I love this! I'm so glad I've found your channel ❤

This is excellent. I've made myself a victim of my husbands choices. I'm not accepting this label anymore ❤

Ladies who care and dont want to lose the relationship will try to fix it. Its just in our female nature. But dudes who dont want to be fixed? They see nothing wrong with it.

My boyfriend of over a year once told me that he "could go month's without sex but not a week without porn". Not sure when he finds the time to work in viewing porn, but just recently he told me that "its your fault i feel weird watching it now". Which is just a super shitty selfish way of putting things. Its always some excuse for him: his neck hurts, his back hurts, hes tired, etc etc. I took his not so subtle hints to start working out, especially when i made the choice to work out. I'll throw on lingerie. Idfk. But i can wager good money that if our dudes caught us pleasuring ourselves to hot guys in porn, they would start to think "hmmmm maybe this isnt that good?" Dont settle, ladies. Even if you married the dude he can always change his ways if youre brave enough to challenge his perceptions

Absolute B/S .

She is gorgeous!!!

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This is NOT a good video!!! I agree with taking control of yourself however you cannot just act like nothing is happening there!!!!

No. I think he knows I was already hurt and insecure. I never think he made me this way. I think instead of him helping me he's harming me worse.

Having an urge to eat a piece of chocolate or ice cream is totally different then having a sexual urge to watch porn. It sounds to me like you’re trying to not only convince your listeners but yourself as well. No women and/or man should have to put up with or even deal with there partners habits. Unless there’s boundaries between the couples or they watch together Porn creates trust issues and betrayal and then affects sexual performance. This is strictly my personal opinion. Best of luck with your podcast.

This is not betrayal trauma coaching or counseling. It is very sad that you feel betrayed partners trauma and response to cheating and abuse is worthy of mockery and shaming. You really should not be claiming to be a “betrayal trauma coach” when your insincerity is clear and destructive.

Was he in the porn movie ? Cause if so maybe get him to a therapist. It's not really fair for you to resent this if you don't discuss it ..but be prepared for answer u might not like. I can't wear tight plastic shoes

Don’t bother. Lock Down your bank account, std tested and RUN!!!!!!!!

These are the only two things you can do to keep a man from watching porn: fullfill his sexual needs (frequency) and max out your looks as best as you can. If youre not willing to do that you should accept his habit or leave him. Some men will watch porn regardless how much sex they have or how attracted they are physically to their partner. Of topic I wonder does shaving one side of your head and dying the other half pink make you a better wife?

Take things positively .

Lived with a man for 30 years who had a porn addiction. I am now in a divorce. Pornaddiction DOES NOT GO AWAY!! He had 4 years of therapy And what you say...i do not agree.

I am better then my husband, he got the problem.. to bad for him lol

The sound track makes the video make me switch away.

Don't be so sure about this statement in the title. Not many are as attractive as you are.

They can' help but think they know all about men, why the hell do you not actually 'TALK' and 'LISTEN' to the man, we are told, berrated, nagged 'You don't understand me, you never listen to me, me,me,me, yeah we get it, it's all about you, you, you, every damn time, I live alone now, do NOT want the drama, the constant blabbering, nagging, bill burr said 'no reason to hit a woman' god knows if I ever did I'd take her head off, you got what you wanted, now go the fuck away.

Why? Maybe wife has history of high body count .

She really likes to draw diagrams and write notes as much as explaining her views

I watch porn with my spouse. It's fun. We take turns picking scenes we like.

How "Christian" is it to wear a necklace that rests right between your TTs in your low-cut blouse, thus leading people's eyes there? The hypocrisy is funny and sad.

Why doesn't anybody address how the woman in porn are sometimes trafficked and what about the studies involving grey mass and the brain? Also, Getting off on people who have been molested or assaulted and haven't realized that they are worth more than their sexual being is just weird .

I needed this. Thank you.

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Not sure why this video came up on my feed as I’m single af and don’t have any connections to addiction issues, but all those points are spot on! I wish your channel and coaching career much success!

The problem is men seeking sex instead of seeking God. They are on a dark path and are blinded and deceived by evil. Do they want to go to Heaven? Jesus Saves all who ask Him. God is Love and Lust is from evil. Marital love and passion being faithful is good and God designed. God forgives He is merciful to forgive if we ask for Help.

Yikes.

if you are only going to deal with women, you should state it in your tagline, the abuse men suffer at the hands of women is every bit as bad as what happen to you Not to mention how women are 100% more likely to make false accusations against men in court and how “family law” is biased against men in the first place

This is nonsense. We had an amazing relationship before his porn watching got out of control. His actions effected my feeling. So ladies, don't believe a word.

Your beautiful

I only heard one, I thought there were 3?

I want honest truth. I could move through it with truth. He is still in denial and I just find things out and then he denies and it take weeks to admit and then here we go again I find new information on my own and confront him, he denies it and then admits and of course I'm over reacting and it's all my fault.

As someone who struggles with porn, this is BS. You are right to demand more from your husband and to be affected by it. That's natural. Porn is so insidious and evil.

Yes but is it safe to trust him when he isn’t changing or doing different things?

Needed this today. Thanks.

Due to that pathetic haircut, I can't take you seriously. Sorry. All the best. Next!

Your view is okey, but I would like what would be good for my partner too..., quitting would improve his quality of life as well as mine.

... I think the biggest lie is believing that u need to be in a relationship ... ❤❤❤

Porn isn't cheating. If you dont want your husband watching it, maybe try appreciating him, and be physical with him more than once a week or month. Some of my friends only sleep with their wives once every few months.

Not really. When someone lies about one thing they may lie about everything.

why don`t you just divorce him? why? this (porn) can`t possibly be excused. cheating. besides, it`s kinda impossible to want to look at all that porn ugly bodies...

if you were my girl, there would be no time for corn, if you know what i am saying.

Strong medicine. Thanks.

You don't ever accept that behavior

Just ALWAYS BE READY TO BE BETRAYED. #ALLWAYS

That haircut though... hard to take you seriously...

Get a grip, spanks his monkey a few times and it’s the end of the world, you think he’s cheating lol. Keep it up lady and he will cheat on you or leave you