрын
I am glad you enjoy my content Amina.
@danielnovak4284 10 күн бұрын
I respect some of the things you've said here in this video and appreciate the support you were trying to show to us men. That we don't want our wives to be our mothers and counselors, yes, but we do need our partner to be our best friend and support us. We need physical contact, touch, embrace, and sexual intimacy, etc. Who do us men get to lean on and vent with; and have a cry if we need to if it isn't with our spouses? Are men just an island or to be a rock in the family and never show our pain or that we're bleeding ever? I've learned this from my grandparents, father, sports, and military. You don't show your feelings most of the time. When I played sports with my friends, you didn't cry when you fell. You got right up with your scraps and bleeding; and just kept on playing. Men today in the Professional Soccer Leagues seem to just wimp out at a little fall or scrap. But why is it most of us men would rather be dead than to be disconnected from our women? This shows me if I can't turn to my wife for support then I'm better off to not be married. As a man I need for her to connect with me physically and mentally in conversation with emotion. I'm still loyal to my wife now even though we're in a loveless sexless marriage for almost 20 years, which is hurting me deeply. I just want to leave. Tell me if you know truly what a man is thinking. You're right, respect and love. Feminine Energy to be used in being close to him, yeah, but being noticed and having her full attention not on the cell phone or computer, etc! But to know that your woman loves you deeply, keeps on loving you, and desires you means more to a man than all the other outside rituals combined we all try to pull off each day for each other. Because being faithful and staying in love is what is needed to keep a relationship happy and alive. I may be just fantasizing to a lot of people about that, but I'd rather not be married if it is that easy for my spouse or partner to say to me, "Today, I love you and tomorow, I hate you." Thanks for your time. God bless you!
@AlisaAbdullaeva 9 күн бұрын
First of all, let me acknowledge your vulnerability in sharing your thoughts and struggles in your marriage, Daniel. In my program “What Men Need in a Relationship,” I actually cover the points you’re bringing up. What I shared here on the KZbin channel was just a small fragment of a larger discussion. A man can only truly relax at home in the arms of a feminine woman who creates a safe space for him to talk and share his thoughts and feelings. Men are not islands; they need connection and understanding. It seems that as women have adopted more masculine traits due to the influence of feminism, many men have, by default, become more feminine in their behaviors. For instance, I sometimes visit a friend, and when her husband comes home, he constantly complains about his job, the economy, politics, and more, all while their small children are running around. This behavior is unacceptable from a man. A woman cannot bear the burden of her husband’s negativity. It’s no wonder she stops desiring him when he is always angry and complaining. It’s essential to understand that while it is a woman’s role to provide a happy, harmonious, and peaceful environment at home for her husband and children, it is equally a man’s duty to address his negativity with a counselor, priest, coach, or friends-not to use his wife as an emotional dumping ground. As long as this pattern continues, a woman will not feel safe with a man who behaves this way. It is a man’s responsibility to protect a woman from negative emotions, not the other way around. That’s what truly makes a man strong. Of course, if a man faces a significant life challenge, such as a car accident, the loss of a best friend, a job, or a parent, his wife can and should support him through that difficult period. However, this support should not be taken for granted or abused, as women are inherently more sensitive and may struggle to handle an overwhelming amount of negativity.
@Bugs11000 10 күн бұрын
I gave a lot of thought to this topic. Yes, the men need women that can support them in their career, instead of criticizing them. Makes me think of the movie," The founder." The founder of McDonald's meets his future wife from a couple that want to buy one of his franchise. This lady is super resourceful. So eventually he falls in love with her and he seperates from his wife. The problem of today, and I think that's why couples are so mixed up with all the social influences we have. We have less and less human contact. Just take the bus and you see everyone on their intelligent phone. And now they even have phones with Ai. Eventually they'll make an android woman. Men will seperate from the women and fall in love with the android women because she will have a AI program that will do exactly like you say, take care of the men's needs. I'm telling you. This will happen someday. And the women too will have android men charming them all day long. For now it's very mixed up. A lot of young people don't want kids because of the cost of living. Most men can't pay for the couple, even if they would be minimalist. Cost of living is not helping in this dilemma. It's really not easy for young couples today. That's why It's good that we have people like you to guide them. Have a nice day.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 10 күн бұрын
I understand your perspective regarding android robot men and women in the future, and I share your concerns. I believe that people will stop making an effort to meet each other, stay together, and build families in the near future. I’m grateful that my family and I are part of a traditional family where we put in the effort every day to make each other happy, rather than focusing solely on ourselves. However, it saddens me to see how disconnected people are now more than ever. Everyone seems so hungry for human contact and interaction, yet it is increasingly absent from our lives. Thank you for sharing your thoughts; I greatly appreciate it.
@monicasanders7526 11 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your knowledge Alisa. I would like to purchase this full program, but I don't see it on your website.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 11 күн бұрын
Monica, yes it will be available in 5 days on my website!
@locdog291990 11 күн бұрын
Im a guy and i dont know why but if im wrong correct me but dont men have more patience... men tolerate any and everything women throw at us because we are taught to love ya so we tolerate all the baggage they come with
@AlisaAbdullaeva 11 күн бұрын
Masculine men have a lot of patience and acceptance toward a woman they love. You are absolutely right!
@RAaaa777 12 күн бұрын
There is no difference between attractiveness to each other, the only difference men are very straight forward and women are not (due to social norm and females being physically weaker) Older single women will pay for a young attractiveness men.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 10 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts
@Pheonixia 12 күн бұрын
Can you make video on why women face menstruation issues and is there any cure in ayurveda
@AlisaAbdullaeva 10 күн бұрын
I can share it with you the answer via message here. Thanks for asking!
@Vincent-fv2wy 13 күн бұрын
Sexual differences between men and woman - evolutionary mistake ?
@AlisaAbdullaeva 13 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts!👍 And consider that the Creator doesn’t make mistakes. Everything was planned this way. But is sex different for men and women? 💯
@Vincent-fv2wy 13 күн бұрын
@AlisaAbdullaeva thankyou for responding to me. I won't challenge your opinion. It's not the appropriate place to do so. I wish you well in your chosen belief system. Interesting video I enjoyed it. Very informative thank you.
@horrorshivers1355 18 күн бұрын
Believe me, I wouldn’t pay her bills even if she gave me a million. … not today or any day. Edit: wrong conversation 🤏🏻
@AlisaAbdullaeva 18 күн бұрын
Then please know you will NEVER be happy in a relationship with a woman. She will be miserable with you and she will poison you with this misery.
@horrorshivers1355 16 күн бұрын
@@AlisaAbdullaeva Hate to burst your bubble, but we've been poisoned since 2020.
@JuliaBrandolth-yt9xu 19 күн бұрын
so for men it's ok to make mistakes, but if a woman is promiscuous she's forever shamed and nothing can "cure" her from her actions?
@AlisaAbdullaeva 18 күн бұрын
Any person can change the course of their life if they choose to. You always have a choice!
@angelowhite4701 25 күн бұрын
They are never willing to give, just receive. When they have to give, show true love her comes all the complaining.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 25 күн бұрын
When people keep score in a relationship, it’s rarely about love; it’s about using each other. Both men and women often try to bend their partners to their will instead of fostering genuine connection. True love is about giving freely without expectation. Think about it!
@SammyZoranu 26 күн бұрын
This tip has helped me so much 👍
@AlisaAbdullaeva 26 күн бұрын
Happy to hear it! ❤️
@vibinghigh2711 26 күн бұрын
They want us to go half on their masculinity and still be feminine
@AlisaAbdullaeva 26 күн бұрын
I know! But if you will shift fully to feminine energy you will attract a masculine man who provides and protects!
@محمدعبدالرحمان-ك3ل 27 күн бұрын
❤انا من الجزائر تحياتي لك للولايات المتحدة الأمريكية ❤❤❤ لكن ليش تحبون اسرائيل تحيا فلسطين 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇩🇿
@AlisaAbdullaeva 26 күн бұрын
Hello to Algeria! ❤️🌹 I am not into politics but I feel deep compassion for Palestinians. But this is not a political channel. Who am I to change dirty global politics? I am here to empower men and women to learn and understand each other! ❤️
@محمدعبدالرحمان-ك3ل 26 күн бұрын
@@AlisaAbdullaeva افضل تحية من عربي لكي لأن العرب مايحبون الولايات المتحدة الأمريكية وانا اكرهها كثيرا والسبب دعمهم الكيان الإسرائيلي صحيح أن هذه مش قناة سياسية لكن كيف ترجمتي الإنجليزية إلى العربية 👽🇩🇿🇵🇸 تحيا الجزائر و فلسطين 🇵🇸🇩🇿 😊❤ كيف هي الأجواء عندكم 😅اي هل المضاربات كبيرة من أجل فلسطين أو لا
@AlisaAbdullaeva 26 күн бұрын
KZbin is not translating your comment this time! Could you translate it to English on google translate please and post it? Thank you dear! 🌹❤️
@shaktimishra9710 27 күн бұрын
In Today's economy it is unfair to think man to provide for evrything. When women don't do full household work. Men shouldn't be used or forced when morden women aren't even feminine.
@AlisaAbdullaeva 26 күн бұрын
You should watch more of my programs before coming to a conclusion! Fully masculine men who are providers and protectors and attracting a fully feminine women who are the best mothers and wife’s, cook and take care of the home!
@shaktimishra9710 26 күн бұрын
@@AlisaAbdullaeva I am just 12 years old lol. 😂 I am wondering why I am even here
@shaktimishra9710 27 күн бұрын
I mean women are masculine now a days also . They are doing jobs and doesn't not how to cook and clean the house. They aren't feminine too. So why should men have to do everything? It's like women doesn't want to do gender roles but want a man to provide. Sounds really unfair
@AlisaAbdullaeva 26 күн бұрын
Please watch more of my videos and programs!
@AlisaAbdullaeva 26 күн бұрын
And thanks for sharing!
@tatyana2816 27 күн бұрын
Thank you gor sharing this program!
@AlisaAbdullaeva 26 күн бұрын
You're so welcome!
@tatyana2816 27 күн бұрын
So much wisdom
@tatyana2816 27 күн бұрын
So true
@RuthBranca-xj3sd 28 күн бұрын
What time zone is it 11 at?
@AlisaAbdullaeva 28 күн бұрын
Eastern Time Zone! Saturday, tomorrow from 11 am to 2:30 pm! Please email me for detail information [email protected] You have 1 more hour to register! Hurry! ☺️🔥 I would love to have you with us in the program “What a Man Needs In A Relationship!🌹👩❤️👨❤️
@AlisaAbdullaeva 28 күн бұрын
Alina, please check your email box! And I look forward to having you with us at the “What a Man Needs in a Relationship” program, tomorrow! 🌹❤️✨
@tatyana2816 27 күн бұрын
Great content
@stephaniestewart6831 29 күн бұрын
I can totally relate
@AlisaAbdullaeva 29 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing! ❤️
@interestingtimes6242 Ай бұрын
Women broke the social contract. In metro areas women make more than men. There aren’t enough wealthy men to provide. Your selling women a dream that can’t be fulfilled. And your trying to shame new into a role we no longer want to fulfill. You’re selling a fantasy to women that men aren’t buying into any more.
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
I am not selling anything. I am promoting healing and sharing knowledge for the population who want to have a healthy, happy, trusting, and loving relationship! If you are not willing to be a provider and protector in a relationship, please don’t judge all men. My husband is a wonderful leader, provider, and protector in our family, as are the husbands of my close friends. You may just not have encountered positive male role models. Instead, you might be influenced by content that showcases angry, resigned, and victim mentalities in both men and women. My content is not about blaming each other but rather about taking responsibility for men to become men again and for women to learn to embrace their softness and femininity once more.
@interestingtimes6242 Ай бұрын
@@AlisaAbdullaeva I don't have to fill a role to be a man. Your shaming tactic is toxic.
@tomz1daful Ай бұрын
Do you realize you are asking women (primarily) to forgive men/ males? Western society doesn't really promote and encourage female accountability and self reflection that "she" might be wrong, especially in the moment. You're asking alot, and wish you well in that goal... Pax vobiscum
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Tom, I am asking women to heal so they can be happy. And forgiveness of parents, men, and themselves is part of it. Some people are committed to suffer, but some are ready to be happy and will take a step forward to heal and forgive! And yes, it is a lot to ask, but the reward of happiness totally worth it! I encourage you to listen to this full program as well, and forgive your mother as well! I wish you happiness!
@earnestrobinson7453 Ай бұрын
So the bottom line is you want men who, as you have said, are not at fault to continually enable her craziness? Let her find someone else. That's not what we signed up for. Do you really think she would all of that for a man?
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Listen, you have the option to continue doing what you already know and get the same results. If you don’t want to learn about a woman’s nature, you will have a very mediocre relationship with her-or no relationship at all. My husband learned to listen to me every day, so I don’t ever blow up at him 😅. But what are you willing to give? Before you can get what you want from a woman, you need to understand her needs and wants as well.
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Listen, you have the option to continue doing what you already know and get the same results. If you don’t want to learn about a woman’s nature, you will have a very mediocre relationship with her-or no relationship at all. My husband learned to listen to me every day, so I don’t ever blow up at him 😅. But what are you willing to give? Before you can get what you want from a woman, you need to understand her needs and wants as well.
@earnestrobinson7453 Ай бұрын
@AlisaAbdullaeva You need to listen. We know about a woman's nature. That's why more men are deciding we don't need marriage or long-term relationships. It's not a good deal for men. Between a woman's nature and the biased court system, the juice isn't worth the squeeze. We don't have to be married or in long-term relationships to have female companionship.
@SonyBaite-fm5pe Ай бұрын
Thanks alot for the nice nice lessons❤❤❤❤
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
You’re welcome SonyBaite! 🌷🙏💓
@monicasanders7526 Ай бұрын
Agree 100%
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Thank you Monica! 💓 You are my favorite follower here! Thank you for support and participation!
@arirocketkpopdancer Ай бұрын
I love this topic! Thank you so much Alisa for sharing your knowledge and your wisdom because there were many things I didn't know about men and women before watching this lecture :) ♥♥♥
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
You’re welcome dear! 🙏 thank you for watching and sharing yourself! You are welcome to join my feminine circle group online. We meet on Sundays! 🌷
@arirocketkpopdancer Ай бұрын
@@AlisaAbdullaeva Thank you so much for inviting me to join your feminine circle group online. Where can I join the group? :)
@Bugs11000 Ай бұрын
Very logical as always. Are you sure you're not a vulcan? Yes it is sad to see humans who are social creatures being more and more deprived of social contact. A lot of people only socialize online. They don't meet physical people. One thing I noticed, when my two sons were playing video games online is that they play with other gamers and socialize while playing these games, but, of course, it is not physical contact.
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Thank you for the compliment. I had to look up the meaning of "Vulcan." ☺️ Yes, we are facing the same issue with our son. During the week, that's the only way he connects with his friends - through online video games. I am grateful that we spend time with friends and their kids on weekends so they can actually run around and play outside. At times, I feel sad seeing this new reality for our kids. Some may consider it normal, but in my opinion, they are disconnected from nature and many other things compared to our generation.
@monicasanders7526 Ай бұрын
Thank you Alisa for empowering and sharing your knowledge with us and our children!
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
You are so welcome!🙏
@dianamicu Ай бұрын
Wow this is exactly what I needed to hear today. It really touched me thinking about how I came alone to another city to go to university and how difficult it was. Thank you. 🤍
@wendymartin6479 Ай бұрын
How can you have a full time job (40hr week) and have 8 children? No employer will give you that much time for maternity leave. Also if this story is about 20-30 years ago then women were unlikely to be permanently employed and she would have been dismissed once she got pregnant. They must have struggled financially to have a family that size not to mention the social stigma, unless they were lower working class.
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Some people are open to learning, while others are inclined towards arguing, judging, and battling.
@hildehausikujohannes7664 Ай бұрын
Thank you alisa, spiritual values ground us .
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and sharing your thought. I hope that more parents and adults come to recognize this truth.
@DR--- Ай бұрын
Most parents under parent their children. As a result we have an epidemic of adults with Peter Pan disorder. Maybe you should focus on real problems?
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Maybe you should watch the whole video first before judging the title. 🙏
@BellaLong-ow9bv Ай бұрын
You should watch Alisa's videos to learn that she is here to help families especially both men and women to live in harmony with each other. And yes I agree that parents are not parenting children well in the West. She talks a lot about it.
@sunilii112 Ай бұрын
Hello ma'am many people say that Consent is very important. What is real meaning of consent. Is it beginning for it or something else
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
I am sorry but I don’t understand your question in the context of this video. Can you share a minute and seconds in this video that you are not clear about and I will try to explain it to you. Thank you for asking! ❤️
@angelowhite4701 Ай бұрын
What strange is husbands and wives would run a business together and still many foreigners comes to the US and do it. They look at everything is one. Women for centuries worked side by side their husbands to help in providing for their homes. The problem came in when women start to work seperately from their husbands for other employers. Now the woman have a mindset not to share as she use to have working along side her husband. Also truthfully as my wife told our daughters wives dig their grave with the childern. Most men when childern are born the husband want to help with the childern in some way and as you know most women do not trust tge man with the child telling their husbands no I got it , you don't know what you are doing. As we told our daughters do not be foolish like most women telling their husbands no you got the child because that's right you got the child because that man is going to take your as truth and you will have that child totally on you. Immediately you let your husband help you take care of that child and never push him away when he want to because if you do you may not get the help you need in the future. Most men do not take care of childern because when they are an infant the mother refuse their help and when that man has gotten into another routine he is going to have a pull whether he want to give up the routine he aquired or help with that child.
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@arirocketkpopdancer Ай бұрын
Very beautiful video! I needed to hear this. Thank you so much for sharing all your knowledge! :) ♥♥♥
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
Your welcome! Thank you for watching and following! 💞🙏
@alishipman3676 Ай бұрын
My partner is 11 years older than me and he’s still immature. There’s no way in hell I’m ever dating someone younger.
@AlisaAbdullaeva Ай бұрын
I hear you. Thank you for sharing!
@angelowhite4701 Ай бұрын
It is not a lot of times he is immature but she cannot see past to his age to value his thoughts and opinion. I am a man married to a woman 8 years older than me. But I have witnessed other couples with women older belittling their husbands, even saying things he young he knows nothing which my wife gets upset a lot of times and do not want to be in their presence. I see it's not that those men are not mature enough to be good husbands but the woman is not mature enough to see past his age to value his thoughts and opinion. I wish those men had a wife like mine but sad to say those younger men are usually being used, saving those older womens behinds and are being disrepected constantly and it's not based on maturity, it's based on I see you like a little boy and I don't have to listen to you. I wish they could find a woman older who have the maturity to respect their opinion and decisions as my wife does. We been married 31 years. But the chances of an older woman having the maturity to respect a younger man, who is a grown man is very slim. It' not immaturity on his part a lot of the younger man action is due to the fact no matter how smart his, how loving he is, how he has been there for her although she is older she will never have the maturity to see past his age and appreciate him. Many men ask me if they should date or marry an older women. After hearing how it's been during their courtship sad to say I have advised against all of them but not hypocritically. I saw ll those older women after having knowledge of those relationship not treat them like men but like little boys. Those men wil not be happy in a relationship where they feel they cannot be the man in the relationship. They will always be fighting or being in a cave to be quite. I got fortunate per say. But I will say this for any young man who want to marry an older woman. Do not compromise your dignity and integrity because you are younger. Stand up to her and lead her. Whether she older or younger she is still just a woman.