Thanks for being here for me Tim. You are very appreciated
@selfledcoach2 күн бұрын
@@Adam-k7z5w grateful you’re here too. Thanks for the donation!
@Adam-k7z5w2 күн бұрын
Tim!!! Thanks!
@selfledcoach2 күн бұрын
@@Adam-k7z5w thanks so much Adam. I really appreciate it!
@perlamargarita80402 күн бұрын
Where's the meditation? 😢
@selfledcoach2 күн бұрын
@@perlamargarita8040 you can find all my IFS meditations and insights at blog.faithfullygrowing.com. Thanks for commenting!
@phyllisboyle11624 күн бұрын
What happens in the drop Ins?
@selfledcoach4 күн бұрын
Hi Phyllis, I generally lead a live meditation, take questions, and sometimes do a little parts work. You're also able to connect with others on the IFS/partswork journey. Feel free to drop in on a Thursday at 11am CST (US Chicago Time) sometime and I'm glad to answer other questions. I'll send you an email with the link. I believe you signed up for my meditations today so I should have it.
@ClarkeZona-t8w11 күн бұрын
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@ryanpage117821 күн бұрын
Great video, thank you!
@selfledcoach21 күн бұрын
@@ryanpage1178 you’re welcome. Thanks for the feedback!
@deneddowes22 күн бұрын
Thanks Tim. Love your work and all your offerings.
@selfledcoach22 күн бұрын
@@deneddowes thanks for the feedback!
@simoninsilence142723 күн бұрын
Hi Tim. I don't have access to an IFS therapist. Interested in joining a support group. Would you have any links (not necessarily pushing for recommendations, but open to those too)? Thanks so much. I really value the content you post!
@selfledcoach23 күн бұрын
@@simoninsilence1427 thanks so much! You can find my offerings on my website at faithfullygrowing.com/offerings. I’m also glad to meet for a free consult if that would be helpful. You can book that on the website too.
@user-jm6ds5dz3t24 күн бұрын
Yea but Tim where are , or ‘were the exiles (yours 🤷🏻♂️) underneath them - those ‘parts - the thoughts, feelings, experiences etc. Not asking you to divulge but isn’t that the idea 🤷🏻♂️? the agenda 🤷🏻♂️ the idea - mission - to ‘get to our exiled parts ? I Get that we have all these ‘parts - many, ‘depending, n they can be ‘neutral as well, but the ‘emotions, you’re explaining and expressing - were you able to tie that in 🤷🏻♂️ or, learn from 🤷🏻♂️ heal ? something ?
@selfledcoach23 күн бұрын
@@user-jm6ds5dz3t thanks for your comment. Yes, ultimately getting our parts whether they’re protectors or exiles out of their extreme roles so that our system can be more balanced and healed his goal. I really appreciate you engaging here. Feel free to reach out anytime.
@millionairemom26 күн бұрын
Thankyou from England ❤❤❤
@selfledcoach26 күн бұрын
You're welcome. Thanks for the comment!
@millionairemom26 күн бұрын
@@selfledcoach it's great when you have comments. Xx get your friends to comment. Then youtube shows your videos to more people :)
@millionairemom26 күн бұрын
And my parts are quieter tonight. I was told its them that keep me awake ruminating in my head for 2-4 hours...
@selfledcoach25 күн бұрын
@@millionairemom thanks for the suggestion!
@user-jm6ds5dz3t26 күн бұрын
Where do you go ‘during this ‘mechanism ? 🤷🏻♂️ Where does, as you call ‘the Self’ go ? Talk to me about that process n if ya don’t know say ya don’t know , or’re not sure, or hmm 🤔. Where do you think ? ‘What do you think ?
@selfledcoach26 күн бұрын
In Internal Family Systems (IFS), the Self doesn't actually go anywhere, but it can get obscured or blended with parts that are more active. When we’re overwhelmed or strongly identified with a part-whether it's anger, fear, or any other intense feeling-our connection to the Self can feel distant or lost. But the Self is always present, it's just a matter of unblending from the parts so we can reconnect with that calm, compassionate center. Sometimes that process happens through mindfulness, grounding, or simply noticing what's happening inside us with curiosity and compassion. If we're not aware, it might feel like the Self has disappeared, but it's still there-waiting for us to return to it. Please keep reaching out with your questions. I'm glad to learn and grow right along with you!
@imranahashmi29 күн бұрын
Thanks for your wisdom 🙏
@selfledcoach29 күн бұрын
You’re welcome. Thanks for your trust and grace!
@mariahw5638Ай бұрын
I got an error message saying the message was blocked/access denied
@selfledcoachАй бұрын
@@mariahw5638 I’m not sure why. It should work.
@mariahw5638Ай бұрын
If you want to email me at Wilberg.Mariah@gmail I’ll respond and copy/paste what I wrote
@imranahashmiАй бұрын
Very helpful like always 🎉
@selfledcoachАй бұрын
@@imranahashmi thanks!
@karimsabry9502Ай бұрын
How do I follow that trail exactly??? 👍🏼
@selfledcoachАй бұрын
@@karimsabry9502 for me, it’s starting where I feel the pain.
@simoninsilence1427Ай бұрын
Parts Check-In @ 8:34
@selfledcoachАй бұрын
Thanks for the timestamp!
@imranahashmiАй бұрын
Insightful like aways, god bless you ❤
@selfledcoachАй бұрын
Thanks so much for the feedback. I'm glad it was helpful!
@markbarber1756Ай бұрын
I appreciate your vulnerability in sharing about your own internal world. It seems like God set this up so that we can only help others in their deep seated woundedness if we have ourselves been willing to go there in ourselves.
@selfledcoachАй бұрын
@@markbarber1756 thanks so much. Grateful for you and that our paths have crossed!
@cherylwilsherlimberlife7210Ай бұрын
I'm really starting to recognise this and take responsibility that some people can not meet me where I need and I'm getting better at meeting my self
@selfledcoachАй бұрын
@@cherylwilsherlimberlife7210 thanks so much. I really appreciate your vulnerability in sharing!
@danidelyon7093Ай бұрын
I like this! Thank you for sharing. Liked and subscribed. 👍🏼
@paulpeckham9947Ай бұрын
Learning how one critic or part can trigger another. Being "in-self is being in the present moment".
@selfledcoachАй бұрын
Yes, and making space for those parts that react it key. They're doing the best they can and bring us gifts too!
@janegardner6042 ай бұрын
Great tool to calm my inner critic!
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@janegardner604 thanks so much. I appreciate the feedback and I’m glad it’s helpful!
@markbarber17562 ай бұрын
Thank you for this meditation. I realized during this process how much shame I experience because I get triggered. There is a part of me that knows my emotions are out of proportion to the events at hand - it creates fear that I might act inappropriately at the triggering moment and then subsequent shame that I even had that internal reaction to begin with.
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your courage in sharing, mark. So grateful for you!
@steviehurst38542 ай бұрын
The way you put self exploration into a concept is extremely helpful.
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@steviehurst3854 thanks so much. I really appreciate the feedback!
@paulpeckham99472 ай бұрын
Very helpful strategies
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@paulpeckham9947 thanks for the feedback!
@millionairemom2 ай бұрын
Very interesting ❤❤❤
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@millionairemom thanks for the comment.
@rivka85762 ай бұрын
Thank you- I've done this meditation a number of times now after being introduced to IFS and it is always so helpful.
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@rivka8576thanks so much. I appreciate the feedback!
@elizakbryant2 ай бұрын
These are great videos. Thank you for your work!
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@elizakbryant you’re welcome. Thanks for the comment and feedback!
@AnalogKid-682 ай бұрын
Just embarking on my IFS journey and found this amazing piece on healing by giving the manager(s) some much needed rest ❤ Thank you, Tim - for all you do to help us! 😊
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@AnalogKid-68 you’re welcome. Thanks so much for the feedback. I’m glad it was helpful!
@ab780012 ай бұрын
Great message! Maybe my anxious, worrying part is not an exile but a protector part.
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@ab78001 thanks for the comment. Generally exiles don’t have a job. Could be the anxious worrying part protecting an exile.
@Frances-Joy2 ай бұрын
Very helpful. Self compassion is so important for me. Triggers....name it to tame it. May all who are suffering know they are loved.
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your comment and encouragement!
@gemmabouwman10982 ай бұрын
Thank you Tim. 👍
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@gemmabouwman1098 you’re welcome. Thanks for the comment!
@NewAmor19902 ай бұрын
You can also send an part to mediate.
@selfledcoach2 ай бұрын
@@NewAmor1990 yes. Great idea!
@GrayMorningStar3 ай бұрын
I don’t know why I watched the whole thing but hey sounds cool
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@lightningrt4343 ай бұрын
What is IFS?
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
Visit faithfullygrowing.com and click on how I work. What I have there may be helpful.
@lightningrt4343 ай бұрын
@@selfledcoach I was pointing out that using abbreviations in You Tube shorts isn’t helpful. It arrived in my feed for some reason, but I hadn’t got a clue what it meant.
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
@@lightningrt434 good feedback. Thanks!
@Theyfw_ABBY893 ай бұрын
I: imaginary F:Friend S:’s
@ab780013 ай бұрын
For me, it definitely feels excruciatingly slow. And yet, I believe that's just the reality of the trauma healing journey. It's a hard slog, at least in the beginning. But I've come to believe there's no other way to heal trauma other than to learn to turn with love to the parts of us that carry this trauma. Too many other modalities promise a way to self-empowerment and self-leadership that somehow avoids the need to engage in a relationship of compassionate curiosity with our traumatized parts. But there are no shortcuts, in my experience. No way to spiritually bypass the task of learning to relate lovingly to our traumatized parts. And IFS is a powerful modality to use in this journey . I suspect once a baseline level of self-compassion and self-care and self-confidence have been awakened within, the process picks up speed exponentially with time.
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
Yes. I so appreciate your courage in sharing your experience here. I’m grateful for this community and that you’re part of it!
@springwood13313 ай бұрын
I tried a 'normal ' meditation earlier and it made me more anxious, so tried this one and it was helpful and somewhat calming. Also discovered parts have stuff to say, so will journal around that. Thank you for uploading this 💗
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the comment and for your courage. I’m glad it was helpful!
@8809313 ай бұрын
Huh.
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
I'm talking about Internal Family Systems a therapy model that the Inside Out movies are based on. You can find out more on my website www.faithfullygrowing.com
@JackieMiles-xn9bo3 ай бұрын
You have an amazing voice .
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
Thanks! I appreciate the feedback and encouragement!
@NewAmor19903 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ thank you for makijg thie world a luittel bit better
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
Glad to do it. Thanks for your trust and courage in posting!
@Zoe-es8ve3 ай бұрын
formulating it as "more time than I allow for" brings up a lot of resistance. formulating it as "more time than this recording allows for" or "more time than I allow for in/give in this meditation" or "more time than I allow for right now" is a lot more open ended and to some extent reassuring. but all of that could be a me issue and I don't know why but I think you would really benefit from trauma informed yoga. either professionaly or personally. no clue why that came up in my mind all of a sudden but maybe it could help you or somebody else. although it is best performed in group, Hannah Uiri put up a lot of practices on youtube. so if somebody wants to check it out or give it a try there is that free resource.
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your courage in sharing this. I appreciate the feedback and suggestions.
@niamhmrosullivan3 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your Level 2 training Tim. I am finding your meditations really helpful. Thanks so much!
@selfledcoach3 ай бұрын
Thanks. I'm glad the meditations are helpful! I really appreciate the feedback.
@tinarice21394 ай бұрын
This is a great meditation, however, they put two commercial interruptions during it and scaring the hell out of me and my group. Totally ruins it.
@selfledcoach4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much. I know the commercials are frustrating. You can access all of my meditations in podcast form without interruptions at blog.faithfullygrowing.com.
@xl6mp4 ай бұрын
Thank you! Didn't expect for the firefighter to literally be stuck in the mud before listening :)
@selfledcoach4 ай бұрын
Thanks for chiming in:3
@rickylesperance21254 ай бұрын
I’m blended
@autumnanderson77574 ай бұрын
I love IFS therapy
@selfledcoach4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much. Yes it has been so helpful for me and many others too!
@RNS555534 ай бұрын
Are you taking clients?
@selfledcoach4 ай бұрын
Yes, I have a couple of slots available. I'd be glad to meet for a consult if it makes sense. You can book at www.faithfullygrowing.com
@RNS555534 ай бұрын
@@selfledcoach how much do you charge? Are you super Christian?
@lets.78604 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, it’s really amazing to have different relationship with your parents. ☮️💖🕊
@selfledcoach4 ай бұрын
You're welcome. Thanks for the feedback!
@MeganS19954 ай бұрын
There were a couple ads that showed up for me during this meditation. Could these possibly be removed so that the meditation flows along smoothly?
@selfledcoach4 ай бұрын
Hi Megan, Yes, the ads are frustrating. I’m not sure how to remove them. You can get this post and all others as a podcast on my website at blog.faithfullygrowing.com
@lets.78604 ай бұрын
The advertisement during meditation is disturbing 😢
@selfledcoach4 ай бұрын
Yes, I don’t know what to do about the advertisements! They are frustrating. Know that you can access any of my meditations on my website at blog.faithfullygrowing.com in podcast form without interruptions.